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(Episode 07)What Happens When Those Who Need School Most Feel Least Welcome? | Dr. Kristilynn Turney

22 Jan 2026 · 1 min

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In this segment, Dr. Kristilynn Turney urges educators to view their role as "parenting parents" in addition to supporting students, especially for families of color living in poverty who often feel judged or excluded by schools. She stresses that educators' actions can either reinforce or dismantle these negative experiences. Turney calls for reframing the narrative around these families, engaging in courageous conversations, and leading by example. Central to her approach is establishing psychological safety—creating an environment where families feel safe to share challenges and receive support without feeling blamed. She emphasizes empathy, asking open‑ended questions, and affirming that families are not “bad people” but are facing real challenges that schools can help address.

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It goes back to one of the things that we said before is that we are kind of parenting parents as well, in addition to obviously the students. Just a reminder about our families in poverty, especially in families of color, often feel judged or excluded by schools. And so our actions can either confirm or deny those. Remember, we have to reframe that narrative Have those courageous conversations and lead by example. We start with the heart and our intentions, that psychological safety. Feel safe and open to share with me what you are experiencing, what are your challenges, and how can I help support you? You are not a bad person. Clearly there's something going on. How can I help you?