A personal development teacher with 25 years of experience explains why self-help books fail: they teach surface habits and say "believe in yourself" without showing how. The missing piece is a systematic method for actually building self-belief.
How come millions of people have read that book and they're not all successful? Here's why. Exactly. Here's why. Well, this is what I've been teaching for 25 years. So here, and this is my aha moment. I realized that what they're teaching in books like that are the conscious habits. Alright? In other words, go out and do this and then do this and then do this. It's not wrong. Right? It's like what all the gurus say. The gurus say, well, you know, the secret to success is you gotta believe in yourself. Okay. Well, you know, before I discovered this, You know, I'd be sitting in the back of the room at those seminars, and they would say something like this. Believe in myself. And I go, I, but I don't believe in myself. What am I supposed to do? Right? It's like, and they never tell you how to believe in yourself. So what I realized is, wait a minute. There's a system for that too that they never told us.
