A short YouTube monologue (creator: Nataliey Bitature) arguing that the quality of one’s relationships is a major predictor of longevity. The speaker reflects on a decade-long struggle to balance work and social obligations and gives practical advice: be intentional when accepting or declining invitations, prioritize showing up and being present (avoid phones and work stress), and proactively support friends and family at events.
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Showing up for the people in your life is so important. Relationships are the biggest indicator of longevity. Yeah, you don't die very old because of medications and lifestyle only. It's about the relationships you have in life. This is something I really struggled with over the last 10 years, to find a balance. Because you always have obligations, you have work, you have commitment, but you also need to have a life. You need to have your friends, have your family. Show up for the people that are important to you. There's always a wedding or a birthday or an event and, and it means a lot to people who are going through that. So you have to look at your own energy levels, your own obligations. But also, I think, when you commit to something, be careful in how you say yes and no to things. Let people know upfront. I'm so sorry I can't make it. Please think of me at the next event. Like we talked about saying no. But also, when you do agree to something, show up, be there. Don't be on your phone. Don't be stressed about work. Try and be present for someone. Listen to what they're going through. If you're going to meet someone for lunch or for dinner or for tea or for coffee, see how to be proactive and intentional.
