In this monologue, Eckhart Tolle explains that the mind‑created sense of self is a curse that traps us in identification with thoughts. He argues that thinking becomes destructive when we mistake the thoughts that arise for our own agency, saying we are "being thought by our thoughts" rather than "thinking". This mental possession is shaped by personal history and, especially, by the cultural environment in which we are raised; different cultures condition us to think in distinct ways. When we remain unawakened, we view reality through a veil of mental concepts, judgments, and narratives, mistaking opinions for truth and failing to see what is actually happening. Tolle describes the resulting rigid personality as a heavy burden that grows with age, making people cling to every thought as absolute truth, rendering dialogue pointless. He calls for an awakening that transcends this conditioned mind, allowing thinking to become a focused, constructive tool for creation rather than a source of suffering.
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The mind-made sense of self is a terrible curse, and that is something that we need to transcend so that we can actually use thinking in a powerful, focused, constructive way and actually create and manifest things through thinking. Thinking is an amazing tool. Where thinking becomes destructive is when it assumes your identity, when you do not think but thinking happens to you. People say, 'I think.' It's not true because the thoughts that go through your head, they have no control what whatsoever over the thoughts that go through their heads. So to say, "I think," is actually not true. It would be truer to say, "I am being thought by my thoughts." Thinking has taken possession of me to such an extent that I think I am it. So in other words, I am actually possessed by my own mind. And the— how this possession manifests varies from person to person. It has something to do with your past history. It has something to do with the cultural environment in which you grew up that conditioned your mind to think in certain ways. So that can— that varies enormously. If you grew up in Saudi Arabia, you would think very different thoughts unless you lived in the West for a long time. But if you were in just, in one, just to take one example, can you make many others, you live in one particular culture enclosed and you get conditioned by the thoughts of that culture. And if you go in Australia, you have different kinds of thoughts that go through your head. You get conditioned, the mind gets conditioned in that way. But in either case, If you are not awakening yet, you're completely identified with that, then you look at reality through this veil or this screen of mental concepts, including the sense of identity, which is mental, and then you look at the world through that. And don't even know it. You don't see anything clearly because you look at it through the veil of judgments and conceptualization. And whatever you perceive, you comment on it, you immediately call it something, and, and in most cases you have some kind of opinion or mental position towards it, including human beings. Every person you meet and immediately have, hmm, the mind will tell you about something about them or situations. You find yourself in places, situations, people, wherever you are. Most people's attention is much more in the narrative in their head than what's actually happening around them. So that is— it is a case of really being possessed by the conditioned mind. It's a dreadful fate, dreadful. Not— not— I can sometimes, when I see people, they are so burdened by their personality, which is the conditioned self. There's this— it's sometimes I feel as if the people— many people are carrying this heavy burden of this personality, which you have been carrying for years. And then sometimes the older they get, the more rigid it becomes. And immediately they know everything, whatever you say, they have an opinion about it. And they don't know it's an opinion, they think it's the truth. So, and you can't argue with them, it's impossible, completely pointless. So they are so identified with They believe in every thought that comes into their head. That's how it is, let me tell you.
