How to Live in the Present to Create a Better Future | Eckhart Tolle Teachings

There are some patterns in the mind that everybody inherits that even for advanced presence, practitioners like yourselves can still reassert themselves because they are so normal. By the way, my definition of normal is insane, as you probably know. And you may be able to catch yourself many times during the day when this normal, one of these normal patterns reasserts itself. And of course, one of the most prevalent patterns is reducing the present moment to a means to an end. It could be a simple thing like you get up in the morning and you're getting ready to go to work. What is the quality of your doing during that time of getting ready to go out? Or here you got up this morning, getting ready to go to breakfast and then come here. How do you experience that time? Are you able to be present in what you are doing? Or is the doing no more than a means to an end? And that's a huge difference. Whether you fold your pyjama and put it on your bed. Is that. Do you give it attention? Is it a pleasant thing to do? Do you acknowledge the being of this pyjama and feel the texture and give it some loving attention and then you put it away? Or is it, what's the next thing and the next and the next? Because I need to get. I need to. The next moment never comes, does it? No, I don't think it does. Because when the next moment comes, it's the present moment. So the next moment doesn't come, it can never arrive. There's only this moment. But if your habit is to treat this moment most of the time as a means of getting to the next moment, so not being fully in it, but mentally being somewhere else, and then just need. So the basic attitude is I just need to get this moment out of the way, then I will get to a better one. And that is a very deep seated pattern that prevents you from being present. But it's only when I voice it like this that it becomes apparent to you. Because otherwise you won't even see it. Because it's so normal to live in such a way. And it's not only people also treat entire life periods in that way. Then it's not only, of course, most fundamentally the present moment, but they also treat entire chunks of their life in that way. For example, you're waiting for the weekend, so it's only two more days of having to go to work. And then there comes. Or you're waiting for something else, getting a better job, finding the person who is going to make me happy. In the meantime, I'm just taking over. It's just. I'm just waiting for. Well, what's the expression? I'm waiting for the big break or whatever. I'm waiting for the big thing to happen and. And finally I can start living. When that happens, whatever form that takes when that happens, then my life will really start. This somehow. I don't know if anybody remembers. It's probably not popular anymore. There used to be a genre in theater that was called the theater of the absurd. Samuel Beckett and other authors. And often they showed. There was a famous play called Waiting for Godot. And there are two men waiting for this guy to arrive with a. Nobody knows who Godot is, but they spent the entire play. It's a theater play, the entire play. They're waiting. Godot, who knows? Some critics say, well, Godot, God, Godo, they're waiting for God, but it's not set. But the entire period is spent waiting. And I don't think Godo ever arrives. And they're similar. And this is just to show the absurdity of ultimately everyday life. And of course, sometimes life does get better. Of course it doesn't. If you are now living in unpleasant surroundings, perhaps it's noisy or it's cold, too cold or too warm or cramped, or whatever it is, you might have a job that's repetitive. You're waiting to get out of that, feel lonely. One relationship has come to an end, the other, another one hasn't started yet. I'm just waiting. And so you're hoping that things will get better. And sometimes they do get better. But the habit pattern is deeply ingrained. And even if the situation gets better, then you'll be waiting for something else. Because no situation can ever completely satisfy you. No person, no condition, no situation. Waiting for retirement. I can maybe take early retirement and then watch, play golf, lie on the beach. And many people are very disappointed when they retire and don't know what to do with themselves and they lose their sense of identity that they. It was always a false sense of identity because it is derived from. Derived from their function. But at least they had a false sense of identity and now they don't have any. And then they don't know the possibilities of human life. So be vigilant. If you feel that an improvement is highly desirable in your life situation, that's okay. But it's much more likely to happen if you give more attention to the present moment, rather than trying to get away from the present moment or denying it, always making it into a means to an end. If you give more your fullest attention to this moment. The so called future is much more likely to improve the so called future because there is no future. When it comes, it's the present moment. A little strange paradox. Different. It's when you fully acknowledge the present moment and when you give it attention, then you see the good. You're aware of the good in the present moment.