In this talk Eckhart Tolle explains that the primary motivators for spiritual awakening are the direct experiences of suffering and the awareness of mortality. He argues that recognizing impermanence—often triggered by the sudden loss of a loved one—creates a powerful portal for awakening. The modern world, with its relentless demands on attention, is described as a major obstacle that keeps most people from being present. Tolle points out that the ability to sit quietly in a room or to be fully present in nature, even for brief moments, already places a person far ahead of the majority who cannot tolerate stillness. In such moments one can feel a spacious stillness, perceive the aliveness of nature, and briefly transcend the ordinary sense of self, experiencing a glimpse of pure consciousness. He acknowledges the difficulty of sustaining this presence when everyday challenges pull us back into unconsciousness, but emphasizes that these quiet experiences are evidence of awakening and a foundation for deeper practice.
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So the incentive for awakening for most people is really some form of suffering and the fact of mortality. To be aware of impermanence and suffering, perhaps those two, one could say, are the most powerful incentives for awakening. Spiritual awakening. We'll be talking about suffering in more detail later on, but yes, to be aware of impermanence— and to some people that happens when somebody close to them suddenly dies, might even be a young person or not, but in an accident or some illness suddenly, and suddenly Oh God! There are people who don't even— who have no idea of impermanence. They're so identified with their mind, it's a shock for them when somebody close to them suddenly dies. Well, they hear about death in the news every day, but it's meaningless. They're just concepts to them. So you take whatever life gives you in this moment and use that. That becomes your potential opening, your potential portal. Now, one important thing is that. The world that we live in places continuous demands on you, on your attention, and so the way in which that's expressed— people say, my life is so busy, And I have so many things I need to attend to and give attention to that I can't— I just can't be present. I'm just continuously being drawn into dealing with stuff that arises. So the world, especially the world that we live in now, can be perceived as a huge obstacle to awakening, and there are people, and you may be one of them, who can be present when they are not being disturbed. You can be present when you're sitting quietly in your room or out in nature, and that's already a wonderful thing to be present. If you can just sit somewhere in your room or somewhere else, you sit somewhere and you can just be there and be completely in the present moment. Sense perceptions and enjoy whatever it is that you're perceiving with your senses and feel in the background a certain stillness, a certain spaciousness. That's great. Then that means you can already— you have almost achieved more than most people because most people become uncomfortable sitting quietly in a room. They don't want to sit quietly in a room. They can't, or they think they can't, and that's good. Or go out, if you can go out into nature and be in a state of relative presence, there may be some thoughts, but you're able to truly perceive and feel the aliveness of nature and see how... Amazing it is, and it takes you— it can be a moment of transcendence for you, a moment where you transcend that person that you normally are and you become the perceiving consciousness for it. It's a wonderful thing. That means, yes, you are awakening. And another question is whether when you're being challenged by the things of this world, Whether you go completely back into the unconscious, as the tendency is there for people to do that, because the challenges are so manifold that they cannot— they're so overpowering that they cannot sustain that, but they can have it in quiet moments, but not when they go back into everyday life.
