8 Mistakes Keeping You Invisible to Your Desires

So today I'm going to be walking you through the 8 mistakes that are keeping you invisible to your desires. Because you see, you are energy. Your body is energy. It's made up of particles that are vibrating at a particular frequency. Your thoughts have a frequency. Your emotions have a frequency. Your beliefs carry a frequency. So you overall, energetically, as a being, you are emitting an extra electromagnetic field around your body constantly that has a frequency. And then everything in this universe has a frequency as well. And before something can exist physically, it has to exist vibrationally, it has to exist energetically. So we, through our energetic frequency, we correspond with certain potentials in the field where everything exists. And when we energetically correspond with them, we begin to collapse those things into matter, into material form in our experience of reality. And so The number one thing that you have to get right if you are going to manifest something is you have to start vibrating in resonance energetically with already having that thing. That has to become your energetic frequency. And so the 8 mistakes that I'm going to be sharing with you today are the 8 things that are causing you to come out of that harmonious vibration, and therefore the energy of your desired reality, it cannot pass through you and to you and into your experience because you don't energetically resonate with you. It has to go around you, okay? Because that is essentially how manifestation occurs, by the way. You're here, you're emitting a particular frequency, okay? And that which resonates with you vibrationally according to your energetic frequency passes to you, through you, into your reality, into your life, because it cannot tell the difference when it's the same energy. This is why like attracts like. When you're vibrating at the same energy of that which you desire, It can't tell the difference between you and it, and so it can pass to you and through you. So the energy that you are embodied in and the frequency that you are emitting is what you experience more of, always. And so manifesting your desired reality is essentially shifting your frequency and shifting your energy to correspond with that which you desire. So the moment— let's say, let's just represent the energy of your desired reality as this green type of energy. Let's just say that's the frequency, that's the energetic vibration of your desired reality. Let's say it's joy, abundance, freedom, confidence, etc., etc. You essentially have to become that, okay, energetically. And the moment you become that energetically is the moment that that energy can start to pass to you and through you and into your reality. So this is why a good person like my cute guy here, he can have all the best intentions, he can be trying really hard, he can be working really hard, he can be consuming all the content, but he still can't have his heart's desires. It's because he's not working with the laws of the universe and he's not getting an energetic resonance with that which he desires. Therefore, he cannot have it. You have to be it before you can have it. Okay, so let's get into the 8 mistakes. So the first mistake that you've been making that's been keeping you out of energetic alignment with that which you desire is you've been focusing too much on having. So this focusing on having is a mistake that I see most people make when they begin to learn about manifestation and they begin to realize that they can create their own reality. They go, oh my goodness, the Law of Attraction is real, it works, I'm creating my reality, so I'm gonna change my focus. I'm gonna say I want this thing, I'm going to start saying affirmations and focusing on the thing that I want, the thing that I want, the thing that I want, because when I get this thing, then I will be good enough, then I will be happy, then I will feel rich, then I will feel loved, etc., etc. Okay, so most people are focusing on the thing or the outcome to give them a state of being that they feel they currently lack. Okay, so this is most people's experience: when I manifest $100,000, then I will feel rich. I'm going to focus on, you know, becoming rich and famous, and then I will feel good enough. I'm going to attract my dream partner, and then I will feel loved. The danger in this focusing on having is if this is your way of operating, you fundamentally have the order of creation backwards. You're not doing it properly. You have it upside down, okay? Because the thing is, things cannot give you feelings. And the actual correct order of creation is as follows: it's be, do, have. Not have, do, be. Be, do, have. So you have to be abundant internally. You have to be loved and loving internally before you do the actions that correspond with that energetic state, before you can have the physical outcome that corresponds with that state. Okay, and I'm gonna just break down the order of creation for you guys again, just so you really get this. So we exist across 3 planes. The Hermetists call these the 3 great categories of life manifestation. So essentially, we are existing in an infinite universe where there are infinite energetic potentials existing as waves of possibilities. The physical world, the material world that we are embodied in right now, is less than 1% of what exists. You can see this when you look at our senses, right? What we're having here is a sensory experience. That is what we call reality. Reality is essentially a gathering, a grouping of particles that are vibrating at a particular frequency that is perceptible to our 5 senses. So visible light goes into our eyes and is processed through refraction and sends electrical signals to our brain. And that's what we call vision. That's what we see. That's sight, right? The things that we see as real in reality. That's what that is. And visible light, what we can process, is less than 1% of the entire electromagnetic spectrum of light. Same with our other senses, same with sound. We're perceiving a very limited range of particular frequencies through our senses, and then our senses are basically interpreting that information and sending it to our brain. And that's what we call reality, is what we're perceiving through that whole experience. Okay. So the physical world is a tiny portion of the entire spectrum of what exists in vast reality. And as well as that, the physical plane is one of the densest planes. So if you want to think of this in terms of dimensions, if you want to think of it in terms of planes, whatever floats your boat. But this is the 3D world or the physical world. Beyond this, there are higher vibrational planes, there are higher vibrational realms in existence. And you can know this because If you think about the physical world— so let's just represent this with shapes, this has somehow become my go-to— like, the physical world is not a causal world. It's not the origin point of everything that exists. So if you even think logically about that, it's like, okay, there has to be something higher, there has to be something beyond our senses that created that which we are experiencing. There has to be something that created my body, my brain, the wind, the trees, my eyes, my senses, and the consciousness that is inhabiting this body and that is firing into this brain and making me have thoughts on the mental plane, right? So there is a source of all creation. That source is the spiritual plane, or God, or Source Consciousness, or the All, or whatever you want to call it. When you're wanting to get the order of creation correct so that you can actually use it effectively in your reality and make sure you're aligned with it energetically, that you have to become aware of where everything was even created from. It's created from the ultimate source, which is God's, or the spiritual plane. Okay, everything is an emanation of this source energy. Everything is contained within this source energy. Everything is this source energy. Okay? So that is the highest vibrational plane. And from there, essentially, we are existing in a vast sea of consciousness that exists in different forms depending on its rate of vibration, depending on its frequency. And so kind of a middle form of consciousness is what we call the mental plane. You know that the mental plane is real, even though you can't touch it, see it, because you're thinking thoughts all day long in your mental field. You can imagine things, right? You can use your mind. You have intellect. You know you're existing on the mental plane because you're experiencing it constantly, but it's not the same vibration as the physical plane, so you can't touch it with your senses because all the physical plane is, is energy vibrating at a frequency that we can touch, feel, experience with our senses. So the mental plane is the realm of thought, mind, imagination, et cetera, et cetera. And then the physical plane is the world of matter. It's particles vibrating at a frequency that is perceptible to our senses, as we know. Okay, now here's where it gets interesting, right? When we think about the order of creation, the physical world did not create the mental world. That would not make any sense. No. Just like the mental world didn't create God or Source, because Source is a higher form of consciousness. Than the mental field is, than thoughts, our personal thoughts, right? Even though man was created in God's image, and therefore man has the same creative faculties as God— we have creativity, we have imagination, we have the ability to create pictures in our mind— man was created in God's image. We are still not creating God. We are still just a fractal of that energy, right? So a higher form of consciousness is never going to be created by or defined by a lower form of consciousness. And in the same vein, the physical world is a lower form of consciousness than the mental plane. Therefore, the mental plane is the cause and the physical plane is the effect. And even if we think about this logically for a second, you guys, let's bring it back, okay? So this is how, this is how cause and effect works beyond the physical world. But cause and effect in the physical world, you might be thinking, okay, if I just take more action— that's usually how we think about it in the Newtonian sense— I'll just take more action and then I'll get more results. Action equals results. Action equals results. But at a particular point, you can keep taking action and keep taking action and keep taking action. All of a sudden, you're capped out at the amount of action you can take because action is a component of physical reality because you're using your physical body to do it. And then you need to change the type of action that you're taking in order to get a different result? Because there's people out there who are running 6-figure per month businesses who take less action than you do, but they're taking the right actions. What's the difference between you and those people? They have shifted on the causal realm, on one of the causal realms, which is the mental plane. They've changed what they're holding in the mental field. They change what they're focusing on, their thoughts, their beliefs. That changes their perception perception, which changes the actions that they can even perceive to take. And then they take action differently, which causes a different result in physical reality. Okay? And so the order of creation is: be, be it in your mind, in your self-concept, in your identity, in your thoughts, in your beliefs, in your energy. Then do from the aligned energy with that which you desire. And then you will have, but you have to be it first. Why? Because you having higher faculties, you are the cause and the physical world is the effect. So for mistake number 1, focusing on having, the antidote is to reverse the way that you're looking at your situation and manifestation. It's not about having, it's not about getting something in physical reality so that you can feel a certain way. It's about realizing that you're the creator being, you're the higher form of consciousness, you're the one creating your emotions, your state, your beliefs, your thoughts, what you're focusing on, what you're picturing in your mind. That is what's connecting to a particular outcome, a particular potential in the infinite field of potentials that exists. That is what's causing you to energetically resonate with that thing, and then that thing starts to materialize into your reality in physical form. Quantum mechanics has shown that electrons, the things that make up what we call physical reality, before they become particles in the physical world, they exist outside this 1% world in the 99% field as waves of potential, just energy, energetic waves, not existing in one particular state, existing in many possible states, meaning it's possible that this can become a particular energy or a particular form, but it hasn't become that form yet. And then quantum mechanics showed us in the double slit experiment that when these waves of potential in the field are observed by an external observer, they begin to behave as particles, i.e., they begin to change and go from possibility to form. What does that show us? You, as the higher form of consciousness, existing with mental faculties gifted to you by Source and creative consciousness. When you observe an energetic potential with all of these tools in your toolbox— imagination, thoughts, beliefs, emotion, intuition— when you start harnessing that energy and using the powers that you have by existing on the mental plane— don't you think it's amazing that you have all of these assets available to you on the mental plane? When you actually use them to focus your energy on your desired potential, then you are observing that thing and it can start to become form. And so everything that you have materialized in your reality up until this moment, you've materialized it because you've been observing it constantly, probably on autopilot. And it's not just about saying, I want this thing, and thinking about the thing but still feeling the same, still believing the same, still viewing yourself the same. It's about shifting your energy so that you already feel like you have the thing. That is how you actually correspond energetically with it. That is how you actually fully observe it energetically. And that is when that thing will start to become a physicality. So if you've come into the space thinking you're going to focus on having— and when I get the money, if I can manifest this thing, if I can manifest that, then I will feel loved, then I will feel good enough then I'm sorry to, to shake you and wake you out of that, but that is not ever going to work. Manifestation is not about having something externally. It's about having it internally, and then the external reflection of what you perceive as reality changes automatically. That is manifestation, because you're the creator being, and everything that you see in a physical world is just a byproduct of your energy. That is all. So the antidote and how you get over this mistake: you stop focusing on having— when I have this thing, when I have that thing— no, you focus wholeheartedly on being. You want to get love in your reality? Focus on being love internally, then you will get it in reality. You want to get money in your reality? Focus on feeling wealthier and more resourced internally, then you will get that in reality. You want to get success to make you feel confident in your reality, focus on feeling confident first and removing all the blocks that are stopping you from feeling and being confident now. And then you will start to energetically resonate with a reality of confidence, of success, whatever that looks like for you. The good news is the moment that you do shift this and the moment that you do start being the energy that you wish to perceive in reality, because the only energy you can ever perceive in reality is that which you are, The moment you start to do that and embody it, the moment you become the sunshine, is the moment you start to see it externally. So it's going to save you a lot of time, a lot of heartache, actually a lot of effort wasted on the wrong things. When you take the reins back and you take responsibility and you realize you're the creator being, in the moment that you shift your energy, that is the moment your perception shifts, and that is the moment your reality shifts. Okay, now that you know the order of creation and you've cleared that up and you're never again going to say, when I get this thing, then I will feel— you're going to know, I'm going to feel it now and then I'll get the thing. Now that you know that, congratulations, you know more than 99% of people. You've actually just stepped into the role of the creator being that you were designed to be. So congrats. The second mistake that may be keeping you invisible to your desires is staying addicted to your old reality. Okay, so this one is so simple and so obvious, but it's one of the biggest ones that keeps people struggling to manifest. If you can't focus on what you prefer, because your focus is so tied up in what you don't prefer, then you won't be able to shift your energy and start resonating with the reality that you do prefer. Okay? And a lot of people, when they get into this space, they find it really difficult to create a vision, to get clear on what they want, to do the inner work to start becoming the version of them that can have what they want. Because their focus is so tied up in the old reality, in old circumstances, in old habits. And that addiction and that attachment to the old reality is very energetically draining. So I want you to think of it like this. You have creative consciousness. What you direct that creative consciousness at matters. What you pay attention to is really, really important. Your attention is the gate through which information gains access to you and your subconscious mind, where it can program you and start to program your experience. Also, what you're directing your attention at constantly, that begins to grow. You sustain that in your reality the more that you focus on it. Why? Because you're the creative consciousness that's creating your whole experience, okay? And the most important thing to know when you're starting to shift your energy and you want to shift to another reality, if you're trying to do that from a place where you're still very much addicted to putting your attention on all these things that don't serve you and that drain you and they keep you energetically stuck at the same level is— it's also draining your energy to be like this, okay? So let's just say you have a particular amount of energy every single day. You actually have a tremendous amount of energy within you. You have a tremendous amount of, uh, creative potential within you. But when we go throughout life and we pay attention to news, to gossip, to drama, to that don't serve us, to scrolling, to watching TV, to all of the stuff that is just draining us. Essentially, if we start the day with an energetic battery up here but we're on autopilot, addicted to our old reality, our old conversations, our old consumption, whatever it is we're doing, our energy gets drained, our life force gets drained, and then we're down here, and then we're wondering why we don't have the capacity to visualize our dream life or to create something new. Your creative battery is drained from your addiction to your old reality, from your addiction to your old habits. You need that energy if you're going to create something new. It's your creative— it's your creative power. You need that. It's non-negotiable. Okay. And so this is one of the most tangible and practical steps that you cannot miss when you're trying to manifest a new experience into your reality. You've got to recharge your creative power by taking your attention back off all of the things that no longer serve you. You have got to learn how to control your attention and control your focus if you want to start becoming a master manifester, because whatever you focus on, you're you're basically sending your creative energy into that thing and you're creating more of it. And so if you have no awareness as to what you're focusing on, or no control on what you're focusing on, you're misusing that creative power left, right, and center when you could harness that and put it on what you want to experience more of. This is why Module 1 in my community is literally called Detaching from the Illusion. And one of the, the main things we do in there is we meditate, we call our energy back, we call our energy back, we call our energy back, we regulate our nervous systems, we do an attention detox, right? Because if you're going around here on low battery and I tell you to visualize your dream life, you won't be able to. You don't have the energy to do it. So this is one of the most tangible first steps, especially if you feel like you've lost clarity. Even if it's not your first step, even if you have successfully manifested things but you're stuck again and you have lost clarity specifically, and you feel like you're just drained and you don't have the energy to create something new, Please start to control your focus and call your energy back from everything outside you that has been draining you, that you have on autopilot been feeding your attention and life force into. That's your energy, that's your resource. Call it back. Tangibly, how you can do this— this is how you start refilling this battery. You do something like an attention detox. So in the community, we do it for 3 days, where essentially you list out— you become aware of all the things that have been stealing your energy without you realizing it. Little things like scrolling, certain conversations, etc., etc. And you commit for 3 days, or however long you want to do it— you may end up doing it forever like a lot of people do— you commit to whenever you notice that you're starting to pay attention to this thing or do this thing that drains you, you pull your energy back and you let it go and you focus on something else. So you can write a plan of the thing, a list of the things that are draining you, and then a list of replacement habits or things that you're going to focus on instead. That makes it a lot easier. And then the other thing I've written here is focus control. Okay, for me, the best form of training your focus and training your mind is meditation. It's the most direct form. If you sit down and close your eyes, your brain, your thoughts are going to run away with you. They're going to go on autopilot. They're going to focus on certain things on autopilot. Meditation gives you the space to notice that you're not just what you're focusing on, you're the observer of those thoughts. And when you start to realize that you're not just the thoughts, you're the consciousness, the observer behind the thoughts, then you start to realize that you are the one who's actually in control of those thoughts. You are the one who can essentially take that conscious awareness off one potential, or off one thought, or one thing you're focusing on. You can take it and put it on something else. That is what meditation allows you to do. So that's what I mean by focus control, because that will break your addiction. Like, every day we wake up, you guys, and we remember who we are. We remember our personality traits. We remember what we're stressed about. We remember what we're worried about. We remember all our limitations. We remember all of this stuff on autopilot. Then we have a certain chemical reaction in our bodies. That's a certain emotional baseline that we're also addicted to. So all of this is the known familiar stuff that we become so habituated to that we just stay entrenched in it and stay addicted to it. If you want to drastically change your life, if you want to achieve your dreams, that familiar baseline that you're addicted to has to go. It has to go. And so you've got to consciously— especially if you can meditate in the morning, it's even better— take your awareness back from these thoughts, from these beliefs, from this perspective that you have. Start to question the way you're looking at things. So when you meditate— and the reason I love meditation for this process, for breaking this addiction, is because it's almost like your consciousness is going down a pathway that's been well-trodden. So it's easy to see, your brain is going to conserve energy, so it's going to use the, the familiar pathway, right? When you meditate, you see that happening and you can begin to catch your consciousness. You create the space to catch your awareness before it goes down that pathway and put it down a new pathway. And at first you're going to feel resistance because this new pathway, it's not as well-trodden, it's not as easy to walk. But because you have space and you're able to observe rather than just be in the thoughts. You have the power to do that. So rather than staying addicted to the old reality, you need to create space and separation from your old reality by controlling your attention. Do a detox and begin to control your focus through things like meditation. Okay, the third mistake keeping you invisible to your desires is not defining your desires. I always say it is much easier to let go of the old when you have a clearly defined new to hold on to. Okay, so if you're trying to let go of your old life, your old circumstances, your old financial situation, whatever it is, but you haven't defined the new, what you want, then you're gonna not really have anything to hold on to that's going to pull you out of your old circumstances. Also, if you don't put your stick in the ground and define where you're going, if you don't give those coordinates to the infinite intelligence, to the universe, then the path can't start to unfold to get you there. You have to be the one who decides it and defines it, okay? And I'm going to give you a caveat: when you're defining your desires, you want to be defining a meaningful vision. You want to make sure the things that you're writing down actually mean something to you, are actually fulfilling to you in some way, are not just about external validation or approval. Because a meaningful vision, what it actually does is it brings you into alignment. It removes all the parts of you that aren't really you, and it creates more energetic coherence with who you really are and your intention of your higher self, for you in this lifetime. And as well as that, if you define a meaningful vision, no matter how crazy or delusional it seems, that genuinely excites you, it is going to empower you unlike anything else. There's a quote that I love. I won't remember the full thing, but it's by a man called Christian Larson, I think his name is. And he essentially spoke about when a man has a great aim or a great purpose that is so much bigger than him, he will discover himself to be a larger man than he ever thought he could be. Dormant powers and faculties and innate talents come to life that he never knew were there before. That is what a meaningful vision will do for you. It will illuminate your potential. It will expose every part of you that's blocking that potential, and it will get you into your most empowered self. Because there's two types of motivation: there's push and there's pull motivation. Push is that grit, that discipline, that grind. You need push, but you will not go as far as you could go if you have push and pull motivation. Because pull motivation is that type of motivation that's so much bigger than you. When you know what you're doing is bigger than you, it gives you intrinsic drive, intrinsic motivation. So essentially, it's self-refilling battery. The more you work towards this thing, the more you think about this thing, the more it fuels you and drives you, which means you will go a whole lot further than someone who's chasing a non-meaningful vision, a vision that's been created for external validation or other reasons that are just not really aligned. I can literally smell your question through the camera. Well, how do I know what's a meaningful vision? How do I know what's aligned with me? I can't even think about that. You will not be able to connect to your meaningful vision if you're disconnected from yourself. How can you know what you want if you don't know who you are? Okay, so if you're really struggling to figure out why— I don't even know what's meaningful to me— start to get to know yourself first. Start to build a relationship with yourself first. Come home to yourself and your energy. Start to journal. Start to talk to yourself. Start to meditate. Okay, and start coming out of survival mode is the other thing. So start to know yourself start coming out of survival mode. Because if you're in survival mode, you are not in creator mode. You will not be able to visualize. A lot of people that are like, I can't visualize— yes, it's because you are in fight or flight mode in your nervous system. So you've got to regulate your nervous system, signal safety to your body, come out of fight or flight, and then your visual component, your visualization, that capacity will come back online. You'd be amazed how quickly it'll come back online. And then once you're there, you don't need to have a 5-year, 10-year plan. But just something that is meaningful to you that you can hold on to and define. Just start there. So write down— maybe you want to start with an income goal, maybe you want to start with a project you want to work on, or something you want to launch, whatever it is, or something you want to change in your environment. Maybe you want to move. Just start with what you have, and once you define something, you want to do something really powerful. Which is to decide, decide that that's where you're going. This is what I did, you guys, back in January 2024 when I was still living in my mother's house in Ireland in the tiny spare bedroom, and I was making a couple of thousand euros per month on my marketing agency. I was super out of alignment. I was completely alone. I was single, and I was like, I cannot keep living this way. Something needs to change. I'd had 3 toxic relationships I just knew my life was so far from what I wanted it to be deep down inside. And one day, on the 11th of January 2024, I took a large sheet of paper and I wrote down where I wanted to go. I didn't put a timeline on it, I didn't put a time frame on it, but I just said, this is where I'm going. And I wrote down YouTuber, I wrote down community, I wrote down mindset content, I wrote down amazing opportunities, I wrote down I wrote down beautiful supportive relationship. I wrote down living in Spain, living in the palm trees, da da da da da. And then I wrote down all the emotional states that I corresponded to these experiences. I wrote it all down on a big sheet of paper. And I was looking at that, you guys, and I was like, I have no idea how that's gonna happen, but I'm deciding that this is where I'm going. I am deciding. What does decide mean? Decide means to cut off every other possibility. I don't want to hear it, I don't want to know about it. I'm putting my stick in the ground. These are the coordinates of this matrix that I am going to. This is the energetic section. This frequency is exactly where I'm heading. I don't know how I'm going to get there, but that's where I'm going. I said that on the 11th of January, 2024, and then I was taken on the craziest journey, the craziest path and now I live in that reality, okay? And it felt like it was a thousand miles away. Only like 1% of me believed in it at the time. That's all you need. You don't need to believe in it. You just need to decide that no matter what, no matter even if you feel like it's impossible, that somehow, some way, because you know what's in your highest good, that's where you're going. Which takes me to the fourth mistake that keeps you invisible to your desires. Trying to change into a new reality as your old self. Mm-mm-mm. You are your reality. The self and the reality are one and the same. You, who you are, your identity, yourself, has a particular energetic frequency. That frequency dictates what you're perceiving externally as reality. It's what you're corresponding with in the external world. And you are not just this old self, this old character that you've been playing. You're also the player of the character. So you have the power to change the character that you've been playing and therefore change the outcome that you get. Remember, you guys, the order of creation is be, then you can do, then you can have. If you're wondering where I'm getting that from, it's from Genesis. Be fruitful, multiply, and have dominion. It says it right there early on in the Bible. That is the order of creation in Genesis, in the Bible, as stated. So first you have to be before you can do, and then you have to do before you can have. I was schooled on this, you guys. So I wrote down in January 2024, YouTuber, all of this stuff, right? I was forcing in an old identity for quite a while until I realized that that was not going to work. And I remember clear as day when I came up with this practice, it changed the game for me. I remember I posted a couple of videos on YouTube and they weren't doing well. And I have this whole self-sabotage thing happen. And then I realized, wait a second, these videos are not that good. They're not that good. They're not at the standard that they need to be at for me to have the results that I would like to have. So the way that I was doing content creation was misaligned with what I wanted to have in my results. But I had this lightbulb moment of like, wait, the way that I'm doing it up, the way that I was doing it up until that moment was the only way that that old version of me knew how to do it.. And if I wanted to do it differently, I had to become the version of me who already knew how to do it differently, who was already more successful at it. So I had this huge light bulb moment, and I did exactly what you need to do if this is you and you're trying to operate from an old frequency, an old identity, an old mindset, is you need to realize that who you are here and who you are in your desired reality are two totally different people. It's a totally different version of you. The moment that you become that version of you is the moment that the path starts to unfold to that desired reality, but not a moment before. Nothing changes in your reality until you change. And we spend a lot of time worrying about the how and trying to force in the old self when the only thing you actually need to focus on is becoming the version of you who's already there. So the most direct path to manifest a change in your life is to take the vision that you just defined in the last step connect to it, see it, feel it, visualize it, and then notice who are you in that reality. What does this version of you talk like, walk like, smell like, think like, act like? What do they believe? What are their standards? What are their boundaries? How do they dress? Who is the version of you who is there already? And this is where I came up with the Avatar Exercise. So you connect to that version of you, and then you define all around their habits, their traits, their emotions, beliefs, standards. When I did this, when I first realized this and I first did this, and I connected to the version of me who was doing well on YouTube rather than every video flopping, I realized, wow, this version of me is totally different to the version I've been acting as. This version of me meditates every day. This version of me reads every day. I was not even reading back then. This version of me brainstorms different ideas and spends more time writing and processing information. This version of me takes bolder action. This version of me makes sure the camera is set up properly and the lighting is set up properly. This version of me records more consistently, right? And then traits, it was like consistent, dedicated, disciplined, calm, humble, and so on and so forth. So I had these huge lightbulb moments when I first did this on how different the version of me who had what I desired was from the old version of me. So I wrote it down on a whiteboard at home, and it was filled, like, it was loads of little stuff, big stuff, what time she got up, what food she was eating, her attitude, everything, everything. And I looked at that, and once again I said— I decided, I'm like, right, from this day forward, I am becoming that version of me because she knows what to do to have the results that I desire. So all I have to do is become her. When I focus on the being, the doing and the having will look after themselves automatically. Just like, you guys, just like who you're being right now, you don't need to think about what you're doing. You don't need to— you don't need to figure out how to do what you do or how to have the results that you have. Let's say, for example, you're in a very limited financial situation, you're struggling financially. Who you're being naturally corresponds with the actions that you take to keep you in a reality where you're struggling financially. It keeps you naturally corresponding with the doing of certain actions and the having of certain outcomes that you don't prefer because it corresponds with your being. It's the same thing for your desired reality. As soon as you get the being the doing and the having look after themselves automatically. And this literally is what happened to me. I started showing up as this version of me and everything started to change. And I've redone this exercise a thousand times since then, and it's changed my life every single time. Because honestly, the only reason that you want particular outcomes in reality, you want to have things, is because it represents the growth in your character. So why not go all in on becoming that character now? Because that's the part of the process that is most meaningful anyway. This one, I've done entire videos about this one, is acting as an effect. Okay, this goes back to the order of creation, but this is a little bit deeper. You might be motivated right now to change your identity and do the avatar exercise that we just did and start stepping into that version of you, but the one thing that slows people down time and time again, they set all these intentions, they get all excited, and then life comes and slaps them in the face, and they take it they take the slap, and they let it define them. They let it default them back into their old state, back into their old identity. And so this is one of the biggest mistakes that keep people out of energetic alignment with their desired reality, is they continue to be defined by their old circumstances and their old reality. They continue to take their old circumstances as law, as definitive, right? And I always give this example, but essentially people stay in this feedback loop of, I see a particular number in my bank account, I see lack, I believe in lack, I feel lack, I think about lack, I identify with lack, and then I see more lack. Effectively, they're saying, when I see lack, that means I am lack. They take that energy on board. They treat their circumstance as a cause when physical reality is never a cause unless you say it is. And they treat themselves as an effect. They allow themselves to be defined by something that is a non-causal component of this universe. And the only way to break that feedback loop is to say, I see lack in my physical reality. I realize that this is an echo of a past energy that I've been embodied in. And now that I have the awareness that I have and the tools that I have, I am going to shift my energy today Knowing that I am the creative consciousness here, and as soon as I shift my energy, my identity, my focus, my thoughts, and my beliefs, what I perceive in external reality, in my circumstances, will start to shift immediately. With that new awareness, you can say, I see lack. I am no longer going to be defined by lack because I realize I am the one who's creating these circumstances. I break the feedback loop. I don't say I am lack. I say I am abundant, or whatever it is that you wish to define yourself as. So you stop acting as an effect, you start acting as the cause that you are. You are the cause. You remember that you are the cause, that you are the creator being, that you are one with the creator God. So of course you have creative faculties. You've got to start believing in your energy, in what you can see in your mind over what you see with your eyes. Because what you see with your eyes is just a past energy that's been frozen temporarily in physical form. The only thing sustaining it and keeping it alive is your reaction to it, and you being defined by it, you staying in energetic resonance with it. That's perpetuating the cycle of it. So please remember me saying, you cannot define your circumstances until you stop being defined by your circumstances. And I've told this time and time again, but this is how I shifted my financial situation. This is the last hurdle for me. I had the worst money mindset ever, you guys. It was kind of my last hurdle in reality. Everything else was changing, but money I just couldn't grasp. And I really was learning the power of my energy, the order of creation, how physical reality is just so temporary and it's just a byproduct of our energy, and we're just having this mirror feedback loop constantly. And I looked at my bank account knowing this, having this new awareness and there was €800 in there, and I felt nothing. Before, it would send me into a spiral. Well, oh, who am I? I'm never going to be good with money. No. This day, knowing the power of my energy, of my identity, of my focus, I looked at that and I said, this is no longer relevant because I've shifted my energy, my identity, my state, my narrative, my focus, everything. And I will never see that again in reality. From this moment going forward, because I will never shift my energy back to that place again. And my bank account has never been that low again. It will never be that low again. Why? Because my energy was never that low again. All right, so do not fall into this mistake. It's a very lucrative trap that the external world lulls you into. We fall for what we see with our eyes, not realizing we're creating it all in the mind. Don't act as an effect, act as a cause. It's who you were meant to be. And within that last one, before we move on, you have to be okay being a new self in an old reality for a little while. So you're going to spend a little bit of time like showing up as this new version of you, trying and failing, defaulting. I call this the integration phase, or like the training ground of the new self. And you're gonna for a while be showing up as this new self, and you're like, why is nothing changing? You have to allow for that period of time where you're bigger than your circumstances so that you train reality and you show reality that you are different energetically. And just let that be the case for a while. That is where you're teaching reality that you have changed. It's not the time to fall back and submit to your circumstances. It's the time to stay strong in your new identity no matter what's going on outside you. And in fact, a negative circumstance, or usually A circumstance that would usually trigger you back into an old way of being is the perfect opportunity for you to now respond as the new self. The sixth mistake that is keeping you invisible to your desires is trying to figure out how. There's a verse in the Bible that always comes to mind with this: with man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible. Listen to me right now. Every single time you you take your big delusional desire and you bring it to your logic and you try to say, but how is this gonna happen? I need to figure out a plan. You kill that thing from unfolding in the way that it's supposed to unfold. Why? Essentially, with man, that represents with your logical human minds, with the programmed logic that you have been operating within for your whole life. This delusional big desire— yes, it will be impossible. Why? Because your logic can only give you ways how based off what you physically have experienced up until this point in this lifetime. Logic essentially scans what you've experienced physically and pulls from that and gives you ways how. But if you are going to a reality that you've never experienced physically, that's very different from what you've experienced physically, then your logic logic cannot give you a way how. It will tell you it's impossible because it hasn't been possible for this version of you's logic up until this moment. But what's logical for this old version of you and what's logical for the version of you who's already at your desired reality are totally different. Just because it's not logical to this old version of you, it doesn't matter. This old logic, this old version of you is not coming with you to this dimension, to this reality. So it doesn't matter if they think it's impossible. It doesn't matter if they can't figure out how. This old version of you doesn't need to figure out how because they're not coming with you. It's going to be a different version of you. You won't need to figure out how. You just need to become the version of you who already knows how. So surrender the how, because every way how, even if your logic does give you a way how, every way how that your logic gives you is probably going to be a really limited way how. When actually, if you surrender and you let this thing unfold as it needs to unfold, it will unfold exactly in the best possible way. When you surrender your logic and get out of the way, you let the creative force of the universe perform miracles in your life. Think about it, okay? Think about just the non-logical things that happen in this world. Childbirth, um, trees converting sunlight into oxygen so we can survive. This whole existence is not logical, you guys. This whole existence is a divine miracle. There is divine intelligence at work constantly, all the time. It's how you're even here having this experience in the place. Nothing about this is logical. Nothing about this is logical at all. So when you try to take a miracle, a big miraculous vision, to your logic, you immediately kill it. You immediately just dampen it. If you want miracles to unfold in your life, you have to let go of logic and start believing in miracles. Start perceiving that this whole experience is already a miracle. It makes no freaking sense. The best things don't make sense. So let go of how— that's usually becoming from a lack of trust in yourself or a lack of trust in your ability to correspond with this thing. Focus on becoming the version of you who can correspond with that thing. That will help you trust more. And then surrender to the divine intelligence that is performing this miracle that we call life and is creating everything in this reality already behind the scenes. Knowing that as soon as you shift your energy, that is going to be the component that starts to orchestrate everything behind the scenes so that you can start to experience this thing physically. It's not going to really be you who figures it out, not all of it. I can't tell you guys, like, back in January 2024, if you had told me the path to my desired reality was going to look the way that it would look, I never ever ever ever would have been able to guess that. But I surrendered and I let it unfold, and now here I am. Which brings me to the next mistake that is keeping you invisible to your desires: resisting the path as it's unfolding. Wow, if somebody could have told me this a couple of years ago, I would have saved so much time. I would have collapsed time and shifted my energy so much quicker. So please open your ears for this one. This is what the path to your desired reality is going to look like. Okay, so you're here, you're going here, you're heading to a different sector in this matrix. It's a different vibration, so you're getting into a different version of you who's in the vibration that corresponds with that sector in the matrix. Okay, so essentially your new reality is just a mirror reflection of your new self that you are going to be stepping into. Great, amazing, we have that by now, we get it. Okay. Okay, now the path to you becoming that version of you and therefore entering that dimension, that reality, is never going to look like how you think it's going to look. So you may as well stop trying to anticipate that right now. The path to your desired reality, to the desired self that's in that reality, is very intelligently designed to remove all the parts of you that do not energetically correspond respond with the version of you who's there already. So you're here, you have all these different parts of you internally, of all these different beliefs, you have these different traumas, you have these different like protector aspects, shadow aspects, and that all is impacting your energetic vibration. And that's what's keeping you corresponding energetically with your old reality. And so you've put your stick in the ground, you're saying this is where I'm going, you started the process of doing the inner work. And the path, the path immediately starts to unfold when you do that. You don't know it at the time, but that's exactly what happened. Even back in January 2024 when I wrote down my desires, the path started immediately. I couldn't— I just couldn't see it because I was in resistance and I didn't know what the path— I expected the path to look like something which it didn't look like at all. My path looked like tons of shadow work, tons of being triggered, tons of self-sabotage, all of it. So you're essentially going to have moments throughout your journey where you're progressing, you're shifting, you're feeling empowered, you're taking more aligned actions, things feel like they're moving, it feels great. And then you're going to have these seemingly low moments where you might be purging, you might be triggered. Those triggers happen along the path right when you're about to break through to another layer, another level, another version of you, to purge and clear out parts of you that do not energetically correspond with this next version of you. Why? Because when these things are within you, they continue to distort your frequency and keep you from alignment with that version and that reality. Okay, now how this actually looks tangibly, it's just going to depend on you in your life. Like, very specific nuanced patterns and things and circumstances and triggers. And maybe your friends are saying something you don't like, or maybe you're getting feeling vulnerable showing up in a certain way all of a sudden, or maybe this, this thing is happening in your family and you're like, why is this happening? What's going on? This is the path. This is the path, my love. I'm sorry, but it is. So a lot of us do not end up manifesting our desires because we think it's going to be all roses in the garden and peaches, and I'm going to get the Lamborghini and I'm going to get the thing that I want, it's going to be amazing. We have way too many expectations of how it should look, and that causes us to resist how it actually needs to be. So you must accept the path that is unfolding, the way how that is happening live. There's a great phrase that I love: you're either learning or you're earning. If you haven't earned your desired outcome or your desired reality yet, it's because you're in a season of learning. Life will show you what you need to learn, what you need to evolve into, what you need to become aware of, what you need to let go of, what you need to step into. The question is, are you going to listen? Are you going to learn? Because you can't get to the earning if you don't go through the learning. So let life school you. That is the path. Do not resist it. As soon as you accept it and you do things like shadow work, like honest self-reflection, etc., etc., and you actually learn these lessons, that is really the stuff that's going to shift your energy and shift your identity so that you can become the version of you that can have what you desire. And the 8th mistake that causes people to stay out of energetic alignment with their desires and therefore be invisible to their desires is they are trying to bypass taking action. This is something specifically I see in the spirituality manifestation space. We learn that our energy is powerful, our energy is creating a lot of our perception, our results, etc., etc. And because perhaps we've come into this space having experienced a version of reality where we're taking a lot of action and it's not getting us results, we— the pendulum kind of swings and we go, oh my gosh, okay, now I can let go of all of that. I can sit back and relax and I don't need to take action. Because a lot of us have experienced a lot of pain and struggle and suffering from taking a lot of action, we develop an internal resistance to taking action. And so when we find something like manifestation, it feels like a permission slip to stop taking action and to just sit back and be passive. This is what I call the passive trap. I have a whole video on masculine energy and how to kind of rebalance this. I'll leave it down below. But you need to take action, okay? And this action, action from alignment energetically, I just want you to know it's a totally different experience than forcing action when you're out of alignment energetically. You probably won't need to take as much action. It probably won't be action that feels as bad. But you do need to take action. Why would God give you a physical body if not for you to use it in this physical reality? So the order of creation for you internally, it starts with you and your energy, your beliefs, your identity, your thoughts, and then that shifts what you're focusing on, what actions you can even perceive to take in the mental field. That changes when your energy changes. And then as soon as you can perceive an action to take from this new state and from this new perspective, you have to take that action. There is no manifestation without aligned action. And typically we have a lot of resistance to this because it's coming from a new energy. It's going to be a new type of action, meaning it's going to be action outside your comfort zone. But that is the action that starts to reprogram your reality so quickly. So how you get around this— start taking action that confirms your new frequency. No matter how uncomfortable it is, no matter how much your old self resists it, you can trick your paradigm with action. If you have a new belief, you want to cement that new belief by taking action that's in alignment with that new belief. If you have a new avatar that you just defined, they have certain habits, you want to cement that new avatar by taking action that's in alignment with that new version of you, changing your habits, for example. If you've said that you want to go to your next level in business, but you're still taking care of all the little meaningless tasks and you don't outsource them, you have to use your action to show that you're going to shift to this new version of you who's at this next level in your business by having better boundaries, having better standards. You have to use your action. Your action is here to support you. In creating your dream life, in becoming this dream version of you. So use it, please. You cannot be in your full creative power if you are not using that healthy, secure, empowering masculine energy internally to take action on your dreams. Okay, so those were the 8 mistakes keeping you invisible to your desires. The first one was focusing on having. Instead, you must focus on being over having, because that is the correct order of creation. The second one is staying addicted to your old reality. You must start breaking that addiction by harnessing your focus, controlling it, and doing something like an attention detox. Take control of your attention and your focus. The third mistake is not defining a meaningful vision, not defining what you actually want. So you overcome that by defining your meaningful vision and deciding that that is where you're going. And if you're struggling to do that, you must connect to yourself and regulate your nervous system. The fourth mistake is trying to change into a new reality while you're still an old version of you. Nothing changes in reality until you do. So define that avatar, the version of you that, that has already achieved your desired reality, and go all in on becoming that version of you today. The fifth mistake is acting as an effect instead of a cause. So you have to be okay being a new self in an old reality for a while. You have to become bigger than your circumstances. You cannot define your circumstances until you stop letting them define you. So respond differently and rise above them. The sixth mistake is trying to figure out how. Realize your logical mind is only gonna give you ways how that are limited and based on the past, and you're not staying there. So don't worry if you don't know how. Surrender the how and just focus on becoming the version of you who already knows how. The 7th mistake is resisting the path as it's unfolding. Accept that you're not going to know how it's unfolding and pay attention to the lessons that life is presenting you right now, because that is the path. And the 8th mistake is bypassing action. Do not become passive. Do not sit back and just wait for things to come. You were gifted this action-taking component of you because you can use action to confirm your new identity and your new frequency. It's a necessary part of manifestation, so do not skip it. So if you overcome those 8 mistakes that we went through today, your energy will have no choice but to correspond with what you desire. Your desires will have no choice but to find you. That is all for this video, guys. I hope it helped. I love you all so much, and I will see you in the next one.