Ep.42 The Energy of Appreciation

Welcome everyone to episode 42 of our podcast. I usually like to start off with some announcements about what's going on, upcoming events and tour dates. I will be in Los Angeles May 25th for my fourth series. It's a brand new topic on soulmates and relationships. I'll be going deep into male and female energy so this will be an eight hour event like usual 10 to 6pm and our LA events always sell out quick so if you want to to make this and make the trip out, please do so. All the information can be found on davidguillam.com and I am excited to be in Tel Aviv June 6th. It's going to be one of our biggest events. We have people flying in from all around the world for this event and this will be on a Friday from 10 to. Sorry, no, this will be on a Friday from 8am till about 4pm and we will be diving deep into manifesting miracles. And even if you have taken this seminar before, I can pretty much tell you that every single time I give this topic it comes out different. It's a different energy. I bring in different content, but it will be around overcoming limited belief systems in order to create miracles in our lives. And as always I have digital content not just on Instagram or my podcast which is free, but I have a course that is outlining the structure of our soul, going into in detail and how you can shift to a new destiny of great fulfillment and relationships. And that is called YourInfineSoul.com and it is a pay what you feel is right to you model because I don't want finances to ever be an issue why people can't study this wisdom. I also have a level 2 of your infinite soul and I have a series called Limitless Abundance which goes into the secrets of prosperity and wealth creation from a spiritual point of view that I had once given live and I digitized it for you. So what is the energy of this week? What are we going through and what is available to us? One of the things that the sages always talk about, and you hear me talking about it, is it is not about changing others and is not about changing this universal force that we call God or the light of the Creator. It is only about one thing. It is about creating the vessel to be able to hold that energy. What is your vessel? What is your capacity to hold miracles? What is your capacity to hold a soulmate? And remember, a soulmate isn't a person. It is an energy intelligence that you draw in so you could be married to Someone. And it could be not satisfying to you. It could be painful, it could be monotonous. You may feel no spark in your marriage or your partnership or your dating life, but because of a transformation you made inside yourself, a transformation you made in your consciousness, a fear that you broke through something, that you changed about your negativity and changed it into positivity. You changed the doubts to certainty, anxiousness to wholeness. When you make that shift, you shift to a new destiny, which means you expand your vessel and you go from a 60 watt bulb to a thousand watt bulb, which means now you can hold 1,000 watts of energy. That's a metaphor spiritually, for when we expand our vessel, our soul, the Creator's energy can now come in at 1,000 watts versus 60 watts. The Creator's energy always wanted to come in. This energy of fulfillment, to remove our pain and suffering, to remove our darkness, has always wanted to come in. And it is never ceasing in its desire to enter our lives. There is no shortage of miracles. It is only us who need to expand the vessel to create the capacity to hold it. And so when we transform ourselves, the reason why the next day you could be with your soulmate on the prior day, you were not. And that person could be the same person, that person you're married to the next day could receive the soul of your soulmate, could receive an energy intelligence of your soulmate that makes them a completely different person, or your experience of them makes them completely different. Have you ever woken up or one day the person you're with was completely different? Haven't you woken up one day and your business was completely different? And all of a sudden, things that weren't looking too bright turned out to be amazing. This is a result of a shift in our consciousness and the creation of a bigger vessel. And there are many ways to do this. And I've talked about so many different ways of expanding the vessel in my prior podcast. I want to talk about one right now, which is appreciation and see. Good. It might sound cliche, but the sages say that the moment we stop appreciating something, we cut our soul from that channel. So, for example, let's say someone in your greatest time of need, say, you're going through a very painful situation around finances and money, and all you needed was $1,000. This is a hypothetical. All you needed was $1,000 and get you out of all your problems. Let's say someone came along. Say this person, John, came along and gave you $1,000. And because John gave you $1,000. You now have solved all your debts, all your problems and you had money to create a business that now is worth a billion dollars. Okay, Because John had given you that thousand, you now have a business many years later that is worth a billion dollars. Now, of course you appreciate John and you're always going to be nice to John and whatever, but in your mind, you don't really think John was that significant. After all, you are the one with your strength, your power, your certainty to have created this billion dollar business. So John's kind of an afterthought. You're not negative towards John, but it's just kind of like whatever, don't have that much appreciation for John. It's not like someone who today is your investor or someone you really depend on that you would appreciate. And so the sages say, and my teacher Rob Berg had told this story, he said, if you do not appreciate John, if you do not bless John actively, if you do not every day think of John and send him energy. It is that thousand dollars that eventually was the seed level for the billion dollar vessel. And every day that goes by that we do not bless, think about and appreciate John, it diminishes the vessel of our business. So all of a sudden you have lawsuits, all of a sudden you have supply chain issues, all of a sudden you have people quitting. It's hard to hire, you're stuck, your revenue stuck, your profits going down. Yeah, we say all of a sudden tariffs and all of a sudden global economies are going down. All of that is an excuse. I know people who are thriving right now in the economy. I know people who maybe they were even vulnerable by tariffs or something else, but immediately they received some kind of wisdom to transform their entire business and become even more successful. Where did this wisdom come from? This wisdom came because they had done something within their consciousness to open up their vessel to allow that energy in. And when that energy came in, the wisdom came in. It showed them how to rise above this thing called tariffs, rise above this thing called the political climate, rise above this thing called global disaster. All of the things that we see on the outside are just mirrors, shadows of what's going on in our consciousness. And the greatest consciousness you can have is appreciation and seeing the good. So it is important that we actually make a list and go back in time. Who are the people who did you a favor? Who are the people who helped you early on? Who are the people that represented the seed level of your success? Think about those early employees. You know, I think even to myself in our company at Meriworth Organics. We've been in business for about 12 years now. And we had employees in the very beginning who really helped us grow, who aren't with us anymore. Today, for whatever reason, am I thinking about them, am I sending them energy and blessing them because they were part of the seed level of everything we have today. I would need to. We all need to. We need to go back in time and think about the people. Even if it was a compliment they gave or something supportive they did for one moment, which gave us the confidence later on in life to have certainty. Even if it was a coach or a school teacher that you had and they gave us something, they gave us strength or belief in ourselves. The more we appreciate them, the more we open and expand that channel of energy because it was that one compliment that created this huge success you have today. So if you don't appreciate them, but even worse if you speak badly about them, if you put them down, if you assassinate their character, you completely severe. So imagine this for a second. John gave you $1,000. Let's say you got to a place where you're upset with John and you're cursing him. You have now fully severed your soul contract, your soul tie with John, who seeded you the thousand. But now you got a billion dollar company. What's going to happen to the billion dollars? Just because you started speaking poorly about John, this billion dollars will start to diminish every day until it's totally gone because we severed ties from the source. You know, one of the Ten Commandments in the Old Testament, which is just a manual to the soul. When you decodify the Bible and everyone in the world knows about the Bible. When you decodify the Bible, it's all the secrets of Kabbalah. One of the ten Commandments is to honor and respect your mother and father. But what does that mean? What if they were abusive? What if you had horrible parents? What if your parents aren't even alive? What if you don't even know who your parents are? What if you were adopted? Do I still need to honor them and respect them? What does it mean? What does this commandment mean? It's all technology. What the sages are telling us is that when you honor and respect the seed level of anything, and in this case, your parents created you and give you life, even if they weren't good people, they represent a seed level of who you are. And we know that in our time, even therapists will tell us, science will tell us if you have A poor relationship with your father, if you have an unhealed relationship with your mother, you will have issues in your dating life, you will have issues in your love life, you will have issues getting married or if you are married, you have issues within the marriage. If we have not fully reconnected our soul to our parents soul, and that doesn't mean that we need to spend time with them. If they are not good, if they're not easy to spend time with, doesn't mean that we need to like give ourselves up to them. It means that in our consciousness we need to have appreciation and we need to bless them. Even if they are negative, we need to bless them, we need to journal, we need to write down, we need to pray that we appreciate them, that we thank them. And of course, if you can go the extra mile, spend time with them, pick up the phone and call them and tell them how much they did for you. Acknowledge it. Acknowledge it. And if you are a parent listening right now, can you imagine if your children at any age came and told you, even if you made their life miserable? You know what? I know you did the best you could do. I appreciate you, mom. I appreciate everything you did for me, Dad. I know it wasn't easy. I know maybe you didn't have everything you needed to be a good father. But I appreciate you. I appreciate your soul. I appreciate that the Creator allowed me to come into this world through you with the difficulties and the blessings. I appreciate it. And guess what? Even if you don't mean it, words have power. Words are vessels. We can say it even if you don't mean it. The reason why you're saying it is because you want to get to a place where you mean it. When we go to the gym or we do things, we do exercise that we're not in the mood to do. What's the secret? Just do it. You just fake it until your body gets excited about it. You know the hardest part of going to the gym is actually getting dressed to go to the gym. That's the hardest part. The hardest part isn't when you're at the gym. The hardest part is deciding to leave your house to go work out. And what do you do? You say, I don't want to, I'm not in the mood. I don't want to go to work, I'm not in the mood. I don't want to do this nice gesture or apologize, I'm not in the mood. But we know that Kabbalah is rising above body consciousness. It's about what your soul wants, not what your body wants. If every time you made a decision based on what your body wanted, you would always be chasing this in gratification. You would only be feeding addictions, and as a result, you would have sugar highs of fulfillment and then crashes constantly. And if your life is like that, where it's constantly up, down, up, down, you have something, then you lose it. You have something, then you lose it, you're happy, then you're sad, it's indication that we're listening to what our body's telling us. We're only doing things based on knowledge. What I know, what I see, as opposed to rising above all of it. Who cares if you're poor, you say you're rich. Who cares if you think you're ugly or you don't like your nose, you don't like the way your body looks, you don't like the way your skin looks, you don't like the way their voice sounds, you don't like the way your hair is. Who cares? You walk out of this room, you walk into the world, and you know you're beautiful. End of story. You walk into an event and you say to yourself, I am the most attractive person in the world. I am the most successful person in the world. I am the most whole person in the world. I am the most spiritual person in the world. This is what you say. Because at the end of the day, attraction is dependent on one thing, not on how you look, on what you believe about yourself. It's your consciousness that means everything. So going back to rising above body consciousness and connecting and honoring the people in our lives who have given us something. My teacher used to say, I'm always hesitant to accept favors and gifts from people because I know I will have to bless them for the rest of my life. I know if I receive money from you, an investment from you, a favor from you, and because of that money, that investment, that favor, I create something great. I will have to bless you for the rest of my life. And so it's kind of funny to think about it this way, but I have to ask myself, if I don't want to be bound spiritually to you for the rest of my life and having to bless you and thank you for the rest of my life, then I should not accept your gift. That's just another way of thinking about it. And so many of us have received from people in our lives, and the more we can start to see their good. Not because they deserve it, because you don't want to lose the Energy. You don't want to lose the energy. Imagine you had an investor in your company that helped you take your company off the ground. But you guys fought. You guys sued each other. You had a horrible time together, and now you hate this guy or this woman or this fund. And you got a way to get. And you bought them out of the company. Now you're done with them. But the truth is, if it wasn't for their money in the very beginning, would you really be where you are? So what if later on the relationship fell apart? So what if you had negative experiences? And I'm not saying you need to call them up and talk to them and say you love them. I'm saying, do you appreciate that the Creator arranged them to come for even the short time they did, to get you to where you need to be? Because you need to appreciate, to establish that piping, to establish that vessel so the energy can flow. Everything is piping. We know that if a pipe is broken, if a circuit is cut, there's no light, there's no water, there's no electricity, there's no oxygen, there's no air, there's nothing. One pipe, cut, done. We sever pipes when we don't appreciate. And even worse, when we speak poorly about other people. Be careful about speaking poorly about other people. It just slips out. Negative speech just falls out of our mouth without us realizing. And when we speak negatively about somebody, I mean, should they have anything to do with our success? Money is leaving our account. It's our relationships that are falling apart. Imagine someone helped you meet your wife or your husband, or did you a favor, or helped you with wisdom or knowledge, and your life was great. And then later, they did something horrible to you. They traumatized you, they took advantage of their power, of their generosity, whatever, later on. But the truth is, the first time they saw you, they met you, there was something divine. The Creator arranged them to help you. Even if they were manipulating you, even if it was jealousy. We have to separate the two. We have to separate good from bad. Always. Too often we lump everything together. Someone's good to us. 90% of the time, they're hurtful. 10% of the time, we just say up. They're a bad person. I don't want them in my life. They're toxic. They're narcissistic. Really? Is everyone narcissistic? And by the way, kabbalists say narcissism is just extreme selfishness, which means huge desire. And that is the precursor to revealing miracles. A narcissist who Studies Kabbalah basically is a person who takes their huge desire and says, I want to reveal light with it. They just don't know how to reveal the light, which is through transformation, through certainty, through giving, becoming like the Creator. That's how you reveal the vessel. And so they just take energy whenever they can. And they might manipulate and scheme, but it's all just short term energy. That's essentially, we have to review Narcissus. In fact, you should desire a child who's a narcissist. Meaning, please put it in context. You should desire a child who wants everything, who has big desire. But it is our job as a parent not to suffocate that desire, to make it small, to tell them they shouldn't want things. Tell your children to want everything. The world's yours. But how you receive everything, you must give everything you must truly give. You must truly transform your fears and your hatred and your negativity. You must not take from anyone. You must allow the world to give to you to your big selfish desire. Allow the world to give to you in the right time, in the right way that makes them feel good. You must appreciate it, honor it and respect it for always. And so in summary, think about the people in your life. If they've given you even one thing, think about your ex husband or your ex wife who gave you children. They gave you love. They taught you what to do. They taught you what not to do. They gave you wisdom. Must bless your ex. Talk about it all the time. Bless your ex. Stop fighting with them. Stop trying to manipulate the children. Stop trying to manipulate them. You're just destroying your own vessel. You're just destroying yourself. You'll have to come back next life with the same ex and fix it all over again. You want to come back with this person all over again and go through another 5, 10, 15, 20 years, rack up legal fees and watch the children constantly be torn apart. You don't need any of that. You are here destined for miracles. Just be with the light. Forget about being right. Appreciate and bless.