Even if they’re the worst human who ruined your life—don’t give your energy away.

You lose a relationship you've invested years in. You didn't lose the energy of the relationship, you lost the body of the person the body left and the three years you spent to get a relationship to this place. The creator can now send you another place that already starting here on day one. And it feels like magic. Why? Because the three years you invested in the last one, the energy never left. Unless you're always upset with your ex and you're reactive. Every time you speak negatively about your ex, you lose a piece of the three years. Even if they are the worst human who ruined your life. This is why I'm always very careful with people when they speak badly about their example.