How To Make Reality Bend By Playing It Backwards

No matter if it's a new job, a new relationship, better health, better finances, a car, a house, a trip. Whatever it is you're chasing in the material world, whatever it is you're trying to force into your reality, I promise you, you don't have that thing, because you're playing the game of reality backwards. And so I'm going to teach you how to flip the way you've been playing it today so that these things chase you instead of the other way around. Because if you're always chasing things in your external reality, what you chase is always going to run from you. And so 90% of people are like this figure here, pushing a boulder up a hill by saying, okay, when I get this financial outcome, I'm going to be abundant. I'm going to be happy, I'm going to be fulfilled. So we're chasing all of these things in the external world constantly, and we're allowing reality to basically dictate to us who we are and what we can feel and what we can perceive, which keeps us trapped in a perpetual feedback loop of the same old circumstance and the same old situation. And this is why you're losing the game of reality, okay? Because you're not playing it the right way around. So I'm going to be showing you today how to play it backwards so that you can actually start winning and bending reality in your favor. So every single one of us are born whole and complete, okay? We're all created in God's image. We're a fractal of source, higher consciousness. And so being one with Source, with the all, we have all of the qualities of the Source. We are creative, we are whole, we are abundant. We are a pure being of light. When we came here on this 3D reality, unfortunately, we began to inherit what I kind of represented here with this boulder. We inherited these worries, these fears, these kind of false perceptions, these limited ideas of what's possible, of who we are, of what we can be, do, and have. We also inherited pain and trauma because this is a polarized reality. So all of that accumulated to us, forgetting our power, losing our sense of wholeness and fulfillment, and then deciding, okay, if I can get this material thing that's going to give me my wholeness and fulfillment back. So let's say 90% of people are in this state unfulfilled to simplify it and distill it down. Fundamentally, the state is just a state of not being fulfilled unfulfilled. And so what that looks like is chasing outcomes to fill the void, okay? So with us all being in an ego state of consciousness, well, most of us being in an ego state of consciousness, we're trying to figure out how to feel rich, how to feel good enough, how to feel worthy, how to feel loved. When all of those feelings are actually coming from within you, no external thing can give you a feeling. If you want to start freeing yourself of the boulder, if you want to stop pushing this boulder up this hill for your whole life, then you have to begin to realize that no external thing actually can give you these things. You're the one generating these feelings. You're the creative consciousness. You're the creative being. You are the cause of everything in your reality. If you're in this state. And the key thing I want you to learn today, if you're in this state where you're placing your fulfillment on the achievement of something external to you in reality, first of all, you're going to be in that forever. That's a perpetual state to be in. Even if you get the thing that you want in physical reality, you're still going to feel the same inside. So if you're somebody, for example, who chaos and disaster just follows you like a shadow. It's not going to matter whether you end that relationship and find a new partner. It's not going to matter whether you get that new job, because your energy is an energy of chaos and disaster. So everywhere you go, you will have chaos and disaster. No matter what changes outside you. The only thing that's permanent in this life until the end is you and your energy. You're existing inside here until the very, very end. And so when, when we look at, you know, bending reality in your favor, the way you start reversing this is you realize you have to master yourself first before you can master reality. If you don't master yourself, no matter what changes in reality, you're always going to be trying to fill some kind of void. Nothing is ever going to be enough because you didn't go to the which is you and your inner state. Reality can bend to this version of you. Because this version of you knows its true nature. It knows that it's whole, fulfilled, abundant, and has everything it could ever need inside. And because when you're in that state, because you know you're whole and you have everything you could ever need and you're fulfilled, you can materialize a reality that reflects that back to you. Going to walk you through the different states of consciousness. Today, we're going to break this down even deeper. But straight away, I want you to realize the wholeness, the fulfillment, everything that you're seeking in the external things, it can never be yours because you're not deciding to be that first. And until you have something internally, until you create the energetic vibration within you of having fulfillment, of having abundance, then you can't have it externally in your reality. Because as within, as without, nothing can exist materially if it doesn't exist within you first. Whatever it is that you think you're going to get from that thing, realize you're the only one who can give that to yourself. And until you give that to yourself, you will spend your whole life chasing and never getting that thing. Because it's a feeling. And that feeling is generated by you. I'm going to walk you through some examples of how significant your state of consciousness is so that you can once and for all put that on a pedestal above a material outcome. And then you will have reality bending to you. So we're going to look at this from lower. That was supposed to be an L. That doesn't look like an L. From low to high, okay? Oh my goodness. If we think about states of consciousness, what am I talking about here and why is this relevant? Every person in this planet is in a different state of consciousness. If we look at the extreme low point we have down here, shame, despair, guilt, fear, anger, grief is down here, right? Anger is around here somewhere. So let's just conceptualize this, maybe anger. And these are typically the fear based emotions or the lower states of consciousness. What do I mean by this? And I really want you guys to get this. This is like the key takeaway from today. When you're down here in any of these states, I want you to start thinking of this like you've literally got a pair of glasses on. Depending on your state of consciousness, your lens through which you perceive reality shifts and changes. So I'm going to give you a super basic example. Let's say you have had the best week of your life. You've just had the most amazing week. You had such good news. You had five things that you wanted to manifest come true. You know, finally that girl texted you back and you're going on that day and everything is turning around in your favor, it seems. You know, you wake up, you feel good, you feel healthy. You may be up here in a state of joy, okay? Because you're in a state of joy. You're able to see the good in people. You're able to see opportunities that were never there before. Your perception of what we call reality changes. Therefore, your Reality has fundamentally changed because you have changed in your state of consciousness. But let's say you have quite a tough week. Maybe you get out of your rhythm, you get out of your routines, maybe you go out partying, maybe you had an event and maybe you lost your keys and certain things happened and you had an argument with someone you love, something and you got some bad news about a project. So let's say your consciousness has fallen back down. It's fallen back down and now you're maybe back in fear, okay? All of a sudden you can no longer perceive the opportunities that you were perceiving last week. All of a sudden you are able to see all of these possible worst case scenarios that you weren't even looking at or considering last week because your energy was more resonant with the good when you were up here. Enjoy, okay? And so now you're thinking, what if I'm doing this wrong? But what if everything I've ever done is a waste of time? But what if, you know, everything falls apart and what, what if this person turns on me and maybe I'm not that good or maybe I'm not good enough and all of these fear based beliefs and thoughts come to the surface. Why? Because you're in a state of fear. Like a neutral thing can happen. For example, you get an email, okay? You get an email, somebody's just bringing something up to you. When you're in your higher state of consciousness, you're able to see the opportunity in the email. You're able to see the potential for connection in the email. Even when you're up here in a state of joy and high consciousness, you could get an email that is objectively, maybe a bit abrasive or it could be flagging a problem or complaining. You still are in a great state, so you still are able to bypass that. You're able to extract the best case scenario because you're in the energy of high consciousness, so you can perceive that as a possibility. Whereas somebody who's really down here and really low, like shame and despair, they could be sent an email that's actually quite positive. But they're going to be extracting the worst case scenario because that's resonant with their state of consciousness, okay? And so I had this happen recently with a client of mine, I have this amazing client and she's probably watching this. So hi Kami, if you're watching. But she basically has had amazing weeks of building momentum, doing meditations, having amazing experiences, feeling really connected in a very high state, very high energy, and her vision has been super clear, like she's been able to just take action. And it's been kind of effortless and seamless and fun because her content consciousness has been raising over the last few weeks through doing different practices, which I'm going to share with you today, just really connecting to that inner self she went to on a trip and came out of her routines, was with friends, was partying a little bit, which is absolutely fine. But her consciousness shifted back to, I wouldn't even say fear, but just back to a more kind of apathetic, right? Or just a more neutral state. It wasn't as open. And so the key thing about consciousness is, and this is what I need you to remember, it's like this, okay? When you're down in the lower states, your perception is very narrow. When you're in a higher state, your perception is really broad and really wide. And so she brought to me some issues and some concerns she was having around the way she was visualizing whether she's doing it properly, whether she even has a good vision. And immediately I flagged to her, look, none of this that you're bringing up to me has ever come up before. All that's happening is your consciousness has shifted to a more to a lower state. And now fears that are resonant with that state are coming to the surface. Go and get back in your routines, go and reconnect to yourself, go and shift your energy and then come back to me and tell me if you're having those same thoughts. And she was like, oh my goodness, that is so true. Right? And I have to do this with myself all the time as well. As soon as I get a really fear based thought or I get something that's like very emotionally triggering, I look at it and I say, okay, is this resonant with a new state of consciousness? Okay, can I go and shift my consciousness first and then what I'm perceiving will change. That's how you need to start tackling things in your life, because you are the cause. You're the lens through which reality is existing. And so if you want reality to bend to you, you have to change the lens. There's no other way to do it. Let me take an extreme example before we wrap this up, when we think about Christ. Christ is a level of high consciousness, okay? I and the Father are one. Basically means Christ had risen to the level of awareness that he understood his true nature was one with source. He did not basically succumb to the ego states of consciousness, which Are these lower states? He remained up here in the higher states because he didn't, he didn't basically fall for that illusion when he came here. Christ, even Buddha were very, very enlightened beings because they had extremely high states of consciousness. And this, you know, is not something that's off limits to us. The kingdom is within you, okay? You have this same consciousness within you. It's what created you, it's what created the world, it's what created all the universes. It is you, it is your essence. And so this is not off limits to you. We've just become so disconnected from this that we think it's off limits. And then we go searching for the feeling that the disconnect from this state of consciousness is bringing in external things, but we're never going to find it there because all the external things are, are lower forms of consciousness. So on a day to day basis, your consciousness is shifting like a wave. Okay, so maybe you're here at one point, you're here at another, then you're here, then you're here, then you're here, then you're here. Okay, Amazing. We don't need to villainize lower states, we don't need to villainize lower states, but we need to be able to notice what state we're in. That's all. Okay, so this is how you start being able to master yourself. And that is when you will be able to master your reality. You need to start noticing. If you don't start noticing how your thoughts, your beliefs, your perception are being created by your state of consciousness, then you're just going to think that you are your thoughts, that you are in this box of beliefs, that your perception is all it is when it's a tiny, tiny, tiny, tiny fraction of what's possible. And I know this, guys, because I used to have a very, very narrow perception. I used to be in a very, very low state. I was absolutely miserable. And if you had told me then that I'm perceiving the things that I'm perceiving now, that that was even real or possible, I wouldn't have believed you. But it was possible. Why? Because I started noticing that I was the cause, that my state was the cause, and I started shifting my state and then my perception shifted, my beliefs shifted, and then in effect, my reality shifted around me. So you want to notice? Hey. Oh, look, my energy has changed. I'm catastrophizing about this thing. I'm all of a sudden thinking that I have some random illness or I'm all Of a sudden thinking that my boyfriend's going to leave me or whatever else. You notice your energy has shifted. And then you realize that it's just a representation of your state. It's nothing to do with, with the situation. So knowing that, the next thing you do is you change your state. How do you change your state? Great question. You need one thing to start breaking this. You need separation. What do I mean by separation? You have the ego self and the higher self. Most of us, when we come here and we begin to be programmed, we are 100% in the ego, which means we are 100% in the lower states of consciousness, and we're 100% being created by our circumstances in reality. And so to begin breaking out of this and start being able to actually navigate your state and shift your consciousness, you have to come out of the ego. You have to stop thinking you are 100% the ego who is just a character, and realize that you are also the player or the higher self, or that creative consciousness that's connected to everything that's source. Okay, so I speak a lot about not using so much logic, using your intuition, being creative, all of these things that comes from being connected to your higher self. Okay, if you're in a lower state of consciousness and you're 100% in the ego, you are going to be having fear based ideas because you're in a fear based state. You're in a limitation based state. And those ideas are not going to give you anything but a fear based outcome and a fear based reality. And instead of, you know, beating yourself up about that and trying to think of how you might think when you're your higher self, you just have to go through the process of separating first and foremost from the ego and connecting to the higher self within. So to begin breaking away from the ego, some things you can do straight away. Stillness number one. If you just did this, if you just did this, you would connect to your higher self. You would be able to start seeing beyond your ego and you would, your consciousness would start raising. And we try to complicate this process so much. But be still and know that I am God. If you just sit down and shut up, be quiet and listen and tune in and observe, you will be in your higher self energy in that moment. The moment you do that. And the more you do that, the more connected you become to that higher aspect of you, the more your consciousness can raise outside of the limitations and the illusions of the ego self, just by sitting still and being quiet and closing your eyes. And meditating. Okay? It literally tells you to meditate in the Bible. Just try it. Okay? There's a reason for that. It connects you to the God consciousness within you. That's how you access the kingdom within you. You slow down, you sit down, you become still and you let go of the noise of the ego. It's like when you keep listening to the ego self, when you keep making decisions based on the perception of the ego self, fear based, limitation based decisions. It's like you're. You're fueling up that self constantly and it's just going to keep running and keep running. So in order to create separation, you need to starve this self. Like literally starve it. Don't give it what it wants. It wants noise. It wants to be dysregulated. It wants like quick satisfaction. It wants to be impulsive and reactive. So what do you do to detach and begin to master it? You do the opposite. So stillness. The ego hates stillness. Because the ego thrives in noise. In your eyes being open and then you being enmeshed in physical reality. Because the ego was born from physical reality. So you're separating it from its source. When you close your eyes and you go within and you're reconnecting with the actual source, which is you, your higher self. Okay. The second thing to do is observe your reactions. When you feel yourself responding in a way that, you know, maybe isn't the best, observe and start noticing the way you behave, the way you think, the way you perceive things. And I'm going to give you a really obvious tool here, is to begin journaling. You know, the book the Artist's Way talks about this a lot. The Morning pages. The whole purpose of Morning Pages in the Artist Way is to do this, what we're speaking about, so that you can shift into a higher state of creative consciousness and be and activate your inner artist, which is just that creative self within you. And so observe your reactions by journaling. You want to basically be very honest about this voice in your head, what it's saying, what it's ranting on about all the time, and then realize that you're not just that voice, you are the one observing it. And that's the key point. It's like you could be either in the voice or watching the voice, and you get to decide which one it is. The moment you start watching, you begin to create that separation and your consciousness can start shifting. And the last thing to start shifting you into a new state of consciousness, a higher state of consciousness, a creative state of consciousness is to effectively make a decision to be okay no matter what. I was reading the Untethered Soul this week, and it reminded me of this really important truth. The ego, once again, is not your true self and your true state. So it's always unfulfilled. It's always seeking to fill that void and external reality, and it's never going to be filled. And so it traps you into thinking that I'll be happy when. I'll be happy when. I'll be happy when I get the promotion. I'll be happy when I finally have that money in my bank account. I'll be happy when my boyfriend forgives me. I'll be happy when. If you've conditioned yourself to be in a state of I'll be happy when, guess what? You'll get to when. And you'll still be in that state because that's your state. And nothing in external reality can change your state. Only you can change your state by making a decision inside. It's nothing to do with the outside. It's a decision that you make inside. And let me tell you, I've been at many different levels and many different phases in life and finances and business and everything, relationships, everything. No matter what you achieve, no matter what external outcome you get some trophy, whatever it is, you will always find something to worry about. If that is what resonates with your state of consciousness. You could be standing in something that you once dreamed of. You could be standing on your private yacht with, you know, all of these people there, and there's party and there's money and da, da, da. But if your state of consciousness is one of lack and limitation and fear, you're going to find something to fear. And I don't want that tragedy to unfold for you. So there's always going to be something to fix. There's always going to be something to change. There's always going to be something to solve. But you have to decide to be okay no matter what. And this boils down to the fundamental truth that anyone who's achieved a higher state of consciousness and then been able to create freely in this reality and have reality bend to them as the creator being that they're supposed to be. Anyone who's done that has crossed this threshold has given up that boulder and said, you know what? I'm not going to keep pushing that I'm going to be okay. Even though my life's not perfect. I'm going to be okay even though I'm getting all of these phone calls about this problem in the business, I'm going to be okay regardless of X, y and Z. It is a decision. So this is how you start bypassing and shifting your consciousness. You realize that when you were down here, you had the goggles of fear, anger, shame, rage, despair, whatever. You had those on. And so while you have those on, everything that you're actually seeing in physical reality is tainted with your state of consciousness. Because as within, as without. And so you say, okay, I'm in anger, for example, and I'm seeing all of these things to be angry about. But you know what? I'm going to decide not to feed into those things, and instead I'm going to decide to shift my state. So you start becoming still, you start regulating. You start observing your reactions. You start realizing there's more to life than this. And then you make a decision that you're not going to base your state off of the circumstances that are unfolding in your life. And you make a decision that you are going to be accepting and joyous and peaceful no matter what's going on in your life. So automatically your consciousness shifts to here. Guess what happens then. You lose resonance with this stuff. You lose resonance with the stuff that used to resonate with you when you were in a lower state of awareness, when you were in a lower state of consciousness. And then guess what happens? Because you've exited the ego. The ego thinks that it's the one creating reality, but it's not, okay? And so this is the gift that you get when you finally let go and you say, even if my life is shit, I'm going to be happy. Now, I'm telling you, that's like the final point of transformation, when everything. That's when everything will start to shift for you. Even though nothing in my life is going my way, I'm not going to let it rob me of my peace, because nothing is more important than my peace and my state. When you know that, when you decide that internally, your consciousness shifts immediately. And guess what happens? You go basically from being in this. In this kind of state of illusion where you think you're the one creating everything, and you have this limited idea of what's possible. Very, very, very limited. Okay? Unbelievably limited. When you're in your ego state of consciousness, you start entering a higher state of awareness and you start being able to actually surrender to the flow of life. Because ego wants to control, right? There's. There's another scripture in the Bible. With man, this is impossible. With God, all things are possible. Meaning man is your ego, lower dimensional way of thinking, okay? It's impossible to achieve these big visions, these grand transformations when you're trying to force things all the time out of logic, out of your old state of awareness. But when you enter your God state of consciousness, your higher consciousness, and you surrender to things unfolding in your life, that's when the best possible things can actually come into your experience. First of all, because you are open and perceptive, because now you're in a state that is more open and perceptive. But second of all, you've lost basically this element of inner fear that needs to control everything. And so you've finally given over the reins to the infinite, to God, to source, to the all, which is the correct place for the reins to be. Okay? You're not actually creating anything. Everything is already created. You are simply aligning with different possibilities depending on your energy. And so you open yourself up to so much more possibility, first of all in your perception, but second of all in actuality, because you surrender, you finally feel safe, safe enough, accepting enough and whole enough to stop chasing things outside you. And from that place of surrender and calm and openness and relaxation, the best possible things can start unfolding for you. Think about it for a second. Everything in nature that exists, a flower, a tree, like your favorite plant, whatever it is, the rivers, the lakes, the mountains, us, our bodies, our brains, think about the force that created that. Now think about whether you can create something like that. No. Not to invalidate you, but no. And so this is why us trying to force and control and create everything from our ego and from our lower states of consciousness, honestly, it's a complete waste of time and it's what's probably limiting most people. Why don't you give it up and surrender it to the power that's been in existence and created this universe 14 billion years ago? Because that will create it and unfold it for you in the most divine and aligned way possible. And honestly, in a way that you may not even be able to predict or imagine. Okay? So when you shift your state, when you finally prioritize your peace, detach from the ego, decide that nothing is worth giving your peace up for, and you shift your state, you become open to life unfolding in the best possible way for you. So this is why it's backwards. Everybody's down here in fear based states, forcing and rushing and trying to make things happen. And I know because this has been me, but I ask you to take a look at the results that that's actually gotten you if that actually worked, don't you think you would have what you wanted by now? Don't you think you would have filled that inner void by now? It's not filled yet, because that doesn't work. What is the rush? What are you so afraid of? So it is that paradox of as soon as you let go and you free yourself of this inner boulder, of all of these fears, and this rushing and controlling, you will finally allow yourself to receive everything that's actually meant for you. Life is going to keep throwing at you. It's just a question of, are you going to let that bring you down? If you can master this, you will have really mastered your consciousness. You will have mastered your state. And when you master your state, you master your reality, because you are always the cause, and reality is simply an end result.