How to Start Living Life on YOUR TERMS

Now, how the hell did I go from working a 9 to 5, living paycheck to paycheck, stressed, living in a big city, not getting enough sleep, not getting enough sun, not getting enough exercise, being in a toxic relationship to living literally in the place of my dreams? This being what my morning looks like, I just finished up a yoga class, never running out of money, living with my soulmate. How did I manage that? I shifted my frequency internally to the point that I was feeling and embodying and being that person. This version of me living this life without anything in my reality yet to reflect that. And I kept doing that over and over and over again. As soon as I realized I had a desire for something, I would shift my identity internally and affirm it with sheer delusion and let go of needing to see it in my reality. And then, lo and behold, it will come in and you can do this with every little thing in your life you can do this with. If you feel like your friends are being off with you and you want to resolve the conflict, if you shift to a state internally where the conflict is resolved and you let go of needing to see it change in front of you, you feel like it's already done, you will find that the situation will change very quickly. If you feel like you're not getting enough attention from your boyfriend, rather than poking at him and telling him, you don't pay attention to me, you don't know, what energy are you embodying? What energy are you embodying that's. That's feeding into this version of reality? Because everything that's before you right now is before you because of an energy that you have embodied up until this point. Every outcome, every result in your life is to do with your frequency, with your attitude, with your attention, with your identity and beliefs and emotions that you think all the time, your dominant wiring, that's what's created, what's in front of you right now. So if your boyfriend is not giving you enough attention, there's part of your identity, there's part of your belief system that is feeding into that version of reality. So what do you do? You don't go nagging at him and asking him. You change your internal state. You shift your state to a place where you only identify as the version of you who is in a loving, supportive, aligned, compassionate, affection, affectionate relationship where the person you love loves you so much and you never feel the lack of that. You imagine that you embody, that you identify as that because you know in the core of your being that that's who you are and that's what you deserve. And then you let go of needing to see it change. And either the boyfriend will step up and match up to that, or you'll get a new boyfriend who does. But that is what will come in for you. It's all to do with your relationship, wiring with how you are showing up energetically within your vibration. And so if you want to be rich, all you have to do is declare that you're rich and feel it and know it in your soul and let go of needing to see it change in your reality. And people get caught up because they keep checking and they keep looking and they keep searching and they're so reliant on the thing changing in order to make them happy. But you have to be happy first. You have to say, fuck it, I'm gonna be happy now. And I'm just gonna trust that it's gonna happen and I'm just gonna let it go. I don't need it now to be happy. And as soon as the thing you want sees that you don't need it, it'll come to you. As soon as you put your. Take your attention off it and you put it over here on how present and happy and amazing you feel in your life and in yourself and how much you think you just, you deserve good things. And you know good things are coming and you're in the moment. That is when the good things would go, oh my God, that is so attractive. We're gonna go over there, okay? The good thing will never come to someone who's gazing, staring, glaring, looking for it. It's gonna come to the person who is in the moment, in their body, in their life, present. That's where the good things are gonna go. But first you have to set the intention internally. You have to decide, like, how do you want people to treat you? How do you much money? Do you want, do you want people to give you stuff for free? Do you want to go outside and like strangers to be coming up to you, trying to give you stuff, trying to help you? Do you want to live by the sea? Do you want to have things paid for? Do you want to have life on easy mode? Do you want, like, as specific as you want to get with this? Do you want your call at work to go better than expected? Do you want a promotion? You have to first decide and get clear on all these little things that maybe are not quite vibing like with you at the moment. You can change them and you can get them to a point. Where you're absolutely loving the outcome, but you have to decide that that's the outcome you deserve first. And you have to switch the identity of the version of you who has those outcomes. Know in the core of your being that that's who you are and that's what you get in life. And you don't get anything less, but you won't get it, you won't get more if you don't internally shift there. First you have to do the shift and then you have to be so present and in love and trusting that it just happens so in your own bubble, in your own energy field, that the external doesn't matter anymore. And most of the time people get stuck because they're constantly looking outward for validation and approval. So we tune to other people's energies. We get too stressed about a circumstance or a situation. We give our attention to it. We give our attention to it. So let's take the work call example. You're constantly thinking, oh my God, I have this work call and I'm stressed because sometimes I stutter and I. I go red. Like, this is what happens to me, guys, I get red. I get like heat rashes on my neck when I get excited or nervous on calls. And instead of thinking about that, I now think, oh my God, this call that I have this week, I'm a little nervous for, but it's going to be my best call yet. It's going to be the most transformative, impactful, connected call that I've had so far. I'm going to exceed my expectations. It's going to confirm to me that this is the path that I'm on and I'm on the right path. And it's going to feel so incredible and just so good. And everyone is going to get something valuable from it. Everyone's going to feel heard and seen and supported. That's how you switch that. You stop focusing on the thing, the worst case scenario, and you start putting all your energy, emotion and attentions onto the best case scenario. And you buy into it as if it's already done. You identify with it as if it's already done that. This call I don't need to be nervous for because it's nothing but peanuts to me at this point. I'm the identity of a fucking public speaker who has $100 million in the bank account. So I'm not nervous about this call. Why would I be? Hello? Like, I have nothing to be nervous about because I am supported. I'm divinely guided. I'm supported. And I know that only the best things happen to me. Only the things for my greatest good happen to me. Even if they seem like bad things initially, they're always for my greater good. And I have that trust and that faith. But that's also a decision you have to make. That's a frequency you have to embody. And that is what you'll actually get in your reality. But you have to decide it internally first. Everything starts with you and your frequency. Every reality and every possibility already exists right now, all at once. How you quantum jump, how you quantum leap is you internally shift to the frequency of you that's in the dimension, experiencing the reality that you want to experience. And you know that that version of you. If you had a hundred million dollars in the bank account, why would you be waking up stressing about anything to do with money? You wouldn't. You would just be doing what's aligned with you, doing what you enjoy doing. You'd be following your intuition. You'd be taking aligned action for sure. You probably wouldn't just sit on your ass, but you would be full of relief and abundance and joy and looking at opportunities in life. And that's how you'd be. Sorry, there's an ant crawling on my phone. But likewise, let's say, for example, you are this wealthy version of you, right? You want to tune to the energy, this wealthy version of you, every little thing. You'd be more confident, you'd be more relaxed, you would feel empowered, you would feel valuable. And you are valuable. This is the thing people don't realize. They're waiting for, like, a piece of evidence or a piece of, like, someone to permit them to be wealthy and abundant and like, say, okay, now you can be rich. Now you can be happy. Now you can be successful. Now you can be fulfilled. Now you can do what you want to do. Now you can put yourself out there. And it's like, no, you give yourself permission. You give yourself permission by realizing we're all the same. We're all, we're all bits of God. We're all like mini expressions of God and can have and do anything if we get to a high enough frequency within ourselves, if we embody enough joy and love and abundance within ourselves. But the problem is you don't realize how valuable you are. So I think it was Bob Proctor said, if you were to take all the energy and power that was in a human body when we all come here, you would be able to fuel, like a modern city for a whole week or a weekend or something, which is worth millions and millions of dollars. You're already worth millions and millions of dollars before you even do anything. But society has programmed you into thinking that you have to do all of this stuff just to make enough money to get by. Question mark. Like what? That doesn't make sense. But then you have people. And this is how I started tuning to this. I started when I got deep in meditation. I slowed down my brain waves and I got into my subconscious and I was feeling super present, super detached from my old thought patterns. At that point, I would start thinking, somebody in this world is on a frequency where money is just running at them. Opportunities are running at them. How would it feel to open my eyes and live a day in their life? And so I visualized it for myself. I said, when I wake up, I get transferred. This, I find this, I get this for free. I get this opportunity, my income, 10x's all of a sudden, why? Because I know I deserve it, right? And there's people out there who are doing less work than you. This is the thing. People out there doing less work than you, giving less than you, who are receiving more than you because they have the identity of someone who deserves that. So why don't you deserve that? Why whatever story you just answered me with is fucking bullshit. It's bullshit. It's a fucking story. Let it go. Let it go. If you know for a fact that there's people out there getting paid for doing nothing, then you deserve to get paid for whatever the fuck you are doing. If you know for a fact that people are getting paid 10 times that you're getting paid just because they had the audacity to go and do something, even though they're. They may not be even very good at it, then why don't you deserve that? Same thing you do. You're just holding yourself back with a stupid story that doesn't need to exist for you anymore. So I challenge you today to embody the version of you that has $100,000 in your bank account or $100 million in the bank account that has every opportunity and every door opened for you, that has life on lucky mode, on easy mode, on abundant mode. Say to yourself, I am so valuable. I'm so wealthy. And when I go outside today, that's going to be reflected back to me. And I don't care if it is or isn't. I'm letting go of whether I even see it because I know it deep in the core of my being. That's the point. You get to. You're no longer looking for the change. You feel it inside. That's when everything changes. So please be present guys in your life. Even if you're forcing and you're hustling and trying to make things change. Take a few hours, take a day to go outside ground. Be in your body. Call your energy and your attention back into your body. That is step one. That is why I always start with that. Always bring your energy and attention back into yourself. Come into the present moment. Feel all the power, all the value, everything you have, all the abundance that's already inside you, in your body, in your subconscious mind. Take time to be with yourself. Sit in silence. You'll realize how much power you have when you call it back from everything that's been draining you. When you call it back from all your shitty thought patterns and your shitty beliefs that you've been firing for too long. Get some space from them. Get present. Get in your body. Find things to love about your life. Find things to love about yourself. See the value in yourself. Shift your identity. Start having audacity and watch how your life will change. I hope this video helped. I love you guys. Please know you have all the power you could ever need to have anything you want in your life. You just have to ask for it. Let it go. Enjoy the moment. Be present. Know your worth. Know how valuable you are. And it will just come come to you like magic.