Elay Amitay HaleviElite Trading Performance Coach

Judge without feeling, and you are telling the universe you will go through the very same thing.

2 Jul 2026 · 0 min

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In this brief monologue, the speaker urges listeners to first genuinely feel what others are experiencing before offering any advice or judgment. They argue that failing to empathize creates self‑judgment, which in turn signals to the universe that the speaker will endure the same negative outcomes. By truly feeling others, one’s words gain power; conversely, preaching without empathy generates personal chaos.

Before you ever say anything to anyone about what they should or shouldn't do, you have to first feel exactly what they're feeling. And if you cannot feel, or at least make the maximum effort to feel that, you're creating judgment on yourself, and then you're basically telling the universe that you're gonna have to go through the same thing. So first feel them, and then your words will have power. But if you're just preaching to them, then you're just causing chaos for yourself.