Elay Amitay HaleviElite Trading Performance Coach

Needing to control is holding you back from getting what you want

7 Aug 2026 · 1 min

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In this brief monologue, the speaker argues that the need to control and the resistance to surrender stem from a lack of trust in the divine, oneself, and the universe, rooted in ego-driven fear of not getting what one wants. This mindset creates a constrictive, self‑protective state that disconnects a person from God or the Divine, preventing the full creative energy of the universe from resonating with and flowing through them into their life. The speaker emphasizes that without energetic resonance with the divine, one cannot receive the universe’s creative flow.

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So needing to control and being in resistance to surrender, it signals a lack of trust in the divine, in yourself, in the universe. And it also signals a fear that you won't get what you want, that things won't go how you want them to go, which is all coming from a place of self-protection, which is coming from the ego. That is a constrictive state to be in. That is a state that disconnects you from God, from the Divine. So the full creative energy of the universe cannot pass to you and through you and into your life while you're in that state because you are not in energetic resonance with it.