No One’s Coming to Approve You. Validate Yourself.

The reason that you're searching for validation in men, in friends, in achievements, in the external world, in likes and in follows, is because you can't perceive and see your own value. We, most of us, have inherited a way of seeing value from our parents, and that is in performance, that is invalidation in being chosen by someone else. You do not want love just to be loved. You want to be chosen. You want it to be confirmed to you that you're valuable because you can't confirm that to yourself, because you never learned how to see your own value. So I'm going to tell you how to see it in this video. Because if you can figure this out, if you can see your own value, your whole life will change. Your identity will change, your motivation to do certain things will change, and you're going to stop wasting your time building a life based on an identity of lies and motivations, motives that really don't mean anything to you, and a life that's void of actual meaning. This is literally the biggest thing that brings people out of alignment because they're chasing all of these things and all of these goals, not knowing why they're even chasing them. Like, why do you do what you do? Why do you want the things that you want? Why do you have a crush on this person? Why are you so desperate for someone to love you for? Why are you so desperate for someone to choose you? Because you're not loving and choosing yourself. You're not validating yourself. The things that you want, who told you that they would be good things to aim for, right? I built a whole life on the back of a law career because my family said that that would be a good thing. And I thought, you know, if I do that, I'm going to be valid, I'm going to be respected, I'm going to be admired. So that's what I'm going to do. But it caused me to come so far out of alignment with myself that I didn't even know who I was and what I wanted. All I knew is I was depressed and nothing I did could bring me that fulfillment. When you're operating from a void of value, of seeing your worth, anything that you do from that void is never going to fulfill you. You can do nothing from the void that's actually going to fulfill you. You have to go to the source. And human beings will, will do everything, anything to get a relief for a second from the pain of being alive and having that feeling of a lack of fulfillment, except for go to the source. So we'll book budget holidays, we'll do tarot readings, we'll take drugs, we'll do all these things. We'll get into a toxic relationship just to scratch that itch, just to take us out of our pains and our suffering, when all you ever had to do was come back home into your energy and realize that you've got it all. You've got it all and it was never outside you. Never, never, never, never. So if you're in a habit of searching for the answers in other people, this is the exact video that is going to cure you. Everyone has learned to place value in everything in the external world, bar a select lucky few. Most of us have inherited paradigms from our parents of the way that you perform dictates how valuable you are, what you do, what status. That's where your value is. Whether people reflect it back to you, that will confirm whether you're valuable. And that is a lie. That's a false premise. To be operating from your value, your actual inherent value is in who you are at your authentic core without you needing to do anything else. Think about your cat for a second. If you don't have a cat, just pretend you have a cat and you like cats. Think about your cat. You don't expect your cat to go and build a social media following, to go and be charismatic, to go in and be funny, to crack a few jokes, to work overtime, to get promoted in order for you to value your cat. Your cat is valuable just because they exist, because your cat has inherent value. So don't you think the same rule applies to you? You have inherent value just for who you are and the light that you bring to the world by being your authentic self. And that is so valuable. It's so valuable to the point that anyone who's actually made something really fulfilling and impressive and lasting and timeless out of their life, they've done it from their authenticity. They haven't done it on the terms of what other people said would be good. They've done it from their soul. And you see people, they go out into the world and they create traditional, on paper success. They make the money, they make the millions. There's a guy on YouTube, he posted a video I saw this week. He made millions. He sold his company, he made millions and he felt depressed because he realized at a certain point, money is not the fulfillment. The status is not the fulfillment. It's the creation, the expression of your soul. That's the fulfillment. That's why you're here. That is God being reflected within you. You Expressing your authenticity, you being creative, following your intuition, and having the impact that you intuitively feel you should have on this world. That's where your fulfillment is. And as a byproduct, that's where you open up God's supply into your life. That's where you open up money that doesn't make sense. Opportunities that don't make sense, they're going to align to you from the divine when you're acting in your divine, authentic nature. But when you've been conditioned to try to look for your value in metrics, in status, in money, in what other people think about you, in promotions, you're going to find out sooner or later. Even in love and in relationships, you're gonna find out sooner or later. Okay, for five minutes when you get that thing, you're gonna be going, yeah, woo. And then it wears off. It's never lasting fulfillment when the thing that you've been chasing is not coming from your truth. It's never, ever, ever going to last. It might last an hour, it might last a day, it might last a week. But after that, you're going to come back to base and you're going to come back to your habit of chasing that feeling of good enough, of chasing that validation or that value reflected in something outside you all over again. And you're gonna spend your whole life setting goals and chasing ghosts, basically chasing something that doesn't exist outside, only to never realize that it was within you the whole time. So your authenticity is your ticket to your fulfilled life, to your like, the most success that you can have, the most alignment that you can have, which will result in the most success that you can have. And it's going to be success on your terms, which is true success. Success from flow, not from forcing success, from channeling, from your divine nature, from being your true self. I don't know why we were fed this lie that we have to pretend in this life. And I lived that lie, you guys, for 26 years. Maybe when I was like one or two, maybe I didn't, so maybe like 24 years, but I really believed in that lie. I said, okay, I have to change. I have to become what the world wants me to in order to be successful and to be valued. And that's what I was taught. I had to. There was no other option. Anything else was stupid and delusional. And so I followed that path. And I'm telling you guys, I literally coach this. I, I have clients who I coach through the process of leaving this old limited paradigm of logic and of trying to do things that make sense. I coach people on how to get out of that and how to come into their true alignment. And the shit that starts aligning for people. I knew it for me. It worked for me. But now I've seen it in clients over and over and over again like clockwork. The more you come back into your body, you start actually listening to your intuition. You start deprogramming and releasing anything that's making you think that you're not valuable enough just as you are, and just for what you want. The more you let go of that stuff, the more you come into alignment with what you want, the more you can believe that it's valuable and it's worth it. And you. You deserve to just do what you want. And you don't have to keep playing pretend. The more miracles just start happening in your life and things just start aligning. I don't know why we were told we had to pretend, but you don't have to keep pretending. Let this be your sign if you've been waiting for one. Stop living in an identity of lies. Stop playing a Persona that you don't resonate with that is taking you further and further away from your actual fulfillment and your actual abundance and your actual alignment in this life. It's not supposed to be like that. You are an expression of God. You are a divine, creative being. You didn't come here to be told a bunch of stuff and to change your being and act like a circus monkey just to get a little bit of validation, just to get a little bit of money. You came here to create. You think all of this stuff is above you. The promotion, the status, the social whatever success, the relationship. Some. Some guy, some girl telling you that you're beautiful or that you're good enough. You're placing all these things on a pedestal above you. And that's why you don't see how valuable you are. And I'm sick of it. I'm sick of it. Because you guys are so full of light. Since I started doing this work, it's been so amazing for me, but it's also been so heartbreaking to experience how many of you have such beautiful souls and so much light to share with the world and so much passion for something. But you've been told such a strong story of lies and you've been given a template that is to pretend and to deny that. And you've been told that that's the only way to be. So you suppress your lie. You can't see your value. Nobody Taught you how to actually see your value. So I'm teaching you how your value is in the fact that you are a human being that came from God and you have God consciousness in your body. If you don't want to think God, think infinite intelligence, think source, think the universe. You've got life force energy pulsing through your body. That's why you're valuable. And your intuition, your desires are trying to show you where you can express that life force energy so you can really tap into your true value. It's in your authenticity. It's in the stuff that sets your soul on fire. That's why you're here and you trying to. Every single time you see something outside you, you see someone achieving something, you see a designer back you looking at those things. Things and negating your value is a backwards way of thinking and it's a lie. All of those things are temporary. Your life force energy is infinite. That is the most valuable thing on the planet. Consciousness is the most valuable resource on the planet. It's more valuable now than land. Social media companies are profiting billions and billions off of our consciousness in the form of our attention. Your consciousness is your value. You don't need to do anything. You don't need to keep performing, you don't need to keep going for things. You don't need to keep pretending, impersonating, trying, searching. You have got the goods. And you need to start perceiving yourself as inherently valuable because that's going to allow you to act from your alignment and your authenticity. And that's going to change your whole life. There's people out there who do not have the same integrity, the same character, the same life force, the same passion as you who are in the field that you dream to be in and are making millions off it. And you're sitting here questioning yourself when you've got a hundred times the integrity and a hundred times the passion that they've got. And the only reason you're doing that is because you've been miscalculating how valuable that integrity and that passion is. You've been instead placing value in everything outside you rather than realizing that the really valuable thing is your own inner light is your own passion and your own integrity. Start standing on that. That's your value, not all this other bullshit. It's your strength, it's your character, it's your integrity, it's the way you make other people feel, it's the impact, it's the light that you're sharing with the world that is valuable. And I'm sorry that you came into a world where you were not told how valuable that was, but I'm telling you now. And when you can get yourself to realize how precious that is and how valuable that alone is, then you can start having some audacity to start asking for more in this life. Not asking, demanding, demanding more. Because if some rat, if some witch weasel with not an ounce of the integrity or the character that you have can exceed in the field that you're dreaming to be in, you need to get some audacity. You need to get clarity on the fact that you are so valuable just as you are. And have some balls. Have some audacity. Stop waiting around playing small as if you don't deserve anything and feeding into this lie that your deservingness is going to come from all this shit outside you. It's not. I'm going to give you an example. You can see someone on social media, they've got millions and millions of followers. You think, oh my God, that person is so much more successful. And you start putting yourself down and putting them on a pedestal. You see them as more valuable than you are. That is just a perceived notion of value through subscribers or through followers. It's not true intrinsic value. It's temporary, it can fluctuate. It is fleeting, it is transient, and it will not actually bring fulfillment. And it's not true value, honestly. It's just perceived. And the perception can change depending on the person perceiving it. So if you were to go and meet someone who's got 5 million followers on Instagram and you meet them and you realize that their character is, like, not aligned, they're very morally skewed, they've got no integrity. And you notice that your perceived value of them is going to change. And the amount of followers that they have on Instagram is not going to change that. So why do you keep putting importance on that shit? It's not real. It's not real. What's real is your intrinsic value. Think of yourself like you're a cat for a second. You don't need to keep performing to feel valuable and to be valued. You just need to exist and realize you're already valuable. That's all you need to do. And then move from that energy. And when I say move from that energy, that's a very, very, very important step. Because how would a person who values themselves act. Every time you go to make a decision, every time you go to let someone in across a boundary, or you set a new standard, or you feed into an old Habit. How would someone who really values themselves act? You've got to start seeing yourself as precious. You are precious cargo. You are like that. Inner light is the seed that you need to protect and nurture with your actions. We're treating ourselves like we, we're not worth. So of course you're not going to feel valuable. You're doing this first of all. The gates to this is in what you spend your attention on. If you're putting your attention constantly on things external to you that don't give you anything back, and you're not putting your attention on yourself, your life, your fulfillment, your creations, nurturing your energy, your home that you're going to live in is your energy field. Then of course you're not going to feel like your energy and your being is valuable. You're signaling to yourself that you're not even worth your own attention. Do you know how damaging that is? If you've spent your whole life placing your attention and importance on everything outside you, you're never, ever, ever gonna feel like you're worthy of anything. So step one is to take your consciousness, your precious life force energy in the form of your attention and start putting that back on yourself. Start watering and nurturing your home. Garden yourself the flowers of your soul by placing your attention back on yourself. And, and that will signal to you, I am important, I am worthy of my own attention. It's not normal for all of us to be suffering. It's not normal. You shouldn't be suffering so much. We shouldn't all be in poverty. We shouldn't all be doing things we hate all day. That is not normal. You do not have to accept that. This is what society has accepted. This is what we've learned for some reason. There was an industrial revolution and there was trauma that keeps being passed down through generations. And we just take that and we think, yeah, it's normal to be struggling financially. It's normal to have relationships where people treat you like. It's normal to feel like you hate everything that you do and you have to force yourself through a 9 to 5 job for your whole life just to get by. It's normal to be acting as a slave to money, doing things that you hate just to get a bit of money. That's not normal. You are a part of God. The universe is going to provide for you. If you express your godlike aligned nature. You're provided for. You're not supposed to come here and struggle that much. What the hell made you think that that was normal? It's not Normal. And the reason people are doing that is because we're not selfish enough. We're not seeing our own value. We're not nurturing our own desires. We're not nurturing that inner love, that inner creativity. And we're not seeing that that is valuable and we're not being selfish with that in trying to protect that. It's normal to be putting your focus and your attention and your value on everything outside you and to feel like about yourself. Well, no thanks. No thanks. I have become selfish and I feel amazing. And I invite you to do the same thing. Because in becoming selfish, what I've done is I've decided I don't give a f about anything outside me that's not going to nurture me or improve my life or the people that I love or look after the people that I love. No drama, no news, no opinions, no nothing. Instead of not caring about anything, which is impossible, you stop caring about the outside sh t by placing that care that you're giving to everything else and putting it on yourself. Because the care you have so much care to give, you have so much love and life force energy to share. So the switch that you need to make is not by just stopping sharing it. It's by stopping sharing it with all this that's giving you nothing back and then putting that energy back into yourself instead. That's how you start to flip this. So be selfish. What are your hobbies? What are your interests? This is your life. It's passing you by. What are you doing on the weekends? Nurture yourself. Nurture your inner child. Nurture that part of you that wants to dream. And you're going to start to realize how valuable you are. When you start to act like that, when you have to make a decision, ask yourself, how would someone who truly values and respects themselves make this decision? So if someone is asking you, oh, will you come to my house and walk my dogs? And then I need you to would you pick up my laundry on the way? And da da da da. But you know, you want to start that project or you're in the middle of a painting or you want to brainstorm your business. Someone who values themselves is going to say, I love you, my friend, but I love what I'm working on here. And I'm so sorry, but I'm not available for that. You need need a wall of boundaries around your inner light in order to protect it so you can feel how valuable it is and so it can start to grow and expand and be birthed and be birthing things into this world, essentially. So you need to start treating yourself as precious. You need to start treating your creativity as precious. Your intuition is precious. You need to start treating your authenticity as precious. So any, any situation that comes up where you feel you have to discard your authentic self, protect yourself from that. Set a boundary with that. Don't allow yourself to be in those situations. Do not keep discarding yourself for things outside of you, because that's how you're going to stop feeling how valuable you are. Every single time you do that, every single time you discard your authentic self, you discard your desires, you're signaling to yourself that you ain't worth shit. And here's the thing, it's going to be uncomfortable to do that in the beginning. Like when I set a new standard. When I realized in coaching, for example, that I had to change my structure and change my pricing and I had to let go of my other business and my other clients. That was so difficult to do. But the more I didn't do that, the more I felt I was devaluing my authenticity and my true expression in this world, and the worse and worse I felt, felt about myself. So I had to have those difficult conversations. I had to let go of clients in my old business. I had to change how I was working because it was not worth, like, avoiding that uncomfortable conversation, avoiding making those uncomfortable decisions and setting those standards and boundaries was not worth me sacrificing, feeling my value and feeling like my value was not being reflected back to me. The cost of that is too high. It is worth the uncomfortable conversations. It is worth setting the boundaries and the standards because you will always get rewarded for that. Always, Always, always. Your confidence is going to skyrocket. And what you attract in off the back of that is going to be so much better and so much more aligned, and it's going to confirm the value that you now feel about yourself. This is another element of this. It's expected for you to be a doormat. It's expected for you to not have boundaries. You know, when you set these boundaries, you're going to have a voice in your head that says, well, who do you think you are? Well, nobody's going to adhere to this, but people are going to judge you. And yeah, people probably will judge you. But guess what? You're going to love yourself. And when you love yourself, you don't care about people judging you. So it's like the chicken and the egg. Well, this comes first, right? When this, when you do this, you literally don't give a f CK what anyone thinks about you anyway. And sacrificing yourself to please other people robs you of your creative impact in this world. No one's going to give you permission to set these boundaries. No one is going to tell you that you can value yourself just for your authenticity. No one is going to tell you that you're valuable just for existing. No one is going to tell you that it's expected and it's okay for you to set a new standard. No one is going to tell you that it's okay for you to have more audacity and to demand more in this life reflective of the value that you now see in yourself. Nobody's going to give you permission to do that. Nobody's going to tell you that it's okay to do that. So I'm going to tell you right now, stop waiting for permission. People who do this, they never got permission. They just did it and their whole life changed. You don't need permission from anyone else. I'm giving it to you right now. You are permitted. But you don't need a qualification. You don't need to take another lesson. You don't need to read another book. You don't need another opinion. You do not need permission in any form to do this. It is your birthright to take up space, to be authentic, and to live in alignment. That is your birthright. And everything else that you've learned is a lie. You don't need to keep sacrificing yourself. You need to have some audacity and set some boundaries and stick to them even though it's uncomfortable, even though people might think, oh, who does she think she is? Doesn't matter. The last thing you can do to start realizing your inherent value is to notice the characters or the. What's the word I'm looking for? The culprits in your life, the situations, the events, or the people in your life that trained you and taught you to believe that your value is something that you have to perform for. Take a pen and a piece of paper right now and write down where you learned that you weren't valuable unless you were achieving something. Where you learned that you weren't valuable unless you looked a certain way, unless you had certain approval. Write them down right now. Write down, who told you that? Write down. Do you even want to be like that person? No. Then why are you living and why are you taking their advice? Why are you living by their words? It's a lie. It's a program that they inherited and the person before them inherited. But guess what? It's not the true essence. It's not how you're supposed to be. Your essence is divine. Your power is in your authenticity. Your dream life is in you being your authentic self. So get into the root of why you think that's wrong. Get into the root of why you're ashamed to even go there, of why you cannot see how valuable that is. What idea, what belief is, is making you think that feeling good enough is something that you're going to have to chase for your whole life and perform for something that you're going to get outside you, because it's not. So you need to figure out where that came from. And you need to realize that that is false. And you're no longer going to carry that. And your whole life is going to shift when you do that because you're going to drop into your body, you're going to feel your worth, you're going to. You're going to come back home into your energy and you're going to realize that this is where it was at all the time. And you know how magnetic that is. That is so magnetic you don't need to look outside you anymore for a relationship, for a man, for validation, for approval, for anything to give you that feeling. And that is when anything you could have ever dreamed of will come rushing at you. Guys, when I tell you the stuff that I used to care about, I do not give a shit about. Like, the stuff. Even if I think back on past relationships, like the people that I used to put on pedestals and the, the milestones and the goals and the things that I used to think were such a big deal and were going to bring me so much, like, validation and finally I'd feel good enough. They, when I got them, didn't ever mean actually anything they didn't mean. And now that I see my inherent value, value and I'm acting out of that, none of that external matters to me, none of it. Like I can get criticized, doesn't matter. I can make a mistake, doesn't matter, because I know that doesn't affect my character and my integrity. And now I know how valuable that that stuff is, that the, the other stuff just doesn't phase me now. And every single person can feel like this. But you have to, to teach yourself to see yourself that way. You have to teach yourself to measure value like that rather than measuring it how society has taught you to measure it. Don't you see that, like, the capitalist societal system profits off you measuring your Value on external gain. Like the, the, the world at large and businesses, they don't profit off you seeing how valuable your character and your integrity is. Because when you do that, you stop needing that stuff outside you. Even if we look at money, okay, so I had a big breakthrough recently in my money mindset, which is probably like my last frontier. So the first thing was my relationships, then it was my career, and then it was like my money. So they've all kind of come crashing down recently, but the last one to go was money. And I had this habit of. A lot of people I know are going to resonate with this because it ties directly back into feeling good enough. No matter how much money I made, I would spend that. Like, no matter how good of a month I had or how bad of a month I had that money, I would find a way to freaking spend it. You better believe. And like, I wouldn't even know how. Like, if you know this pattern, you know that it's not like a conscious thing, it's just like, I don't know where it's gone, I don't know how it happened, but it's gone. And then I look back on the month and I might see, especially since I started my business because the month wasn't like set every month. I started to see, like some months I would make like a good bit more than other months. And yet I still would end up in the same situation at the end of the month. And I looked at why I was spending the way that I was spending and I realized I was spending from a state of feeling like I wasn't enough and feeling like I would never have enough. Like I just would never ever have enough. So I would spend in order to give myself a short term feeling of abundance, of having something, of having enough. And I realized I got this from a parent, but I realized that the truly abundant version of me wouldn't buy half the that I buy, wouldn't spend on half the stuff that I was spending on. Because that version of me felt like they had enough, they were enough and they were always going to have enough. And the thing is enough. It's just a made up thing. Like you might be thinking, oh, yeah, but you know, when I get what? 1, 1 designer handbag, 2 designer handbags, 3 designer handbags, a few. Okay, an apartment, a nicer apartment, an even nicer apartment than that. Like, once your needs are met, that's enough. That is enough. Okay. And when you spend from the energy of I already have enough, my cup is overflowing. And I'm excited to invest in this thing because it's going to add to the overflow of my cup. That's how you spend from a place of abundance. But again, it comes back to feeling like you are enough, feeling like you don't need all this stuff outside you. So if we've inherited a program from society that tells us that just us and our inherent value is not enough, we're going to be looking outside us to fill that void all the time. And people are going to profit off that. Do not fill their pockets, babe. Fill your pockets. You are not a circus monkey. You do not need to keep busting your ass, bending over backwards, impersonating, pretending, playing this lie, this game. And the value that you think is in all the money and all the cars and all the. And all the success, it is transitory, it is elusive, and it's not real. The most valuable thing in the world is that inner light within you. And you can see this. Literally, that video that I watched of that guy, he was saying, like, after he sold his company, he made millions and he was flying all around. He was trying to find meaning and all these other things. And he was like, I actually wish I could go back to the early days of the company and tell that version of me that they were in the good days, that all this chasing and this money, it's not going to bring them the same feeling that this building and this creation is bringing. Like, if you can be present in embodying your desires and expressing your authenticity, that's where your fulfillment is, not in the outcome that you think you're gonna get. And there's another creator who I watched recently. He got a lot of backlash online for being controversial, and he said he was changing himself to try and be less controversial. And it literally, like, his whole life just went sideways when he did that. Like, he couldn't keep doing that. His money suffered, his everything suffered. His opportunity opportunities suffered, his health suffered, his mindset suffered, everything suffered when he stopped being authentic and started trying to fit and shape what people wanted him to be and started listening to criticisms and trying to get validation outside him. And he said the minute that he stopped giving a. And he realized how valuable he is, and he just said, I'm going to be myself because I know I'm valuable. And just literally let go of everything else. Everything started working out for him again. He's more more successful than he's ever been. He's got more, like, opportunities, more everything than he's ever had before because he's back in his authenticity. And authenticity is your power. Have some audacity to follow your authenticity and to demand that the value of that be reflected back to you in society. And watch how your life will transform. So the examples are endless. Like all of these things you're chasing, watch the people who've gotten them, they were, they will tell you you're chasing a ghost. You're chasing something. And that's not where the fulfillment is. The fulfillment is you following your desires, you expressing your authenticity, you valuing that part of yourself and not putting it down in comparison to the outcome. You putting that on a pedestal. Your creation, your expression, your authenticity, putting that, that on the pedestal and everything else. You just allow it to be a byproduct. Because that's really what's going to unleash the most abundance and success into your life in a way that's going to feel so aligned. What happens is we go throughout our lives and we're instilled with these traumas and we have these fear based beliefs put into us. And they're basically like goblins in the basement of our house, which is our energy. And instead of us going and like seeing if the goblin is okay and maybe breaking down, is it even really a goblin? Like, how can I maybe befriend the goblin or like welcome them in? Instead of doing that, we lock the goblin in the basement and we run out of the house because we're scared of the goblin. So we're spending our whole lives running from ourselves, out of our energy into other people's houses or into the casino or into the club at the pool party. We're trying to run all the time to find the answers outside here as to how we can feel better at home. When the answer is obviously go home and clean up your house and go talk to the goblin in the basement and give it, I don't know, some soup or something, I don't know, but you know what I mean. It's a weird analogy, but I'm hoping you're getting my point here. Your home, your energy is the only place you are absolutely, definitely going to live for your whole life. So you better come back, get out of all these other people's houses, get out of trying to make Paul down the road in his house love you and make the guy at the club love you. Get out of that, come home and figure out how you can create that energy of safety and love in your home. And then everyone is going to want to come to your house, babe. The party is going to be at your house. You have the power to do that. But it starts with you bringing your attention back into yourself, into your life, into your passions and your dreams, Seeing how valuable you are, how valuable that inner light is. And then going to the goblins in your basement, in your house, and giving them love. And then you realize they weren't really goblins all along. They were just scared little parts of you. And when you give them love, they come out of the dark and into the light. And you realize there was never anything to fear in the first place. You only thought that because you kept putting it in the dark and you kept running from it. And I've seen this firsthand in my life. If I had stayed attached to people that I had wanted a reply from years ago, I would not be in my dream relationship. If I had stayed attached to the job that I had a few years ago, to the what people thought of me in that job, to the business even that I set up when I left that job, if I stayed attached to all the things that were associated with them, I would not be in my dream business right now. I would not be making the income that I'm making right now. You've got to let go. Because when you let go, you let greater, more aligned things come in for you. What is actually meant for you is never going to pass you. It's only going to pass you if you're so preoccupied with something that's not meant for you. So let it go. Anytime that I get into a bit of a mode where I start to cling on, because honestly, guys, this, like, program of kind of forcing and hustling and pretending and being a slave to try and get an outcome, it's so embedded and it's so automatic that even, like, I've been working on it for years and I fall back into it all the time. Like, I have to be so aware that I don't do it. But when I find myself falling back into it, the. The flow of opportunities, the flow of abundance, the flow of ideas, the flow of everything to me becomes stagnant, becomes difficult, becomes stuck. And every time that I let go of caring too much about all this other stuff, every time I let go of all of that, the flow just comes back again. It just lights up all over again. Things just start aligning. It's like I get out of the the way. And that is actually what it is. So when you're constantly forcing and hustling and chasing things, you're blocking the divine from unfolding in your life. You're saying, I don't trust myself, I don't trust my authenticity, I don't trust my alignment, so I need to go and be all these things that I'm not in order to make something happen. So you're not trusting yourself and your authenticity and your own value, but you're also not trusting, trusting the Divine to reflect that back to you. Because you're saying, okay, I have to go and do it. It's not your job. You need to get out of the way. You need to see your value, see your worth, and then sit down and relax. And I'm laughing because this is a conversation I had with myself a week ago. And for the last four days I've made a conscious effort to be in my life, to be cherishing everything thing that I love about my life because I was getting really miserable and like I'm still everything in my life was fine, but I got into that energy of chasing and placing importance on things outside me and it was getting so, so heavy. And I realized what I was doing and I said, enough, enough. It's never going to get me what I really want and what's actually going to fulfill me. And now I'm standing in the way of God's supply by doing this. So you need to know that that's what you're blocking. When you're forcing so much, when you're resisting so much, that is what you're blocking. You're blocking the Divine from working in your life to make paths unfold for you that you cannot see in your, in your logical lower dimensional perspective. You can't see all the moving pieces. So get the hell out of the way. Get out of the way, girl. Get out of the way.