The 3 Step Secret That Unlocks Miracles

Foreign. Welcome everyone, to episode 78 of the David Gam Podcast, where I talk about the energy of the week and how we can create miracles in our lives. The first thing I want to ask you is how are you feeling right now? What is the. What is the pain that might be either consciously or unconsciously on your mind? Oftentimes so many of us are thinking about what was said, what was done, what happened in the past, or we're quietly anxious about the future. Many of us, as we're hearing this right now, are starting our day or in the middle of our day, and we're working towards something. You're trying to build something. You're trying to acquire something. You're trying to get someone to notice you, to approve of you. You're trying to receive some kind of abundance, maybe close a deal or climb your way up in your company. Maybe you're thinking about your children and you're worried about them. You're preoccupied with your to do list of things that need to get done for your family, for yourself. Maybe you feel behind on your health and some of the commitments that you had once made, but you don't seem to be following through on Think about all these worries that we all have. Where do they come from and what is the spiritual significance of them and what can we do with them in in order to create miracles? First off, I want to just say that any place that we are in our lives, it is exactly where the Creator wants us to be. It sounds like a slogan that might be typical and we've heard before, but in reality it is the truth. I'm always reminding myself of that, and I want you to know that right now, exactly where you are is perfect for everywhere you will be and the person that you will become. The sages say that we're always in one of three states. In a state of prayer, in a state of certainty or doubt, and in a state of praise. Think about it. To be with the light of the Creator, you have to be in one of these three states at any given moment. Prayer, certainty, or praise. When does a person pray? When they feel that they don't have something, yet they desire it greatly? Having a desire in this world is a prerequisite to experiencing miracles in our lives. Do you have a desire, a true desire deep within you to receive something? Often one of the reasons why we do not receive is because the desire isn't a true craving. It isn't what the sages call the fourth phase of the desire or the pina daled, the malchut These are all different words in Aramaic that we're given for the understanding of the greatest desire a person can have. If a person would just like to have something in their life, it would be nice if I had it. This isn't a true vessel. When a person feels like they are drowning and they crave oxygen, if they feel that same way about the oxygen as they do in anything else in their life, now this is the beginning of a vessel. So starting there. First of three. Do you have a true craving and desire for that which you are working towards? Do you have a true craving and desire for the relationship becoming a higher level of what you want or finding that person? When you think of abundance and prosperity, do you have a certain number in your mind? And if you do, do you have a true craving? Like you cannot exist another day without it? Type craving for that prayer is what helps us actually build the craving. One of the ways that we can pray is to take time out of your day. Either go for a walk or be somewhere by yourself where you are not distracted and ask the Creator for that thing. Ask over and over again, and you can also ask for the craving for that thing. The people who manifest the fastest and easiest are the ones who know what they want. I remember seeing this interview that Oprah had about how she built her success and her company. And it was really just one line. She said, everyone can get there, but you must know what you want. Is it clear to you? And are you taking all your other desires, smaller desires, and putting them to the side and focusing on what it is that you want? In business, I have learned that if I am trying to grow my company, if I have a desire to get my company to a certain place, the negative side will throw other types of desires in my way to confuse me, to segregate my time, to cause me not to be efficient in life, to manifest anything, you must be focused. You must do what you say you're going to do. The universe must trust your word. If you say that you have a routine that you are going to stick to, to manifest something, and then other things come up that you can say no to? Do you have the power and the ability to say no and stick to pushing this desire to its manifestation? Someone once asked me, how do you know that the path of Kabbalah and teaching this, this was 20 plus years ago, is the right path for you? How do you know you're not making the biggest mistake of your life and have people ask you that, whether it's relationships, career, paths, Maybe you're moving to someplace and they tell you, how do you know you're making the right decision? We never know if we are making the right decision. And it is not for any one of us to try to decide that. What we know is the truth is, you invest 100% of your time, your love, your energy into something, and this 100% is what reveals the light. Because the light of the creator is 100%. The light of the creator is not 90%. The light of the creator is NOT 50%. Someone once asked me, how do I know I'm in the right relationship? You will only know when you give it 100%. And he said, I want to give it 100% once I know it's the right one. And that's not how it works. There is no right one. There is only you doing the right thing, which is acting like the light of the Creator. And that is to be 100%, to be whole and complete. And that's why often we give the mantra, I am whole and I am complete. Because something that is whole and complete is 100%. See, the light of the Creator only shines on a person who embodies the energy of 100%. Whether that's 100% wholeness, 100% effort, or 100% desire. Are you 100%? Where are you just in the middle? Where are you fickle with your desires? Is it easy for people to sway your opinion? Do you love yourself just as long as everyone compliments you and then you hate yourself when someone says something negative about you? Are you only happy when good things happen and sad when they don't work out in the way you want? This is not 100%. You must be like a rock. You must be so sturdy in your resolve to accomplish something. Now, what if it's the wrong thing? There is no such thing as the wrong thing. When I answered that person, I said, if I'm making a mistake on choosing to bring this wisdom to the world, then I'll come back next life and fix it. But in this life, I want to do things 100%. And in life, one of the reasons why people do not have fulfillment and they're constantly seeking something new is because they are not 100% about anything in their lives. Everything is just a little bit like going to a restaurant and just ordering a lot of appetizers. Never committing to something. Commitment isn't about you need to be in something for the rest of your life. Commitment is you put 100% of your power and Energy in the moment, and then the next moment, you can decide to do the same thing or not. You see, giving 100% is actually true freedom. Instead of giving 1% for 100 days, give 100% for one day, and the light of the Creator will shine upon you and reveal to you what you need to do next. You will never make a mistake when you go all in on something. You will never make a mistake when you let go 100%. Sometimes we think when we let go, we're going to lose it. Every time you have let go, every time you have surrendered, every time you finally let go of that, of trying to make that relationship work so badly, you tried everything to make it work. You gave it 100%. Now you need to let go 100%. And what I'm talking about is an internal let go. I'm not saying go file for divorce the next day. Talking about internally, your energy. Are you complete inside of yourself? Everybody externally can pretend to be 100%. You go on social media, everybody looks 100% great, 100% happy, 100% in love. But internally, there's a fire that rages inside of them, and they are fragmented. They're operating at 10% or 50%, and that's not bad. But the question is, are they focused more on making it look like they're 100%, or are they focused more on the internal becoming 100%? If you are in a crossroads in something in your life and you need clarity, the clarity will come when you look inside yourself and see where you are not complete and whole. That is why when you work on your fears, when you work on your soul, correction, when you work on your tikkun, you elevate wholeness inside of yourself. You elevate closer to 100%. And that's why externally, the miracles appear. And this is why you get clarity at that moment. Every time you want clarity on something in your life, transform something inside yourself and the light will be revealed. Because the transformation inside yourself is bringing you closer to your wholeness, to your completion. As long as you have fears, as long as you have doubts, as long as you're judging other people and you're in this race and competition and looking for validation, nothing inside you is whole and complete. So you can't be with the light. And clarity only exists in the light. Miracles only exist in the light of the Creator. And if you want the light, you have to heal these fears, these insecurities, these doubts inside of you. So that is the first level prayer. Pray in your Own language, in your own words, quietly or out loud. Talk out loud to the creator like you would a therapist or a friend. Just ask for what you want and ask for it over and over and over and over and over and over again and it will solidify your desire. You see, many times as you pray for asking for something, a lot of doubts and fears come because these are the forces that have always traditionally worn down your desire and fragmented it. And now they're coming all at once. That's a good sign when you're getting outside intrusive thoughts while you pray. That's a good sign because you are magnetizing negative forces that have been plaguing you this whole time. It's like when you go on some kind of a cleanse or a diet diet and imagine all you did is for seven days, just drink, do a water fast or do a green juice fast. What are you going to see? Oh, your skin's going to break out. You're going to get a migraine. You're not going to be able to sleep well. You're going to be irritable. Why? Because all those parasites that have been dormant inside your body are coming out full force. So is it a bad thing? No. That's why when you pray, all the negative thoughts come. All the thoughts of you should be doing something else and this is not working. Or I feel weird. Is there really a creator? This is silly. All of them come because you're awakening the parasites. Finally, when you put something good in, something bad comes out. And that's why so many people don't pray, because they don't break through those first seven minutes. Now all those intrusive thoughts come and those negative forces come to stop you from doing it. That's why so many people don't become successful to the highest potential, because so many negative thoughts come and they stop you, they stop you from getting there. Or I know people who have had companies and these companies could have been big companies, multi, multibillion dollar companies, but after they hit 10, $20 million of revenue, somebody comes dangling a check, saying, let me buy you out. Here's $20 million. It's more money than you ever thought you would have. And it's so hard to say no to it. And you take the check. This was supposed to be a multi billion dollar company. But one of the ways that the negative side gets us to compromise, it gives us a reward that is tantalizing, so tempting. And then we settle for less. But it feels good at the moment. The second concept that we want to talk about is certainty. Once you have the desire for something, once you have the vessel for something, and anytime a lack comes up, that's what a vessel is. A vessel is actually a lack. What is one of the reasons spiritually that a woman or a man, because it exists in both, goes through postpartum depression? Why is it often when a person sells a company or makes a lot of money and gets a big windfall, there's depression right afterwards. You would think after having a child should be great joy, not depression. You would think that after making a lot of money, there should be joy, not depression. You would think after achieving something, winning an award, reaching the top of the mountain, there should be joy, but there's a depression. Why is that? You see, when a child is born, the family's vessel has now expanded. It's gone from two souls to three souls. Or if that is your first child, that means that you've gone from an 8 ounce glass to a 12 ounce glass. When you expand the vessel, you naturally feel the empty space that exists. Because now, as an additional soul has been created, additional desire has been created, an additional vessel has been created. There's a lack. Everything that you once did in order to draw light into your family, you must do more of now because the vessel is greater. So the depression that you feel after achieving a new level is not a bad thing. It's now the empty space you feel because your vessel has been expanded. And this is why when you reach the top of the mountain, there is a sadness. And it's not because now I don't know what to do. It's because you've achieved a new level. You are now at the bottom of the next level. Your vessel is greater, there's more empty space, so more work needs to be done to fill it. And this is all part of the plan. And it is a good thing anywhere in your life. If you are sad, if you feel empty, if you feel lost, this is a good sign. It means that you have reached the top of the next level. And even if you think you have fallen because of mistakes you have made, the Creator never sees backwards. There is no backwards. Everything is always more elevated than it was before. The negative side wants you to think that you have fallen. My friends, we fall up, not down. We do not fall down. There is no down. Nobody falls backwards. They fall forwards. And in fact, the sages said higher is the soul who has fallen and now has happiness and wisdom than the soul who never fell at all. That means if you've made A mistake. And you have learned from that mistake. And now you have happiness and wisdom as a result. You are on a higher spiritual level than the person who always played by the rules and never made a mistake. And this is also why we must have mercy with the people around us who have hurt us or who have made mistakes. We need to show people a path to win. One of the best tidbits of relationship advice I ever got, especially about men, is every man who makes a mistake needs to see a path to win. If you do not show him a path of how he can be a great man again, if you do not show him a path of how he can feel whole again, of how he can honor you and cherish you again, if you do not show him a path, he will be destroyed. Everyone needs a path to win. And this is why compassion for those who have fallen, who have made mistakes, and you may be thinking of someone right now, comes to your mind as I'm saying this. Someone who has fallen, they did make a mistake, and maybe they should be punished. You feel maybe you should be the one to punish them. Maybe you're calling this punishment the setting of a boundary. I always tell people, here's your litmus test. Say somebody hurt you. Let's say a man hurt you did something, and now you feel he should suffer for his actions, or at the very least, he should have some pain to learn. This very well may be true. However, you need to make sure you're not the one that is the judge. Make sure it's the creator truly choosing what the person's going through. We should not be the arbiters of other people's tikkun processes. Now, maybe you need to set a boundary for yourself, for your own growth. Be very careful that you are a channel to help them and not the one that is trying to inflict pain upon them. The litmus test is, if it was your son who made the mistake, would you want their girlfriend, their wife, their friend, their boss, whoever is the hurt party here, to treat them in the exact same way as you are treating the person who you are trying to teach? I had a woman who said that her husband betrayed her, was unfaithful, and now she wanted him to suffer, but she was trying to twist it into a he'll never learn if I don't punish him. I say, I understand you want your husband to learn, and so you're going through these lengths to teach him a lesson so that he never does it again because you care about him. She said, yes. I said, you have a son? She said, yes, I do. How old is your son? She said, 21 years old. I said, is your son in a relationship? She said, yes, he is. For how many years? A few years now. Has your son made any mistakes in this relationship? She's like, as a matter of fact, he has admitted that he has been unfaithful as well, and it was a mistake that he made. I said, should his girlfriend make him suffer in the same way that you desire your husband to suffer? And she said, of course not. I said, what do you mean? Isn't this the way to teach a man? Isn't this the way to set a boundary? Isn't this all the things you said to help his soul? She's like, yeah, but I think with my son, he's such a gentle soul. He said. And then she goes rationalizing why her son should not have to go through this. And there's probably a better way. Way. You see, even the process of truly, when it came to her son, she wanted to exhaust every compassionate resource truly understanding what's right for him. With her husband, it was more about her hurt, about her vengeance, about her feeling that only way she could heal is by hurting someone else. But she disguised it as an altruistic spiritual endeavor to help his soul from not burning in hell. Let's be honest, guys. The way we treat other people is how the Creator will treat us. If you are being strict with people's mistakes, that is fine. But the Creator will be strict with you. Just make sure you are willing to handle that level of cause and effect in your own life. We want the Creator to be strict with everyone else and merciful with us. That's our issue. It should be the other way around. Pray for the Creator to be merciful with everyone else and strict with you. Because if the Creator is strict with you, you'll grow faster. And this is part of the evolution to become miraculous. Becoming more compassionate in the way we want our own children to be treated if they made a mistake is what elevates your vibration. True certainty is knowing that I am okay no matter what anyone has done to me. No one is taking away from you and no one is adding to you. You are already whole. This is that second bucket of miracles. Certainty is where compassion comes from. How can a person have mercy and compassion? When does a person give charity? When they feel they have. When they feel they have excess, that's when they give. When we barely making ends, nobody wants to give. No, you don't want to give your time. You don't want to give your money. You barely have enough for yourself. But when you know you are complete inside and you are whole, then you have certainty. It's all good. And that's where compassion comes from. The second bucket of miracles is certainty and certainty that leads to compassion you want. You're going through a tough time in your life. It's because your soul is facing a judgment. There is judgment in the upper world, there's judgment upon you. Okay, like when you're in a court, you're getting sued, or you're in front of a jury, you're being judged. You're being judged by the jury. And what do you want in that moment? You want mercy. You want the jury to see how good you are? Focus on the good things you've done. You don't want the jury to focus on all the negative things you've done. So if you want mercy upon you, and we all need mercy, we must have mercy upon other people. And that mercy always comes from certainty that the situation is good. What happened to me is good. Everything I'm experiencing is good. And hold back to the very first thing we said. This life you have right now is perfect. Because if you do not believe it's perfect, you will try to hurt other people. You will try to take from other people. You will take from other people. But call it helping them and setting a boundary. And whatever we want to say, every time you are coming from lack, you will always end up hurting, not helping. And what is the third bucket? Praise. See, prayer builds the vessel builds. The desire to receive certainty is what then magnetizes the light. Because to attract something, you must become like it. A desire is a lack. It is necessary to start with it. And then your certainty is, I have everything. You fill your vessel with your own certainty, with your own light. Now you magnetize the light and can come to you because you're whole. It's a paradox. Light does not come to a vessel. That's a short circuit. It's like a minus pole and a plus pole coming together. It's a short circuit. Light comes to where there's light. So when you have a desire and then you fill that desire with your own certainty that you have everything, then the miracle comes to you. Now, how do you keep the light? This is praise. You go from prayer to certainty to praise. When a person is appreciative, when a person says thank you, when a person is thinking about the blessings in their life, what are they doing? They are protecting what they have. Appreciation isn't what is attracting your next level. Appreciation is what is protecting the blessings and the love you have. And this is why every day we must praise as well. If you look at the actual prayers of King David, it always vacillates between prayer and praise. That's what psalms mean. It's praising the famous word hallelujah. What is this? What does this word even mean? It actually is an ancient word that means to praise to what's called yudkey, which is the two dimensions in the upper world that are called chochmah and Bina, father and mother, which represents the light of the Creator. You praise the light of the Creator and even as Jesus said that the only way to reach the Father is through the Son, what he was talking about is the Father represents Chochmah, which is Yahoo. What I just said the last two letters of Hallelujah. And the Son is the person who is the channel, who praises, who does all the things we just said. Prayer, certainty and praise. That's how you become the Son. It's all a code of spirituality. The only way you can reach the Creator is by becoming like the Son, like the Creator. This is the only way. Religion sometimes has caused us to believe. It's a person we need to believe in. It's people we need to worship. A rabbi, a priest, whatever it is outside figures, those people in our lives are there to help us understand how to have a relationship with the Creator, not a relationship with them. And subconsciously, there are people who want you to have a relationship just with them more than the relationship with the Creator. Your job is to learn from the rabbi, the priest, the teachers in the world how to have your own relationship with the light of the Creator. When we praise, and you can do it anytime throughout the day, it is to protect our blessings and all day long, these are the three forces we should be using. Prayer, certainty, praise. Prayer, certainty, praise at any time. These are the tools of your spiritual tool belt to create miracles everywhere you go. Let's do a meditation now to ground this into our soul. I want you to sit comfortably now. Let's take a deep breath in through our nose and hold it for a moment. Let the air expand inside of you like the light of the Creator and then exhale. I want you to know that all of the noise in this world is just noise. All that matters is you. Your consciousness, your certainty. The power that is in you is what creates the miracles all around this world. Did you know that all the kingdoms are waiting for you? The mineral kingdom, the vegetables and plants and trees of this world, the animal kingdom, and the human kingdom. You are the most important soul in this world. And everything that you see around, all of the forces around us wait to hear from you, wait to take orders from you. And these orders, what are they? They are your thoughts, they are your words, and they are your actions, all of which are emitting an energy intelligence at every moment. When your thoughts are thoughts of certainty and wholeness and appreciation, then all the forces in this world receive that order. And they bring to you wholeness. They bring to you miracles. And it's that simple. When you have fear, when you have doubts, when you are putting your power in the hands of other people, the universe also listens. And now these people have power over you. It is your choice at any moment. And it does not matter what has happened to you in your past. All that matters is the decision that you make right now. Do you know how powerful you are? Do you know how much happiness, joy and love and bliss the Creator wants to bring into your life and has already given. He's already given you everything. Just wants you to let it in. You believe that you deserve it. You do deserve it. You don't have to do anything for it. Just receive the gift. So many blessings in our life. We think that we haven't earned them. We think they are far away. We think there's so much that has to be done. Or maybe we've carried so much negativity from our past that we fully deserve it. Telling you, you receiving the gift is how you earn it. Sometimes it's so hard for us just to receive. Allow the host to give to you the joy that it brings. The Creator to see you receive is the greatest giving that you can do. So, no, you don't need to suffer. You don't need to wait. You don't need to cleanse your sins or your past. Perhaps the greatest spiritual work you can do is just receive. I want you to feel what that feels like. To let the greatest amount of love pour into every part of you. To allow someone to love you. Are you afraid to allow someone to love you? Do a lot of thoughts come up? What happens after somebody loves me or I let them in? Has somebody hurt you in the past? Don't worry about that. You'll always be protected. And there's no pain that you cannot manage. In fact, you should get excited about pain. Pain is how you elevate and you grow. And when you know that there's no more pain, let in the love. Let in the abundance. So much wealth and power. Wants to come in. Are you afraid of what you'll do when you have that wealth? Are you afraid of who you will become when you have so much power? Are you afraid that you won't be able to handle it or hold it? It's not true. The Creator will guide you. Creator will guide you every step of the way. Don't read too much into the future. Every day you will receive new gifts, new powers, new abilities, new wisdom and new maturity to handle all that you have received. So make this the time. Now. The greatest spiritual work any one of us can do is to receive. That's what the word Kabbalah means, to receive.