Elay Amitay HaleviElite Trading Performance Coach

The greatest gift you can give your children is to face your own healing now❤️

28 Apr 2026 · 1 min

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In this short spiritual self‑help talk, the speaker explains that unhealed parental trauma manifests as challenges for children up to around age 12‑13, a concept described as a "generational curse" or "soul correction" where the souls of parent and child are intertwined. After that age, each soul follows its own free‑will path. The speaker argues that the greatest gift a parent can give their children is to confront and heal their own darkness—particularly by repairing relationships with their own parents and addressing past pain. A simple mantra is offered: “I choose to face my darkness now. I don’t escape it…”, intended to help listeners break the cycle and leave a legacy of miracles for their children.

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It is true that the darkness, the fears that you experience in this lifetime will eventually be something that your children will have to face in their lifetime. The sages teach us that all trauma and pain that a child goes through before the age of 12 for a girl or 13 for a boy is directly connected to the soul correction of the parents. This is what a generational curse actually is. Your unhealed pain does not stay with you. It transfers and shows up in your children's life as the very challenges that they have to overcome. After 12 or 13, each soul takes on its own journey with its own free will. But before that, your souls are completely intertwined. This is why the greatest gift that you can give your children is to face your own healing. When you heal the relationship with your parents, when you heal the relationship with yourself and the challenges and trauma you went through in the past, you break the generational curse and stop passing that unresolved energy down to the next generation. Here's a mantra for you: I choose to face my darkness now. I don't escape it. I don't run away from what my soul is asking me to do now. And in doing so, I leave a legacy of miracles for for my children.