The person you’re looking for is a mirror of who you are, not who you think you deserve. #soulmate

If you want a woman that is X, Y and Z, where do you fall in X, Y and Z? Do you want a woman who takes care of herself? Where do you take care of yourself and to what extent? Because one of the challenges becomes if I ask you to make your ideal list of what you want this person to be and it's everyone should ask for everything they want. By the way, you have to then score yourself where you are on that list and then you see where the numbers are off and that is actually one of the ways to find where you want something and you keep looking for it and you turn everything else away but you yourself haven't reached that vibration on every level and the pickier you are, the harder it will be to find someone because you'll be like ah, she doesn't have this one thing or he doesn't have that one thing but you also don't have it. So the creator is only sending you your match.