A speaker uses the 'queen' metaphor to argue that toxic people don't merely 'attract' someone but are 'given access' when a person lacks strong self-worth or spiritual boundaries. The talk frames self-love, identity, and spiritual guardianship as mechanisms that can prevent narcissistic or problematic individuals from entering intimate relationships.
There's billions of men. How did this man get through the gates? Because you think about a queen, a queen has many guards around her and many layers of security. Can't just walk up to the queen, date the queen, talk to the queen. Only very special people with a very special vibration and access can come to the queen's chamber and get intimate with the queen. So the question is this woman of allowed this man, who seems to have a lot of issues into her chamber from the get go, meaning what is it about her that allowed this man to get through all the guards? If she was the queen, Meaning she loved herself like the queen. She knew she was royalty, she knew she was powerful, she knew what she wanted, she knew what her life was about. Then if she is the queen, there would be spiritual forces around her who would never even allow a narcissistic man to come through the gates. Oh, I love this. So because there are spiritual forces in this world that either allow these people to come or they don't.
