You Need Feminine Energy to Attract Your Dream Life

Hi, everyone. Welcome back to the channel. Today we're going to be talking about something that has seriously changed my energy and as a result has changed my life. And that is tapping into my feminine energy being, my intuition, my creativity and my imagination. I was so. I've been meaning to make this video for weeks and weeks and weeks, but I was just waiting for the whole thing to piece together because there's so many parts to this and there's so many ways of looking at this. And I'm not traditionally someone who talks about feminine energy, but it is such a vital component, especially if you're a woman watching this video, it's something that you need in order to bring about your dream life. You probably don't realize how much you're blocking your desires by standing so rooted in your logic, which is a very masculine energy. By controlling, by predicting, and by not allowing yourself essentially to just play in your desires and, and play in that creative feminine flow. That's what's going to bring about real miracles into your life. Things that could not be explained with logic. As always, I'm going to zoom it all the way out and then we're going to zoom it in and I'm going to give you loads of examples so you can really get your head around this because it's something that just all the pieces have come together for me in the last couple of days and it's going to tie in with everything, essentially. So when we look at feminine energy, I'm not talking about a lot of the videos on here about kind of acting as if you're a woman. I'm talking about actual feminine energy in your being. So I first want to look at the brain. When you look at the brain, you've got your left hemisphere and your right hemisphere, and in the left hemisphere of your brain you have your logic, your analytical mind, your reasoning, and everything to do with this physical world and taking actions in this physical material world. In your right hemisphere of your brain, you've got your imagination, your creativity and all of that good stuff. Your intuition. All of that is in your right hemisphere. So when we look at the energies of us as a human being, every single person has masculine and feminine energies. You need your left and right hemisphere to have an overall balanced being. You need to be using both. The issue that most people face is they're trained their whole lives to live in logic and to place 100% importance on the events outside of themselves that they completely invalidate their intuition, their creativity and their imagination. And your brain consciousness does not know the difference between something that is real or imagined until you tell it the difference. Until you go in and you invalidate it. So by you constantly living in logic, logic can only give you information based on what you physically have experienced on whatever timeline that you've been on up until this point. So if you've got a desire and it's on another timeline, this version of Use logic can't figure out how for you in the beginning. And I can't even begin to imagine you guys, the amount of dreams and creations that have been killed with logic. Let's do a little experiment here. Not an experiment, an exercise. I want you to think right now of a dream that you had at one point or an idea that you had and when you got the download for it, your whole body lit up and was like, oh my God, yes, this would be amazing. I would love to do this. But then, wow, what happened? Why didn't you just keep playing in that your head came in and crashed your party. That's why your logic took over. It took you out of that flow state, it took you out of your body, it took you out of your imagination and your creativity, and it killed your desire. Because if that desire is not on this timeline, your logic is going to say, hey, that doesn't compute. It's not going to work. You got. We're going to have to just shoot that down. Okay? So even if we zoom out even more, just so you get a full picture of what I'm talking about here, the timeline on which your desire exists. So your dream business, your dream income, your dream relationship, whatever it is, there's a version of you who exists on that timeline. And to them it's logical. But to you on this timeline, it cannot be logical. It's not this version of use job to make it make logical sense. And I need you to start really believing that and understanding that, because this is how you unlock so much progress and magic in your life. And this is actually how you allow yourself to quantum leap to the timeline that your desire is on. You gotta get logic out of the way, but you can't get logic out of the way until you heal into your feminine energy. So that's why this video is about feminine energy. Logic is masculine. Intuition is feminine. Intuition will take you places that logic never, ever can or never will. And I'm going to tell you a quick story about this. So I was living in London a couple of years ago. I was in a toxic relationship and I was hating my life. It was so unaligned And I could feel it in my body. Especially as women, if there's something really wrong, our intuition will usually just pipe up and we'll feel like something is wrong. We will just know. But I also had my intuition giving me flashes in dreams and just in my day to day life of living here now where I live in Spain, in Marbella. And I was thinking that makes no sense because I'm with this person and his work is here. So he's never mentioned wanting to move to this place, nor would he ever want to. And I literally knew nobody here and it just didn't make make sense. But I kept getting these flashes over and over again of this place, had never been here before. And I remember one thing led to another, we broke up. I moved back home to Ireland and I still had this really strong urge to move here. So I was looking for places. I came on a trip here and it solidified. Yes, absolutely. I need to move here. Love it here. I still didn't 100% know why. It felt nice being here for a with my friend, but I still didn't really know why here. But my intuition was still pulling me to this place. It was October 2023 and I literally found my journal yesterday of when I was writing this down. I drew a picture of like all these little stick figures and it was me living here. And I was drawing like the palm trees, the people I was around. It was a really bad drawing. I'm making it sound like I'm Picasso. It was awful. My desk in front of the window, like just little details and I got a clear image. It was like it just came from the ether. I couldn't explain to you where it came from. I was getting this image of me moving here because I was scared of not knowing anyone and living on my own. That I would find a place where there were people who were like business minded and kind of on the same vibe that I was on. So I'd be able to meet people and not feel so scared moving here right at this time, you guys, I was living in Ireland and my life was not good on paper. None of what I was intuitively feeling made any sense. In fact, I couldn't leave home. I had things going on in my family. I had really devastating things happening. I had to be there for my family. Things were not doing well in business. I had no reliable income. Like nothing made sense on paper. My logic was telling me this is not going to happen and there is no way. And that's what your logic will tell you. It will tell you there's no way because it can't see away based on the information that you've learned up until this point. But that doesn't mean that there actually isn't a way. It's just a way that you can't see yet. So this really shook me because even though it was happening like this, I still allowed myself to play in this desire. The intuition was so strong that I had to just keep imagining it. I kept picturing it. I was going for walks, listening to music, and imagining just being around these type of people in this place and feeling like, okay, six months from now, I know I'm gonna be here. I just know it's gonna work. And I really got a really clear feeling of what it was gonna feel like. Then I got an intuition to join a particular Facebook group for buying and selling properties in this area and renting. Sorry. And a couple of days later, someone put in a post about a room for rent in a house of, like, entrepreneurial people. The first post of its kind. Because I went up through this group previously and I was like, why did I join the stupid group? Just nothing here. Like, it's just ugly houses and people who are partying and not people who are like me. And I'm never gonna find it. But then I said, you know what? No, I ha. I feel I'm just gonna find it and I'm just gonna allow myself to picture that because life was so bad that I needed something to go off. So anyway, this happened. I applied, I got it. It happened so fast. This is what I mean. None of it made sense. I suddenly got some clients in and got some client payments. I had the money. The family situation resolved itself. Literally all. Every piece lined up like that. Just cause I allowed myself to play in that desire. I allowed myself to believe in it. I allowed myself to hold it and have it and feel it. And I moved to this place. And you guys, I will never, ever forget the feeling when I first got there. Even though I had been here before, I was in a different area. This area was the, like, spitting image of an area that I used to drop my pin on on Google Street View when I was younger and picture myself living in. In California. So Marbella is like the California of Europe. It looked the exact same as the street. It was called, like Ocean Avenue or Ocean Drive or something that I used to picture living on when I was young. And I used to always wish and wish and wish. I woke up, I got here, I woke up, I went outside, and it Was the same spitting image one of the streets. And I literally got full body like resonance and chills. And I just thought I came here on nothing but a feeling. And I met my soul mate within an hour of arriving into this place, within an hour of packing my bags, getting on the flight, and moving here the first day. The second person I met here was my soulmate. And I aligned with my dream business. You know, that's been so supportive. And me shifting my energy to be able to do this work. Every single thing came into alignment because I followed my intuition and none of it made sense. Not one bit of it made sense. So since then, I've done an active. Like, I've made a really active effort to really just follow that voice, even though it doesn't make sense. Making sense is just a waste of your energy and it's a waste of your time. And it's the number one thing I see my clients struggle with. They get a feeling for something, they get a desire for something. It lights them up. And then they go from their body into their head and they kill it. And I just think, I always think this. If you were to just take a week and allow yourself to just listen to your body, listen to your intuition, play in your creativity and your imagination, and stop going in with how, what, where, when, logic, your life would be totally transformed in a way that your logic would never have been able to plan or figure out for you. You all have that capacity. We all have it. So your imagination is the creator aspect of your being. Whatever you can imagine clearly and feel deeply will be brought about into your reality. It will be materialized from thought to matter. When you picture it clearly enough, when you feel it deeply enough, you will have it in your hands. That is the law. The issue is we're all running around invalidating our imagination, so nothing holds enough weight to actually make it into our reality. You're not to blame for this. Society has invalidated intuition, imagination, flow play as almost childlike and instead has put logic and hustle on a pedestal. When in my experience, I trained to be a solicitor. The hustle and the logic brought me nothing but limitation and misery. Me, okay? My intuition and my creativity and my flow has brought me literal miracles. Okay? So even in the Bible, it says we should be aiming for a state of childlike wonder, and then we will access the kingdom of heaven, which is the highest state of consciousness. Okay? So you should actually be striving to be like a child, to be in awe, to be playing. That's going to open you up and remove the limits that logic has been placing on you as well. In the Bible, we see the story of the disciples in the boat and they cast the nets to the left representing the left hemisphere of the brain. And they drew up no fish. And Jesus said, cast your nets to the right side of the boat and they cast their nets and there were so many fish that they couldn't pull the net up. That represents the right hemisphere of your brain. That is where Christ consciousness is enacted. That is where your divine expression, your higher expression of yourself that can align with love, alignment, abundance. That is where you will find that aspect of yourself. So that is a symbolic story for your left and right hemispheres of your brain. Your wealth, your dream life is found in your right hemisphere. Feminine energy, your creativity, your flow, your imagination. So now that you know it's important, I'm going to take you through really quickly the different aspects of masculine and feminine energy. And then I'm going to walk you through what the blocks are to you, tapping into and switching on that feminine energy and how you can start to heal them. Okay. This is such powerful stuff and this is something that I've really noticed for myself in the last few weeks. I've become hyper aware of it. And even you just becoming aware of it today in this video is so powerful because you can notice when you're coming out of that flow and you can know how to get yourself back into it. Imagine a life filled with ease, with flow, with childlike wonder, with just creating what you want to create and getting paid for it, getting abundance, getting aligned relationships. That is something that is our birthright, each and every one of us. We enter this world actually in that flow state. But the program of man and of society is what takes us out of that. Okay, so I'm gonna. I wrote them down here, the different qualities of masculine and feminine, just so I didn't want to forget. So feminine energy. But first I wrote here, the body has access to information that the brain doesn't. So that's intuition. Okay? And the body being your feminine energy and the mind being your masculine energy. That's going to be key as I go through these different elements. So your feminine energy is that flowing energy like water. You're grounded, you're present and you're in the moment. That's how you know you're in your feminine energy. You're also tapped into your feelings and your intuition. You feel tuned into your creative side and it takes you to your soul's purpose and your most aligned life. When you're in your feminine energy as well. You open yourself up to being able to receive more. And it's the polar opposite to that control and that masculine energy. When you're in your masculine, you're looking down one super narrow path and saying, this is how it needs to be. This is. I need to control and predict this because this is how it needs to go. And you're cutting yourself off from all these other magical things that could come in for you. Okay, so your masculine energy is more controlling. Your decisions are guided by logic and they're leading you to maybe not the fullest expression of yourself that you can have. You have a need to predict, to control and to plan every little thing that used to be me. And you're not present. You might be thinking in the past or thinking in the future. And you're also dictating how the, how things need to go and how life should look, which is actually stopping you from being able to receive. Okay, so this whole thing, the reason that you might be stuck in your masculine energy, the number one biggest reason, is that you don't feel safe. You need to feel safe in order for your feminine energy to switch on and in order for you to access your flow, your creativity and your imagination. You can't access those things if you're in fight or flight mode or if you're in survival mode. And this is something that so many of my clients are facing. And it's becoming more and more important for me to bring in more and more practices and guidance and meditations. And I'm going to create more and more in my community as well for this, because it's so important. We had a call last weekend, me and some of my community members, and I was literally saying to them, I was going through all these different things and I literally said, guys, you know what? Forget all of that. Let's just focus on how can you be peaceful and present and go into that sky of awareness, that observer state and meditation, and just feel safe enough to let go? Because that is going to heal so much more than any of these hacks you might see on the Internet or anything else. If you're taking action from a state of survival mode, it's always going to be action out of fear, fear out of controlling, and out of a kind of lack and limited mindset. You need to feel safe in order for your feminine energy to spring to life. So this is why things like inner child healing and doing kind of deep shadow work and healing from past traumas, that's actually going to Be the stuff that gets your creative energy to spring to life. When I did the most inner work and overcame and released the most past traumas after that period is when I've had the most divine creative inspiration and I've accessed the most flow because my feminine energy didn't feel blocked by that feeling of unsafety anymore. So many of us are in survival mode. Oh, my God. It is the number one thing. I see most of my clients struggling with this, like, constant overworking, hustling, overthinking, over analyzing, not being able to trust, not being able to even feel what you want or where to go or what to do next. That is an indication that you are in survival mode. If you feel like you're always running and you wake up with like a weight on your chest and you feel you need to just go, go, go all the time, you're in survival mode because of things that have happened to you in the past that have not been healed. And the key to you getting around that is going to be to heal those things. There's no other way. I'm sorry, there's no hack, there's no trick for this. Healing those hurt parts of you is the way that you heal out of that survival mode. And the moment that you feel relaxed and safe in the present moment in your body is going to be the moment that your feminine creative energy just comes to life and starts guiding you to your most aligned path. And even looking back on my own life, I can see this. I see it now with my clients, but even now for myself, when I really think about it, I didn't know what I wanted for so long in my life because I was in survival mode. When all your energy is going to your survival, it actually moves out of your nervous system, it moves away from your immune system, and it moves out of your digestive system. So you'll notice you'll have physical symptoms. Like, you'll see it in your. In your health, in your digestion, you'll see it. You'll have anxiety and you won't be able to visualize your dream life. This is something I say to people all the time. Do not start visualizing until you feel safe, grounded, and present in your body. Your brain can't do it. It doesn't have the energy, it doesn't have the capacity. It. It's trying to keep you alive. It thinks your life is in danger because you haven't healed from past circumstances and events that you're still holding in your body. So in order to start feeling safe enough to get your intuition to switch on, to go into creative flow, to let go of the how and to trust. You got to go to those core traumas that are making you feel unsafe and are putting you in survival mode. So when you're doing this inner work, I have some, some tips for you. You first of all want to make sure you create a safe environment for yourself. So it can be very difficult to do this kind of work when you're in the environment that is making you feel unsafe in the environment. More accurately, that is actually causing these inner wounds and these inner traumas. Okay? So even if. Even if you can't get out of your environment physically, try to create a space for yourself where you can still create that feeling of safety for yourself as best you can. So maybe it's a third space. Mine used to be the gym. I grew up in a very stressful household and I literally had nowhere to kind of go in that house. So When I was 17, I joined a gym, and that was my safe space for releasing all those emotions and doing that inner work as I was kind of at the gym. So create an environment for yourself where you can go and be in your own energy and feel safe. Safe. That is going to do wonders for healing you out of that survival mode. The other thing you can do is to really, really let yourself purge. I mentioned this in my last video, but let yourself emotionally purge whatever needs to be purged. You can do this in a environment with like a practitioner or someone to help you through it, or you can just do it on your own. You can scream into your voice notes on your phone. You can write an angry letter to whoever you want to write it to. You can just cry, cry it out. But let yourself release and purge. Oh, yeah, I almost forgot this one. This is so important and something that has seriously changed my life. Physically slow down. When you physically slow down down, slow down your speech, slow down your thoughts, slow down your movements. Release your to do list for a little while. Remind yourself that you have time that actually tricks your body into realizing that we're not in fight or flight mode, that we're not running, we're not in danger, we're not in survival mode. We're here now in the moment that actually will bring you back to yourself so much quickly. And this really hit me yesterday. This is something that I've always known, but yesterday I. And this is why I really had to make this video today. Yesterday I started off the day well, I always do my meditation in the morning, so I'm Usually in very good energy in the morning. But my day just got away from me. And so many things happened that were kind of out of my control. And then I started trying to control things, which really put me in my masculine. I started trying to make things make sense. I had stressful things happen. And I really went into that kind of masculine logic, controlling energy. And then at the end of the day, I felt really overwhelmed and I felt really bad. And I was thinking, why do I feel bad? Then I started spiraling about why did I feel bad? Which actually adds a whole other layer because then you're judging yourself and you're making yourself feel worse. So what did I do? I started actually getting like panic sensations. Tightness in my chest. I started having difficulty breathing and I was thinking, am I gonna have a panic attack? I started thinking, I'm gonna panic attack. And I haven't had a panic attack, you guys, in years. So I was thinking, oh my God, no way am I having a panic attack. No way. And then I was, okay, calm down. If you have a panic attack, it's okay. First of all, it's not the end of the world. You've survived them before, you'll be fine. What is going on? And I realized I was so in my head, I was so stressed then I was so focused on the fact that I was stressed that I had come all the way out of my body and I was so in my head. So what did I do? I made myself have a shower and I made myself like scrub my whole body, wash my hair, put loads of lotion on. And by the end of that, I was so in my body that I forgot about all the things I was stressing about. I was so tuned into the physical sensations of putting on the lotion, scrubbing my, exfoliating my skin especially. That helped so much. It literally made my consciousness go from all this, like really toxic thoughts and stress that were causing my body to seize up to. How does this feel here and now? And all the panic sensations, all the worries, all the stresses just went, went away. Okay, so this is what I mean. You need to stop, slow down and come out of your head and do something to bring you into your body. And this is why, something I will always recommend. If you're in that kind of really anxious, stressful, survival, fight, orf flight mode, doing some physical self care is so powerful because you're tricking your body into coming back into the present moment and just slowing everything right down. I wrote this down as I was making my notes for this Video and I need to just read it out word for word because I don't want to get it wrong. Controlling the external will not release you from the pain you felt internally. From times you did not have control, you have to decide to release yourself from that pain. So this can manifest in every area of your life. I used to have a super anxious attachment because of how I was brought up. I had a very deep rooted fear of abandonment and that that was manifest in everything, especially my romantic relationships. I managed to bring in partners who reflected that fear back to me by being emotionally unavailable, by being untrustworthy, by being disloyal. Yeah. So you might resonate with this a lot, but your controlling tendencies, they don't come from nowhere. They're not random. And even if it's not in a romantic setting, if you're trying to control every single thing in your life, you're blocking the divine path from opening. And you're not just going to be able to say, I let go of control and do an affirmation. Actually, what you need to do instead is figure out why you feel the need to control in the first place. Because at some point in your life, something happened or numerous things happened where you didn't have control, where you felt your control was taking away from you, or you just, you were powerless in the situation and it caused you a lot of pain not having control in that situation. And that is why now you feel you need to control everything. It doesn't feel safe for you to let go of that control. Going back to the events in which that happened and reassuring that part of you who still exists within you, who had to experience that pain, that now it is different and now it is safe to let go of that pain. That is what's going to release you from feeling like you need to control. That is what's going to make you feel safe to do that. So there's definitely a lot of inner child meditations on YouTube that can help with that. Another thing that's really good is to just literally get in your journal and say, when in the past did I lose control or did I not have control and it really hurt and it caused me a lot of pain. And write it down and get very clear and really identify it. And then you can write in how that is no longer true for you, how that situation is not true for you anymore, how you are now safe to let go of control because that situation no longer has power over you. So you go back to that moment when you didn't have control and when that caused you that pain and you go back to the child version or the younger version of you, and you give them the love and validation that they needed and they didn't have in that moment. And then they will feel safe to finally let go of this control that they, they think has been keeping them safe. You can watch more about how to actually do this in my shadow work video. And the other thing you can do is start distinguishing between events of the past and here and now today, and allow yourself to know and believe that they are different, that they are not the same. You need to start creating separation between things that have happened in the past and what's happening here and now today. And allow yourself to trust and know that they're not the same thing. I had to do this in my relationships. So as I mentioned, I used to have, I used to attract a very toxic kind of relationship where the person was emotionally unavailable. And that led to all sorts of problems. And when I got into my relationship that I'm in right now, which is so healthy, my partner is so secure and amazing. I remember in the beginning of the relationship, I was looking at him, he did something and I just couldn't even get my head around how healthy it was. And I was looking at him and I was thinking, okay, you are not anything I've experienced before. And it really clicked in my mind. Up until that point, I hadn't actually taught that to myself. And this is the thing, you don't realize the unconscious connections that you're making with your past until you become aware of it. So at that moment, I finally, I was looking at him and I was like, you are entirely different to any relationship I've ever been in before. And I got so relieved and so excited. But I didn't realize that I hadn't even made that connection yet unconsciously I hadn't made that separation. So that's what you need to do. You need to start separating the things happening now to things in the past. Otherwise you're going to continue to repeat your cycles. Me, for example, if I hadn't made that separation, I could have continued to repeat my anxious attachment style or repeat, you know, doubting or having fear in my relationship. But because I had that click very early on in my relationship, I was like, wow, this is totally different. So I can show up differently and I'm safe to not try to control anything in this relationship. See, I went to the root, I made the separation and then the safety came in and the controlling behavior released. And actually in this, in this relationship, I'm able to just be in my feminine energy because of the feeling of safety that I have. Another way this is going to change your life. Releasing control and getting into flow and getting into your following your feelings and your intuition. This is just another example I have. So when I was, when I first moved to Spain, I was pushing really hard. I had a marketing agency and I was pushing really hard to get clients. And I remember feeling internally like this is not it, this is not it. But I was trying so hard to control because I wanted to get to a certain income level and the money was coming but it didn't feel right and it felt was coming in slowly and every single thing felt like a battle. I was really forcing everything in my external world. I was forcing myself to do the work all the time. I was forcing myself to show up in a certain way that didn't feel aligned and that was reflected back to me like certain things were always happening, certain issues were always coming up. I had conflict. The further and further I kept going down and forcing and trying to control my reality rather than just allowing myself to go into alignment and follow my intuition, the more actual struggles I started to face going down that path. And it got to a point where I just thought, why don't I just allow myself to do what I really want to do and not put any expectation or anything on it? And that was making content. So I just started posting. It was something I had only ever dreamed of and I could never even admit to myself. But I just said, you know what, let me just play in it. Let me just not make it mean anything. Let me not try to control or predict it anymore. Let me just play with this idea and this intuitive feeling to do this thing. So I started sharing stuff on TikTok. Then I started making YouTubes and guys, I can't even explain to you the way that I've just been able to call in abundance, call in clients, call in community, call in so much stuff since just posting and following that intuition to post on this channel has been night and day compared to when I was forcing and controlling in the marketing agency. You, when you keep trying to force and predict and control, you're actually moving out of your aligned path as filled with ease and flow. And I, I have given you first hand experience of this. The money that I've made has never even felt like work. It's like how am I even getting paid to do this? It feels like I'm making money for, for breathing. And I've never felt that in my whole life, I've always hustled, I've always been logic, I've always tried to control, I've always tried to predict. And it really was like pulling teeth, it was getting me somewhere, but nowhere really that I actually wanted to be because it felt like such a struggle. Whereas when I started just going with the flow and playing in my desires, everything just aligned so naturally to the point that I can now do this full time. And it does never feel like work, ever. And I'm so grateful to be able to say that. But this is what happens when you start releasing the control and you start letting go of the things that don't light you up and don't serve you. So when you feel yourself starting to get really bogged down by logic, starting to really control and get that narrow, limited view, know that you've turned off your feminine flow energy and there's probably things that you're holding on to that are making you feel unsafe and that's why you're clinging on and trying to control. So look within, slow down and go within and sit with your inner child and ask them, what are you scared of? Why are you trying to control and force and predict? Why can't you trust? Why don't you feel safe? And that's going to be the stuff that really starts setting you free. I'm putting together, I'm going to do a challenge, I think maybe next week or the following week in my community where we do this each day and start aligning with bringing on this life force energy. So the first phase to this, it's very counterintuitive to a lot of the advice that a lot of people on YouTube or whatever will be giving. The first phase is going to be slowing down completely and going to your inner child and letting that inner child know that they're safe. Because that's going to be the starting point for that life force energy switching back on. There's always a huge release. There is always a surge of clarity and imagination and flow and inspiration after you go to the root cause, which is healing that inner child and healing out of survival mode. You cannot imagine and create a dream, magical, beautiful life. If you're so concerned with your survival in this physical world, it just won't work. So safety is the number one thing. And I remember I was a few months ago, about six or seven months ago, I had once again gotten into a spiral of just overthinking, over analyzing, really getting really, really hard on myself. And my to do list was getting longer and Longer every day. And I was on the hustle and grind. And, you know, that's fine, by the way. Logic is fine. I'm not demonizing logic or masculine energy. You actually need both. You need your masculine, healthy masculine energy in order to support your feminine energy so she can come to life. However, when you're overly burnt out and you feel burnt out and you feel like you have no clarity or no ability to relax in your body, that's when you know you're too much in your masculine, and that's probably wounded masculine because you're hustling too much to kind of prove something, and you need to relax and turn on that feminine. So I got into that period about six or seven months ago, and I started feeling tension, I started feeling burnout. I kept going, didn't pay attention, kept going, thought if I worked harder, did more, set more goals, made another schedule, made another plan, made another schedule because the last schedule didn't work. Made a schedule on when I was gonna make my schedule and I was just going, going, going. Then I started getting, like, physical kind of anxiety and really bad kind of stress in my body. And I thought, no, something is wrong. I need to slow down. So I did a root chakra meditation the next I woke up that morning and I had, like, the heavy anxiety on me, which I didn't have for some so long, hadn't felt that in so long. And I just thought, okay, something needs to change. I'm going to do a root chakra meditation. And what's so powerful about the root chakra meditation? Is it really your root is your center of survival and safety? Okay. So it's everything we're talking about here. And the key. The key part of that meditation, I'll link it down below. The key part of that meditation is you lay down your weapons. So this is another part of healing out of that survival mode and turning on your feminine life force, lay laying down your weapons. So this is also going to be kind of control, but it's a little bit different. It's more like stopping yourself from being in such a defensive fighting stance against the world. That is so powerful because you don't realize how much you're in that defensive mode until you put your weapons down. So in that meditation practice, you're essentially guided through your root chakra. And you imagine you've got, like, a warrior living down there, and you imagine you are that warrior, and you imagine just being on guard like this, and then you imagine just saying, okay, it's safe here now, and you Breathe in. Like all the air turns into safe air, and you allow your body to relax. And then you take off all the armor, you take off all the weapons, and you lay down and you wrap yourself in a blanket. And it's just such a relief. And when I did that meditation, when I was in that period, the release that I felt was unbelievable. And after doing that, the clarity that I felt was insane because I had tuned back into my body and back into my feminine energy. I could hear my intuition again, I could play in my imagination again. And that is what brought all of the desires to life for me. You need your imagination, you need your creativity, but you need your safety in order to be able to access them. So you have to start laying down your weapons. Notice where you're straining and resisting and trying to fight against everything in your external world. Notice where you have barriers up. Notice where you're judging people and just start to let yourself drop all of that, because that's just getting in the way of you being your most embodied self. Even in the hermetic philosophies, they say the universe is mental and the all is mind. And they also say, as within, so without, as above, so below. Meaning we are created in the image of God. We are all just created by part of the imagination of the all. But our worlds are created by our imagination. The issue is we have just discredited imagination so much that we can't actually harness it and use it. And we shoot ourselves in the foot because we're so in logic and looking around us and thinking that this is all that there is. When there's an entire internal world in here that could literally change everything for you if you just started tapping into it and believing in it. This is your powerhouse. This is your creative center. This is how you're going to bring about miracles into your life. But you have to go through and do that inner work first and really let yourself feel safe. Let go of controlling, let go of fighting, let go of predicting, let go of running from your own inner child and your own inner wounds and your own traumas that you need to release. And that's going to bring you back into. Into your body, back into the present moment. It's going to get you to just drop all this stuff that you've been clinging on to. And when that happens, your feminine energy springs to life. And all of a sudden you're able to visualize, you're able to imagine, you're able to dream, and you're able to get intuitive downloads and whispers of Information to do certain things that are going to put you on a path that is going to just light up your whole soul. And your logic will never, ever know how it's gonna happen. And that's part of the fun of it. So really, you just have to start being open to this. This is possible for you. It really, really is. We all have the capacity to do this, especially women. Women have the innate capacity to do this. We have such strong intuition, being feminine beings. But men need to do this as well. I'm not excluding men. Once you feel that feminine energy switch back on and you feel your intuition and your imagination and your creativity spring to life, I've got one tip for you. Do not let logic come in and crash your party. Let yourself play in your imagination, in your intuition, in what feels good to you. Let yourself play in your dreams and don't let logic come in and crash that party for you. Do that for one week. If you could just for one week, abandon logic, abandon what makes sense and just go for the things that light you up, you would be shocked. The difference you would feel, you will be shocked. The things that will start lining up and happening for you. Stop making things make sense. They don't need to make sense. It makes sense to the version of you who's on the timeline of already having that desire, not to this version of you. But that's okay because you're not going to say this version of you forever. So that is my last tip for you. When you do feel that feminine energy switch back on and you do feel your imagination and everything switch back on, don't kill your dreams and desires with logic. Let yourself play in them. Let yourself create as if there's no limits. And you would be amazed, amazed, the miracles and things that will start aligning for you when you do that. If you want to join my guided challenge in my community that I'm going to do on this in two weeks time, you can find all the links down below. That's all for this video. Guys. I feel like I could literally talk about this all day, but I think this is getting quite long, so I'm going to leave it here. I love you all so much. I hope this video helped and I will see you in the next one.