A short YouTube monologue by Elay Amitay Halevi advising women how to attract an emotionally available, spiritually present man. The speaker argues that chasing or seeking completion from a partner repels men who are already whole; instead, women should do inner spiritual work, accept and reveal their beauty and essence, use the mantra 'I am whole', and prioritize a relationship with the Creator above a relationship with a man.
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How does a woman attract an emotionally available spiritual present man? She cannot attract him by chasing him. She cannot attract him by feeling that she needs him to complete her, because that is the opposite of his vibration. If you are looking for a man who has nothing to prove and complete inside of himself, then how can you attract such a man? If you feel there's something missing inside you, you attract him simply by doing your own spiritual work, by finding the parts of you that are in lack in need and making that every day you're doing something to transform that lack and that need. You should invest in your beauty, not because you're trying to use it as a weapon or a way to bribe a man, but simply because you know that you are beautiful and you are revealing who you are. You're revealing your essence. This is again aligned with a man who is not going to be performative for you, but a man who is truly beautiful within his own soul. Use this mantra, I am whole. Within myself, I am beautiful. And the parts of myself that I think are unattractive, that I do not accept, I realize, were given from the Creator and vibrate with the highest energy. Every part of me I now accept. And I desire a relationship with the Creator more than I even desire a relationship with a man.
