Jensen Huang says high expectations destroy resilience. Warren Buffett credits low expectations for his successful marriage. An interventionist who's done 900 interventions finds entitlement is the common thread: high expectations trigger panic and collapse people.
Jensen Huang from Nvidia said that most people with high expectations have very low resilience. Yes. Now, what did Warren Buffett say about marriage? He's like, guys, the key to marriage is not what you think it is. He's like, the key to marriage is very low expectations. Now let me tie this to the interventionist who I talked to. So this guy had done 900 interventions, and I was just curious to learn from this guy. I said, look, you've done 900 interventions. What's the one thing that ties all these people in common? It has to do with the fact that they're entitled. The key here is to have extremely low expectations because The moment you have high expectations, all your resilience goes out the window because everything that you expect doesn't go your way and you panic and everything goes away.
