Asking questions that seem naive actually gets you what you need. People underestimate you when you ask, giving you an edge. Ignoring judgment signals confidence and beats staying silent to protect your image.
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Not being afraid to look stupid is actually intelligent. I used to be worried about looking stupid so much because I was more concerned about other people's perception of me. Can you relate to that? Here's why looking stupid might actually be a good thing. Number 1, if you don't ask, you don't get. If you want to get what you want, if you want to reach your goals, you have to ask. Instead of being worried about what other people might think about you, you ask questions and then you are able to get what you want. Because if you ask better questions, you are able to then get better outcomes at the end of the day. Number 2, that's actually a sign of confidence because when you aren't concerned about what other people think about you, you are actually confident in yourself. Number 3, last but not least, this is counterintuitive as well. There are going to be people that underestimate you because you are asking quote unquote stupid questions when in reality you are asking smart questions. So here's why.