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Eric Siu argues that sexual marketplace value shifts around age 30, when men gain advantage over women in dating. Women peak in their 20s, but after 30 men can negotiate relationships more on their own terms.

Eric Siu argues that sexual marketplace value shifts around age 30, when men gain advantage over women in dating. Women peak in their 20s, but after 30 men can negotiate relationships more on their own terms.
The game of mating and dating shifts significantly at age 30. Age 30 is basically when the average man's sexual marketplace value exceeds the average woman's sexual marketplace value for the very first time, and it will never reverse after that point. So in their 20s, women enjoy a relative advantage in the game of mating and dating. That advantage comes with certain privileges that, if they're exploited, make it easier to secure relationships on their terms. But if they wait until after 30, when the balance of power kind of shifts, they find that it might be surprisingly difficult to secure relationships on their terms. Now that the men become increasingly powerful after that point, they are able to more secure relationships on their terms.