Confronting someone during a fight rarely makes them learn. Instead, give them space to reflect, and they'll recognize their mistake on their own. Grace works better than retaliation.
Seldom is it that when you fight with somebody, they learn from you fighting with them. I would rather let them be, and then like eventually when they're ready, they'll probably say something, and then they'll have learned from their mistake, right? You know what I mean? And I think that you treating them with grace teaches them more than you fighting back.
