This content was created by Eric Siu. This content was uploaded by Eric Siu. This is a YouTube video titled "Why people struggle to stay committed." (created 2024-02-05T22:30:04Z). The excerpt is a single-speaker monologue about dating and commitment in people’s 20s — criticizing how some claim to be "dating for marriage" despite multiple past relationships, warning against rushing to label relationships, and advising individuals to get their own lives settled before committing.
people in their 20s, oh, I'm dating for marriage. People say— and then I ask them, oh, like, why are you still single then? How many boyfriends did you have? How many relationships did you have? Oh, 3, 4. Okay, cool. And you're still dating for marriage? Get your life settled first. Like, you have to be ready in your own life before you are ready to be committed to someone. People are just so rushed to put a label on, oh, let's be boyfriend-girlfriend, let's be exclusive. How do you know? Yeah. How do you— like, there's so many qualities that might throw you off along the way just because it feels good right now, like I'm gonna commit to you? Like, no, what? Right? So I think people are just too eager at love.
