Eric Siu argues that people in their twenties should avoid serious relationships and settling down so they have time to figure out who they are. He references his own friends' experiences to make the case.
I would say a lot of guys settle down way, way too quickly. I see my friends back home. I mean, nothing wrong with being gay, but how do you know this is the best thing for you, right? So my thing is to be able to give yourself time in your 20s to figure out your life first before you start dating. This isn't really unconventional. This is just— I don't think you should date seriously for the majority of your 20s.
