My “Already Mine” Jar Ritual for Life + Business Goals

Leap Live and Lemonade became rituals, not requirements. So this is not feeling pushed about having to record podcast episodes, but it's more like, yeah, I'm doing it because I have something to say, I have something to share. And I do it because I trust that what I'm sharing today, for example, touches somebody's life in a positive way. This is the Leap Live and Laminate podcast. Hi, I'm your host, Esther Godor. Twelve years ago, I took a big leap. I left my corporate job, I moved into a new country and started a business from scratch in my fifth language. Today I run a boutique launch and systems agency helping ambitious entrepreneurs build smart and scalable digital businesses on Kajabi without having to do everything by themselves. This is your go to place with honest stories, actionable strategies, and real talk around building a business and life you love. Your best life and success story are still ahead. Let's write them together. Hey there. Today I want to talk to you about something that directly connects to what I covered in the previous episodes, which is connecting with my future self. Instead of making New Year's resolutions and asking my future self what they would be doing in certain situations and basically make the decisions my future self would make. There are so many other levels of that connection. And another level is what I want to talk to you about today. And this is more of a. Of a practice that keeps me connected to what I'm onto this year or in any given moment. It's something that keeps me connected to my goals. It's something that keeps me wired into where my future self is going. And I briefly mentioned the idea of not even thinking of these outcomes as the future rather than holding them already in your heart, in your mind, as if it already happened. And this partly comes what I want to explain today. Partly comes from the work I do with Amaya Shantay this year where we are living for 12 months and with an amazing community. We are living our delulu year where we are actually living into everything that is on the list of our wildest desires as if it already happened, as if it was already in our hands. And this year I'm. I'm connecting this with something I've been doing for years. And these are so I have a jar which has little notes in it and I just emptied it. I had these from two, three years ago and I had these in the jar for those years. I have been picking them each day and then putting them back and now it feels like everything that's in this jar, these were. I started this Originally as a, as a money manifestation process based on the work of Dennis Duffield Thomas. And these are little notes that help you remember where you're going or how you behave with money, how you think about money, how you go about money. So for example, these are my pass notes which when I put them down first, they were like, I wouldn't even connect with many of them. It was like, oh, I wish, I wish. Yeah. And, and now I, I would, I feel about these notes that I have them all internalized. So they did their job and it's time for, it's time for them to, to go and it's time for me to uplevel my, my jar. But I'm also doing it a little differently this time, but just to give you an idea of what they are. And these are all handwritten notes. So this one says if I trust it will come. This is, this is always valid. Yeah. This is not something that we don't need a reminder on or every action I take is bringing me prosperity. And we, we actually have a jar for each one of our family members. This is from mine, but Javi has his and his daughter has hers. There is this other one which says there is no reason why I can't make the money I want. Yeah. So, so these are the little money notes that I used to have in the jar. And this year as I'm, as I'm tapping into a life first doing it all, building an amazing business around my dream life. This is my, this is my top priority, like living life and then building my business around it. This, this has been on my, on my list for a long time. And last year I got the closest to it ever. And I want to continue on this path. So I, while I'm talking to you, I'm going to be rolling more of these little papers and it was really difficult to roll them first, but then I found this. This is a two ended knitting needle or I'm not sure how you say it, but this is my best word to, to best expression to explain. Makes it super easy to roll them. So I'm using the needle to roll them and I'm gonna use this time that I'm talking to you to actually do the rolling because it takes time. I printed out in total, I think 400 some days I like to pick even two or I would invite a friend or a family member to pick. So this is what I'm doing. I just rolled them up and this time I used my, my business partner GPT. I have a GPT business partner that knows a lot about what I'm doing with my business, where I'm going. It knows a good amount of information about my clients and also about my. My personal goals. So. So it helped me write 400 notes and the, the way I'm doing them. And, and in the end of this video, I'm gonna share with you how it can also help you write yours, because I'm. I'm making a version public where, where it will help you create these notes. But I want to explain to you what kind of notes these are, because the. These pink ones I have shown you, they are money manifestation notes. And basically I would suggest that you pick one area for each year. I mentioned it in the previous videos. Whether it's your business, whether it's your health, whether it's your family, whether it's your relationship with money, whether it's your job, maybe you are in a job and you want to do something about that. So you pick your main focus for the year and you would basically write down everything that you desire. And I have so many things I wish for myself, even though I'm pretty happy with what I already have. But what it helped me with is creating notes where it already happened. And this comes from the Delulu idea of Amoya, which you might have experienced in Gateway 21 if you did it with her. I previously shared a link to that. So I'm going to share with you some of these notes. This is one where it shows something that I desire as if it already happened. And these are the type of notes that I'm going to get each day this year. So this one says, I'm the healthiest I've ever been and the most visible. This is a cool one. Or let me see this one. The audience grew because I kept it real, not because I pushed. I love that one. I love when you don't. When it doesn't happen because you. You worked more. You know, there is this. There is this funny sticker on my desk, and I showed it to the community the other day and they loved it so much. So I'm gonna show you. Can I show you? Oh, my God. This is not what you typically do in podcasts, moving the camera. It's. The less I do, the more I make. This from James Wedmore. So, yeah, I do surround me with this kind of stuff because life gets busy. It's so easy to write down. Not so easy, but it's many times we write down our goals, but then life gets busy. So this one says we set our Intention before launches. Which, which sounds like we set my, our intention with the team so I'm. I don't have to do it by myself. So I love it. Okay, this is Leap Live and Lemonade became rituals, not requirements. So this is not feeling pushed about having to record podcast episodes, but it's more like, yeah, I'm doing it because I have something to say, I have something to share. And I do it because I trust that what I'm sharing today, for example, touches somebody's life in a positive way. This one is a cool one. My voice felt strong, certain, and deeply mine. Love it, love it, love it. Okay, let me see something that's family related because I have a lot of family related ones this year. I lived in devotion to joy, creativity and alignment. Love it. Ah, this is, this is a family one which I'm also only going to read half of because the other half is a bit private. But we built the quarter plan over pancakes. Nice. That feels like we, we had the time to spend together as a family. Then my content felt like art, not effort. I built this with honesty, not hype. So, so many, so many different, different types. The community felt like a secret garden. Curated, blooming and sacred. Love it. Oh my God, these are gonna be so nice. Presence is the most potent strategy. And you know what, I'm so glad that, that I was able to get this from the GPT. And they are, they are all pretty much on point. I made 400, so if I see I'm not reading them all because I don't want to spoil it for myself. I'm just rolling them up. But I didn't feel like I would have the energy to keep on writing all 400 from this. I had 200, but I wrote them on a nine hour flight this time. Actually tomorrow I'm going to Madrid by train and it's back, back and forth, how do you say Ida y vuelta the same day. So I'm gonna have the time, but I'm gonna spend it with reading, I think because I have a few books that I want to be reading. So these are written by the GPT, but I have put in quite some work so they are matching. And yeah, this is what I wanted to share with you. I'm gonna, I'm gonna share with you a version of not the GPT but my Delphi. Not sure if you're familiar with the platform Delphi. It allows creators to share their knowledge with the world in a way that it becomes more accessible. So my Delphi has my knowledge without Me having to be there with you live. And it also becomes more accessible financially. Yeah. Because an hour session, a power session with me is now priced at 397. And if we work together as a client, our monthly packages with where meetings are included start around 800 and something dollars. But with the Delphi, you will be able to connect at a much lower price. I don't have the price yet. I will have it by the time this goes out and you will have some. You will have time and space to try it for free. And then if you like it, then there will be a paid option where you can continue. And what it does is this is just one out of the many things it will be able to do, but it will be able to help you create these love notes. I call them love notes. I actually call them already mine love notes because it's all about things that are already mine. This year I'm bringing them all in. I'm attracting them all into my life this year. As crazy as it might sound on a couple of them, the ones I read for you were more generic. But there are, there are some very specific ones which are like, wow, is this real? And the sooner I can 100% feel that it's real, that specific item, the sooner it will appear in my life for real. So they are the already mind love notes and you will be able to create your own or if you want to go down a different route, like want to write money mindset messages, My Delphi will be able to help you because everything I have here is included there. And what it will also be able to help you with is wherever you might be on your entrepreneurial journey, you can consult my Delphi on your next steps. Why? How does it know? It doesn't necessarily have the answer. You have the answer. It's always you. Right? Right. But what the Delphi can help you with is finding your best answer. Because this is what I help my clients with. I'm not giving them the answer because it's never somebody else who should make decisions for you. That would mean giving your power away. And then the outcome is, is questionable. But when you have someone helping you find your next best step, that's your, your very best chance of taking a major step towards success. So this is what my Delphi will be able to help you with. How do I do that? For now, the knowledge that the Delphi has is it has all the knowledge from my previous solo episodes. It also has all the knowledge from my Jump program, from my 12 week jump program. Which has tons of content about connecting with your, with your best clients, who are your, your best matching clients who you shouldn't be doing business with. How to build a team and get help what you should get help on, what are the things that you can outsource or automate, then how to automate them. It also has content about pricing or increasing your prices or charging the right amount for your services while you, while you respect the time you have put into acquiring that, that skill, while your team's time is respected. So really all the areas that I like to focus on with my clients, my Delphi now has the knowledge and it's still in training. So every new episode that comes out will be uploaded and anything new that's coming out these months, which there will be, the Delphi will be wired to contain that information or lead you to the right information inside my world. That said, it's not going to give you generic advice. It's going to give you the advice I would give you if we were talking just like now. Okay, so it will take me a little more, a little longer. Ah, you see, I got it on a, on a note as well. The less I do, the more I make. It must be my, it must be my years key love note because I have it on the, on the sticker as well. So I love it. I deserve it. I serve. I deserve. Yeah, I think I've done enough already and I love helping people without, without sacrificing my own time, my own boundaries. And I wish that for you as well for this year. Okay. So if you want, if you want to try it for what, whatever you want to ask it or if you want to try to create your already my love notes, then check out my Delphi. I will include it below. I don't want to say the link yet because I don't know if it's available. It might, it might be as Delphi. I guess that could be a good link for it. There must be such a landing page that I will build. We don't have it yet, so hopefully by the time this is out, which is on the 19th, by that day we should have it. All right, so here you have it and do let me know in the comments if you try it because I would love to see what comes out of it. You will be one of the first people to try it. So feel free to share anything that might, might not go the way you expected. Sometimes we see weird things in AI world, but I trust that it will, it will go super well. And yeah, thanks for coming with me today in my. In this little time for rolling my little papers. There are only like a hundred of them left. And I appreciate you coming with me today. And I appreciate you coming along this year, which is going to be a and super, super exciting year for all of us together. Yeah. Life first. Building businesses around there. Dream lives. What more can we wish for? It's what I wish for all of us for this year. Okay, Take care. Big hug.