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What If You're Repelling the Ease You Actually Want?

Name: What If You're Repelling the Ease You Actually Want?
Uploaded: 2025-04-08T08:00:14+00:00
Duration: 36 s
Channel: Eszter Gódor
Description: Short excerpt from a YouTube monologue (Eszter Gódor) arguing that willpower works only short-term and that people often avoid putting work out of fear…

8 Apr 2025 · 1 min

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Short excerpt from a YouTube monologue (Eszter Gódor) arguing that willpower works only short-term and that people often avoid putting work out of fear of rejection and tying self-worth to analytics. The speaker suggests shifting perspective away from outcome-attachment (e.g., sales, comments) because such attachment makes interactions strained and less enjoyable.

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I think willpower is only going to work short term. Why don't we just shift a perspective? So even for putting your stuff out there, a lot of students, every student, when they weren't doing it, it all came back to, I'm afraid of rejection if I put it out there. And we tie our worth to those analytics. And half the time people aren't even going to comment. And, like, because they're busy, like, they have lives. And so I would say, okay, if you're, if you're thinking that, and even going into a consult, if we're so attached to outcome of making the sale, it's not going to be fun and that's going to come through.