#377 Can You Use Flowdreaming for…?

Flow Dreaming.

It's a show where we talk about the power of your mind to change your world around you, to literally affect the fabric of your reality. We talk about this feeling of hope and joy and relief. And that is what being aware of your flow does. It gives you a feeling of power again in your lives.

Breathe.

I'm Summer McStravik and welcome to another episode of Flow Dreaming.

And here we are in the flow as we go every week. Oh, I'm not going to torture you with aimless sing songing in the beginning. Why? Why do I do this? Sometimes, I don't know, I think maybe because I've done so many of these podcasts now I try and think, oh, what's a creative new way I can say hello to everybody? And it ends up just being, well, lame. Well, hi everybody, welcome to Flow dreaming. I'm Summer McStravik and today we have a interesting show. An interesting show because I was thinking recently about all the various ways that I have been working with Flow Dreaming over the years and noticing how it's kind of like, it's kind of like a highway, a freeway, thoroughfare, what do you, whatever you call them all around the world, long, straight, directed, clear. Basically, Flow Dreaming helps you to manifest. That's the straightaway, that is the broad, you know, five, ten lane highway of Flow Dreaming. However, it goes in so many other directions. There are dozens of off ramps that you can take that are just as effective, just, just as worthwhile. And what these off ramps are really are just variations on how to work with flow energy, how to use it in different ways, and particularly perhaps how to use it in different ways of manifesting. I think we get trapped sometimes thinking that manifesting is just the one thing that we've heard about already. It's attracting things into our lives, right? Isn't that what everybody thinks? Manifesting is attracting things into your life? And I look at that and say, that's part of it. It is by no means the whole thing. It is an aspect of manifesting. So today's show, we're going to go over all the different ways that we use flow energy, all the ways we use manifestational energy in our lives. And you'll probably discover, oh my God, I didn't know I could use it for that. Oh, I didn't know. That's the whole intent of today's program, to wake you up, open your eyes, say, hey, have you thought about using it for this? Hey, you've got that situation. Have you thought about, you know, etc. Etc. Etc. So before we delve into the topic of our hour, I see that you guys are waiting on the phone for me already. I promise we'll be getting to lots of calls and we'll be doing a Flow Dream a little bit later in the show. For those of you who are new, you can go to my website, flowdreaming.com. that's flow dreaming.com. and it's been newly designed, so the homepage is hopefully very easy to navigate and beautiful. And if you go there and you like it, send me a little note, tell me. I know it still needs a few tweaks here and there, but I think it's pretty nice now. And in particular, there's a new page up for everybody who's new and they're saying, what is Flow Dreaming? What do I do first? How should I start this practice? How can I learn more about it? What's free? What do I have to buy? It's all there for you, and you can read through it and get yourself caught up on the art and practice of working with flow in your life. To everybody who's been there a long time, go check it out as well. Been there, meaning all of you guys who've been listening to me for years and years. Guys, you know, I don't know how many people, tons, still constantly say, summer, I've been listening to you since Louise Hay or since Wayne Dyer. And I think, wow, you guys are die hards. You know, this show's been going on for like nine years. I guess some of you know that I originated this show at Hay House when I was the network director. I actually started Hay House Radio, where I co hosted many programs with, say, Wayne Dyer being one of them, but also worked with, of course, my previous boss, Louise Hay, worked closely to produce shows by Dorian Virtue, so many others. It was such a beautiful blessing that Flo brought to me in my life. It launched me really into what I'm doing today. Without that experience, I would never have learned. Oh, my God, I can be on the radio. Oh, my God, I can teach about flow. Oh, my goodness, what is this? So, really, Flow kicked my butt and sent me flying far as a result. And then I'm so grateful because here I am, still able to do this with everyone. And to my amazement, Flow Dreaming is bigger and greater than it has ever been at any point before. So thank you to all of you, all of you, my audience. You get all my clap, clap, clapping today. Anyway, so visit the site, flow dreaming.com. there's a newly revamped Webpage there, excuse me, homepage for you. Things are easier to find. For instance, Flow Dreaming University, where I have all of the classes that I've taught over the last few years, those live and on demand courses where we go deep into much, much deeper than we even go into during our regular podcast here because we actually practice a lot of techniques together in courses. So that's a really good trove of information for you. Plus the Flow Dreams. And I put out new ones every single month. So if you haven't been in a while, check it out. There are people posting on the community discussion board. There are probably a half a dozen or more new meditations as well as Flow Dreams up there. Lots and lots of stuff. I keep it fresh, keep it, keep it fresh. And of course I do say hi on Facebook too. All right, so talk about all the different ways you can use flow energy. First of all, what is flow energy? A quick, quick little recap because I know so many of you guys already know exactly what I'm talking about, inside out and backwards. Flow energy is the stuff we are all made of. It's the stuff the universe is made of. Pretend for a moment you can see the tiniest, tiniest bit of what everything is made of. And it's not even a particle. It's more like a bit of information. A dot, a wave, something that's sort of moving in and out. It's hard to put your finger on, but that's what it is. It's a nugget of information. These nuggets clump together and they create the things we see around us, but they also create more than that. They don't just create the physical things around us, they create whole non physical worlds. They go way beyond what our little frail physical bodies can see and take in. We're strictly products of a physical Earth atmosphere environment. We are programmed in these bodies to only be able to accept a certain amount of information into them. One's information that allows us to exist and reproduce and grow and have a lifetime. But there's so much else out there. And this is where we all say, oh, there's spirit worlds, there's heaven, there's multiverses, there's other dimensions. Yes, there's all of that. There's all of that. And it's all ultimately made from the same original particle. But it's not a particle really. Think of it more like a nugget of information. So you imagine what this is, how vast it is, how mind boggling it is, and yet we are part of it, we are made of it. You're made of it, I'm made of it. Everything around us is made of it. Every little piece of information that travels through our life, every thought, every conversation, every experience is imprinting or embedding itself in this greater flow of information. If something has existed, it is there. It doesn't go away afterward. It is there, it is now added to. And that's what's so beautiful. We are on this incredible state of expansion. Just as our universe is expanding, so is the evolution of our earth. Everything is becoming was very simple and now it's becoming more and more complex as time goes on. This is the trajectory of all of our life and the universe. And source energy itself is on. It's on a journey, an epic journey of expansion and increasing self awareness brought about by accumulating tons and tons of information about itself. All of us. Imagine now the whole universe as being source energy, as being God's energy, God's self. We're part of that. So what happens if you break this down into smaller bits? Well, you have a flow of energy and that's you in particular. Your personality, your lifetime, your greater self is part of this flow of energy as well. Think of yourself like a comet moving through space. That's one of my favorite analogies because it's true. You have a tail. That's your past, you have the present and you have that leading edge that's fuzzy, that's moving into your future. Most of all, you have a direction. It's God given. It's perfect. It's like if you were shot out of a slingshot by God itself. There you go. That is it. That is your flow, that is your trajectory. What are you going to make of it? Well, you have the world is your oyster. Everything is there for you. You can draw from just about anything. It only comes down to how much do you know? How much have you taught yourself? How much have you reached out into life and said, I want to learn about you, I want to learn how to do that? Can I? Is it possible for me? Can I stretch myself? Can I stretch my thinking? Can I become a creator? More like source energy as a creator? More than just a creator of waking up and getting through my day, because that's creation. I create experiences all day long, but I want to go bigger than that. I want to program it using the deepest part of myself, my own source, my higher self, my God self. That's what I want to program from. That's the source that I want to connect with. That's this flow that I want to connect with because it's right, it's good, it's pure, there's nothing blocking it. Is there anything blocking the expansion of the universe? Question. Is there anything blocking the sun, or, excuse me, the Earth from moving around the sun in its perfect orbit? No. This is how your life is also meant to be. Free, easy, unblocked. What do you want to create then? So that's what we have decided to do as manifesters, as people who flow, dream and flow. Dreaming is just something that was given to me to give to you, that teaches you how to reach into this deeper place, work with that energy and start programming it. Starting to look at all those little nuggets of information and saying, wait a minute. Everything has an internal blueprint to it. How do I want those blueprints to interact? What should happen next in my life? That manifesting. Okay, so that's the overview. Here are the specifics, all the different ways you can manifest, and believe me, it's gonna blow your mind. It was when I was writing up my notes. I just kept going and going and going. I said, oh my God, no wonder I've had nothing, no, no end of things to talk about over these years and at least two more books at my sleeve. I'm just waiting for the time to write them. Okay, so here we are. First of all, manifesting things. We all know that's the most basic and obvious things. Houses, workplaces, cars. For instance, just today I received a beautiful little email from someone. By the way, I read my email. Summerlowdreaming.com Summerlowdreaming.com and I tend to. It may be a week or two before I get back to you, but I tend to clump everything together and then email everybody back at once. Just. It's more helpful to me. But today I received one. She said, I design quilts and I need a great sewing machine to take it to the next level. But she says, I don't have any money. And I looked at her website and I said, oh my God, you are incredibly talented. You need more than a great sewing machine. You need sewing machine, you need support. You need all kinds of resources. So I encouraged her. Think outside of just the sewing machine. That's a thing. Things come and go. As soon as you get that, you're going to need another thing. So let's go bigger. Why not say I want total, tremendous, universal support, everything that's required for me to make my quilt making business a huge success? All right, so start with a Thing that's often what impels us. And that's no problem, because we do need things in order to work with them. But it goes from there. What about circumstances? What about circumstances in our life? Sometimes you say, well, I don't know the exact thing, but I do know that if I met the right agent, it could transform my career. If I met the right publisher, it could change everything if I could be hired by the right company. You want a circumstance in your life? You're looking out there and you're saying, I don't know exactly what thing it is. I can't pinpoint it. Neither would I want. I wouldn't want to pinpoint it because I just don't know enough. I don't have enough information. But my flow, my God, it sees and knows everything. It has the whole world, universe to work with and all the possibilities within it. So I'm going to manifest a circumstance now that all the right people are coming into my life at exactly the right time to have the best, most perfect, beautiful outcome for me. Something that will just launch me or something that will protect me or something that will help me win whatever it is you're thinking about in your life. Those of you who are in lawsuits, those of you who are building a house, you say, I don't want just a great house. I want the whole experience to be wonderful, easy, smooth. The best contractors, the best suppliers, you know, the great financing. I just want it to flow, flow, flow. You want to manifest circumstance in your life. And yes, you can do this with flow. Dreaming. Okay, switch gears. What if we want to manifest release? Oh, and this is one that I work more and more and more with. All of you who are in my diamond program and those of you who are in the single sessions I do with you. Sometimes I look at you and I say, I would love to manifest with you. And for you, I'd love to show you the perfect template for your life. I can see it. But you know what? You've got a giant wall up before we can get there, you've got a wall of garbage, and I'm climbing over it just to get to you. I can imagine how you feel inside. I say, you got to dump this. We've got to let this go. And we can do that. In your flow, we can release this old energy, this stuck energy, this junk from your past that is confining you, confining your thinking. So that's where we work, to release old energy, wounded energy, angry energy from the past. In one of my recent clients in fact, we worked heavily. I said, you know, your mother, she's just constant. She's just there, she's all over, she's confined you. She put limitations on your thinking, your beliefs about yourself. And I said, you know, you can't constantly try to prove yourself. Oh, that reminds me, another one. Maybe you don't need to release a particular energy or old past situation. Maybe it's a repetitive energy, a current situation. It may have come from the past, but you keep repeating it over and over. There was another woman I was working with recently, and I keep everybody anonymous, by the way, for all of your privacy. So she was just a woman and her brother, her father, her ex husband. I said, you know what? Every one of these guys is the same. Don't you see this? And we extracted the pattern. It's right there. It's like a little fishing net that floats up on the top of the sea in her flow. I said, look at each of those nets. They're all the same. It's the same pattern. They're all floating up. Look, we can grab them all. Do you want to just take them all at the same time? But they were all. These men had all been very critical of her, demanding of her, demeaning of her. They were constantly making her prove her worth, prove her worth. And it made her feel to this day that she was never good enough as she was. No matter what she did, no matter how much she gave of herself, no matter how much she accomplished, no matter how much she bowed down and rolled over in her marriage. I said, they make you feel like you are never good enough. Let's release that. Let's not blame any one of these men particularly. This is a pattern. It's inside you. You swallowed it whole and it's living inside you. You know, choke it up, you know, it's a hairball. Get it out. So we release that pattern in her flow. We use the energy, just like the comet, send it back into the past, release it, Let it go. Let it go where it belongs. You can do that. We're manifesting release. Okay, here's another one. How about qualities in your life? Look, this is the fifth distinct area now that we're discussing that you can do with manifesting, with flow, dreaming, manifesting qualities in your life. Now these are qualities in your life as opposed to qualities in yourself. Okay, there's a subtle distinction here, but I had to separate them because, for instance, qualities in your life, you may want to create more of a sense of being incredibly lucky around you in your Life, not just for you, but for your whole household. Everybody. Your kids, your spouse, your neighborhood. We're lucky. We're just lucky. We're very protected. We're very lucky. Negativity just passes us by constantly. It's a quality of my life. How about security? How about affluence or bounty? It's a part of my life. I just always have it around me. It's in the people I know that I meet and connect with. They all are affluent and they have lots of stability and they're philanthropists and they're people I like to model myself after and share with. I mean, this is the quality of people in my life. I have this. It's a quality. What about creativity? Those of you who say, I'm just, I need a breakthrough in my life, I need to do something different. I want to become something different. I've never given myself that chance to write that novel or to, you know, create that craft business or on Etsy or whatever it is. Maybe you want the quality of creativity to start flowing in your life so you run into creative people. You're suddenly starting to swirl in those circles where the creativity is. Think about that. There are places in the world where creativity is. It coalesces. It's not, you know, in your downtown strip mall. Creativity rests in certain places. It comes together. It's an energy you can go out and find that can come into your life. The same is true for many conditions, by the way, not just creativity. Okay, how about those qualities in yourself? Yes, you can manifest those too. Again, this is something I've been working more and more with my diamonds to do. And those people that I mentor every month in my mentorship circle and my sapphires manifest qualities inside yourself. And a lot of the flow dreams, by the way, I've been putting out this year, especially for the flow dream of the month. It's to increase certain qualities in you. How do you do this? When you manifest when you feel it in flow dreaming. Remember, flow dreaming is based on emotional output. Absolute, perfect aligned, intense emotional output. It's like you create a wellspring of feeling, a fountain of feeling inside yourself. Imagine moving outside of you and it's just tumbling over into all the energy that surrounds you. What are you doing? You're affecting those little nuggets of information that you are. You are actively affecting them and creating them when you are feeling something. I sent out a newsletter just today, actually. If you're on my newsletter, you would have received it otherwise. You can go to my Facebook page and Find a link to it there. But it's about this exact thing, how you create in this fabric of flow energy. So we manifest qualities like fearlessness. Oh God, that one has been so popular. You know what it feels like inside to have no fear, just no fear. Just say, oh, I can do that, I can do that. Imagine saying that about something in your life right now that you haven't been able to do. Just this total sense of, of course I can do that. You're beyond fear. Fear can't touch you, it can't reach you. You cultivate that particular energy in you that's manifesting. How about action? Everybody who says I procrastinate, I don't get stuff done. Cultivate the internal feeling, the internal energetic state of action. You know what that does? It kicks your butt. It makes you go out and say all those things that have been on my to do list for the last six months. I'm crossing them all off, half of them this weekend. You know, come on, we've all had days like that where, you know, we wake up and we don't, we don't realize it, but we start cleaning out the kitchen drawer, then we start tackling the garage, then we send out 15 emails, then we pay all of our bills and we say, oh my God, I'm like having a really high impact day. What's going on? You know, it's like that day you can tackle your closet and you can actually throw things out because most days you can't. So those very rare days when you can, you have to take full advantage. That's an action energy that somehow got stimulated around you. Well, you can manifest that at will. I have a flow dream for that, by the way. Actually, I have a flow dream for most of these. Action, action beyond fear, dazzling self love. I've got that one too. That's where we manifest a quality of self love inside ourself for our whole life. Or being deserving. That's another one that a lot of people really relate to. I deserve this. I don't have to prove it. I don't have to do anything for it. I don't have to offer anymore. I already deserve it just because of who I am. Does that ring a bell? Did that make you feel like, ooh, well check out that one. Deserving or I deserve wonderful things. Okay, there's more areas. Can you believe it? And yet I have to go to a quick break. So when we get back, I'm going to go through a few more areas and I hope you're thinking right now. I hope you're stimulated in your mind. You're saying, God, I could use it for that, or I should work. Maybe I should work on this. Then we'll go and get some of your calls. Thank you all for patiently waiting. And of course, we'll do a flow dream. I'm Summer McStravik. The show's called Flow Dreaming.

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Now back to the show.

You're listening to Flow Dreaming with your host, Summer McStravik. Through these, because I want to get to your calls and do some Flow dreaming with you, of course, on air today. Here are a few other ways that you can use Flow Dreaming in your life. A way that I use it quite a bit is to connect to my own higher guidance and for my own spiritual development. When I am in my flow, I am really connecting into my own source energy to the greater source energy. I find that there are other consciousnesses that are available to interact with when I'm deep in my flow. And so for that reason, it can kind of mimic what an intuitive or a psychic does or a medium for that matter. However, for me, it's very integrated. It just means that whether a person is alive or not alive in a body any longer, let's put it that way, or perhaps comes from some other origin, I'm able to connect and communicate with that consciousness. I find that people have been able to do this as well. I teach a course called Empathic Intuition once a year to help people understand how to use flow energy to do that. But you can certainly just go in and connect with your own guides, connect with your own greater self. I have flow dreams that allow you to do that. You can find those on my website@flowdreaming.com. i also use flow energy to connect directly with others, mind to mind. And I have taught a class about how to do that with people as well, where it's basically how to flow dream for others, how to communicate with them. And what you're doing is you're creating templates for of opportunity for interaction with them, offering them ideas. You're just offering it to them on a non physical level as opposed to the physical kind of interaction. You know, say talking or writing an email that we're used to. So yes, you can definitely use flow as kind of a means of information exchange. Let's put it that way. Like a little river, you know, put your little, put your little note in a bottle and it floats right over. I also use Flow Dreaming and flow Energy to impact my relationships with a lot of different things. And I don't limit relationships to people or animals for that matter. You're saying what, Wait a second, that's. Where is she going with that? But to start with, yes, when I'm using my flow to impact my relationships, I'm doing it because I want to maybe fix a problem that's come up in my relationship or I'm helping someone else to find a partner or to release a partner. All of this is energy work. I mean, it's just straight up energy work. Using this medium of flow energy to do the work within, you can use it to create friendships, develop, deepen friendships, open yourself to them, bring in friendships. All ways of using flow to create something. A friendship is not really a thing. It's not really a condition. It's an interaction, a specific kind of interaction. So that's why I say a relationship. And I've defined this as separate. I use my flow to adjust my relationship to other energies in my life, such as to my body, when I need to release stress, when I need to communicate with my own body. Find out what is it thinking? Why are you acting this way? Why are you sick right now? What's going on? You can use flow to retemplate your body. You know your body is made of the same little nuggets of information. Why not give it a new template, one that says you've lost 15 pounds or you can now release all of that excess water weight or whatever it may be. You can do that with Flow Dreaming. I have a great weight loss program, in fact, that's been created just for that as well as my ideal body. That one actually helps you get comfortable with the body that you're in while still offering suggestions for improvements you might like to experience. How about this? Lastly, how about your relationship to money, relationship to finances? Think of money as an energy. It's got its own flow. It certainly think about money. It flows from bank to bank, from business to business to pocketbook. It's a huge if you could see, see the exchange and the flow of money throughout the world. If you could diet like a doctor might, you know, they give you that dye you swallow so you can take an X ray of your body. Imagine if you could do that to the exchange of money around the world. This place would be so crisscrossed. It'd be so thick with connections, it would be unbelievable. Money is always in movement. It's always going from one person or place to another, and you have a relationship with where it's going. You can affect that. You can use flow dreaming to affect your finances. So that is, in a nutshell, a rather large cocoa nutshell. Coconut shell, a big, big nutshell. All the many ways that I use flow energy. And one thing I do with people individually is help them understand where is it most important to work first? Where. Where is the outstanding issue that we grab a hold of that and everything else kind of, you know, folds underneath it. So it helps to have a guide. But you can certainly start flow dreaming on your own. You can use any of my mp3s. I have free ones available for you. Start working with it in your own life, and if it really sings to you, you'll just want to do it all the time. You'll always remember it, and it changes the way you look at the world. You know, I look at the world as a manifesting practitioner. The world is energy based. It's exchange based, and everything that occurs happens within this matrix. Okay, let's go to some calls now because I. Oh, gosh. I did speak a long time. I wasn't sure, but I guess I did. Okay. Ernestine, you're calling from Central Valley, California. How are you today?

Hi, Gray. I'm so glad I called.

Good, good. And what is your question?

Well, it's the very first time I called, so it's the very first time I'm hearing flow dreaming. But it. It was by no accident I contacted you today. So I'm kind of, I guess, in needing direction. I don't have a job right now, but I do have a platform. I also host an Internet talk show. And it's just kind of. I'm struggling with, you know, do I want to get a real job or continue with this? Because it's not easy right now, so I don't know what to do.

What's your name?

Give a shout out the show's name. It's Just Talk to Me with Ernestine Hill. And it's just featuring people doing positive things in the community, businesses, events, organizations, stories.

Mm. Okay. So Looking at it, it feels like you're still wavering. Is it a hobby or is it a career? Is it a hobby or is it a career? Is it something I just really, really like or do I want to put the pressure on it to make me an income? It's like you're not sure. Yeah, you got a foot in both camps. What I'm sensing from you is that, you know, having the pressure of not having work in your life is such a drag on your energy that it's like it's pulling you back. You know, some people, they're just, they're about to just leap into their new entrepreneurial life and I can feel the momentum behind them. You're not. I don't feel like that momentum is strong or if it was, it's gotten watered down because there's this greater and greater pull and it's a fear based pull. I don't need. I have income. I need income. I need some support and some stability so I can build this. So that's why when I look at you, it's like you're a needle on a compass, you know, And I can see you wobbling, but then you starting to pull toward. I need to find some work. Work. And the work that I feel that you do, it's around people, it's out, it's social, it is connective somehow. What do you do? What field are you in that you, you have this interaction with the public?

Well, I'm. For many years I've been a counselor and I've taught like groups, worked in prisons. I've worked with youth. So I have been very social. And now I'm being social and going out and promoting people and telling their stories and trying to get that out there. Like you said, the momentum was strong. I was like really? All day, every day. And now I'm like, I do feel drained. I feel exactly what you were saying.

Yeah, it's because you're feeling a pull and I can feel it's like a rubber band around your waist pulling you back into some sort of stable life. Stable work. And that community outreach is totally. Exactly. I can see you doing all of that. I don't feel you need to change away from that. It's more like you need to feel fresh. About can be a complement. Your two lines of work should be complementary to each other, not going in opposite directions. And I know that your last job, you felt like it. I don't know, it's like I feel like this overwhelm, it got to you. It was Too much for you. Maybe it pulled too much out of you or, I don't know, you just felt, I need to breathe. I need something lighter than this.

I said, I don't want to do this anymore. And it just so happened on a. You know, I lost my job right after I said that. And then I went back to school and got this platform for the show.

But it's.

It's. I got sponsorships, but that's just for airtime and not, like, income coming in yet. So I'm like, okay.

So what I'd. What I would encourage you to do is flow for great, supportive, complimentary work. And don't make. Don't say it has to be like what I did before. It's wonderful, supportive, complimentary work where I love it. I go out with people. It's new and fresh every day. I don't ever really know quite what I'm walking into because I need that, because that stimulates me. That's part of what you need in your work, by the way, in case you didn't know it. Go for that. And something will arrive for you that will give you that sort of interim fulfillment that you need, will generate the income so you can let go and breathe again. And then I can see you pursuing your radio and your other community endeavors with even more passion once that relief is inside of you. Okay, I need to let you go, but I hope that gives. Thank you so much. Bye now. Take care. Okay. How about Kathy? Hey, Kathy, how are you? Oh, hello, Kathy. Hello. Hello. Hello. Wait a minute.

I'm sorry, I had you on speaker.

Hi.

Yeah, I have my question. I spoke to you about a month ago, but since that month with my ex husband, we got an offer on a house, and we're going to be separating the rest of our belongings. And he's still rather angry with me, and it's been sort of difficult. And so I was wondering if there's anything I can do to kind of maybe move this process along more.

Remember, we spoke about this before? Yeah. He was angry, and we know why he's angry. I don't need to say he. Let's see. Let me see, let me see, let me see. What can you do to extract yourself? You know where I feel there's this. Because he has the anger, it presents like a wall. It's like whenever I approach it, it's like there's a giant flaming wall. And so tricky how to get past it. It's like you got to find there's only a few ways in or past this tall, flaming wall of his anger and obstinacy, his need to sort of crush you because of his. What he feels, you know, happened. What I would suggest when you split the proceeds of the house, you appeal to him being an honorable man, his sense of honor, his sense of decency. You're a fair man. What would you do? You know, remember, we have to rebuild his ego.

Yep.

So it's. I know you may have to grin and grit your teeth to do this, so try to find some honesty in you when you feel this way, because that's what you're going to need. But you have to feel like I will rebuild your ego because if I do that, you can get over this anger and insecurity and you can be fair, which I know you can be. You have to believe he can be as well. But you have to appeal to his ego and make him feel calm. Make him feel like it was all his idea. Make him feel like it was all, you know, appeal to him. Appeal to that ego of his. I know it sounds kind of like a weird backhanded way of doing it. You have to build him back up to the rational thinking, even handed guy that he can be. And to do that, you have to kind of help him correct this hole he's got himself into. Okay. Yeah.

Because we're going to be splitting up the rest of our contents and everything. So I'm just dreading it because it's been kind of lots of conflict and it's like, so that's the piece I'm nervous about.

Well, try all the good things about him that you can as you do it. And you might even say, honey, I remember when you got that award for your golf game. Or, you know, give him, make him that. It's like soothing the savage beast. You know, when a lion is roaring, you can't be rational, but if you scratch his head a little bit and make him purr, he'll say, oh, okay, all right, I can deal now. And that's what you need to do.

Okay, thank you so much.

Bye now. Oh, I know. Sometimes it's just. I feel like I'm just giving straight up practice advice. But I know the situation and that's exactly where the energies are. It's kind of like, you know, looking at a set of scales and they're high on one side and low on the other. It's like, what do we need to add more of into the situation to get things balanced and even. Okay, we have a quick break to go to. We'll do a Flow Dream when we get back and if I have time, I can get another call in. So stay with me. I'm Summer McStravik. The show is Flow Dreaming.

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Manifest your life with Summer McStravic and Flow Dreaming. Foreign. Welcome back to Flow Dreaming. We are about to embark on a flow dream together. So to those of you who are still waiting, I'm sorry, I don't think I will be able to get your calls today. But you know, you can hang on because right after this show airs live, another show comes on called the Dear Venus Show. That's my mom and she does some incredibly good intuitive work, so you might try asking her your questions if you don't get through to me. Okay, so let's go ahead and do a flow dream together. Now, I've had a hard time choosing what to flow dream about because today's show has been about all the different ways you can use flow energy, the things that you can create with flow energy. So because of that, I think what I'm going to do is take you into the flow, just sort of walk you up to it, walk you up to the fountain and allow you to try and figure out what do I need most? Where does this energy want to go in and start working? Where can I get most aligned? What part of my life is most out of alignment? After all, that was my theme of the week so far, how to be in alignment. And alignment for me means connecting in with that great stream of forward progression that you are, this evolving, expanding being that you are. And as that happens, for us, we create in whatever area is required, whether we are manifesting equality this week or manifesting a thing next week or manifesting a situation the week after that. It's all about just kind of stuff, scurrying around and going from one thing to the next and figuring out what needs a little propping up this week. Where do I need to give a little extra attention that week? And you see, as we do this week after week, month after month in our lives, what happens our entire life goes up a notch in terms of happiness, joy, flow, ease. And I'm living proof of that. I know hundreds of people who are living proof of that. I'm watching it happen with people that I know that I've been working with for months and in some cases, years now. I'm seeing their lives evolve along the line of flow, which means constant greater ease, more opportunities, more security, better relationships, better health. Up and up and up and up and up and up we go, addressing just one area after another in a very natural progression, without really even thinking. So close your eyes with me and we're going to flow together. Flow. Dreaming is not meditation. It's not affirmations or hypnosis. You are moving into the wellspring of this energy, this flow. And the way you're doing it is through daydreaming, guided daydreaming, where you lose connection with time. You lose connection, often with your actual physical surroundings. Have you noticed that you can achieve with daydreaming what many people achieve with meditation? And yet daydreaming is something we already know how to do. And many of us can go into it very deeply and very well when we're experiencing a daydream or a fantasy. So your daydream is going to be about your flow. And that is literally the bridge that takes you there. I will guide you on this daydream. I will take you into the flow, and once there, will communicate to us through our emotions. We will feel things in our flow. And feeling is what we use in place of words. We can even use it in place of imagery if we want to. Feeling is what creates. That's the crayon color on the paper. Once your feeling goes down onto the flow, like crayon on paper. It is there. It is marked, it's embedded, it's changed the paper forevermore. So we move into the flow now with these closed eyes, and we feel it like waves of rolling light. We're walking forward. Maybe we're being guided forward. Feeling the sign of kind of calling, a gentle nudge. Move there, move toward that. We don't have to ask or look for it. It's just there. It's just the way to go that feels the most right. We let go into that. Maybe our walking becomes more like a floating, flying or diving or floating. And there are waves of light all around us. Tall, beautiful, gorgeous waves of light. Like hundred foot high shells reaching to the sky. Curved and beautiful, opalescent, shiny. And yet these waves of light are moving, rippling forward. You can feel it. It's like you are in the place, inside of the time and the universe and space, where everything is expanding, everything is moving, everything is growing, becoming more interesting, becoming more aware. You're in this place and you're saying, yes, where is my flow though? Where's my particular flow? And there you find it, right there. Look down, you find yourself standing now in a very clear place. It's quiet and beautiful. The light recedes around you. This is your space. Your space. It's almost like a little meadow in the sky. A meadow of light and energy. There's a pond there, a spring. It's a bubbling spring. And what's coming up from the middle of it, if you put your cool toes into the light, you feel this energy rushing, pulsing, excited, beautiful, fun, sweet, springy, active, bubbling up, flowing out. It's soft as feathers on your ankles. Flow energy. It's yours, it's yours. And you're saying to this flow energy, what in my life right now needs you most? Go there, go there, go into this part of my life. I allow you to. And you feel the energy and the light circle you and surround you. And maybe you walk right into this beautiful glowing fountain. Maybe you allow the light to infuse your body. Gentle and soft, it's a gold and silvery shield. This is your flow, this is your energy. And it's saying, we can feel where there's distress, we can feel where there's trouble. We can feel where you are deeply desiring or craving to make something. You want something. We feel this. We know where you need this energy. We're going to shore it up for you, gonna fill it, offer you whatever you need, whatever requires. You have requirements, you have whatever you need to manifest. Here. Here's light. Here's energy. Here's movement. Movement. Here's the stuff of creation. Yes, we'll put it together however you need it, however you require it. You don't even have to know how you require it, exactly what has to happen. You just have to know it. I need it here. I need it here. So you take it in. It feels so good. You feel relief. You honestly feel relief as you realize this works. This does something. I need to do this again. I will do this again. And now you feel your flow beginning to disappear around you. Come out of your daydream and you open your eyes and you realize you were just in flow. You briefly touched it, felt it, communicated with it. You have an understanding of how this process works and you're ready to go. So between now and the next podcast, pick something. Start working. Go visit my website, say hi to me, send me an email summerlowdreaming.com and until next week, happy Flow Dreaming, everyone. I will talk with you again shortly. I'm Summer McStravik. I'll see you next time.

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