#403 How to Get the Universe to Listen to You

Flow Dreaming.

It's a show where we talk about the power of your mind to change your world around you, to literally affect the fabric of your reality. We talk about this feeling of hope and joy and relief. And that is what being aware of your flow does. It gives you a feeling of power again in your lives.

Oh, my God.

You were so on target. You are so amazing. I can't thank you enough. Breathe.

It is the feeling that you bring forward. It is your emotional connection that really sets the tone for what is going to be happening to you and for you. And you know that feeling, when you.

Touch it, it just spreads through you.

Thank you for taking my call. I don't know why I feel like crying. I think I just feel your love.

Of course.

And I think I'm gonna get some ANSWERS.

I'm Summer McStravik, and welcome to another episode of Flow Dreaming.

Ooh, that's right. Welcome to Flow Dre. Are you guys ready to get in your flow today? Do you know what that means to get into your flow? It means to place yourself in perfect alignment with life, with your greater self, with God, with source, with your own future, knowing that your world is unfurling itself, blooming, if you will, into everything that you're desiring it to and expecting it to. That's what flow is. It means that you're on the right path, the one that's for your highest good, that will take you in the direction that creates your most complete, intelligent, aware, and loving expansion. If you think that there are 52 cards in a deck, some of those cards are high end cards, and some of those cards are low end cards. And then there's a lot in the middle. Flow is like saying you're getting all the best cards all the time because they're there. And instead of being a random game of chance where you just pick a card blindly, you can choose. I'm only going to pick those best cards, all aces, kings, and queens. For me, I'm in flow all the time. If I want to, I can throw in and spice up my life with some twos and threes and some icky cards that make my hands a lot harder to play. And maybe I do that from time to time because I forget and I don't know any better. But flow basically means you can always return to this place where everything is working for you. It's kind of like if you believe that you can manifest, if you believe that you can create, if you believe that there is a God or a source or even just sort of Some sort of universal intelligence. And you believe that that intelligence wants to deepen its understanding of itself, understanding of you, wants to see what happens when its creation grows and evolves, is curious to see. Then you can believe that flow is there for you, that you can be in this place, you. You can be on this path anytime you want. And I happen to know that you can see manifestations, evidence of this all through life every day. In fact, even psychology, biology, a lot of the sciences have identified flow as natural principles. So if it's a natural principle in the natural physical world, like flow systems, you guys ever heard of that? Flow psychology, if it's a true principle in the natural physical world, why wouldn't it also be in the non physical world, in the realm of spirit? Anyway, that's what we talk about and teach here on Flow Dreaming on the Flow Dreaming podcast to learn how to do this technique. It's a wonderful technique for manifesting. By the way, I encourage you to visit my website, flow dreaming.com. there's a place there for people who are new and I have podcasts where I devote the entire hour to showing you. Here's how you do it and I do it with you, and you can learn and be taught that way. I also have a wonderful manifesting store where I've created all kinds of what I call flow dreams, which are downloadable MP3s. I've put them together into playlists for you so you can work on different areas of your life and say, gosh, this area of my life is really out of flow. It's not evolving, it's not manifesting, it's not creating what I want. Well, go find a playlist, begin working with it, begin shaping and molding those energies using something like that. Today's program is kind of a prelude, actually. It is a prelude to an online seminar that I'm giving next weekend. And if this is a podcast, I'm sorry, the seminar has passed. But you might be able to find this information elsewhere, depending on what I decide to do with it later. It's called the the four most Potent ways to Talk to the Universe and How to get it to Listen. Also, why you might be being ignored. It's something along those lines. It's got a ridiculously long title to it, but it is happening in about a week and I'd love for you to join me. It's free, it's online, it's going to last roughly an hour, maybe an hour and a half if things really get going. And I'm going to tell you how the most successful manifestors use energy, how they talk to the universe so that it hustles to get stuff done for them, how I talk to the universe to build the life I've built. I'm going to share these things with you, and I'm also going to share a few things that you might be doing that are sabotaging that, that may be holding you back. So by prelude, what I want to tell you today is I can't tell you what the top four are because I'm saving that, saving that for the semin that's coming up and everybody who's looking forward to seeing you all, meeting you all there as we kind of walk through these details of how to get the universe to listen. But there are a few other ways that aren't in the top four that I do want to share with you today. So we're going to follow our regular format for the program, which is where I talk with you a little bit, share some knowledge with you, get you thinking, get you back in your flow. We're going to flow dream together, where you can feel yourself talking, communicating ever more easily with the greater energies to create, shape and manifest what you want. And then, of course, we're going to do some calls. So to find out how to reach me, because this podcast is taped and aired live every week on Tuesdays, go to my website, flow dreaming.com. there you'll find my radio, my podcast page, and it tells you how to call me when I'm on live, when I'm on live in your part of the world, as well as the many ways you can get the show. By the way, they have a Google app for it now if you're using Google apps on your phone or your tablet. So there are ever more ways to reach to reach this information. Okay, so let's start with something that I recognize in myself. I'll use this as an example because in addition to sharing the four most important ways or potent ways to get the universe to listen to, I'm also going to be sharing the five reasons why you might be being ignored. And that's what I'm starting with right now. The sixth reason, because I'm working my way up, right? It's like a New Year's countdown. The sixth reason why you might be being ignored. And this is one that is something I have that I thought I would share with all of you. In fact, I sent out a little note this morning in my newsletter about that. I recognize that I'm a pretty good manifestor. I mean, I'm pretty great at it actually, which is why I teach it. And the more I teach, the better I become, because I get to benefit from everyone's experience. I can kind of lump it all together. Hundreds of people, thousands of people. I can notice trends, I notice what works, what doesn't work, and so on. And so a lot of you guys have probably noticed that over the years. I started speaking a lot more psychologically. I talk about your patterns, talk about blocks, I talk about resistance. The reason that this is happening is because, frankly, manifesting is the easy part. Learning it, how to do it, easy part. Once you get over the belief that you can do it, that's the hardest thing, then actually doing it easy. But what happens is people stop themselves from doing it. They don't talk to the universe the way they should because there's something in them that prevents them from doing it. And that's where I say, let's get in your head, let's get in your energy, let's get in your flow. Because how can you ask for, you know, career recognition? How can you ask to be, you know, deeply, you know, falling in love with someone of your caliber if there's something in you that's preventing you from even effectively asking for that? You couldn't manifest it if you tried because there's something in you that won't allow you to have it. That's where things get really fascinating and interesting. And frankly, that's what a lot of my diamond groups do, my sapphires, we start probing all of that and we say, oh, this is why, this is why. And we start breaking down these things so that our manifesting becomes smoother, faster, quicker. We see results, you know, instantly. We can change direction on a fly. We make things happen in our lives daily, daily good things. So to go back, one of the things that I do that interferes with my manifesting, why the universe will sometimes ignore me, is that I've noticed one of my patterns is that I can be an overthinker and a dilly dallyer. You guys know that term dilly dally? I don't know where I got it from, it's so old fashioned. But dilly dally, it means that you just kind of just do other things. You kind of just nosey around on things, let time slip past you, don't really attack the real issue, let it simmer. In my case, what happens is I say, okay, I've got to do this. And by the way, I am not a procrastinator. I Have no problem doing things once I set my mind to do them. My list every day is quite long. I usually have, let's see, what do I have right now? I have a list in front of me. I always do. There's 15 items on it today. Of those, I will not get through all 15, believe me, because I don't even put things down like do my podcast today. That's not even on the list. It's just assumed. Nonetheless, I get through the list. My problem is a lot of things never make it onto my list. Those are the things that block my success in the end. Why don't they make it on my list? Because here's what happens. I notice there's something that's not working for me. I notice where things are getting kind of snagged up, where they are not starting to flow right where nothing is progressing. I notice that nothing is really changing. And then I think, huh, I wonder why that's happening. I wonder what I should be doing about it. I wonder if. And then I think, well, you know, maybe I just should listen. Maybe I should research a little bit and try and figure this out. And if I just wait a little bit longer, I know that something will happen and come to me. Well, I have discovered it's true now. I've discovered a lot of things I could do to address this, but how do I know which is the right one? I mean, maybe if I just wait a little bit longer, the right one will happen, but I can't actually do that right one right now because, God, there's so many other things I'm doing. I'm going to have to wait a couple of weeks until I can even start tackling that right one. And so maybe I'll do that maybe in, you know, another month or two, and by then I'll know for sure anyway. Okay, so you see what's happening while all of this is going on in the background of my mind, I'm dilly dallying. I'm acknowledging I've already found a lot of things I could do. I've already found a lot of ways I could start talking to my flow manifesting, taking action, but I'm not. Because this combination of dilly dally, overthinking now in the way, why does that happen? What is it ultimately doing? I tell you what it's doing. It's creating a dam across my flow. It's blocking the water. It's saying, no, no, we're not going to go there yet. Nope, nope, can't do that. Yet. Nope. I'm going to keep throwing things up in front of you. And worse, I'm not even going to let you know you're really doing this for a couple of weeks. Yeah, we're just going to let this simmer. It's just going to be those things that pop in your head while you're taking a shower, while you're sitting in the car. It's going to be those things that are. You know, you sometimes write down for a little bit because you feel like it's starting to really get to you, but then you forget about it. Yeah, I'm just going to keep it down there for a while. And then when it gets so bad you can't keep it down there, then it's going to pop up to the four. And then that's when I say, oh, my God, I've had this problem for three months already. What have I been doing? Where has my mind been? Because, you see, if I had seen myself in this process, I could have gone directly to flow with it. I could have said, hey, I notice that I'm telling the universe all the time. I'm too busy to get to this. I'm too piled up with other things. I'm too blah, blah, blah, blah. Whatever it is, whatever my dilly dallying form has taken, that's what happens. I could have said to Flo, I've noticed this. Can you do something about it? Can we break this impasse? Can you give me some good action? I'm going to take some good action. All I know right now is that I'm noticing something isn't working. Let's fix it. And then my dilly dally self would say, well, we don't quite know how yet. Maybe we ought to just hang out a little bit longer. Maybe the right information isn't there yet. Ooh, even more devious. Maybe our flow hasn't brought it to you yet. All of these are ways that I talk to myself that sabotage my manifesting, that slow it down, really. Flow has brought me a lot of ways, probably to solve the problem. Probably one of those ways happened to solve it almost instantly. When I identified the problem, I just didn't recognize it. I didn't give it any weight. I didn't see it, I discounted it. I pushed it aside. I set it for later. Here's something to think about. When a problem arises, most of the time, the solution arises with it. We just choose not to see it, hear it, or recognize it, because it's not the one we want at the time really important, you got to own up to that. So a way of working around that. Here's how you fix that. This is how I tackle this tendency in myself so that I get the universe to start listening to me again. When the solution comes up, I say, alright, I know the solution, I'm looking, I'm staring straight at it. And I also have my huge list of reasons why I can't or won't implement this solution. I say to my Flo, hey Flo, check it out. There's all this resistance in me to doing this. I have a problem and instead I'm going to let myself suffer with it because I'm resisting taking care of it. Would you help me with that? Can we flow on this? Will you create a solution for me? Will you help me implement the solution so that it will work out for me, so that I can have some trust in it? Because that's all my delaying is doing. My delaying is saying, I don't trust you, so I'm going to delay and wait because I don't trust you. I think if I do this, it's not going to work out. It's going to become a problem, it's going to become, I don't trust you with a solution. Can you imagine what this is like when this piles up in your life and you do this not just with one thing in a week or a month, but you've got four or five or eight or 15 simmering situations going on like this. Do you see why people say manifesting doesn't work? Doesn't work because they're sitting on all the solutions. They're not jumping into them, they're not trusting them to be there. Now trust isn't blindly just saying, okay, I'm gonna spend all my money and you know, my bank account's gonna magically fill up because I trust it. That's not what trust is. Trust is saying, I'm going to make some very thoughtful decisions that feel right and good where I can see how they would probably come about to a good solution. I'm going to get past the fear, the doubt, the excuses that tell me not now, do it later. Dilly dally, think about it, get more information. I'm going to step into this mix and I'm going to say to Flo, every step I take, correct me if I start in the wrong direction, correct me, put me back on the path again. Maybe I'll contact one website and I'll realize now that's not right immediately. I'll see Website. Oh, that one's more like it. Get a phone call from a friend. Oh, I'll think I'll do this instead. Keep the information flowing, keep the action. See, I'm going to take a bunch of action. You're going to give me a bunch of response. I'm going to listen and I'm going to feel and I'm going to keep communicating. Hey, this is what I'm after. Hey, this is what I'm after. Hey, this is what I'm after. Okay, Whenever you do this, you're talking to the universe. What you're doing is a way of talking to the universe. Action is communication. Sometimes we forget that, you know, and we, we think Flow, dreaming and manifesting is all about just closing your eyes and drifting off and, you know, meditating and all that. No, that's really important. Actually. That's what I call pre action. That's something people don't do enough of, by far. But action is also a way of communicating. We do action most of the time. So what action are you doing? What are you communicating right now? I bet it's something like this. Well, I got up and I went to work and I thought about my crummy relationship and then I. And then I did my work and then I thought about dinner and then I came home and then I walked the dog and then I got in a fight in my crummy relationship and then I stayed up watching TV too late again and. And then I went to sleep. There you go. That was your action. That's what you communicated to flow. What is flow going to do with that? How is that manifesting for you? Better yet, you manifested all of that. Did you give it instructions? Where do you want that to go? What you basically said through all of your actions in the day is this is fine with me. This is what I expect. This is normal. This is my day. Manifesters, really successful ones, they don't. They do all of those things.

Yes.

And they even fight with their boyfriends. But they add something else onto it. They say, no, it's not good enough. There's something more. My tomorrow has to be in my today. Therefore I have to be doing some things today that are creating my tomorrow purposefully, intentionally, with action, with focus, with clarity. And I have to do some pre action so that I've really backed it up. So I've got a template for it and the energies of blueprint, and I've got some actions that are helping steer me toward it. So at some point in my day, I'm Going to, you know, ring up that realtor and say, yeah, find my house. I'm gonna. I'm going to, you know, call that travel agent. Yes. Book me on my cruise. I'm going to go to that website. Yes. Sign me up for that class. Whatever it is you are purposely putting into your flow because tomorrow is going to embody what you are doing right now. Does that help? Okay, a bit of a long monologue. Thanks for sticking with me. We're going to go to a quick break. I hope you're thinking and your mind is spinning and you're feeling excited. In fact, during the break, it'd be a great time to go sign up for my newsletter. That's the Flow Dreaming newsletter FlowDreaming. If you do that, you will get a notice about my upcoming free online class. I'll be sending out a couple more of them. So please, please, please do that. If you can't find it, I think there's also a link to it at the manifesting store@flow dreaming.com. and if this is an older podcast, sign up anyway, I may be doing another one of these classes. You never know. Also, quickly, my diamond program is filling up. It's filling really fast. Faster than even the first time around, which was about six months ago, faster than really ever. It's a great program. That's why. And people have started sharing their results with it. It's just been pretty mind blowing. If you want to learn to be a great manifestor, if you want to learn the exact method I have personally used to create a life where I work from home. I have my two kids that I take to school and pick up from school. I have a wonderful, very prosperous and beautiful business where I work with people who are just like me. I basically created my own friend circle through my work. I have a wonderful husband. I have great friends. I'm not bragging. I'm telling you this because this is what I'm teaching you. How to create whatever it is you want in your life you can make through this process. It's a method. It takes six months to learn it. To get deep into it, we remove all the blocks that come up to you getting what you want. Fantastic program. Go check it out. Okay, quick break and we'll be right back after this. Hi.

It's summer, but on break. And I know that some of you are still wondering what is Flow Dreaming and what is MI School?

Because I refer to both of these.

Quite a bit in my podcast. Me School is a transformational program. It's A gorgeous and deeply revealing, empowering learning online school worldwide where I teach you how to remodel your life in any way you choose, using the technique of Flow Dreaming as well as a bunch of other deeply powerful life changing processes. So me school is either enrolling or it's accepting names onto the wait list. And that means that I'm accepting students who work with me for the year. And you can learn how to do.

What I do in life.

The way I think, the way I build things, make things, heal things. Everything I talk about, you will learn directly from me how to do. You're going to create some amazing things, my MI schoolers. Their lives change way beyond the norm. And you don't even have to be a superstar when you go in. Some of you are, and you're ready to go bigger, play in that bigger field. And some of you are just saying, hey, help.

What's next? Where should I go?

And both are fine. Both are great if you're ready to go big. But you know that you need to deepen your own spiritual practice and your personal growth, because that's where it all comes from, right? Then this is where you need to be. Your life only grows as big as you do. So here's what to do. Go over to flowdreaming.com and click on MI School. And during these enrollment periods, you can actually set up a free phone call with me or my staff and we'll talk about it.

Is it a fit? Is it interesting?

During waitlist times, we just put you on a list of people who've expressed interest, so we can notify you as soon as the doors open. All right. I look forward to hearing from you and even more to getting to know you as one of my personal students in me school. Now let's get back to the episode.

You're listening to Flow Dreaming with your host, Summer McStravik. Back to Flow Dreaming. I hope you had a pleasant little break there. I think it's time to change up those little ads, don't you think? I know. I just, I never get to things. I have too much on my plate. See, already, Already I'm giving you reasons, giving you reasons. Things that are just nagging at me. That's why they're not changing. There you go. Anyway, I hope you enjoyed that little discussion. That was a taste of a big, bigger, much bigger event that we're doing next weekend when I do this live online seminar with you guys. So hope to see many, many of you there. Hope some of you guys too will consider the diamond program. Like I said, this only comes around, oh, like once or twice a year. And I only have as many spots as I can fit, so they are filling up. If you're interested, just shoot me an email, let me know. You can also find that information on my website. Okay, let's go together into the flow. I'm going to actually do this with you, take you there. If you're new, just follow along. Just enjoy yourself. It's not meditation, it's not self hypnosis. Those are the two most important things to remember. If you go in with an expectation of either, you are going to be confused and you're going to be doing it improperly. When you're in flow, you recognize that you are communicating with the quantum mind. You are in a state where, think of it like this. You're going deep into the computer and you're messing with the programming. You are putting new information into the code. When you are meditating, you're clearing your mind. Often you are reaching a state of detachment. You are in essence moving into a kind of flow. If you are completely letting yourself go into it, but you're not inserting information, that's the active part. That makes it manifesting, that makes it flow. Dreaming, not meditation. The way that you insert your manifesting information is through your emotions. That's why we focus heavily on feel this, feel that, and then we also work with different ways to most effectively communicate what it is you want to create. Yeah, like what are the most potent ways to do it? To flow, dream, to say, to communicate. So just go along with me. Now, those of you guys who are old masters at this, you know exactly what to do. Close your eyes with me and we're going to communicate something to Flo. Communicate a desire, a direction. Maybe we're even going to try and find out if we have the same tendency to dilly dally and overthink. If there's something that we should be taking care of that we haven't been able to see, we're going to ask that, that come up. Your eyes are closed and you're breathing deeply, relaxing, letting all the stress of your day just wash out of you as you take just a few minutes of your time, perhaps the most important few minutes of your day, to look deep into your energy. Look deep into yourself. Look deep into the blueprints of your life, the ones that are unrolling right in front of you, forming your future. Do you see that? Perhaps you can even see an image. Massive blueprints rolling out along a sea of stars. And these blueprints are just like the kind that you would get if you were building a house, except this house is your life. And as you look at the lines and the flows of energy, you realize it's flows of light. It's people, it's connections, situations, desires. They're all flowing forward and new things are coming in and old things are leaving. Energies are moving in all different directions. And yet there's order to it, there's focus to it. Because this blueprint has been developed by you. You. All of your past actions are forming. Those things that will happen in your future. Your desires, your beliefs. Do you see those? Do you see your desires out there dancing around? You see your beliefs like long streams of light going in there and twirling around and modifying things, putting boundaries on them, perhaps. Do you see your actions? Are there enough? Have you made enough physical action toward this future that you are defining? Or is the action a little stunted, a little stuck? If it's stuck, push it along. Unleash it. Say yes, more action. More action, please. More things that I do, more divine action, inspired action. Move me toward my goal. Give me things to do that I can reflect over and over again into my day, into my future. It creates more, more, more, more for me. More of what I want. And you're saying now to your flow with your arms wide open as you stand before this brilliant universe. You're saying to your flow, there's something I desire. And I wonder why I haven't received it. And I'm wondering too, if I've been just sort of sitting on it, overthinking it. If I've been letting my, I'm not sures, press the pause button. In my life, indefinitely, when I press the pause button, I never get through the whole experience. I stop in the middle and I say, no, wait, I need more. I need more, more. Wait, hold on, let me gather my resources. Or oh, wait, I don't know if it's the right time. What happens when I press that pause button? It's like pausing in the middle of a video. I don't reach the end, I don't know what happens. And then I say, oh, another thing that didn't work out. Didn't work out really? Wait a minute. Take your finger off the pause take. Do you feel that? Like an old fashioned tape recorder. Your finger comes off the button and it pops up and now it's moving again and you can see it. You can say, oh, you, you're right, I got stuck right there. And you can see it. I got stuck when I decided that I had to. I got stuck when I thought about. I got stuck when I decided I needed more information. I got stuck when I wondered if this was. Was the right thing or if it was something else. Oh, and instead of keeping moving with that, instead of asking for confirmation and saying, hey, Flo, something just occurred to me. Give me some feedback on this. Let's keep it moving if it's right, let's keep it going if it's not, move me in another direction. No, instead, I just stopped and waited. And then I got frustrated, and I felt like I was always thinking about it. So it made me feel in a way that I was still. Still taking care of it because it was always on my mind. But now, oh, it feels so good now to let this thing go, to let it flow again. It's like a river that's been unblocked. It's flowing, it's gushing forward. It's beautiful. Energy, light. It's something I've wanted. And yes. Oh, look, there's even some things that's clearing out some old debris that got backed up in there from being on pause for so long. But whoosh. All that's moving through. I can feel that energy moving. I feel the emotion of that energy moving. I feel how it's happening again. And you know what's best of all? What I'm feeling best of all right now, the reason that I paused is gone, because I have that new information. It's staring at me. It's right in front of me. It's saying, pick me up and try me. And I say, okay, all right, I will. I will. Oh, what a relief. I feel that relief all through me. What a relief to say, oh, I will. Oh, what a wonderful sense. I forgot how good it feels to know I'm doing something again and I'm moving and this situation is flowing and now we can get stuff done and I can watch things happen. That's the feeling I linger on now. Now that I'm opening my eyes again. Returning from my daydream, returning from my flow. There you go. How do you guys feel? A little dopey. A little like, what did I just do? This is how I talk to the universe. So powerful. It's the. The real key is just in knowing what to say, how to look for things, how to say it right. How, you know, getting in and. And talking to the flow. Easy part, what you say to the flow to get the results you want. That is the journey. And it's an exciting one, and it's intensely fun because it takes you from having a general interest in self development to saying no. Actually, I want to know myself deeply in all ways. I want to know how I act, how I behave when I stop doing things. I want to know why. That kind of self awareness is priceless. And it's beautiful because it means that you're no longer victim to things in your life. Things no longer just happen to you. You say, no, I have power. I have tons of power. And then from that point, it gets even better because you say, well, now I can do things for other people. Now I can help other people. Now I can show them. And I've always wanted to be a healer, but I never knew I could also do this too. And, you know, it just gets bigger and more beautiful from there. That is one of the biggest reasons actually why I teach this. I figure, you know, what if we're all starting to feel and think this way, what will that do to the world? What will it do to the way we treat each other, the kinds of businesses we're all doing, the way we work, the way we teach our kids everything? Okay, quick break. When we get back, it's time for calls, and you can see what flow dreaming is like in action. So stay with me for more flow dreaming. I'm Summer McStravik.

Hey, it's Summer again, and we're on a break. But this is where I catch you up on a couple of things that can really help you go much deeper with flow dreaming. First, if you're wondering, how do I flow dream? What is flow dreaming? Then I have a free kit I created to teach you how to be in flow, how to talk to flow, how to manifest in your flow. Go to flow dreaming.com, enter your email there, and you'll get my tutorial on how to do all of this. I also give you a free flow dream to get started with, and this gives you the first step toward creating a freaking awesome life. And it also puts all of the concepts that you're learning in this podcast into context. So pop in your email on my homepage flowdreaming.com right now.

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Welcome back to Flow dreaming. I'm Summer McStravik. Hope you've been enjoying the hour so far. Let's go to some calls. Now, this is where I have a chance to look into you, look into your life, your flow. For me, it's sort of reading the energy. Some of you guys know I am intuitive as well. I call it empathic intuition. I don't call myself a psychic. I know I probably should because everybody knows what that is. For me, information is information. Flow is information. You're made of it, I'm made of it. Everything is made of this information packed together into bodies, to minds, to consciousnesses. And once you learn how to access and read the information, pretty much everything is on the table. I don't really see distinctions much anymore. Someone asked me today, do you look into pets? And I said, well, yeah, because they're an energy. They're a collection of information. They're a being having an experience. It doesn't really matter. The same is true for people who are living or not living anymore. They're still collections of information. They're beings, they're consciousnesses. They're collected information that you can look at. They have a flow of energy that pushes them forward through time, through space. Even if they've passed on and they're no longer in time and space as we know it, they're still accessible because they are. They've existed, they've been scratched, and the universe, they still are there, just as you are. I guess you kind of have to firmly believe we're more than a physical body to understand this concept of flow fully. But this is what I do. So I look into you. I can ask people questions, look into your mind, see where you're heading, what trajectory you're on, and so on and so on. It's really. It's kind of fun because it helps me when I'm working with people. In their flow, give them guidance and direction. Kind of gives you a little extra edge of information. For me, it's not an extra edge. It's something everybody should be able to access all the time to get the most complete information about their lives that they can. But I don't know, in our culture today, it's something that's marginalized. And they call you a psychic. Nothing wrong with psychic. I just. I like newfangled terms. That's why I say empathic intuitive. Empathic, by the way, just means emotion based. When I'm looking at someone, I'm feeling them. It's all coming through in a rush of emotion coupled with words, visuals. Often all of your senses can take in information. It's just for me, the emotional aspect is dominant. That's how I find things get recorded most easily too, into history and into time. The emotional components are very strong. Think about it. It's kind of like, you know, when they say there's ghosts in the castle, it's because a heavy emotional incident occurred that caused a kind of gluing together, you could say, of the event, the emotion and the person. And when you go back and look, you say, oh, yeah, this is where that spooky thing happened. What's the person reading the emotional trigger that's still active in that place? It's the energy that was sort of glued in there because of that big emotional explosion, you know, in other words, a murder or something along those lines. Anyway, that's just an aside. Let's go. Let's go low to Julie. Julie St. Louis. I bet I know what Julie this is.

Hi, Summer.

Darling. By the way. Julie and I have worked together for a long time. I think one of. Well, I won't say it in case you're anonymous. I forget if you are or not.

I'd be fine with it either way, whatever you're about to say.

I think you left a review for me on my diamond page.

Oh, yes, yes, yes, yes.

What's happening? How's your dad?

Yeah. Oh, thank you for asking. Slow improvements. There's a bit of pain in the recovery process, but I'm proud of him. He's doing amazing, all things considered.

Well, how are you doing then?

So I'm. You know what? My focus right now is kind of on self care, which to me right now mostly looks like building the business. And as you know, I had some success there at the beginning of the month and I'd love just a little push here at the end of the month to round up a few more Clients into my program. That's what I'm calling about.

The energy of abundant, abundant clients. Do you have my flow dream that I made for attracting in amazing clients? Tons of amazing clients?

Oh, yeah. And I listen to it every single day, multiple times. Sometimes.

That flow dream, you know, it encapsulates the energy that you're looking for when you have a new business. It's kind of like you can feel like there's so many different things to focus on. Partly you need to get yourself out there. You want to be seen, you want to be visible. That energy is very outward focused. You know, look at me. I'm. I'm putting myself. I'm making myself a big, bright star that everybody can find. Another part of it is that what you offer is of such value that people come to you. They naturally align to you. And that's almost the opposite feeling. That's one of I can sit still and they will be drawn into me. They will find me, they will hear me. Because we are naturally similar energies, and we come together like, voom. You know, we're drawn together. We're of the same magnetism. For instance, what I feel that you have been doing is kind of bouncing around, frankly, from these different angles. Some of them is I'm creating lots of visibility, I'm creating lots of, you know, stuff to offer. And then your other energy is, well, maybe I'll just wait and let people come to me. You still are. I'm feeling you still working on your ability to share what you do in a very clear way that communicates to people so that they want to join you, so that they want to be part of your program, an area where you still feel a lack of confidence. And the. You know, this. The only way to get through it is to practice, to be so sure that what you tell people is true, that you have no problem saying it over and over and over again. Okay, that's where you're still working. Let's see, what can I do for you in terms of just giving you a burst? Letting a few people. I see, actually, there's a couple people around you. They're like little fishies. You're on their little fishies, and they're like, that looks. You look good. They're very close to you. And I mean it in a good way. Not like you're gonna, you know, fry them up in the pan, for God's sakes. These are your kin, you know, they're your people. They're the ones who are like you, who benefit from you. You have to just scoop them up. So go on. You know when you are flow dreaming later today on your own, have an image of these little fishies in a pond and you're just scooping them up, scooping them up, scooping them up. Like, you all came to me, you all came to visit. Friendly, friendly. I'm big mama fish. We all have to go on. Come with me, come with me. And it's a very gentle feeling, but it's one of saying, I take you, you know, they want to be scooped up. They want to be scooped up, not to swimming aimlessly. Okay? And try, try to not be juggling back and forth between all these different ways of going about it. Work on the. I am so solid in what I am, I can tell anybody about it. I know when a person is right for it. I don't hesitate telling them, you're right for my program. Bam. That's it. Because it's the truth. Okay, that's perfect.

Thank you so much, Summer.

Welcome. Thank you, Julie. Bye now.

I'll talk to you soon. Bye. Thank you.

Bye. Julie's wonderful. She teaches a form of yoga and dance. And she does some coaching as well, by the way. So I know who her people are. I mean, I can feel them and they are so close. It's just she's not reaching out. She's like, they're like, take me, take me. She's like, all right, Trupti, I think we've only got a couple minutes. I think I know you too, Trupti. Yes, yes, yes. How are you?

I'm good. I'm feeling a little stuck. Like I have like written down what I want to do this year. Like I put so much that I wanted to be like a very energized year. But telling the truth, right now I'm feeling like I'm lazy.

Aha. You're not lazy.

I'm being relaxing, taking my time with the baby. I have the 6 year old as well.

Yes. How is the baby?

He's good. He's like how I imagined in my flow all last year.

I know, I'm looking at him a couple of times. How's he doing? Great. He's good, he's good, don't worry.

Good. And I feel like I want to do something this year, like health wise. It's not just about losing weight, it's about like eating healthy. Because my kids will be just watching me, what I do. And that's what they're learning.

Yeah. Trina, you know what you feel like to me is you're still, you're not lazy, but you're still in the early, you know, and I know you have a six year old, but you have another baby too and pulls you back. It's almost like during this phase of being a mother, you're only half of your own. The other half of you is belonging to this child. And you try to give half of yourself growth and, you know, health and focus and attention. But it always feels incomplete and frustrating because the other half of you is constantly allocated to someone else, as it should be. Oh, I hear, baby, you have to give yourself slack for that and say the part of me that is still mine, the part of me that, where I'm, you know, not being a mom, it's. No, it's not a mom, but you know what I'm saying, The part of you that focus fully on your baby, that is the part of me that I'm allowing to renew itself and grow and develop and replenish. You need replenishment more than anything. And I think you're confusing that a bit with laziness. Replenishing means your bowl is empty. That means receive, accept things, heal, sleep. As you replenish, the energy is going to gradually come back up in you. You're going to come out of this and I think that by the end of the year you're going to be itching something else, work something. I mean, it'll just be, you'll know it then and you'll feel much more able to capable of it.

I've been like meditating, trying to meditate and it feels like I don't get much accomplished in the whole day, but I'm still tired.

Yeah, you don't, because remember, you're only working on, you know, 50%. The other 50% is fully, completely allocated. So you're only, you've only got a bit left over that you're trying to push all your old regular self into. It's not going to happen. You just go, okay, so be it. I let this phase ride through. I stay on my flow. I feel myself continuing to emerge as the time goes on.

I've been planning a lot, like for the summer.

Yeah, I've got to let you go, Madeira. The show is up.

Thank you so much.

Love to your family. Bye bye. Ah, yes, the show is up. The podcast is over. So before I sign off, I hope I see and hear a lot of you at the live online event, the free free one Emphasize free that I'm doing in about a week. If you're listening to the podcast late. Just get on my mailing list anyway, because like I said, occasionally I offer these, and usually they're about a very important aspect of Flow Dreaming that has become such a constant and general question that I need to just fully devote an hour to it doing techniques with you, taking you into the flow. There's no commercial breaks during it, so it's pretty, it's a pretty nice experience. People have been impressed with them to the point where they want to purchase them afterwards. I hadn't even started doing that until they started emailing, begging me, make it for sale. So I don't know if I'll do that with this one. Don't know, don't know. I kind of fly on the seat of my pants sometimes. Until then, take care, everybody. My love goes to you all, and stay in your flow. I'm Summer McStravik and I'll see you next time.

All right, that wraps up our episode today. But before you go, two things. One, you can get the Flow Dreaming app in the Google, Amazon or itunes app stores. It allows you to search and sort to mark your favorite episodes. It's completely free to download, and it gives you access to the latest several dozen of these episodes, as well as to the premium episode library, where there are more than 400 episodes that date back 10 years. The app's free, so go download it now at Flow Dreaming in the App Store on your mobile device. And last, if you love my show, I'm going to give a shout out to my mom's podcast. It's called the Dear Venus show and she's an amazing intuitive and a medium and super, super funny. Search the words Dear Venus in your podcast directory or online and that way you can find her too.