#410 Wake Up Your Emotions (Emotional Rebirth)

Flow Dreaming.

It's a show where we talk about the power of your mind to change your world around you, to literally affect the fabric of your reality.

We talk about this feeling of hope and joy and relief.

And that is what being aware of your flow does. It gives you a feeling of power.

Again in your lives.

Oh, my God.

You are so on target. You are so amazing. I can't thank you enough.

Enough.

Breathe.

It is the feeling that you bring forward. It is your emotional connection that really sets the tone for what is going to be happening to you and for you.

And you know that feeling, when you.

Touch it, it just spreads through you. Thank you for taking my call. I don't know why I feel like crying.

I think I just feel your love.

Of course.

And I think I'm gonna get some ANSWERS.

I'm Summer McStravik and welcome to another episode of Flow Dreaming. Welcome to Flow Dream. Hello everyone. I'm happy to be with you. We have the sticky, tricky topic of emotion today. As we explore Flow, we explore the idea of that your mind is incredibly powerful. Much more powerful than we give it credit for. It's not just here to navigate the physical world, but to navigate the non physical world as well and to actually create within that world to shape, to guide. Just as there are different parts of our brain that correspond to our animal instincts versus our higher functions, you can look at your brain as also being able to navigate the non physical world because your brain is non physical as well as physical. I know that is a shocking concept to a lot of people, but look into it. Today's not the show for that, but I have looked into it a great deal and all this quantum stuff that's coming out, they already know. You know, they try to say, well, we're going to develop a quantum computer someday, which is actually based on the brain itself. More stuff happens between the synapses in another state, another place beyond space actually than happens actually in your synopsis. Your brain is a dual function organ. And because of that, we as a species, as a person, as a being, need to realize how to use it to its highest potential. And that means being able to look at your life and say, I create this. I manifest this. I allow this into my life through the guidance and the direction that I give. From. If you want to go old school, you say from my spirit, from my soul. It's so interesting to me. Humanity, across every race, religion, ethnicity, tribe, place of origin, has recognized this dual nature of life. That there is a physical and a non physical. There is A body. And there is something animate, special, distinct within that body that exists in almost every culture outside the body. Or you could look at it being as deeper within the body, call it a soul, call it your anime, call it your. Your key. So many names on, on, on, on. Anyway, I digress, as I often do at the beginning of the show. Well, you know, it's my trademark. Anyway, I'm Summer McStravik, and today we are talking about how emotion is so crucial to the form of manifesting and creation that I teach and I work with, and that is so, so potent for me and for a lot of people, actually. Of course, it's not for everyone. That's why there are so many different modalities out there. But when you find one that works, use it. Sort of like the alternative health field. You know, some people love their chiropractor. Some people say, no, no, it's all about acupuncture. Someone else says, no, it's all about Reiki. It's not that any of these disciplines are more right or better or more effective. It's that people's energies align to certain practices better than others. They respond. I respond oddly to acupuncture. I have no idea why. I respond very well to it over many other modalities. I accept that. I know when I create, I use flow. For me, that is the, you know, the golden, the gold standard for creation. Because when I create and manifest within that place, it happens. I don't have to worry about it anymore. I just know it's gonna happen anyway. So that's why I teach it. That's why I share it with the world. Speaking of sharing with the world, all of you guys, thank you so much for subscribing to this podcast via itunes. It is so exceedingly helpful when you just tap that subscribe button also when you leave a review. And along with that, the app, there is a Flow dreaming app. So look it up on your phone. Doesn't matter what model, phone or tablet you have. Pretty much look up flow Dreaming. Just type in Google Flow Dreaming or not Google it. I'm so used to using that as a verb now, you know, do a search for flow dreaming and you should find that app. And of course, if you download it and or make a comment about it, it's really, really good. Because recently I updated it. All of my previous, you know, dozens and dozens, 40, 50 reviews, they all just kind of got wiped along with the old version. They're there. You just can't see them. So trying to fix that, ugh, technology. So thanks to you guys for that. By the way. Every week I broadcast a new topic about energy. And I do about four shows a month, four podcasts a month. You can find those all at my website, flowdreaming.com as well as a magnificent manifesting store. And that is what supports this program. So I give a shout out to the manifesting store@flowdreaming.com all the Flow Dreams you hear me do. I have probably recorded a bang up, fabulous, better version of in my store simply because I can. Because broadcasting over the Internet is, you know, not great for recording. So I make really good recordings. Deeper, richer, more thought out, still in flow. And those can be found at the store as well as many classes and mentoring programs where I lead groups of you through a real one on one process of getting closer to flow and knowing how to work with it in your life. Okay, this is all leading up to emotion. As a matter of fact, I was working with someone recently on her emotions and hope you don't mind if I use you. It's completely anonymous. I've actually worked with quite a few people on emotions in particular. So I may actually be merging this into a composite person here. And it goes like this. You know, Summer, I'm trying to feel things. You tell me that when I float rain, I have to feel it. I have to talk to the universe through my feelings, not my thoughts or words or anything else. And she says I just. I can't feel anything anymore. Can't feel anything. I can see stuff, but I can't be swept away. I'm still present. I still know. It's like even when I'm meditating, I'm still present. I'm just very clear and quiet, but I'm still quite present. But you asked me to touch an emotion that I just haven't felt in a long time. I can't even call it up. I can't remember it. So this for me is when I go into the role of detective. And you guys know I'm not a psychotherapist, but I do know a lot about emotion because I work with it for hours every day. And I work with it in people. And when I work in flow energy, I see where it's getting bottled up, where it's not being reigned in, where it has been so consistently rejected that it's learned that it's better to hide and just not exist. Think of your emotional self like a child. It's been listening to you all these years. Have you been distrusting It. Have you been angry at it? Have you been dissatisfied? Have you been bitter? Have you been disappointed? So many times that you're basically telling this little child, I know every day I say, I'm gonna get you a pony. And every day, ha ha. I don't. What do you think happens to this little baby in you? Gets crushed, Says, I don't want to play anymore. I don't want to feel anything anymore. I've got to wall myself up. I'm not going to feel this hurt. And I certainly can't feel joy. I don't remember what that's like. And I find that this is a reason why people often have trouble. And sometimes it goes back to points of childhood, of course, upbringing, people being told to reign in their feelings. Don't be so emotional, you know, you're such a girl for feeling that way. You know, all of these continuous, subtle reminders that emotion is bad, bad, bad. You have to fear it, watch out for it. It will take you over. It will consume you. Rage will consume you. Depression will consume you. Greedy ego will consume you. Bitterness, envy will consume you. Right? There's such emphasis on this. If you ask yourself right now, how do I feel about my emotional being? Will you discover a great deal of mistrust in there? A great deal of trying to contain and control? How much will you discover in you is a feeling of, I'm hopeful. I like to feel love and joy, and I actively seek it out and create it. When I talk with people, I try and talk with truth and authenticity because I want to feel that. I don't say happy, positive things just to be fake. I say it because I'm truly creating that in my life. And therefore the people around me generally feel and think the same way. So I get this wonderful group of people around me, and we all agree, yes, we are making things better. And if you fall down, of course I'm going to lift you up. That's my job. We're all here together in this together. Do you feel that emotion even riding through my words? Hope, joy, optimism, faith. Is that strong in you? Do you have strength in there? Can you bring that up and feel it? Let me get back to this hypothetical person, this person I've worked with through many people, and she says, I just can't feel happiness or joy. I say, first of all, are you on any antidepressants? I have to ask. When I look at people who are on antidepressants, sometimes it's kind of hard to find them. Antidepressants are taking the highs and lows of your mind and compressing them into a central channel, you know, kind of evening things out for you, kind of bumping it up a notch and evening it out. And so when I say feel really happy, feel, just lose yourself in the joy of this as you're creating it. They can't do it. They're being physically, chemically barred from doing it. So that's one possibility. Another possibility is just control. You've got stuff buried and bottled, and you're afraid if you let any of it out, it's all going to come out. For instance, this person I was working with was able to feel negative emotion. She said, you know, I can't feel one positive thing when you bring me into a flow dream, But I can cry the whole way through. And it's like, yeah. Because sadness is the top layer. It's the final layer and the deep layers of concealment and oppression. So sadness is right there on the surface. You can't contain it. There's too much of it. So let's unravel it. Do you guys remember, gosh, when I was a kid, they had these funny little colored balls of yarn or raffia. And you'd unwind it and little treasures would come out, you know, like big balls of rubber bands or string. You'd unwrap it and these little treasures would fall out. And it was so cool. I mean, I was transfixed. I just wanted to unroll and roll it. It was just little plastic toys and things. You'd get in the middle and there'd be like candy or a dollar or something. When you're unraveling emotion like that, sometimes that's how it feels. Let's just let the top layer come off. Let's let the next layer come off. It might take a little while till you get there to get to the center and you're gonna find things in there. But remember when you buried all this, it's probably a long time ago. You have moved on since then. You probably buried it. When you didn't have really great tools for dealing with it, you couldn't do anything else with it. That's why you resorted to burying it. If you had been able to stand up to it, to be in your power, to look at it, to talk, express yourself, not fear punishment, you would have done so. You didn't have those options. This was your only choice. But if you're choosing now to actively go in there again, I bet you it's because you have tools now and you are willing to Explore. Because you know that this control has impacted every aspect of your life. Every aspect of your life is now contained within. I can't be excited, I can't trust myself to fall in love. I don't even know if I really like this person that much or not. I don't know why they would like me. I can see why nobody has fallen for me. I can see why, you know, my career is just kind of boring and stagnant. I don't feel a passion, I don't know what I want to do. If you say any of these things to yourself, this is your deep emotional self saying, let me out, let me out and play again. I think, you know, we took shelter in the bomb scare, remember that? Or I remember when I was a kid again, going back to that, I guess because emotions always take you back to childhood, right? You know, we'd have our duck and cover. It's kind of like that, you know, it's like being hiding under your desk for 20 years until you grow and get to be a big grown up and you realize it's really cramped in here and gosh, you know, maybe I can come out now. So when you start flow dreaming, some of you guys will encounter that sensation of coming out now. And you recognize you have to because you've reached a dead end, literally dead end, a dead zone in your being. Now how does this affect manifesting? Why is this tied in? How did I get led down this corridor in my journey to understand how to manifest? Because you can only manifest to the degree that you can feel your future. You can only manifest to the height that you can take yourself, that you can imagine yourself, that you can sense yourself. So for me it's about feeling as. I don't know what the word is. It's indescribable. I wish I knew more languages. So I had other words to pick from. Reaching a pinnacle of contentment, fulfillment, joy, continuous expansion, continuous engagement, curiosity. You know, for me that's like the ultimate. If I can feel that about my relationship or my career or my children's development or, you know, my personal interests, I can feel that about my health or my body. I know that I could reach that because I could expand to that level. I could manifest to that level. So the more emotionally aware and clear and powerful you are, the higher and less restricted your manifesting becomes. If you're not able to feel a lot of emotion, you're going to start working at whatever level you can. You're going to say, I just want to regain a Sense of hope and passion in my life. Okay, hope and passion. Let's do it. Let's start unraveling that little ball and see where hope and passion are as we work through the different layers and see what we can get access to. Because when I teach manifesting, I teach that emotion is how you talk to the universe. It's how you express what you are emoting what you are pre acting. You know, I make a distinction. Action and preaction. Excuse me? And reaction. Actually, action, reaction, preaction. Oh, I know, it's confusing. Reaction is all the responses you give to stuff that's already happened, that is not being in a manifesting frame of being, that is being in a physical response frame of being. We spend a lot of time in our life there attending to things. Pre action is when we are looking ahead to what's not yet here. It's on the horizon. It may be just a moment or a day away. And we're giving the universe a little guidance. We're saying, hey, tomorrow, I really feel like something magical can happen in my work life. Just one more step. I'm ready for it. What is the next step? Hand it on over. Give it to me. I'm ready, I'm there, I feel it, I'm eager, I'm looking forward. And not only that, I'm willing to take whatever it is, whatever it is that moves me to the next most best level. And for me, that's a fearless statement. Because, you know, the things I've already picked that have to happen, those are the things I've already kind of known and controlled and prepared for and think have to. But if I say whatever, I'm really leaving it open. I'm leaving it open to my flow, my highest self, the greatest good. And I'm trusting, and I'm saying I want that now. I have to have a lot of access to my emotion to feel that. You can feel it even in the strength of the words that I speak. Flow. Dreaming, then, is about moving into the flow. And I do it through a process called guided daydreaming. Because daydreaming is easy. It just naturally sinks you and opens you to this deeper connection, the one I was referring to at the beginning of the show. And then I'm emoting, I'm preacting, I'm in my flow. I'm in this perfect, synchronous aligned place. And I'm feeling it. I'm feeling it. Okay, so think on that. Think about you, your emotions, how, how well are they? You know, your Emotions are tools. There's this probably 20 or 30 different emotions I work with when I flow dream. 20 to 30 different emotions. Some of them are just nuanced, but I call on that many different varieties for different purposes. They are part of me. They are built into me. They're hardwired in before I ever learned language. You know, a baby is communicating with the universe even though it's not being able to speak yet. So anyway, if this is, if this is really setting off, you know, something in you and you're saying, God, you're right, I need to hear, I need to learn about this. This is the missing key. All of my reading, all of my research, all of my studying, and this is it. Anyway, I hope, I hope if that's the case, that you go and you learn more about it through Flow Dreaming or even more of these podcasts. Speaking of which, it's time for me to go to a quick break. When we get back, I'm going to go to your calls. By the way, you can find the number and the time to call in live to the show by going to my website. Look up the radio page, the podcast page, and you'll see it there. So hang with me. And of course, we will be doing a flow dream a little bit later.

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Welcome back to Flow Dreaming. Yes, we are going to do some calls as well as a flow dream to help wake up your emotions. By the way, two really good MP3s that I've created for that are on my website, flow dreaming.com. one of them is called Supercharged Manifesting and the other one is called Emotional Detox and that is under meditations. Those two used regularly, can really help recondition your emotional self, get you prepped and ready. Not a fitness fully. You know, bringing your emotions out as the powerful, powerful tools that they are to create your life, to talk to the universe, even to talk to yourself and to talk to people you love more deeply. Okay, let's go to a call. I know we've been going to Flow Dreams in more recent podcasts, but hey, I see Rita up and I want to talk to her. Hi, Rita, how are you?

Hi, Summer. Oh, my gosh. This is so amazing. Thank you for taking my call.

What's going on in your life?

Well, I'm just kind of wondering what I can do to manifest more money. I've been working on, like, healing just my emotions towards it for probably since I learned how to flow dream for like two years now. And I'm just. I feel stuck still. So I'm just kind of wondering what's next for me, where can I go from here?

So you're stuck around what? What aspect of money is difficult for you? Keeping it earning? Yes. Receiving it.

Feeling like maybe since I was a little kid, I feel like I have to give away money to be a good person or something. The way that I was raised religiously, I think.

Yeah, yeah. You know, that's a really, really common belief and I'll just look at it from the Emotional standpoint, we're taught money is bad, it's evil. It' Money is the root of all evil. Right. What I have found is that money is an energy of exchange, one person to the next, and people use barter. Is barter the root of all evil? That's also an exchange. The thing with money is that the more that you have, the more you're able to do with it. And if you are generally a crummy person, you're going to be able to do more crummy things. Right?

Right.

If you are benevolent, if you're a great person and someone, you know, the universe, whatever, bestows a ton of money on you, what do you think you're going to do with it? Probably some really good things. So you have to stop looking at money and you have to look at the people who are wielding it. I think over the years, you know, there's maybe been a feeling that the people who go after money are generally more selfish and self centered and that's why they have all the money. And so they call money evil. They don't just say, well, no, it's that the people who are racing for it are the ones that are maybe not so great. I don't know about that either because I know a lot of people, a lot of entrepreneurs who do amazing things. They say I make money to take care of myself and my security and my family and my life. And the next thing I do with it on my list that I'm already doing is that I'm starting to take care of other people in the world, I'm expanding my circle. You know, it's like the Oprah effect. Essentially. She represents a really great use of money, all that money. So, okay, I'm just trying to reframe it in your mind because yeah, for you, it's like you look at money as you say to yourself, I'm allowed to have enough to live on. But after that I'm not so sure. And I bet you that's exactly what's going on in your life. You have enough to live on, but if you get any more, it's kind of cool. But you don't really trust it's going to stay and it's a little uncomfortable. Okay, so this is a direct response to the way you are feeling about income in your life. And your flow picks this up, hears it and says, all right, here's Rita. She wants to have enough to live on, but she doesn't trust herself with any more of it. All right, let's bring it to her. So I think, close your eyes with me, Rita. Let's just do a little. Let's do a little energy work right here in your flow. Okay? Okay. Just let go with me. Relax. Release. You're not being hypnotized. You're just going on a daydream. We're going to share it together. We're feeling as if you are walking down a street. Walking down a street. It's not a busy street. It's very pleasant. There's no cars around. The sun is shining. The birds are twittering. It feels like a gorgeous spring day. And you've got your purse, your wallet, and it's feeling not too heavy, but not too light. It's feeling just right. You take out your wallet, you open it up, and you realize it's stuffed. Stuffed with money. Stuffed. And you feel your reaction to that surprise. Curiosity. How did I receive this? What did I do for this? And then you check yourself and say, I don't need to say, what did I do for this? Obviously, I did something. At some point somewhere in my life. Maybe money was just looking for a really good person to settle on because it was between me and some jerk. It doesn't matter how I got it came from a good source. That's the only thing that matters. And now I have it. And I can spend it. I can spend it to make myself comfortable and happy. I can spend it on other people. According to my moral makeup, I can do with it whatever I want. But the point is, there's no block to receiving it now. There's no block. And look, I take some money out of my wallet right now, and I just give it away. I give it to. Just put it out into the air. I say, take it. Go take it where it's needed. Whoop. And it just disappears in front of me. And yet I look in my wallet, and those same bills are back. They're back. They're right there. It's already been replaced. And I scratch my head. I think, how did that happen? And then I realized money is always flowing. It's always flowing in, constantly, every moment. Of course it would be replaced. Why would I just assume it would be empty until I did something and broke my back? That old saying. Why would I assume that? I don't need to assume that. If I'm being active, if I'm being productive, it's because it's bringing me joy. It's bringing other people joy. It's bringing value to the world. I just assume that I will be flooded with value back and that will be income. But I'm not tying them to each other. I just know I want both in my life. So there you go. You tuck your ever refilling wallet back in your purse, you continue walking, and you realize, I can do this anytime I want, any day I want. And open your eyes. Okay, so I gave you some strong visuals there just to kind of make a point. I hope you are also feeling it. I mean, feeling the surprise. Oh, it renewed itself. It came to be. It just. Oh. Because of course, it's a continuous fountain. Money is always moving. It's always exchanging between people. Why would I just have expected that it wouldn't be there now for a while until I pass some New testament to get it? Okay, so we're actually working through a couple different things that are inside you. I wish I could keep you longer because there's a few more I'd like to pick out, but I can't.

I'll work at it.

All right, Rita, well, thank you very much for your call. I'm glad I could help you. Great question.

Thank you so much.

Thank you. Good demonstration, too, for everyone listening, you know, our feelings about money. Gosh, I've done many, many podcasts on that. Maybe I need to get back to it. In fact, it's funny, right before the show, I was writing up the latest script for a new flow dream meditation. I'm doing a financial abundance meditation so you can fall asleep at night, just letting that soak deep into you. The same things that I was talking about with Rita. Money is exchange. It's ongoing, it's neutral. I'm a great person. Therefore money would of course, want to be attracted to me. Of course it's going to want to be with me. And that it's not bad for me, you know, And I said earlier that sometimes we look at the people who go after chase money, a money chaser, we say, oh, they're just icky people. They're the worst kind of people in life. That is changing. That belief really is changing as more spiritually conscious people kind of wake up and say, hey, wait a minute. By having money, I can actually make more of an. Of an effect in the world. They're starting to be the ones the taboo against going after it is coming off. And as a result, you getting a lot more philanthropists, you're getting a lot of people who are saying, no, I'm going to put this money right back into my community. I'm going to do lots of good things with it. It's really a belief system that brought us to this point. And it's a belief system that's changing. And I'm very happy to be part of it. Because if every single person in this world believed that everyone should be secure and safe and well fed and warm and have their minds nurtured and their health taken care of, that's the global ideal. And yet the whole world hasn't yet come to embrace it. We have, each one of us say so in our heart, but we can't seem to collectively get together. I think, though, that the more each one of us wakes up in our heart that we are allowed to do this, the more we can kind of wake up our neighbors. Right? See what I'm getting at? It's like one person at a time kind of thing. Okay, let's see here. Why don't we take another quick break now? I know we just had one, but then that'll give you a nice long chunk here at the end of the podcast to do a good flow dream to wake up those emotions inside you. So stay with me and we'll be right back with more Flow Dreaming.

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Welcome back to Flow Dreaming. I just saw that Claudia was also waiting for me. So let's take your call real quick, Claudia, and then we'll go into. Go into our Flow Dream. How are you?

Fine. How are you? I'm so happy that I can see speak with you.

I used your.

Your Flow Dreams and prosperity challenge program and it gave me results.

Oh, good.

So happy.

Yes.

Yes.

And recently my. Actually few years ago, I decided to make drastic changes into my life, meaning ending a long, loveless marriage. And last year I started your flow dreams about love. You had two of them. That helped me a lot. So I have the desired result so far and I have a new man in my life. And that's the reason I'm calling you to see if I'm on course with that.

If.

What do you pick up from my.

How wonderful. Well, let me just look real briefly. What is his name?

I'll give you the first initial.

G. G, first initial. Okay. Well, let me just see if that will be enough. What is. Tell me then about how old is he?

60.

Okay, I will look for you and see him. Oh, you know what? He's looking at you like you are his. It's like an exotic flower or a brightly colored bird. You really. You add flavor. Flavor, spice, excitement. You add this feminine quality into his life. It's like I can see him looking at you. These are the feelings that you bring up in him. You're exciting. You're really exciting to him, you know that? Yeah.

She's making me know all that and beyond. He's even talking long term in marriage.

Yeah, Yeah, I can see that. He doesn't seem. I don't. I don't see him being untruthful. He feels like you really are bright and shiny and shimmery, you know? He's a man who's used to moving big things around in his life, though. He feels like he. He likes to control things or make things happen according to his plan or his agenda. So you'll want to keep an eye on that, know that you're comfortable with that. I could see you two being together, you know. It's like he likes. It's not that you're an ornament or decorative, but something about you being beautiful and, you know, gracious. He wants that. He doesn't, you know, he lacks. He feels like he. It's a woman's thing. He feels like he lacks that as a man. And having that in you, in his life, completes something for him. It completes his vision. It makes him feel more secure, more comfortable, like he's got everything now. So I can see him continuing to pursue you. I would play it out and see how it goes. Okay.

Should I continue with your program, or what do you suggest for me?

Oh, well, if you've already. If you've already got the great man, you know, the flow dreams that I would use then would be ones about speaking my truth. There's one called that. So that you're always staying in your power and you're, you know, being your true, authentic self with him all the time. I would also perhaps work with. Yeah, I would continue to do love and partnership just to keep the door open, keep the feelings moving and flowing. All right, Claudia. Gotta let you go. Thank you for your call. Appreciate it.

Thank you.

You're welcome. Take care. All right. And that's because we do, in fact, have a flow dream to get to. I want to give you guys a real example demonstration of what flow is, how it feels, how it works, especially regarding emotion. Sorry if I stalled out there. It's because I'm closing my eyes and I'm already getting into flow. All right. A couple weeks back, by the way, I did a great podcast on what flow can look like. I really address the daydreaming aspect of it. So my intention with today's podcast was to address the emotional aspect of it. Why you need to feel, what happens if you can't feel, how to reawaken those feelings that have been become dormant or repressed inside you. So when we flow, we close our eyes and we relax. We're not going to meditate or hypnotize ourselves. We're going to daydream. Because daydreaming is easy. There's no stress. You just do it. You do it all day. You do it every day. Every time you read a really good novel, you're daydreaming about the characters. You're seeing them in your mind. You're feeling them. A good novel brings you in. You feel everything that your characters are feeling in your daydream. You're writing the novel. You're scribbling across the page. You're Putting the emotions down. You're not waiting for an author to do it, for you, to try and evoke them in you and trigger them off in you. No, you're the creator. You are the author. You are the writer. You're writing the emotions, scribbling them down. You see your set off right now. You're flowing. You're flowing feeling an energy around your body, around your being, around your spirit, your soul, higher self, whatever you call it. Beautiful energies, like the Northern lights, except they're all around you. You are within it, within this bright cosmic light, and you're moving with it. Flowing, effortless. It's totally effortless. You're not flying or swimming. You're just in it. You're just part of things. You can feel it brushing against your face and your cheeks. You're an energy on the move. You are the energy. You are like a cloud. You are a cloud. You are blowing forward. You're aligned. You're aligned to something so much bigger and greater than you. Feels right. Feels more than right. It feels magnificent. It feels core. It feels like I couldn't be any more aligned to my highest self, my source self, than I am right now. This is me in absolute alignment with my greater self, with the universe, with where I'm going, with my personal expansion. Everything I've created till now is like a trail behind me, like a comet's trail of ice. I can look back and see all kinds of experiences and things I've done and information I've acquired and tasted and felt. Yet here I am in this moment. I'm not stopping. I'm moving. I'm moving even now. Wait. How do I guide myself? I can let go and just relax, or I can actually say, hey, I want to guide this. I want to. Want to insert some of my particular desires here. And so what I do is I open my heart. I open my heart and I feel something. I'm feeling something about an aspect of my life, a part of my life right now. Maybe it's not working very well or it's gotten stuck, or maybe it's going really well and I want it to do better. I'm ready for the next step. I let this out of my heart and let the feeling of it. What is it? What's this feeling? Is it anticipation? Joy? What I want to feel tomorrow? If I could feel anything in one week about this area of my life, what would I be feeling? Oh, that's it. That brought it home to me. That's what I feel. I feel it right now. I don't wait a week. And I'm not waiting on outside circumstances to make me feel it for me to respond to. No, I'm going to feel it right now because flow. See, I'm giving you a template. I'm. I'm telling you, I'm letting you feel. This is. This is me in a week. Here, take it here. This is me. This is what I'm feeling. Oh, it feels so wonderful, doesn't it? Feels amazing. It just feels right. It feels. What a release. Everything is just good and worked out and it happened the way I wanted and I received what I needed or created what I wanted. What a wonderful sense. A wonderful sense of relief and joy. I feel so good about this, and I feel excited. I want to do this again. This worked. I'm going to do this again. I'm going to do this in other areas. I'm going to do this all over the place in my life. I'm going to see how I can feel everywhere in my life. I'm going to do that right now. I'm going to go deeper. I'm going to see where this leads. What will happen? How will I develop and deepen? How will my spiritual development change and deepen if I start doing this, if I start feeling my contact with my future, with God, with source, with my flow? Oh, bright ideas come to me. My eyes are opened. I'm so curious, so curious. And I linger on that feeling as this daydream dissolves and I return feeling pretty darn good. Now. Come back, everybody. If the only thing you took from that was the feeling at the end when you opened your eyes and you said, I don't know what just happened, but I actually feel pretty good. What would you give to feel that way all the time? I mean, we take pills to feel that way. We drink alcohol to feel that way. We fall in love to feel that way. We're always trying to make that sensation happen inside of us. What if you could embark on a journey where you could feel that good whenever you wanted all the time, not contingent on anything happening around you. However, knowing that plenty of things will be and are happening around you that will also make you feel that way. You get to feel things great before they happen, and then you get to feel them when they happen. Then you get to feel them before they happen. Then you get to feel them when they happen. I mean, that's a cycle I never want to be out of. And that's what flow dreaming is. And that's how it creates so powerfully in your life. Okay, so before I wrap up today's podcast, I did mention already that, you know, I have a lot of stuff in the Manifesting store and I have a number of mentorship programs that teach you more deeply. Yes, you can learn a ton of through the podcast, especially because I have over 400 hours of it. Some of you guys are premium subscribers. If you don't know what that is, you can go to my website and discover all about it. Or if you have the app, you'll see an option to become a premium subscriber that gives you access to all those episodes. Otherwise, on itunes, on Stitcher, some of those places you might only see, you know, 30 or so episodes. But if you want to learn how to flow in a way that leads you piece by piece that I'm teaching you with a great deal of thought. How do I move you from one understanding to the next to the next? How do I pace you? How do I apply it deep into your life with your situation? It's one thing to take in knowledge, but it's another to know how to actually apply it in your life. I know that so well myself. You might want to think about one of those programs and you can find those at my website, flow dreaming.com they will be changing again. One thing about me you can always count on is that if I make something, I'm probably going to continue to tinker with it and work on it and make it better and better and better. And that's what I'm starting to do right now with my different programs. The other thing is that if you have ideas for shows, let me know. Send me an email. Summerlowdreaming.com Summerlowdreaming.com I read all of the emails that come to me. I try to respond to most of them now and then, yes, they do slip through the cracks and I apologize. It's usually because of some unintentional error where I've opened your email and intend to respond on and then my computer restarts and whoop. I suddenly don't remember when that came to me or where it is and it's buried in my list and it's just gone. So don't think I'm ignoring you. If anything, just resend something to me and chances are good I'll get it that second time around. The last thing is that I'm active on Facebook and I love it when you come there and say hi to me and like the page and interact post, ask things because everyone there has an interest in manifesting and creation, and a lot of people there have similar interests to you. So if you are looking to find your tribe, to find more people like you, to surround yourself, that's something that I believe strongly in more and more, surround yourself with the kind of people you want to be like. You know, if you want to be successful, surround yourself with successful people. If you want to grow your capacity to love, surround yourself with loving people. If you want to deepen your spiritual understanding of who you are, what you are, why you're here, surround yourself with people who are doing the same thing. You're not going to agree with everybody, but it's a vibe within us. It's an energy within us. And whenever we collectively bring energy together, we grow it, we magnify it. Right? It's so true. You hear that everywhere. Everyone talks about that, and that's what we do with flow. We are a group of people who manifest and create. We don't take a no for an answer. We just simply keep asking flow and the universe. Well, if that's not it, show me another way. We never say no because we're here to create and we're here to make stuff. And that is our energy. That is who we are. So I'm proud to be one of you guys, and I think that's a gonna be a wrap for me. So my love goes to all of you. Please stay with me for more episodes of Flow Dreaming as we continue to roll through the year. Until next time. Take care, everyone.

All right, that wraps up our episode today. But before you go, two things. One, you can get the Floor Flow Dreaming app in the Google, Amazon or itunes app stores. It allows you to search and sort to mark your favorite episodes. It's completely free to download, and it gives you access to the latest several dozen of these episodes, as well as to the premium episode library, where there are more than 400 episodes that date back 10 years. The app's free, so. So go download it now at Flow Dreaming in the app Store on your mobile device. And last, if you love my show, I'm going to give a shout out to my mom's podcast. It's called the Dear Venus show, and she's an amazing intuitive and a medium and super, super funny. Search the words Dear Venus in your podcast directory or online, and that way you can find her, too.