#418 M.E. School of Flow: Stuff Great Manifestors Know How to Do
29 Jan 2026 · 41 min
This is a recorded podcast episode (hosted by Summer McStravick) introducing and teaching the speaker's Flow Dreaming manifesting method. It mixes conceptual explanation of "flow energy" and emotion-as-language with personal anecdotes, practical claims about how manifestors think and act, and promotional material for the MI School of Flow and downloadable Flow Dream MP3 products. The episode includes guided-energy work and calls-to-action (website, free kit, enrollment/waitlist, one-on-one mentoring).
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2014-06-03
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Flow Dreaming.
It's a show where we talk about the power of your mind to change your world around you, to literally affect the fabric of your reality. We talk about this feeling of hope and joy and relief. And that is what being aware of your flow does. It gives you a feeling of power again in your lives.
Oh, my God. You were so on target. You are so amazing. I can't thank you enough. Breathe. It is the feeling that you bring forward. It is your emotional connection that really.
Sets the tone for what is going to be happening to you and for you. And you know that feeling, when you touch it, it just spreads through you.
Thank you for taking my call. I don't know why I feel like crying. I think I just feel your love. Of course. And I think I'm gonna get some ANSWERS.
I'm Summer McStravik and welcome to another episode of Flow Dre.
Foreign. Welcome to Flow dreaming. I'm Summer McStravik, and as always, I'm so delighted to be here with you today in particular. Oh, it's a good show. It's full of fun. Yum. I don't teach meditation, just so you know, in case that's how you got to this program. It's not really a how to meditate kind of program. It is also not hypnosis or affirmations. It's not Law of Attraction. That's another big one. It can feel like it and it can seem like it, but it's not. The way that I teach manifesting is pretty unique. I'm going to show you how to use your emotion to talk to the universe in a big, grand, wild, gorgeous, hugely effective and potent way. So that's what I wanted to talk to you about today. Stuff that great manifestors can do and how they do it. Now, this is part of my MI School of Flow preview. I'm doing a couple of radio shows, podcasts on this, where I'm going to kind of just tell you kind of overall what it is I teach and let you get a really good feel for the kind of information I like to deliver to my students. And yeah, although you probably already know if you've been listening to this podcast a while, that today the full focus is on what really great manifestors know how to do. And frankly, that's, you know, that's one of the reasons that a lot of people get involved with Manifesting in Law of Attraction in the first place, because somewhere along the way, they got exposed to this idea that there's more than one way to do something. And the way that the world teaches you is very physical based. You do this, you go to that school, you get married to this person, you buy that house or that car or blah, blah, blah, blah, and you realize, oh, that's really not enough because it seems sort of random. I do things and then I have to just cross my fingers and hope they work out for me. Or worse. Something seems so unjust, you know, why does this really horrible, awful person seem to have their life set for them? That is so unfair. And that's what sends a lot of us off on this quest to unravel. Like, hey, how does this really work? It's not just about the physical stuff we've been told to do. And then, you know, we look to our religions, usually what we've been brought up in, and we think, well, that kind of fulfills a whole other aspect of me. It's not really teaching me how to interact with my future, how to interact with life. It teaches me how to interact with other people. It gives me morality, it helps me understand perhaps you know, what my greater self is, my spirit or soul is all about. But it's still missing a couple of pieces. That's where manifesting and the whole self growth, self development movement really comes into play. Because it's us, it's this group, it's you now, because you're listening. I'm going to haul you in this group now too. We're the ones who recognize, oh, there are more tools. What are they? So Law of Attraction is how a lot of people get led into this idea that there are more than just. There is more than just the physical level that you can develop and create things on. However I've discovered through my own journey and through my family, some of you guys know that the work I do is similar to what my mother does and my grandmother and my great grandmother before her. We actually don't know how many generations of us have been like this. And I laugh and joke sometimes that, you know, I tried for many years to get away from doing this. You know, I went to college to become a great literary star and blah, blah, blah, and prove how smart I was. And it ends up that no matter what I did, you know, try to do, I even ended up working for a big publishing company. Still brought me back to this. Because the fact is these things I know and that my family knows it's a true gift and it's something that frankly needs to have more exposure in the world. Whereas there's already quite enough writers out there. I love you writers. Come on. I write too, but my point is that there's not as many people spreading this kind of knowledge out there. And I was tapped to do it. I was basically told if I didn't do it, certain energies had wasted their time and effort on me. Talk about a humbling experience. So eventually I capitulated and I said, okay, if I'm going to do this, I'm going to do this really well. I'm going to do it to the very best of my ability. And for me, that's meant a long journey of self development and self growth. Because I can only teach what I have been through and what I have tried. And I know it works, and I know it doesn't work. And I know the layers you have to hit to go deeper with it, to get better at it, to go from being an amateur to an expert. And it's been. It's been quite a wild ride. But so fun, amazingly fun. Okay, so this is not Law of Attraction. I've already said that. And you're still wondering, well, how is it? One of the fundamental differences is that I work with something called flow energy. It's an acknowledgement that the world is made of an energetic basis. And you kind of know this already. You remember from science, you know, we're made of molecules and atoms and quantum energy and quantum data and, oh, gosh, maybe 10, 15 years ago, it was quite. Everybody was talking about quantum this, quantum that. It was all the rage. Basically. Quantum is just one more level. You think about all the things in the universe and you think about the tiniest thing you can think about. Then you think about something even tinier than that. Until you get to the point where you can't think of anything tinier. Your mind just pops out. It can't handle it. It wasn't built for it. That's pretty much when you're getting into the quantum layer. In fact, that's when we often have to shift over and go into spirit. And that's why people say, well, it's God, it's source, it's heaven, it's another place. We can't describe it. You just know it. You know it. Even though we don't have any physical tools or even a biological ability often to understand this, but we know it's there. This great energetic mesh. Like imagine if everything was made of blueprints. You know, like blueprints for a house all sketched out on paper. Well, you know, the car that you might be in right now, there's a blueprint of energy that Holds it together. And it doesn't hold it together just one time. It's holding it together every second. This is living, this is breathing, this is alive, this is moving, this energy structure known as your car. And you say, well, it's not alive, it's not organic. True, it's not. But it's made of the same fundamental material you are. This car is having experiences every second just as you are. It's growing the information surrounding it that is it. You know, its tires are going down, it's getting an oil leak, perhaps it went another hundred miles. It experienced this level of, you know, this bumpiness. And all of that information, every kind of information, everything that happens, you have to think of as being encoded in the universe. So your car, yes, it's just a car. And it is recreating itself every moment so it can continue being a car. Imagine if like two seconds from now, boom, there was no more time. Or imagine if, boom, there was time, but everything that is didn't know how to reorganize itself into itself. Everything would instantly fall apart. Voom. We'd all be gone. There'd be like, voomfree, nothing. Right? Just wrap your head around that for a second. And it's kind of important that you do, because when you manifest, you're getting this understanding that everything is moving and it is either holding its current shape or it's changing into a different shape. But it's always expanding and it's always growing. Because if something occurs, it's like it's being scratched into rock, you know, or scratched into sandstone. It's there. It's there. It happened, it was experienced. It changed something. It indented something and marked, moved it. It switched its course. It added to it, it did something. There was an impact. That impact is now there. Never goes away. In fact, that's a. That's one of a principle principles of quantum theory that once something is known, it can never be unknown, right? So here you are, this magnificent being. And I'm going to assume that, you know, like many of us, you believe that we have a higher self or a soul. And we are continually growing because we're moving through time. We're creating ourselves every second. We're either staying as we are or trying to. It's an illusion. You're never staying as you are because you're always growing by default, right? The five minutes you've been listening to me, you have now expanded to accept and take in my words. Whether you believe them or not, they're in you. You have known Them, they will always be accessible to you. They will always be part of you. That's pretty profound. Things you expose yourself to, become part of you, and are always part of you. You've always wondered why it's hard to watch scary movies, huh? Or violence. A lot of us, we know it doesn't just hurt our eyes and our hearts the second that we're watching it and give us a thrill, it becomes part of us. It stays in us. And some of us are like, no way. I am way too sensitive for that. That's carried in my being from here forward. That's also what gives some of us a really strong incentive to change the world. To say, no more violence, no more starvation, no more hurt, no more suffering, because we know it and it's part of us, and that's why we're working so hard to alleviate it. But I'm digressing already. So here you are, this beautiful being, and you're flowing forward. There's no other word for it. You're flowing forward. It's not just you, though. It's everything. Everything is flowing. Everything. You, the car, the tree, the pencil, the planet, the galaxy, the universe. Flowing, moving, going into its next second of creation. Okay, I'm telling you this because I want you to start recognizing the power in this. Some of us have been living lives like a little leaf blowing in the wind, saying, oh, it's all out of my control. Oh, it's just whatever happens, wherever I land, little seed being blown along by life. Some of us are saying, hey, I'm actually kind of important. I have a consciousness which is very divine because it means I have an awareness of my awareness. I am aware that I am aware. Okay? That's, you know, go into cognitive science and talk all about that. I am aware that I'm aware. Therefore I. I'm different. That divinity that allows you to become part of the Creator, to create with the Creator, you know, you're more than just God's children. If you're God's children, you're going to create with the Creator. That's your intention. That's your reason for existing and being. And what parent wouldn't just cry to see their kids not creating, not growing into what they were intended to be. So you're creating and you're growing. You were intended to do this all along. That's what a manifester is, someone who is aware. I am a creator. Ah, now, what tools can I use to get better at it? And that's where life opens up to you. And you Start finding all this crazy cool, wonderful stuff and getting really excited about it. Like law of attraction, like manifesting and flow dreaming and what I teach. So what do I teach? What are those tools that I give you to get better at this? Well, I've been doing this for a long time. I actually do both. Empathic intuition and manifesting, which I use flow dreaming to do for me. You know how I'm talking about this flow, this universe, this path of conscious creation that you're very much part of, that you're affecting, that you're directing, that you're, you're co creating with every moment. Well, you can either send information into that and create. You can be the person sketching those blueprints or you can be receiving information from those blueprints. Think about this for a second. You're sitting at a drafting table and you're looking at a big sketch on a piece of paper. Just like you're looking at house plans or something if you've ever seen those. And you're either sketching in what it's going to look like, you've got your little magic pencil and you're writing information into flow into the energy, saying go here, do this, become that. Or you're looking at the plans and receiving information from them. Like, oh, I see there's a stairwell here and there's a pathway over there and there's this and that. Well, people call that being psychic. To me that's almost way too woo woo a term. It's not being psychic, it is being psychic. But that's old school. The more comprehensive way is to go, oh, I'm just receiving information from flow. I'm receiving information from all. It is understanding something. I'm using my emotional connection because to me emotion is a language. Emotion is not something to fear. It's not something to be afraid of. It's my principal way of communicating with the universe, of reading and writing information to this blueprint. But it's my choice. Do I want to take stuff and know about it? Do I want to read it, share it with other people, tell them, hey, you want to know what's going on in your future? Well, check this out. This is what you've been creating and if you stay on that path, this is where you're going to go. Something knocks you off the path or you change your mind and create something different. Always wanted to know, right? Why certain predictions don't come true. It's probably not the intuitive's fault. It's probably that you changed your mind at a certain point or you went off in a new direction and that little line of probability got stopped and you created a new line of probability. You've got to stay the course to receive that end result. And I love that because you know what it means? It means we're truly manifesters. You can see a future, you can see something possibly coming up. You can know thoughts and feelings, you can know stuff on this whole other layer. But once you know it, boom, that information is in your hand. Now you've got it, what are you going to do with it? You want to keep it, you want to throw it away, you choose your choice. You're the manifestor. It's true. Eckhart was right. The point of power now, it's now because this is where you're continuously choosing your direction. What do you want to grow into? What do you want to unfold into? What do you want to experience next? Who do you want to become? That is what I put into flow when I'm co creating, when I'm manifesting and when I'm flow dreaming. So great manifesters first and foremost understand that point. You know the stuff I'm telling you. This used to be what was taught in what they called ancient mystery schools and there are still a few around today. You know, my grandparents were actually part of one that's still around to this time. This was considered such dangerous knowledge, it was so empowering to people that it was kept hidden from them because they said, oh no, most people couldn't handle this. You know, remember this is when there wasn't really true democracies. Forget about the Romans, those were only people in that democracy in the Greek and Romans were the, the men who owned property. So if you were a woman, you were out of luck because it was too dangerous to give certain people power, meaning, most all of us, and that's why it was kept away. But this is the exact kind of stuff that used to be taught and it's still here and it's still around and there's people like me still practicing it and creating extraordinary lives from it. Now it's not all a walk in the park because it means that I have to show up and own it. It's like, you know, going to an Ivy League college. Hey, you've got to commit. You can't just sit around and play and just, you know, hope to get straight A's. You get what you put into it. And I put in a lot because I love it. It's not hard for me. Learning this stuff is not hard I just have to put my time into it and I have to stay committed to it. And every time I want to slip back and go, no, it's. I don't want to deal with that, and I don't want to grow anymore. Today I say, wait a minute, where is that old thinking coming from? Because it's not you. Even if I handle things that I'm afraid of, which I do all the time, by the way, because for me, it's a wonderful way to grow. But even then, I always do it, saying to my flow, hey, I'm gonna try something that's really scary for me. I'm stretching my boundaries. I'm going big in this aspect of my life, either by breaking out and being more truthful and authentic, or by pushing myself to, you know, to do something I've never been able to do before. You know, whatever it is, whatever it is I'm pursuing, that's a little scary for me. I ask flow, I go in and I flow. I flow dream. I use my technique, I use my manifesting, and I say, all right, I'm going to do it, but you've got to also show up as well. Takes two here. So bring me the resources I need. Bring me the experiences. Don't make it too rough on me. You know exactly the level I'm ready for. You know exactly what I can handle. You're going to give me a test, knowing I could pass it with an A if I apply myself. You're never going to give me something that's so far above me I can't handle it and give up. That would not be fair. Would not be fair. You're going to give me something that you know I can do because you've already seen that potential in me. That is the leading edge of me. It's right there on the forefront. It's been identified. It now just has to be brought forward and out. You help me, I help you. Wow. Can you imagine working with the universe on that level? That's what I do. That's what a great manifester does. Here's some other things that great manifestors know how to do, by the way. I'm telling you these things because this is what I teach. This is what I share with people. I share it in this podcast. I have a manifesting store on my website where I've created all these beautiful flow dreams that will walk you through these processes that will help you, that will grow you in these areas, that will help you talk to the universe in this way. So, you know What? Darn. I just realized it's time for a quick break. So because this is going to be a really content, rich program, I'm going to go to a fast break, we're going to come back, and I'm going to keep sharing with you some of these things that you can do that you can learn, and what's more, how you can learn them, like what you need to do, what your next step is to start doing this. So stay with me. We'll be coming right back in just a moment with more Flow Dreaming. Hi, I'm Summer McStravic.
Hi. It's Summer, but on break. And I know that some of you are still wondering, what is Flow Dreaming and what is MI School? Because I refer to both of these quite a bit in my podcast. Me School is a transformational program. It's a gorgeous and deeply revealing, empowering online school worldwide where I teach you how to remodel your life in any way you choose, using the technique of Flow dreaming as well as a bunch of other deeply powerful life changing processes. So me School is either enrolling or it's accepting names onto the wait list. And that means that I'm accepting students who work with me for the year. And you can learn how to do.
What I do in life.
The way I think, the way I build things, make things, heal things. Everything I talk about you will learn directly from me how to do. You're going to create some amazing things. My MI schoolers, their lives change way beyond the norm. And you don't even have to be a superstar when you go in. Some of you are, and you're ready to go bigger, play in that bigger field. And some of you are just saying, hey, help. What's next? Where should I go? And both are fine. Both are great if you're ready to go big. But you know that you need to deepen your own spiritual practice and your personal growth, because that's where it all comes from, right? Then this is where you need to be. Your life only grows as big as you do. So here's what to do. Go over to flowdreaming.com and click on MI School. And during these enrollment periods, you can actually set up a free phone call with me or my staff and we'll talk about it.
Is it a fit? Is it interesting?
During waitlist times, we just put you on a list of people who've expressed interest, so we can notify you as soon as the doors open.
All right.
I look forward to hearing from you and even more to getting to Know you as one of my personal students in MI school. Now let's get back to the episode foreign.
Welcome back from Flow Dreaming or to Flow Dreaming. I'm so happy to be with you as always and that you've stuck with me through those short little commercials. By the way, those ads are because the Flow Dreaming website does support this program and you can find a great manifesting store there. I've created Flow Dreams. Now what these are is they are pre recorded audios, they're MP3 files and they range from 10 to 20 minutes long. Some of them are Flow dreams, some of them are Flow Dream meditations. There is a difference. Both of them though are very active ways of communicating with the universe. That's why it's not meditation. When you are in flow, when you are using a flow dream, whether listening to one that I have previously recorded for you or doing one that you make up all in your own mind, on your own, you're talking to the universe, you're talking to Flow. You are inputting information, you're sketching on your blueprint. And it's an amazing, wonderful, effective way to start having things change, grow and develop in your life. So do check out the store. The other thing I want to mention is my me school. Obviously I'm embarking on a year long program with a gorgeous class of students. Every one of you who has been signing up and becoming part of this, you guys are ready to go. Like, I'm not gonna be able to hold you back. We have a year to spend together. And I know some of you are thinking, oh my God, a whole year. Believe me, this year is going to go so fast. I have been rolling through coursework the last few years with my, with my diamonds. And inevitably every one of them are like, I can't believe we're already five months in. I can't believe. Where did the time go? What happened? And I'm always telling them, wait a minute, stop. You have forgotten where you even were five months ago. Five months ago you were. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Think. Remember all those conditions that pushed you to the point where you finally said, enough. I'm ready to grow past this. I am ready to move and to grasp my life and get into my power. And nothing is going to say no. I'm not going to say no anymore. Think about that. That's where you used to be. And they look back and go, ooh, it's amazing. The growth. So believe me, a year is barely long enough. Even though the huge changes start occurring in your Life usually around. Well, for some of you, about three months, in others around six to nine months. That's what I'm noticing the benchmarks are. By six months, just about everybody has popped like a little popcorn kernel. Bam, bam, bam. Everybody in the pan is going for it and starting to make big, huge, beautiful changes in their lives because they have all the tools now. And not only do they have the tools, but they have the mindset behind the tools. That's the thing I used to just direct. You can go back in my archives and listen to older programs. In fact, I have premium archives. You can subscribe to them. It's super cheap, but it opens up like another 400 hours of this program. I used to just teach the skills. I realized after a while there's a lot of people who need more than just the skills. They need to know how to put them in effect in their life. They need me to look and watch them and guide them and show them, oh, you're doing it right here and not right there. And here's what to do next. And that was amazing. Do you want to double the efficiency of that? Here's what to do next. So anyway, that's where my mentoring was born, the diamond program and me school. By the way, there is still an option for me to work with you personally, one on one. That is my diamond circle. And I only have a couple slots because I've decided this year I want to work really deeply with a few people who are very ready for it. So if you want that, you have to contact me for MI School. You can find information on my website about that. Okay, enough. By the way, though, it's starting very, very soon. So do get ahold of me. If you're interested, there's a contact form right there on the site. Just pop up, fill it in, schedule a time to talk to or email me, and we'll get going and seeing if this is really your next step, your journey. Okay, so let's get back to these things that incredible manifestors do. And if you're still unclear about what Flow Dreaming is, because I know, I started to tell you and then I kind of veered away. I have some programs called Flow Dreaming 101 and Basics of Flow Dreaming and so on. In fact, look Back to the one from May 20th of this year. It's the Flow Dreaming Quick Start Guide. I will describe to you the actual technique of flow, but right now I'm past that already. And I'm just trying to show you this is what it does for you. This is who you can become. Open your eyes. Wake up, little birdie. Okay, So I know that for myself because I practiced this a long time. Not only do I create things now, I mean, really, I look at things and I say, I will do this, I will do this. And I don't know how. And I'm often kind of scared because you're always scared if you haven't done something before, who is totally prepared. The first time, if you're a teacher, the first time you walked in the classroom, were you nervous? If you're an actor and the play is opening, first time you walk on stage, are you nervous? Of course we are. All of us are. Whenever you go bigger in life, you're nervous. But if you're good at this, you're able to get over those fears, over those nerves and say, no, I can do this, I will do this. Flow is helping me. I am meant to do this. Source put me here to learn this and to become this so I could improve not just myself, but everyone who comes into my circle, everyone in my sphere, right? I like to think that every one of my friends and family is benefited in a positive way by knowing me. Okay, that takes Lightworker to a new level. Again, it doesn't sound woo woo at all. I'm just creating an ongoing connection, you know, an ongoing friendship, an ongoing energy in their lives that is in some way, I hope, benefiting them because of this work I've done, because of this example I set, for instance, in my life. So I find again, I was going to go there more and more. Even though I feel afraid of things, sometimes I'm able to override that with trust because I know that when I go deeper, I will be supported. Even those things right now that I'm still afraid to touch. And believe me, I have things like that in my life too. We all do. We work through the levels, you know, we take care of the easier ones and get deeper and deeper until you finally get to the ones. You're really just afraid to go there. But I know that when I do, when I'm ready, every level I'm at, I'm always supported because I've proved it to myself over and over. Okay, so that's something a great manifester knows. We don't get afraid now to ask for whatever we want because we know we're going to be supported. We have shown it to ourselves. We will thrive in whatever great beautiful bigness we are shooting for. We will thrive in it. We don't have to prove ourselves to get it. No one has to say whether we deserve it or don't, or whether we've been good enough or whether we've worked hard enough, or whether we have to beat out somebody else for it. Those questions are not on the table for me anymore. I just assume I am all that, and if I'm not, well, who cares? I'm asking for something else. You know, those are all lower levels of thinking. Those are all lack thinking. Those are all conditional. You've heard of conditional thinking before. Conditional thinking is when you put all these conditions on your success. I can only have it if I can only have it when. I can't do it now, because conditions, conditions, conditions. You see, a great manifester knows that when you acknowledge and reinforce those conditions by buying into them that you are perpetuating them. They just will keep on rolling for you because you just asserted that they were real. Okay, one thing you can tell I'm not is a Pollyanna optimist thinking like, oh, I believe in things that aren't really true. I don't do that. I believe that things can become true if I step up to them and they step up to me. It's very different. It means I'm never pulling the wool over my eyes. I'm never living in hope and fantasy land. Because usually what that does people, you know, people like this, you're living in hope. Well, it'll change. When I hope someday I can. It's like, great. What are you doing about it? What are you waiting for? Why are you sitting in your powerlessness waiting for it to happen? Like, no, no, that's that. That's fantasy thinking. Sitting in your powerlessness, waiting for it to happen to you or for you or for things to change so it can happen to you. What are you doing? You're just sitting there in your powerlessness. No, great manifesters, we never sit in that. We acknowledge our dreams. We say, yeah, this is going to happen to me. I don't know when. I don't even know particularly how. But oh yeah, it's going to happen to me for sure because I'm demanding it. A great manifestor. Here's something else that we know about ourselves that we use to create with. We know that whatever is going on outside of us in our life right now is a total reflection of what we have going on inside us. So anything, look in your life right now, anything that's stuck, anything that's not living up to its potential, anything that's absent and you're lonely for and wanting that's inside of you, it's not outside of you. Your life is just reflecting it. The circumstances have come together. Remember that flow of energy I was talking about, right? All of these energies of everything is always coming together. Think of all these little tiny streamlets coming together to merge and forming a big little. A big little river together. Okay? That's all the things in your life that form your future. Today, tomorrow, the next day. The people, the places, the workplaces, the situations, the events that you go to, the things that you think. Every one of those, a stream of energy, a stream of data, stream of knowledge. Whether it takes the form of a person or an event, it doesn't matter. It's all information being relayed back into source energy. So all of that is flowing together. And you know what, you know who is really directing that? You. What is coming together is based on what is inside you. In this moment, in your moment of power, Great manifestor knows that a great manifester looks at those parts of their life that are dysfunctional and not working and says, thank you, you are giving me the most valuable information. You are telling me that there's something in me that has created you. Gosh, I wonder what that is. Because you just gave me my power back. I used to blame my boss, I used to blame my husband, I used to blame my best friend, I used to blame my disability, I used to blame my weight, I used to blame. Right, all of these things. My lack of money. Oh my God, that's a huge one. Used to blame money, poor money. What a scapegoat. Do you know how many people blame money? It's not money, it's. You take that power back. The minute you own it and say, oh, it's mine, is the minute you suddenly are in a position of control and power again. Okay? If you don't have the money, it's not because the money's not there. Money's just doing its thing. God, there's so much money in the world. Billions, trillions, numbers, I don't even know. It's probably more money in the world than ants or grains of sand. If it's not with you, it's because of you. Wonderful. Love that, accept that, take that thought in and go, whoa. Why have I been in a place of lack of. Where is that in my head? Because it came from me. Because what I am, my life, is perfectly reflecting what's going on inside me. Thank you. I really want to know all those things in me that are creating this. Because now, now that I see them, I Can fix them. I can do something about them. Manifesters, great manifestors. We are continuously motivated to grow. We are always seeking ways to fix ourselves or fix others. Maybe you're recognizing yourself there, right? If you're the person who always wants to help your family, if you're the person who always wants to help your friend, if you're the person who people come to, it's because you're always trying to show them their power. They come to you for that. Okay. Probably means you could be a really wonderful manifesting person. Manifesting person. Manifester. Every time I type Manifester into, like one of my newsletters, my spell check goes craz. Hates it. Hates it. And I'm like, nope, it's my word. I'm gonna make it up. It's a real word in my world. You're a manifestor with an or. I've decided, not an ER since I made up the word right or somebody did. Webster's doesn't know about it yet. I've also noticed over the years that because I have this philosophy now and this ability when things don't go right, meaning something happens that is unexpected that I wasn't anticipating, that I'm worried is maybe not so great after all. I'm able to mentally just switch over in my mind much faster. There was a time when I'd get super thrown off. My day would crash. I'd be grumpy and grumbly and disappointed or irritated or all of those things. And I would let the circumstances around me begin to so affect me that I would sink into it with them and start to create the rest of my day to become that way. Doesn't happen as much anymore. Yeah, things still do upset me. Of course they do. But often, most the time, I'm able to look at that and go, whoa. I got really thrown off my game. I feel really grumpy. Where is my flow? Wait, wait, wait. Where's my manifesting? Because what's inside me is going to be what happens to me for the rest of the day until I move out of this flow. And I think to myself, wait a second. All I have to do is think different for a second. And I shift. I shift. I get out of that stressful situation a hundred times faster than I ever did in the past because I look at it and I'm thankful for it. I go, oh, your resistance. Gosh. Wonder what I need to do with you. My flow is just giving me a little bit more information about my life. Curious. I think that could be a good thing. I wonder what that means. Imagine what your day would be like if you almost always felt like that. Imagine what your depression would be like, your irritability, your frustration, these states of being that we've allowed ourselves to get into because we just don't know the tools to get ourselves out of them. That changes. Speaking of change, it's time for a quick change as we go to a break. When we get back, I have more to share with you, so stay with me. I'm Summer McStravik and we are talking about your potential, who you can be. These are things that you should know. You have the ability to be. So stay with me for more Flow Dreaming.
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Alrighty, here we are, back for more flow dreaming. I'm Summer McStravik, and I hope I'm kind of, you know, it's not motivating you. It's more a feeling of showing you what is out there. I want to show you how other people are living like me and the people that I work with, the people that I mentor, that I teach my students. This is how we are living. We're really. We are really, really living this way, Living with these feelings inside of ourselves, living with these talents that are opening and blossoming. Sometimes you just have to know that other people are, in fact doing it to realize, oh, that's right. I could be doing that, too. It's when you feel like the lone. You know, the lone wolf that you wonder, well, I don't know what's. I don't know what's there. I don't know what I can do. I don't know where I can go. But as soon as you discover there's a whole gigantic wolf pack over there, they're already doing it. They've already got the freshest stream and the most beautiful pine trees. You go, oh, wow. That's very different. I want to know what they know. I don't want to recreate all of these wheels. So that's one of my intentions for sharing this with you today. Point out your potential. Just so you know, this is here. You can take it up or you cannot. Does it make sense in your life or doesn't it? Here are some other things that I do and my students do. I always knew since I was a kid that I had this weird ability to think things into existence, but I didn't know how to control it. So some things would happen for me that I wanted to. Some things would feel like they boomeranged on me. Some things that should have happened easily, that I was thinking on and trying to make happen, never happened at all. And it confused me like crazy. All that's telling you is that you have a lack of control, that you already know how to talk with the universe. You just need to know how to do it better. You need to do it in a way that is focused. You need to do it in such a way that it becomes more accountable to you. It becomes more predictable in your life. You can achieve that place. I am learning now how to know when something I'm making is going to happen and when it's not. I hear it, I see it. I know the signs. I can't tell you all of those now. That's something I teach in my school. But you will be able to tell. You can tell when something is going to work for you and when it's not, and make the appropriate choice in that moment. And what's more, not be afraid to make choices. That's another thing great manifestors can do. We make choices. We love making decisions. We love it every time we make a decision. And the more bold and exciting, the more juicy it is. Every time we do, we just. We're like, wow, I'm going deep into it now. I'm going deep into my life. I'm really creating now. Because we know that flow wants us to make decisions because it wants to give a response to us. What do you think is the most boring energy in the world? It is your greater self. Your call them guides, angels, whatever. Your source sitting around saying, she just won't make a decision. She's paralyzed by fear. All these things I keep giving to her, she keeps letting them pass by. It's like the Top Chef in a restaurant coming out and saying, would you like this? Would you like this? Serving you these incredible dishes. And you keep saying, no, I'm afraid. I'm afraid to make a choice. I'm afraid it's frustrating. It's boring. It's a stalemate. This is why making decisions becomes fun. You're no longer afraid of it. You realize that the more you do it, the more you're given, the more you're offered. And if you get scared at that thought, if it makes you think, oh, I don't know if I could handle that, then that's. That's what gets worked on too. Your ability to receive, your. Your ability to stand in your power and say, yeah, I can have that. Oh, my gosh, I can do some amazing things with that. If I get my, you know, blah, blah, blah, credential, then I can. If I get my, you know. And you see, again, instead of things being taken off the table, more stuff gets put on your table. You're given more opportunities to make more decisions, to give Flow more information to come back to you with. Sometimes I know I'll make a decision that's not good. That's frankly stupid. And my flow will return with some sort of resistance, some sort of negativity around it, some sort of, you know, deflecting me away from it. And I don't get mad. I don't stomp my foot, and I don't say, why didn't it work out? Why didn't that person give me blah, blah, blah? Why didn't they recognize blah, blah, Instead I think, oh, wonderful. I am not wasting time on that. Next. Next. So let me see here. How much time do we have? I wonder if I have time to do a quick flow dream with you guys, because that would be a nice, fun way to wrap up this. You know, I didn't even get through my list of all the things that great manifestors do. One more, though, before we move into a flow dream, and it's this more than anything. I have a committed practice now, A committed daily practice. And I know that's something that bugs a lot of people because they feel like if I could just stay with something, if I could just stay committed to it, then I know I could do it. Here's the thing. When you do it alone your own and you have no accountability, it's much harder to stay committed. Right? Isn't that why we all have diet buddies? We need someone to make us do it, to remind us, you really, really want this. You want this. Flow dreaming for me is a daily practice. I don't even make myself sit down and do it anymore. I just do it whenever it pops in my head. Whenever I get upset about something, I go, oh, let's put that in flow. Let's just fix that. Let's just realign that to the energies, and boom, make it happen, right? So I use it all day long. I use it. Sometimes I use it for 20 minutes in a day, morning and night. Sometimes I just use it in little bits all through the day, kind of correct situations, reframe them, guide them. But I do it all the time now. It's become part of me. It's become part of the way I think. Wouldn't that be awesome to be able to have something that helps you change your thinking? That for me, was always a big problem with a lot of the teachings I grew up with. It was all about change your thinking. You know, your thoughts are things. Change your thinking. Use affirmations, do this, do that. At the end of the day, I always felt like, yeah, but my thinking's never changed because I still have the same blocks. And if my thinking had really changed, I would have. Those blocks would be gone. So something's not working here. But now that I flow dream and manifest, I catch myself whenever my thinking shifts into ways that are not creating for me. Whenever I'm manifesting lack, I usually catch it. Not always, but way more than I ever did. I'll say. I can't believe I was just anticipating that I wasn't going to get my needs met with that. And I Was about to change my behavior based on the fact that I wasn't going to get XYZ that I thought I needed. Wow. I saw myself and I checked myself before I did that lesser behavior, the one that wasn't true to me, the one where I didn't bring up the fact that I need a raise. The one where I didn't talk to my boyfriend about how crappy he's been. The one where I didn't sell enough, you know, pieces of jewelry this month. I was about to make a change and scale back from that. And I caught myself because I realized I was already projecting in the next month or into tomorrow or into that person's response. My fear that I wasn't going to get my needs met. I'm not going to do that. That's not a manifestor, a manifester says, I'll get my needs met. Here's what I'm going to do. And if they don't respond to me the way I want them to, then I'll do something else. I will keep doing it. I don't have a choice. I'm just going to keep talking, keep responding, keep tracking. I will adjust to things that are here in my lap that I'm recognizing that I'm aware of. Not going to make foolish choices and, you know, not see things. But I'm certainly not going to anticipate that lack into my future about myself. Okay, so there you go. Does that inspire you? Do you know what your life could be like? Can you feel it? Do you have a vision for it? Can you sense it? I can. I don't sense everything. There's some big things I don't even want to sense because I kind of am curious what my flow is going to bring to me. It knows my deepest desires. Flow. Dreaming means manifesting with an emotional endpoint in mind, allowing the physical stuff to fulfill my emotional goal. For instance, five years from now. My emotional goal is to be very free and open with my time. Not work so hard, have more time with my family and friends. To be living in a place where I feel just wonderful all the time. I have so many amusements and joys. I feel like I have plenty of money. I can give it to the people that I want to and help invest it, offer it, give it, be charitable. I can do all of these things. There's nothing that pops up in my life where I have to say no to myself or my family or the people I love or the causes that I'm involved with. That's my feeling So I trust completely now, flow will continuously route me in the direction where that is what I receive. Those are the opportunities it's going to be giving to me. And I don't know what all those will look like. I don't know what the house will look like. I don't know what my bank account will look like. I don't know who my friends will be. But I know that if they all are in alignment with that emotional end point, that emotional objective that I'm flow dreaming for all the time, I'm gonna be ecstatically happy and I'm gonna let my flow bring it to me however it wants in whatever form, in whatever shape. I'm taking my squeezy little fingers off of it and saying, no, that's your job. Your job. My job is my thinking. My job is being in my flow. My job is directing you. If I were the head of a company and I didn't give my company any direction, that company would fail. The CEO is not answering the phones. The CEO is saying, here is the big picture. Everybody come behind me. Let's sail into it together. You're that CEO. Let your flow figure out all the little stuff. You just put that in point there as you close your eyes right now and I want you to just feel something with me. I want you to feel you in flow with some music, some floating, some happiness, some letting go. Doesn't matter what's happened today, you're in control of this moment. Anything that could have knocked you off balance today, you're choosing not to let it control you for this moment. This is your time, precious. This is your life, your fragments of time. You may be missing these on the final day, thinking, oh, those fragments of time that I gave over to my fear, to my anger. Wish I had those now, boy. So you take them right now. You don't wait. Take them right now. Take him in your flow. Who are you? Who are you? Fearless leader? You are. You are your fearless leader. No one else is going to step in and be that leader for you. Only you. You've been given that gift of your life to lead and you're leading it. You're empowering it. Are you going to starve it of the tools that you need? You can starve it of the opportunities. No. No. You're going to shove your life full of opportunities, full of the tools you need, full of the ways of thinking that will help you. You're just going to cram it to the tip top, say no, I'm going to give me everything I need. It's my job, it's my responsibility. And I'm going to let go into this feeling. I'm going to release into this understanding, yes, this is me. This is who I am, and this is how I flow. And that's the feeling you leave on right now as you return back from your daydream, from your flow dream. So what we just did there was not quite an actual flow dream, but it was true energy work. You probably felt it. That's the kind of shifting a great manifester does all the time. Second nature. Can you imagine what a life that builds for you? It's amazing. You owe it to yourself, your family, your husband, your wife, your brothers or sisters. You owe it to them to do it. Okay, that's it. Thank you guys for joining me this week. My love goes to you all. I look forward to those of you who are joining me in me school in just a couple of weeks. 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