#429 Your Work Family...Friends or Foes?

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Episode of Flow dreaming. Welcome to FL. Hello, dreaming. I'm Summer McStravik. Happy to be here with you. Our show today is about our work family. Yes, those people and places where we spend 40 plus hours of our week, of our life. Or perhaps a little more or a little less, depending if you work or not. Most of us do work, though, and our work family becomes that group of people that we see more often than our own family. So, big topic. Lots to say about the energetics of work as well as how to flow for what you need from your work family. Okay, before we jump into that few things going on@flow dreaming.com I encourage you to jump on my newsletter. You can do that by going to flow dreaming.com. what happens when you jump into the newsletter just subscribing to it, is that I immediately give you an introduction to Flow Dreaming MP3, where I teach you the process that I hear me talk about all the time on this podcast and then I follow that up with an actual flow dream that you can begin practicing and working with in your life. I want you to see the benefits of Flow Dreaming as quickly as possible because it's good for you, it's good for me, it's good for the whole world. It means you're taking back power over your life, over your future, over yourself. And so the quicker that you're able to master it and feel it and do it, the better. So that's why I give away my teaching about how to do it and I give you your very first Flow Dream for free. Many of you have found me by the way, through the app that you've got on your phone or your pad, through the itunes store, the Android, Amazon. Gosh, I guess there's a version of the app just about everywhere to fit whatever device you're using. I'm really excited to announce that in the coming months, there are going to be more apps coming out. So you may want to take a peek and see if you found all of them. We're going to end up with several. I'm not even. I'm not even gonna say it. I'm gonna hold it a little bit, cards to my chest that there will be several. Each one offering you a different glimpse into the world of flow. So that's super exciting and that is coming down the pipeline. Heads up on that. So go to the website, get on that newsletter, and I will start teaching you more about flow. Kind of like I do on this podcast. Different ideas, different things that go through my mind. A lot of what I send out is about mindset, how to think like a manifestor. Because chances are, you know, many of you listening, you've been learning how to manifest, how to do law of attraction, how to, how to, how to for a long, long time. I like to take it to the next level, which is how to be it, how to think like it, how to become it. So every day you just are it. It doesn't have to be something you try to do anymore. You simply just think that way, you act that way. You make your decisions based on what's already inside you, coming out of you. That's in fact what my MI schoolers are learning all year long with me. Me. School is now closed. So depending on when you listen to the podcast, it may be open again because, well, you know, right now I'm starting classes once a year, or student bodies. I should say once in a year. But very, very exciting. Okay, that's it. Little quick dip into what's going on@flowdreaming.com now let's get into our work family. So, you know, this podcast is about flow dreaming and it's about manifesting and it's about intuition. Primarily, I use those two tools, manifesting and intuition. Intuition is where I'm checking in with myself, checking in with my flow, the universe, saying, is this what I need next? Is this right for me? What is this person thinking about me? What's really going on in this situation? It's where I gather layer of information that's right out there. It's readily available to everyone. As long as you know how to tune into it, it's very easy to do. Some people are born, yes. More naturally attuned from the get go. Other people have to learn it and develop it in their life. The other thing I use, of course, is creation manifesting. Recognizing that we're creating our life every single day. We are manifesting with every. Every intention that we experience, every emotion that moves through our body. Every thought is going in. To think of it as a master template or a matrix of information, a blueprint, if you will, of who we are and what we expect that the universe is reading from. It's where the script universe is, the movie, what's in our script. That's what I teach. Manifesting intuition. Now, how does this apply to. To your work? First thing I want you to do is call up the feeling of your workplace right now. Just call up the feeling of it. Maybe you're sitting in your workplace right now, actually listening. What comes to you first? Are there frustrations that bubble up or is there a sense of joy that you're feeling contentment? Are there people that are rising up into your consciousness now? And I say think of your workplace. Those are the people who affect you the most. And it's odd because they could be people you hardly ever associate with, yet they have direct influence on what you receive or don't receive. Doesn't matter how much physical exchange you have. If they're in you, if they're in your flow, if they're in your consciousness, if you have feelings surrounding them, they're impacting you and your work and what you receive there or are able to offer there. We look at workplaces as energy structures, right? There's a couple layers going on here. There's the physical layer of your work, what you do, where you sit. What's your cubicle feel like if you're not in a cubicle? What's your classroom feel like? What's your office feel like? What does your department store feel like wherever it is you spend your time? The physical layer, the physical people who interact, who are they? Are they on time? Are they late? Do they make you miserable? Do they make you feel happy? Then there's another layer on top of that, the energies that move through and which. All of these physical things are made from. That energy template. That energy blueprint collectively creates another whole theater in which we are constantly responding and operating. So let's put this into example. Let's play it out like this. I just asked you to think of your workplace and the feelings it brought up in you. Think of that as your sketch. Now, that is your energetic emotional sketch of the current time and place where you work. In other words, the energetic emotional level of what's going on there. And you're thinking, ah, there's some key players, some key characters. There's also some intangible things that I'm not really sure how they're related, but it's okay. If you felt it, it's there. These intangibles might be. I wish I could get off more time. My boss never lets me work from home. It's a frustration. It creates a sense of restriction inside of me. That restriction creates resentment. So I'm bringing resentment into my workspace because of this. Okay, so that energy is in play, right? It's in play on the table. Now think about your actual workspace. Do you like it or do you feel devalued? Are you in a call center? Does it drive you crazy? Or do you have your own plush, beautiful office where you can think thoughts and gain inspiration? How does your workplace give to you physically? Does it inspire you to create and connect and collaborate? Does it give you that freedom of your headspace? Or do you have to carve that out for yourself defensively by plugging in your headphones to create that space? All of this is in play. All of this is going into the mix. So already, probably a lot of you are thinking, God, I never realized how negatively my workspace impacts me and my people. And I point this out, not to depress you, but because you know what you're working with now, what this means is you have a certain amount of energy constantly going out of you to erect certain walls around you energetically so that you can deal with your workspace. Imagine you're a battery. You've got a full charge in the morning. The second you walk in, you're suddenly dealing with the resentment, the having to carve out my own space, the, you know, two or three co workers who annoy me that I have to deal with. Right? Your battery now is zipped down to 50%. Why? Because 50% is already allotted to those things constant and daily. This is your work family. Work family. Ooh. When I said that, that seemed like a total non sequitur. You're like, no, no. I suddenly am hating my work. Now you're calling them my family. They are your family because you're in this space. Your battery is here eight to ten hours a day. And when you go home, chances are, how much time do you actually interact with your family or your roommates? I don't count sleeping time here. You may end up just being, well, five, six, seven hours. Who is getting the most of your Energy. Who is getting the most of your focus? Just notice this, we're taking inventory of, of what you've got. Now, hopefully this should be inspiring you because now instead of saying, I don't know why I feel this way. I don't know why I'm, you know, depressed. I don't know why I have anxiety, I don't know why I'm gaining weight. I don't know why I'm unhappy. I don't know why I'm, you know, now why, you know, a big chunk of why. You're stepping into an energy family that has a lot of issues. Now top this off with one more thing. Do you feel powerful about these issues? Can you do something about them or can't you? If your answer is I can't, then you're saying, and to top it all off, I feel totally powerless to do anything about this. Okay, stop right here because you're all about to stop listening. You're like, this is not a feel good show. It is when you recognize this, you suddenly recognize, gain the power over it. It is the not knowing, the lack of clarity that is drawing all of this power from you, drawing all of your energy out of you. And here you are, this person saying, I'm really just trying to do the best I can, trying to do the best work I can, trying to get a raise, I'm trying to get a promotion. I'm trying to get ahead. Why does it seem so hard? Well, think of you. You're one little person trying to do all this good stuff. You've got all this other stuff around you. Can you see how your energy is actually being split every day? You're not able to do the best you can. You're not able to get that raise, that promotion. What do you do about it? This is the beauty now of flow. This is the beauty of alignment. This is the beauty of personal growth work, of conscious awareness work. I was having a conversation just yesterday with some friends about saying how your spiritual self is intimately tied to your success. Intimately tied. Because you can strive all you want in work to be more successful. You know, you can grind against the machine, but until you bring your personal success and personal empowerment to it, you're probably not going to get so far. Personal empowerment, personal growth in my world comes through the lens of flow. This is where I say, ah, I see what's going on. I see all of these places where I'm leaking my power. And yeah, it's true. Maybe I work for a school district and I cannot single handedly Overthrow this, you know, 30 year rule. What else can I do? Flo, come here. Let me be in you. Let's come up with a different plan for me. Okay? I see what my workspace is like, and maybe I'm painting a dark picture, but maybe your workspace is already pretty great. You just want it better. In that case, more power to you. This will just blast you ahead. You go to your flow and you say, here is how I need to feel in my work family. Here's how I need to feel here. I want to feel heard. I go into my flow. I'm flow dreaming. I am heard. I go into my flow. I'm flow dreaming. And I'm feeling like my needs are getting met at work. The situations that felt so insolvable, hey, I don't have to solve them. They're going to be solved on their own. What a feeling. You mean I don't have to control that and struggle with it? Nope, not in my flow. In my flow, the situation is resolved. Someone else resolves it. Something else happens, something else occurs. I'm like a pinball in a machine and suddenly a lever is flicking me in another direction. I don't have to deal with that anymore. I'm feeling a tremendous sense of happiness now at work. Happiness with my co workers. I'm finding that I'm interacting with co workers that I like, that I enjoy. I'm minimizing the time spent with the co workers I dislike. In fact, I don't even get into tangles with them anymore. I used to push it and fight it and try and make them do what I needed them to do and tell. Or they would corner me and start talking for an hour about their miserable life. And I felt powerless. I just had to listen. No, I don't give them that energy anymore. I feel myself just shutting it down, cutting it off because I don't need it, I don't want it. They don't. You don't relate to me. You're like an extended third, third, third, third, fifth, ninth, 25th cousin. Now I don't owe you anything. So I'm happy to say, oh, that's nice. I'm going to go back to my workspace now and then I go talk with that person who is thinking more like me hatching my plans with them. They're a part of my work family too. I'm going to give them more attention. That means I'm not going to indulge dwelling on those people who irritate me. If I do that, I'm Actually programming my flow with. Okay, I hear that. More of this, please. Okay. So do you see what I'm doing right now? I am modeling for you a different way of behaving inside your workplace that will cause your workplace to start mirroring what you are feeling inside right now. Your workplace is mirroring what you're feeling inside right now. That's why I had you come up with, you know, call up, figure out what are you mirroring. If it's frustration, then this is just continuing. It's perpetual. If it's a sense of joyful anticipation, a feeling of like, oh, I got this. I have this project. I'm so excited about this. Don't you find that work tends to respond with excitement? People around you are excited too. Oh, yes. Don't forget the jealous co worker. Maybe that person isn't. You know why? Because they're mirroring into their workspace. A sense of, I'm never picked, I'm never chosen. It's always somebody else. Why not me? They're giving that. So when they see you, you just become a proof. You become validation to their own internal thing. Does that have anything to do with you? Is that yours? No, that's not yours. Don't let it be yours. Don't have them make it be yours. Give it back to them. You're like, fine, I'm being the villain for you. Awesome. I didn't sign up for it, but if you want to make me be that way, that's okay. Don't make it yours. You don't have to. You don't need to bypass it. Ignore it. I get a lot of questions about the workplace when it comes to deflecting negativity, interestingly. And I think that's why I'm sort of skewing today's topic toward that. I find that many personal growth and spiritual teachers teach you techniques for deflecting energy that are very traditional. I call them old school. Things like, put yourself in a white light, feel the bubble of protection around you, call on God. All of these are good. They're good. Sometimes you need them. Sometimes you are in a state where you're like, whoa, I need to retract and do all this. But by far the better way that I have found to do it is to cultivate your flow that you don't get in those situations in the first place. Right. Because when you deflect negative energy, it's an active process. You have to now divert some of your battery power into doing that. You have to remember to do it. It's like the cleanup crew. It takes effort. Who likes to clean up spilt toxic waste? Not me. I would prefer to make it so that I don't get hit with that toxic waste. How do I do that? I change myself inside. I begin spinning at a rate so quickly that negativity can't catch up, can't latch on. We're two different vibrations, so to speak. It works tremendously well. It takes absolutely no effort. And the best part of it is that when you're now moving at a place where negativity really can't latch onto you, negative people leave you alone. They don't come to you. They have no interest in you. You're not going to give them what they want. A negative person is looking for you to uphold their negativity. You notice this, right? These are your friends, family, co workers who come to you to complain. They want your sympathy. They want to be validated. You're listening. You're participating. Okay? The person who is difficult for you at work, they're bringing you into. They are the ones with the difficulty. They're bringing their difficulty for you saying, hey, participate in this with me. Come on, come on, do it. Ugh. I don't want to do that with my work family. I don't participate if I'm forced to deal with it. Because, see, that's the interesting thing about your work family. You're forced to do things that in your personal life, they're much easier to take care of. In work, you're like, oh, but I get fired if I don't talk to, you know, my boss. Maybe my boss is the difficult person. In that case, you offer to flow things like this. Notice how everything, by the way, that I'm saying, you offer to flow first. It is implicit then, that the things that physically are offered up to me as a result are going to fit what I'm asking for and becoming inside. So I'm becoming inside something like this. My boss has no interest in making my life difficult. I can feel that my boss just sees me as someone doing my work and is fine and content with that. My boss, there's a certain kind of deflection happening where he or she realizes they're not going to be able to vent and feel satisfied with me. That's naturally going to cause them to vent to someone else. I'm just not that person anymore. I don't give back any kind of energy to them. That's not me. It doesn't belong to me. Their stuff isn't my stuff. Hmm. In fact, I'm gonna take it a step further. I can feel things changing so that I don't even have to deal with this kind of stuff anymore. This kind of people, this kind of workplace, this kind of district, this kind of government entity. I'm shifting into something else where I don't match it so much that I'm going now to where I match it. And this can happen. You can outpace your workspace. Think about how much sense this makes. When we join workplaces, we are a certain person, a certain energy. When we join, we're aligning to it. Now years go by, we become different people. We're growing, we're expanding. We are cultivating new interests, cultivating new abilities. Is our workplace doing the same thing? If I said show of hands, how many workplaces evolve just as much as we do? Oh, there'd be like two people out of a room. A thousand. Most workplaces have the opposite problem. They become morbid. They become unable to change, unable to grow. Or they become so seeded with the people who have built the workplace that the workplace takes on. You know, obviously this is an aside, but every workplace takes on the character of the people who began it. Without fail, every workplace, no matter how large or small. So if you have company owners who began it, the way they think their mindset is going to permeate, go through every aspect of this company. If the company is very large and you're in a division, the people at the top of your division, it's like think of them as sitting above you on the pyramid. And, you know, their information kind of, you know, their energy kind of floods down like rain on all of you. That means you're caught in whoever they are. Now. If they're not evolving like you're evolving, you can see how after a few years, you guys are in different worlds. You can see the mismatch. Yet what are we trained to do? Stay in your job for as long as you can. Even when that job is going one direction, that workplace may be staying the same or traveling in another direction. You're way over there. Do you see why you end up feeling, like, disconnected, without passion? Change your mindset. Change your mindset. Change your inner flow. Let flow bring you what now aligns to you. Okay? And then that goes into a whole other podcast about fear, change, etc. I've done a lot on that. In fact, as an aside, some of you guys maybe you're getting a little inspired by this, I hope, and you'll go to flow dreaming.com, you're going to go to the manifesting store and you're going to see a whole bunch of MP3 flow dreams on my ideal job, my perfect career, more money, monthly raises, promotions and recognition. Yes, they are excellent because those will help you create the internal energy state of who you are and get really clear on it. Help separate and differentiate you from that workplace. You are not your workplace. Your workplace is a group of people, a group of energies. The physical way it's structured even. Not you. You're a piece of it, just a piece. And what happens when you take a piece and you stick it in something much bigger? It becomes hard to keep your self identity and protective circle going on. You tend to blend in with that piece. So be careful of where you work because you're going to become like that. You will change into that. It becomes an overpowering, emotional, energetic state that you're in for eight to ten hours a day. So to go back to the manifesting store. Yes, create the new workspace inside you use those MP3s for that. But don't forget for you to then take the leap to really believe and understand. Yes, I can change things. I can go bigger. I can take my next step. I can say you love your workplace. I can get that raise. That's where you need to be picking up flow dreams like this. Or cultivating energy states, emotional energy states in your flow like this. I love change. I love transition. I'm not afraid of it. Transition brings me to where I need to go. I'm going to be transitioning and changing no matter what. No matter what, it's going to happen. So yes, I want to be intimately involved with where and how I'm changing. I am not afraid. I am beyond fear. Beyond fear. Great flow dream to use. How about some of the flow dream meditations, Flowing Through Change and Transition Guidance and trust. They're there for you. I'm organizing them into playlists. In fact, I realize there's so many, it got confusing to pick and choose them. So I'm putting the ones together that I see go together. I see them go together inside of you, inside of thousands of people I've worked with. So when you're looking for the new work, you don't want just more money monthly or just wealth and abundance. You also want beyond fear. You want going big. You want flowing through change and transition. You want ones like that so that you can actually step into that when it arrives for you and you can cultivate how it arrives for you. Right. A lot of our fears are that if I talk to my boss about getting more money, they're going to say no, and then I'll be stuck for another year. Or if I tell my boss that I just can't work with this person and then I'm stuck there, then this person's going to know and it's going to be even more miserable. All of these things you're projecting. You're not going to get your needs met before you've even had the conversation. And I bet you you've been doing this over and over in little, tiny, little, tiny little thoughts that roll through your head all day long. Well, I can't say that because that'll happen. I can't do that because that'll happen. I definitely can't do that because that'll happen. And how many of those that'll happens are based on. And I won't get my needs met. So here you are, not getting your needs met. I would love to revolutionize the way you think. So you'll say, I'm going to do this and get my needs met and get my needs met. And I will get my needs met. It may not be exactly how I envision it happening. Flow rarely gives to you exactly what you have pictured in your head. That's so true. But it will give to you that endpoint, that emotional endpoint you're going for. It'll just find a way that's the easiest to get to you, that works the best for everybody involved. It'll take into account those factors that are much too complicated for you to ever even know, let alone ask for. So I've given you a whole chunk of information to mull over, dwell over. What I'm really trying to tell you is that you can change your workplace. You can change yourself in your workplace. You can get very comfortable with wherever that leads you. And if you know that that leading you is to a place where you're more happy and content every day, whether it's in your own job or in a new job. That's what we're after. Why not. Why not ask for that? Why not become that inside? You're only reacting to things around you because you're choosing to react to them. You are choosing to say those are permanent, those are unchangeable. That's not true. They're not unchangeable. That's your thinking. And your flow is listening very closely to your thinking and giving you what you think. Okay, we're going to a quick break. When we get back, I would love to talk with you answer any of your questions. You can do that, by the way, by going to Flow dreaming dot com. There's a page there about radios and podcasting and find out what my live time is and give me a call. If you want to call, it's 877-230-3062. But only call that if you know I'm actually recording this podcast live. Otherwise you'll get a studio recording, nobody is in right now or heaven forbid, you'll get a whole other show. That would be exciting. 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I'm Summer McStravik.

So let's see what's going on with Kate calling from Seattle. Hey, Kate, what's up?

Hi. This is also work related of today's subject. I mainly work for myself and I've just built up so many contacts here and so many referrals and clients that it makes me nervous to move. I really want to move, but I'm kind of starting over from scratch.

Yeah. Is your business Internet based or is it physical based people?

You actually go to event in events?

An events company?

Yeah, all sorts of different things. Not just one kind. But I do contract work and long term and people hire me for just one event.

So you've worked for a long time to develop your network and you're yearning to go someplace else and wondering, do I have to restart the process? Okay, I'm looking in UK right now. Just kind of getting a feeling for your flow. Where do you want to go instead?

Where?

If you were totally happy in your work, where would you be living?

I would like to go to the Bay Area, San Francisco area.

Okay, so here you are. This is what I would do if I were you. My little plan of attack, right? I would begin flow dreaming. I would do it every day and I'd be saying and feeling things like this every day. I love my events work. My events work goes with me wherever I go, I am my events work. It's not people outside of me. I am my events work. Where I go, my events work goes. I create it around me. No matter where I'm at, I look back and I feel how, oh, it took me so long to build things up the first time because it was my first time where I'm going next. I don't have to take that long to build it. I wouldn't expect that I would take. If I took that long, I would be shocked. I'm not recreating the wheel now. I'm bringing the wheel with me. Wherever I go, I know immediately what to do, who to talk to, how to get things rolling and snapping and buzzing around me. In fact, it might even be a more lively, perfect community where I'm going. There may be more response, not less. I may be going into ground that's more fertile than even the ground where I was at, where I had to till it and work it, until it and work it forever. I can't wait to see how this feels. I want this experience. I fully expect that. I'm supported here. I'm so supported in the Bay Area. It's like home My event business comes with me. It finds its true home. And I say to it every day, I'm feeling to it every day. I'm so glad I brought you home. So glad I brought you home. You established yourself so quickly, the roots you put down. It was like, wow. I blinked and suddenly we were full. Okay. That is how I'd feel. Do you see what I did? You came from a place of lack in your thinking. If I go to the Bay Area, it's going to be hard. I'm going to have to rebuild. People don't know me. Yeah, empty. I'm going to go from a full, you know, contact list to an empty one. That's a place of lack. So you change your thinking. What if instead I discover that there's actually more business here? What if I discover that this place is twice as fertile as Seattle was for event planning or whatever I'm putting on? What if I discover that I am so good at this that now that I'm being asked to do it again, I do it in a third of the time that I did it the first time? This is just a way you're thinking, and it's not. You're not creating a optimistic, you know, head in the clouds kind of thing. You're actually feeling this. You're feeling it because you want to create this. You know, it's like, funny, I'm a Virgo and I'm a realist and I always look at the facts. I'm like, yeah, do I have the money to move? Yes or no? But then I go a step further and I say, okay, with what I've got, do I want to keep it or change it? That's where my flow steps in. That's where the quote unquote optimism steps in. I'm changing it. Here's how. Here's what it will look like. Here's what it will feel like. Then you have to. You are obligated to do the next step. If you're feeling this, you have to go into it. You have to start doing it. Start giving your flow, something to work with, move with it. And that's how you move. Literally. Literally and figuratively, physically. You move in every way with it.

Does that rewrite thinking. It really does that. Totally put it on a 180 different course. So that was very. Yeah, that was very helpful.

Yeah. Your own mind was stopping you in a huge, huge way. And that's your flow. That's your manifesting. So manifest very different feelings now and see what happens, what will happen. I bet is you're going to start getting strange offers and people are saying, come out and visit and just stuff will happen. You'll say, oh, that's interesting. That's interesting.

Yeah, I would like to, you know, definitely do that in the fall and be there by January. So pretty quickly. I'd like a quick turnaround.

All right, then I feel a quick turnaround. There's no need for a delay. I don't. I don't believe in delays. I don't believe in necessary delays. I believe it happens as soon as it can possibly happen. There you go. Great.

Thank you so much. I will listen to this again and keep doing it every day.

You're welcome, Kate. Take care. Good luck. Good flow. Bye. Hey. Hey. We've got time for another one. And I see Megan in Australia. Hey, Megan, you just popped up on my screen. What's happening before you.

Hi there, Summer. It's Megan here.

Hello. Wait, do I know you? Have we spoken? We've spoken.

I've just joined, actually, MI school.

Oh, you're in me school with me. Fabulous.

Yeah, yeah, go, run. No, I'm just looking for some guidance, actually, around my work. And I also have my own business in organic skincare. And I guess I'm just trying to work out sort of what to do with that. My work is coming to an end as well in about 18 months. But I guess I'm just trying to work out whether or not to look for some new work or. Because that's quite a stressful work environment, or whether to just really utilise that time to focus on building my business.

Yeah. Okay. So you should be working with our flow. Dream of the month, right? Crystal clarity. Yeah, that's what. That's what your question is really all about. My work is coming to an end. In other words, my alignment with what I was doing has naturally ended. It's lived its lifespan, which is normal.

Yes.

What I go into next, how is that going to make me feel? Do I want some beautiful security of work for someone else? Do I want to find another job and create security and comfort and growth there? Or do I want to go where maybe my heart is pulling me into something that I create and make on my own, like my skincare. Am I ready to do that? Right. That is the clarity. You make that one simple decision and then watch as a domino of decisions unrolls from that are suddenly being offered to you. Right now you're stuck at a Y in the road. You have to make a choice, get clear, start walking down one of those paths. Let new options then come to you. So if you were to make a choice right now, which one would it be? Just for giggles, which one?

Definitely the skincare.

Okay. All right. So I am launching my own company, relaunching it. If I've already had it going, I can always relaunch. I can relaunch five times a year if I want to. All it means is that I'm recommitting to it. I am bringing myself to it. I am. I am looking for. I'm feeling flow, gathering my resources for me. It's kind of like saying to the universe, I'm going to show up for you. I am showing up for this. Are you going to show up for me? And you make that bond. That's an energy. That's flow. That's manifesting, making that bond. I'm showing up for my skin care in a big way now, and I need all the resources in front of me. I expect them there. I expect that I will be given clarity on what choice is the best for me to make. Then I'm going to do it, and I'm going to listen carefully. What is Flo saying? Is it saying, yes, do more of that or not so much? Try this over here instead. You know, working with flow means being a really good listener, but it also means being very good with action. It's action and listening. Action and listening. That's all you have to do. The thing is getting through all the head trips that happen along the way, right?

Yeah.

All the fears. You could give me any one of your problems, any one of your little issues along the way, and I'm pretty much going to give you the same formula and say, now, what did you do with it? What did you do about it? Did you do it? And you'll say yes or no. And if you say no, I'll say, okay, let's go into your head trip, because Flo wants to help you. Your life wants to help you. What's your head trip? Let's get through that. Okay, so skincare it is. Now. Belly up to the bar, belly up to the universe here and say, I've committed. What's next? What's next? And then feel those things that you think might be good. Like, I get all kinds of resources. I have a wonderful source of funding. I have a new supplier that is going to lift things. Whoa. I just got this major inspiration for how this could be marketed to the people I really want it to reach. Whoa. Right? I mean, flow could bring you so much. Let that Come in. You know, pretend you're lying back on a, on a featherbed now and just allowing flow to pour in everything you need. Receive it, receive it, receive it.

All right, Megan, that sounds great.

Professor, what's the first thing you're gonna do? Give me something you're going to do.

Well, I think I'll have to sit down and make a little list of all of the different feelings that I want feel from getting the business going so that I can do a bit of a flow around it.

Yes, perfect. Good first step. Right. Then there'll be a second step after that.

Yep.

Okay. Thanks, Megan. Hey, and I'll talk with you in our next class. Now, I remember they don't give me much information here. On my call screener, I get. I get a first name and the country or the state. All right, so we're going to go to another quick break. When we come back, we're going to go into a flow dream which is going to help you and your work family make any adjustments you need. So you guys get along and you get your needs met there or you free yourself to look elsewhere. Whatever you need to have happen. You're going to feel fierce and strong and absolutely held and protected at the same time. So stay with me. We'll be right back after this. Foreign. Hi.

It's summer, but on break. And I know that some of you are still wondering, what is flow dreaming? And what, what is MI School?

Because I refer to both of these.

Quite a bit in my podcast. MI School is a transformational program. It's a gorgeous and deeply revealing, empowering online school worldwide where I teach you how to remodel your life in any way you choose, using the technique of flow dreaming as well as a bunch of other deeply powerful life changing processes. So me school is either enrolling or it's accepting names onto the wait list. And that means that I'm accepting students who work with me for the year. And you can learn how to do.

What I do in life.

The way I think, the way I build things, make things, heal things. Everything I talk about you will learn directly from me how to do. You're going to create some amazing things. My MI schoolers. Their lives change way beyond the norm. And you don't even have to be a superstar when you go in. Some of you are, and you're ready to go bigger, play in that bigger field. And some of you are just saying, hey, help.

What's next? Where should I go?

And both are fine. Both are great. If you're ready to Go big. But you know that you need to deepen your own spiritual practice and your personal growth, because that's where it all comes from, right? Then this is where you need to be. Your life only grows as big as you do. So here's what to do. Go over to flowdreaming.com and click on MI School. And during these enrollment periods, you can actually set up a free phone call with me or my staff and we'll talk about it.

Is it a fit? Is it interesting?

During wait list times, we just put you on a list of people who've expressed interest, so we can notify you as soon as the doors open.

All right.

I look forward to hearing from you and even more, to getting to know you as one of my personal students in MI School. Now let's get back to the episode.

You guys are ready to flow. All right, listen, flow dreaming is not meditation. If you think it is, you will be disappointed or stunned. One or the other. I learned I have to say that every single time. It's my disclaimer after on Amazon. I used to have a bunch of CDs up. Well, I still have them, actually. And people were reviewing things like, well, she talks so darn quickly. She's got so much emotion in her voice. I can't meditate to this at all. Terrible. And it's like, no, because it's not a meditation. We're doing something different. What we're doing is emotional reconditioning. We are preacting. We are communicating with the universe. It is supposed to be emotional. You are supposed to get yourself into a state, as they used to call it, remember? Oh, don't get yourself in a state. That means yes, filled with a beautiful feeling intentionally. This is your communication. The more filled up you get with it, the bigger your bullhorn, the bigger your connection, the more you're actually imprinting yourself, thinking of your emotion like it's a color and you're squeezing it out of the tube of yourself. The more you squeeze out, the more paint or blue color you become. Or if it's not blue, it's the more freedom you're experiencing. The more flight, the more whatever it is, whatever the feeling, the emotion you want to cultivate and create in whatever area of life you're manifesting. That's what we do. So it's not hypnosis either. It's not subconscious stuff. Yes, you can listen to flow dreams before you fall asleep. Yes. They will sink into your subconscious. It is great, actually, to be able to program by night as well, as program consciously, then you really are working both parts of your self. But flow, dreaming, what we're doing right now is an emotional, energetic process of connecting with the universe. There's three parts to it. Going into flow, bringing up that emotion, and the guided daydreaming. Guided daydreaming just means just listen, you know. Let yourself be rocked into a place where you see, feel, hear, sense, smell, touch, and eventually you're just going to feel, okay, all of that again. Get my newsletter. I'll walk you through the process, give you an introduction that I can't. I don't have time to do here every time. So close your eyes with me. Do it even if you haven't done it before. Just let yourself be carried. We're gonna daydream together, okay? It's a daydream that we're creating. Just like you're staring off, away from your computer. Lost in a daydream, Driving on the road, lost in thought somewhere else. Time is disappearing. You're feeling connected on some other level. You're breathing deeply. Your whole body relaxes. You become aware that your body's been holding you, holding in or holding tight to certain parts of yourself, such as your abdomen, your shoulders.

Your jaw.

Maybe your forehead. Your body lets go. You sink into just a few minutes of another place. Here you go. Here you go. It's like sliding out the back door of your workplace. Did anyone see you? No, there's no one around. Just you slipping out that back door for a few minutes of sunshine and quiet and me time. Here you are out the back, but it's not the back you were expecting. You slid into the energy place behind the scenes, behind the scenes of your work, behind the scenes of your life. Like discovering the inner workings of a clock. You look around and you realize this is where it's all put together. This is where everything is planned. This is where everything that I have just thought, said, felt, expected, done. This is where it comes into fruition. This is where it leads me into the next moment by moment in my life. You can look backwards in this glowing, flowing place and see all the things you've thought, done, said, heard, felt, expected. It's like looking at a glittering pile of stardust flowing across the scene, leading right up to where you are now. To your feet. It surrounds you. You're right there. You're at the leading edge of it. And if you go, push your hands forward. Poof, there you go. There's where you're thinking, feeling, expecting right now into your future. What is happening oh, my. You look to the sides of you. There's your life coalescing around all of this intention of who you are, and it's bringing things together for you. It's creating for you. It's reacting to you. Life is reacting to you in your future. How is it reacting? Reacting? What is it bringing? And you're saying, well, I'm really here for my work, my work, family. I'm feeling so much there. I felt so much there. And every day I kind of press it down, and then it pops up again. Well, I'm gonna let it pop up right now because I'm changing the feelings around it right now. Here are the feelings that I have. I get along with everybody. I work, work with every single one of them. It even shocks me. I find myself saying, I don't know how that happened. It just lightened up. It released. It just. It changed. Now, my work, family, well, I like some of them more and I like some of them less, but all of us get along. I don't spend any stress there. Oh, I love that feeling. What a relief. Oh, and now I'm feeling a trim sense of relief at work. Relief in every way. These things that were pressing on me, burdening me, these fears I had, these worries, these concerns, those two are leaving me. It's like heavy weights lifting up from my shoulders, moving up into the sky. Look, I feel taller, I feel lighter. I stand up straight in my flow. And then I notice I've been walking forward, I've been moving. I'm moving in my work. I'm moving into my career's future, my workplace's future. And I'm noticing all of this stuff is happening day by day as I move forward. It's just happening. I feel it happening. I sense it. I see it. It's all happening for me as I walk forward into my day, into my life. Wow. Well, if that's going on, what else do I want to feel? What else do I want to know? Oh, well, there's that issue of what I'm being paid. I'm gonna pop that in there, too. Oh, and that's feeling good. I like where that's going. I like how things are changing right now, assembling differently. God, I'm loving everything about this. What a wonderful place to be in. I love this. I love this. And you linger in that love, linger in that feeling. Even now as you realize your daydream is ending and your eyes are popping open. Here you are back. And that was it. That was six minutes somewhere else, feeling something completely different and allowing that feeling now to exist and be and take effect. And I'm going to leave you with that until next week. My love goes to you all. Be sure to find all of the episodes of this podcast on itunes or your favorite app or other listening device, including ctr. Love to you all. See you later.

All right, that wraps up our episode today. But before you go, two things. One, you can get the Flow Dreaming app in the Google, Amazon or iTunes app stores. It allows you to search and sort to mark your favorite episodes. It's completely free to download and it gives you access to the latest several dozen of these episodes, as well as to the premium episode library, where there are more than 400 episodes that date back to 10 years. The app's free, so go download it now at Flow Dreaming in the App Store on your mobile device. And last, if you love my show, I'm going to give a shout out to my mom's podcast. It's called the Dear Venus show and she's an amazing intuitive and a medium and super, super funny. Search the words Dear Venus in your podcast direct or online, and that way you can find her too.