#445 Flowdreaming: What Is My Next Step After the Basics?

Flow Dreaming.

It's a show where we talk about the power of your mind to change your world around you, to literally affect the fabric of your reality. We talk about this feeling of hope.

And joy and relief, and that is.

What being aware of your flow does.

It gives you a feeling of power.

Again in your lives.

Oh, my God. You were so on target. You are so amazing.

I can't thank you enough. Breathe.

It is the feeling that you bring forward. It is your emotional connection that really sets the tone for what is going to be happening to you and for you. And you know that feeling when you.

Touch it, it just spreads through you. Thank you for taking my call. I don't know why I feel like crying.

I think I just feel your love.

Of course.

And I think I'm gonna get some ANSWERS.

I'm Summer McStravic, and welcome to another episode of Flow Dreaming.

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Yeah. Here we are, Flow Dreaming together, happily recording this latest episode of my podcast, live airing as a radio broadcast. That is how we do this thing. If you want to know how to reach me today and you want to know when I air live all those details, go visit flowdreaming.com and click on the radio or podcast tab and you'll find out how to get a hold of me and call in. I love to answer your questions. I love to do Flow Dreaming with you. I love to look in your lives. And as always, we start with a theme, a topic for today. Something that is usually around intuition or manifesting consciousness or, of course, Flow. Today. Today, I want to talk to you about what you're supposed to be doing after the basics, right? Let's pretend for a second here that this podcast has caught your eye and you've maybe downloaded it and you're starting to kind of take a peek and listen. And maybe you've been to the website flow dreaming.com and you've downloaded the free Flow Dream that I gave you and the introduction, the audio introduction, and you're like, yeah, I Think I'm liking this. This is a very interesting way to one, talk to the universe, talk to my greater self, talk to my future. It's a very interesting way of manifesting and creating and clarifying who I am.

What I'm doing, where I'm going.

It's a beautiful way of perhaps not doing meditation, maybe adding this onto my meditation practice because there's so much gorgeous emotion in it. I'm actually feeling ways that I want to feel in my life, but I'm feeling them now. And this is creating change for me. So all of this you've done, you've got that part of the equation. And of course, because you have the introduction audio, you know how to actually flow dream. What this technique is that I talk about so, so often? So you're thinking, what now? How do I take this to a different level? How do I get to be one of those Manifesting practitioners, those miracle workers, those summer talks about, and what's next? So this is where we start asking questions. Okay? Basic information plus questions. Let's go with the basic. Manifesting, as you guys know, is not about things. Things come. Things happen. Whether it's jobs or cars or people situations, those are things. They're really a result of something else. Something else that needs to be done first before the things. Manifesting is about creating states of being. States of being come first, things come next. This is why, if you've been playing around with the popular methods for manifesting a law of attraction, you're like, where are the things? Well, they won't come yet. You have to be in a state of being first. You have to create states of being in your life. What does that mean? The state of being is the emotional space, the emotional endpoint that you want to arrive at in different areas of your life. And you know that the only way you arrive at it is by telling your flow yourself, your guidance, your source, God, telling everything how it is that you want to feel. And the way you tell it is not through words. I want to be happy. I want to be satisfied. I want to be content. The way you tell it is through creating that emotion itself. You don't say, I want to feel happiness, and I will feel happiness if I only got a better job, damn it. Right? That's how most people do things, including me. For a long time now, I say, I am happy. I have no reason in the world to feel happy. Yes, my job is still miserable and etc. But I'm feeling happy. And I'm feeling happiness in my work. And I'm gonna feel that right now. I'm gonna feel that state of being, joyful, exuberance, happiness, contentedness. And our example is in my work. And the reason I'm feeling this in flow state while I'm doing this flow technique is because this is how the rest of the world is now going to read me. It will say, oh, look at that. She created this emotional template for us. We must come up with things that match that. We must draw those things into her life. What could it be? Because she didn't say, I want to feel a certain way, blah, blah, blah, disconnected from it. That's just sending out thought, that's just sending out chatter. All those thoughts of things we want to be or do or feel and why we can't. Blah, blah, blah. You create the emotional state that is your communication, and it's disconnected from anything in your life, triggering it, right? You have no reason to feel that state yet. Nothing has happened yet to warrant it. But that's okay. And you're building that in you over and over. You're doing it every day. You're doing it every couple of days. I'm feeling. I'm totally taken care of. My needs are met. I have income. I have great work. I'm just taken care of. I'm always taken care of. I always know how to find money, how to create good resources for myself. I always find how to feel wanted, to be wanted by other people who then want to help me feel secure. Right? You see, now, I may be talking through these emotional states, but really it's emotional connections I'm making. Ah, the feeling I'm being desired. Someone values me. Some world or a client or a person or a company, they value me and they want to give me something from, oh, yes, I am that I feel that. Okay, now I've set up a little exchange here with the universe. Like, yeah, this is how I am. This is who I am. This is how I'm feeling as a result of it. And now, now what does flow got to do? It's got to figure out how to make that happen. Fortunately for you, flow has millions, billions, trillions of options to bring that state of being together for you. If you. If it was all up to you, you'd only think of one or two little ways. You have a much smaller point of view. Flow stands way far back, far back in time, far back in space. You can see how everything could be arranged 500 different ways to bring that to you. And the more you give direction to Flow, well, I want to feel valued. I would like to not be. I'm feeling that I don't travel very far. I'm not wasting time on freeways. I'm feeling like I'm always present and there. There's no stress. Oh, I feel stress free. Stress free, right. I feel stress free. Well, if you know that driving on freeways for hours a day stresses you out, then flow's going to just take that off the table. No, can't give her any. That's going to stress her out. That means no driving on freeways. That means no mean bosses. That means, you know, no commission only. That means whatever it is that stresses you out. Right. That'll just be taken off. You don't even have to list them all. Just, I don't feel stressed. I feel great. I feel great in this work. I feel great in this exchange. I feel valued. I feel wanted. I feel. I feel income all around me. I'm totally taken care of. See what I'm getting at? Okay, that's the state of being that comes next. Being able to switch everything that comes in your head from an item on a list to the next step, the state of being that that item supposedly creates for you. And the thing is, we all get hooked up or snagged because we think we know what the outcome has to be. Well, the outcome of this divorce has to be blah, blah, blah, in order for me to feel that way. Maybe. Yeah, I know that looks the most probable. Probably is the most probable. But there are some other things that I bet you don't know about. So how about the outcome of the divorce isn't that I get half of the house and half of the custody or all of the. Whatever it is. How about it's, God, I'm so happy with the freedom I have now. I see my children all the time, enough that they're happy. I'm happy. It's a really perfect balance. And I have all the income that I need. It's wonderful. I'm in that state now. Flo is reading that. Ah, I wonder how we can finagle things. What can we adjust here and there that she doesn't even know is on the table yet? So what blocks you from these states? Let's say the step after this is, okay, I'm getting it. So I'm creating these emotional states, but I don't know how to make it happen. I don't know how. How do I make this happen? I'm putting the emotion out there. But then what? The step after this, what is It Step three, step four, I've lost track. Anyway, the step after this, how do I make it happen? Flow dreaming is how it happens. Flow dreaming, the pre action, the emotional blueprint you're creating, that is the how. The other side of that of course is action. Preaction and action. Once you start creating the appropriate emotional landscape, your actions will naturally follow. How do you know this? Because your mind is changing. The way you look at the world, the way you react to things. New thoughts are popping in your head because now you're starting to react to new realities that you've created inside yourself. No longer are you saying, well, gosh, I'm going to have to work extra hours next week in order to make up all this money that I, you know. And how am I going to do that? It's going to be really hard. I have to. You're preacting long enough. Flow is starting to change things for you. Instead you're thinking, I don't think I'm going to have to work any extra hours. I think I'm getting more money for the hours I am working. Yeah, I think that would be better. That's feeling good to me and I'm starting to see it happen. So I know that that's real. I'm going to take action toward that instead. Toward that instead. You're making new decisions, new choices that you never would have made before. If you notice yourself starting to do that, then you are in the next step of manifesting new choices. Next steps, Things you haven't done before, things you wouldn't have considered doing before. That's your next step of manifesting because that's what gets you into new territory and new ground. So look at it like this. Flow dreaming is the how you make things happen. There's one other thing though that often prevents people from really getting what they want. They don't know if it's the thing that they should actually be getting. They're stuck in the decision making point. They say, I don't know what I want. I don't know if I should. What if this is the wrong thing? How come nothing is happening? I feel stuck. I'm not sure. Let me think on it. Right, let me think on it. I know I harp on that one because that's been one of my particular ones. I was trained and taught the more you think on it, the smarter a girl you are means you're being cautious and careful and you're going to save your butt from making irrational and stupid choices and decisions in your life. And To a degree that's true. However, that is more often misused than used. Well, thinking on it means taking the 5 minutes, 10 minutes, 2 hours, 5 days. Thinking on it is not a two week or two month or two year process. All the thinking you need with all the current material in front of you can be done pretty darn quickly. If you're waiting longer than a couple of days, you're not thinking on it. You're waiting for more stuff to happen. You're waiting for more information to come so you can continue thinking on it. You're waiting for stuff, you're waiting for something else. Basically, you've decided no, until something else comes along and changes my mind. Now, how do you shorten that process? Because you see, that's the process that stalls us out. Manifestors are people who aren't stalled out. You get to steps 3, 4, 5, 20, 30, you learn how not to stall out in your life. Stalling out is, I want to change my job, but I don't know what I can do next. I've been looking for two years, but I can't find anything. Stalling out is, I haven't had a relationship in years. I don't think I could even have one. I don't think there's anybody there anymore. Stalling out, I can't repair this relationship with my mother. It's just how it is. We're just stuck stalling out. All of those things you say to yourself for why things have to stay the way they are or they can't change. You've found great reasons why and you've stalled yourself out. Why do we do that? Procrastination. Procrastination. A1 primo, primo, top of the heap, stall out technique. We think that we're procrastinators. We're not. That's secondary. That's second tier behind procrastination. Behind all of these that I've just mentioned is a lack of self trust. Lack of trust. You don't trust, you wait, you need more. Confirm it for me, guarantee it for me. Make it, make it. Be for sure. Life's not going to do that for you ever. So all you're doing is saying, I'd rather stay in this crummy middle than advance into an unknown that could be better or worse. And that's a choice, that's a decision you've made. And if you look around your life and you look at areas of dissatisfaction that are percolating around you, that's why they're there. You made those and you got comfortable with them. And you don't trust yourself for what might come next if you start to change them. So what comes next in my world is my intuition, my empathic intuition. Because when you start to learn about flow dreaming, you learn that the world is emotion based. Emotions are powerful. The universe hears, responds to emotion. Emotion is what you use to show the universe what you're being. Emotion is also how you communicate and receive information from the universe. I can check in with myself pretty quickly now and say, how does this feel to me? Does this feel good or bad? Does this feel right or wrong? And sometimes I'll say I need to let a little more information accrue. I'll watch this for a week or two weeks or a month or two months. By then though, I know if I'm lagging past that, it's because my intuition has told me something. I'm just not dealing with it yet. Something else in me is snagging me. Think of flow as an ocean of energy. Think of it as the potential of your life, the flow. Think of flow dreaming as the boat. It's the thing, the practice. It will get you somewhere. It will create stuff for you. It's the boat. Intuition is knowing where to sail it. Intuition is saying yes to this, no to that. I have trust in this. I know if I do this, I'll get a response. I trust that I'll interpret the response well and get more information and then I'll make more things. Then I'll be again taught or told or helped or shown or feel where to go, what to do next. I have total trust in this process. And how did I build this? Because I practiced it. Practiced it. I'm sharing with you, by the way, what is actually kind of the year's program that I teach people in MI school. You'll hear me talk about the MI School of flow where I take people into step two, step three, step four, and I show them how to live differently, how to approach life differently, so it begins responding to you the way you want it to. And once people learn that, they learn the manifesting. The question always comes up next, but how do I know if that's what I need? How do I know if that's what I want? How do I know if this is the right thing? And that's why I teach them intuition for half a year, because I want them to know. I say, you practice this, you will know, you will learn. You will have every answer to every question. Your questions are either, should I do this? Is it Right. That's intuition and self trust. You've got that, You've got a technique that will address that. And then the next question is, but how do I make it happen? When will it happen? That's manifesting. That's communication. That's patterning yourself so that the universe patterns itself off of you. Between these two techniques, you cannot go wrong. There is not one place you can stall out. Unless you get caught, you get snagged. Now, what are the snags? This is another thing. In fact, I was just talking with a woman right before I began broadcasting this. She said, you do talk about our ceilings and blocks and resistance. I'm like, oh, yeah, baby. That is one of my favorites. It is. And the reason is when you're able to discover your blocks and your resistance, or as I like to call up your ceilings. Basically that's flow telling you, hey, you've reached another point of awareness. You've grown and discovered everything about the space you're currently in. You've outgrown it. And now it's like it's become too small for you. That's why it hurts. You don't fit anymore. Time to move up. That's growth. That means you have mastered where you are, and now we have something else for you. And the more mastery you accrue in your life, the more it translates into the material success around you. Internal mastery transfers itself directly to the material success around you. Don't mistake me for saying financial success. Yes, that can be part of it if you choose it. Material success are also the qualities of the relationships in your life. The degree of intimacy you have, the joy that you receive, extract out of your life. Your degree of contentedness, your degree of involvement and exchange with the world, charitable or otherwise. Anything that you physically do, anything that you are physically engaged in, whether a marriage or a job or your own hobby, that counts as material success. And all of those areas grow as you grow. They do not grow bigger than you. They do not become more successful than you. You grow first. They follow from you. That's why for me, being in a program of comprehensive self development of some sort, whether it's me, School of Flow or any other program, doesn't have to be mine, can be any program that's comprehensive, that says you. This is about who you are, where you're going, what you can do, what, what's stopping you. Anything that will bring those things out is going to catapult you. Think about the 12 years you spent in school learning stuff. What was the point of that. Do you remember 10% of it? I remember how to do percentages. I know how to read and write most the stuff, though. Really maxed out in sixth grade after that. Geometry? Forgot it. American history? Not so great yet. You devoted 12 years of your life to that. Yet not one year of your life to personal growth, to understanding you. You. And if you understand you, other people will begin to understand you too. That means you are relationships, partnerships, children, friends, even your pets. Name something that's more important than that. Knowing how you interact with the world, what the world can receive from you in return. That's it. That's. That's existence. That is the reason for being alive. So let's go to a quick break because I've really, really went off on a tangent. When we get back, I'm going to take some of your calls. We are going to do some flow dreaming together and I'm going to give you a little succinct, shorter version of all that I just said. So in case you want to take notes, start thinking about this deeper. I'll give you the way that I live right after this.

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We'Ll go from there. So, all right then.

I look forward to hearing from you and even more to getting to know you as one of my Personal students in MI School. Now let's get back to our program.

Don't you love that? That's a nice quick little breaky thing. Just gives me enough time to jump up and grab some more water or tea, run back here and start recording again with you. Yes. Like I mentioned, MI School, if you're listening to this right now, it actually is enrolling. It's starting in just a couple of weeks. This is the time of all year. You want to jump in? Let's see here. Where is my screen that shows who is waiting to talk with me? Oh, my goodness. Call in now. By the way, I'm gonna go ahead and wrap up what I was saying. And then, Cindy, I will get to you next, so stay with me. And of course, we'll be doing a little flow dreaming too. Okay? So here is what I would lay out for you. The next step. The next. Excuse me, the next step. Number two, in a nutshell, right, the first part of the show was the big picture. It's a nutshell. One, choose a goal. Choose a goal. Be mindful that the goal has a being feeling to it as opposed to a specific physical material result. This means it can be in an area of your life that's specific physical material. I want to be married by next year, for instance. Now back away from that. You want to be married and you want it soon. The feeling goal behind that, the being state, is I am happily with the love of my life. And this has occurred at a rate, a pace that is absolutely right. That feels so good. Could have been at no other pace. This was the right one for both of us. And I feel happy about it. I feel just giddy, delightful. I am with my partner. There is nothing that prevents us from being together. We are together. We have committed to one another. I feel that deep, abiding commitment. I feel that now. This is who I am. This is what I am. I'm ready and I'm open. And I'm totally here for you. I'm here for you, you're here for me. We've got this. We've got the world. Now what are we going to do with it? All right, that's the being state. Notice I didn't say a year. I took that limitation off. Notice I didn't say married. I took that limitation off. Probably married is what's going to ultimately fulfill you if that's your goal. But maybe not. Let's leave it open if it doesn't fulfill you, if it nags you, and that's not what you're going to get. You're going to get what you feel is the best feeling. Then begin flow dreaming toward it. Right? Do this practice. If that is your flow dream, you need to do this practice for yourself at least three or four times a week. Integrate it into the other things you do. After I drink my orange juice in the morning before I leave for work, I spend five minutes in that feeling state. In the evening when I come home and I take a hot shower, I spend five minutes in that feeling state. Whatever it is, integrate it. By the way, I have recorded flow dreams similar to this. If you don't want to do it yourself in your own mind, you can listen to me and I'll guide you along. And those work wonderfully for many people. You can find those at my website. The third thing we want to do, number three, notice any resistance to this feeling and then hunt it down. The resistance that comes up as you start feeling this, whether it comes up as frustration or a sense of it's never going to happen, or I tried this before, or how come, you know, there's no good men or no good women, or, you know, I don't get out enough, or I'm not, I'm too shy. There's so much. You've got your own individual little pile of it. Hunt it down. Begin looking at it, begin dealing with it, because that is your counterflow. That is the core you that you are seeking to change, that you are seeking to remodel. But you've got to see what it is. It'd be like trying to remodel a bathroom with a whole new, beautiful, gorgeous bathroom. Except you can't find the old bathroom, right? You got to find the old bathroom. What's there? What resistance is there? What's it packed full of? Hunt it down. Then you begin to change your mindset. You begin to change your mindset around this resistance. And there is a whole methodology to doing that. I can't go into that, into something as short as this podcast. It takes often months to do. It takes awareness, takes feedback, trial and error, but it's so easily done. Once the commitment is there, once your mindset changes, your actions naturally follow suit. When your actions are following suit, your flow is able to give you more. It's saying, oh, look, she decided to go out to dinner at this place instead of that place, she decided to go out for dinner at all. We can do something with that. Turns out the man of her dreams goes out to dinner there every Tuesday night. Your actions will change, and the next thing you need to do is begin developing your inner navigation. Your empathic intuition. Is this good? Is this bad? New stuff is happening. What does this mean? Should I do more of this? Should I do less of this? What will happen if I pursue this? Ah, I can feel that. Oh, I did this thing. It didn't feel good. What does that mean? Where do I go next with it? Your intuition and your self trust answer all those questions. Flow answers you. Responds to you intuition is what interprets that response. And that's it. Rinse and repeat. Start at the top. Now choose your goal. Now go back through the list again. And there you have it. It's actually a very simple process once you get going. It's kind of like if you had to describe to somebody how to get ready for work in the morning, it would sound like a pain in the right well, you got to wake up, you got to turn off the alarm. Then you have to get your coffee or make your tea. Then you have to get in the shower, Then you have to brush your teeth, then you have to brush your hair, then you have to curl your hair, Then you have to put your makeup on, or maybe you don' your makeup on. Then you have to put your clothes on, then you have to put your shoes on, then you have to make sure you eat something, then you have to check your email and whatever else you do for that. It's like, really? God, that sounds like a whole lot of stuff to learn. And you're like, well, not really. I actually do that every day without thinking. Being in flow state is just the same. You know, you just click into it, you start doing it and the payoff is your life. I mean, your payoff is your life. Again, you spent 12 years learning basically stuff that was supposed to make you intellectually smarter. You're spending one year learning how to navigate your life in the most successful way and how to clear out all those things that aren't successful for you. Or maybe if you're not in ME school, you're not spending the year. It's whatever amount of time you're committing to yourself, to this process, to learning, to going deep, to getting intimate. Maybe you have a trouble being intimate with yourself, really getting in and listening and hearing yourself and spending time with yourself and understanding yourself. I don't know. It's fascinating when you get in there, you get to see who you are. It's the most amazing thing in the world. And here's a little additional sweet cherry on the cake. Once you learn how to do that with yourself, you can do that with other people. You can be intimate with them, you can be present with them. Why? Because you've done it. There's nothing scary in that anymore. You can change other people's lives, people you love. Your kids, your wife, your husband, your boyfriend, girlfriend, parent. Because now it's a skill that says, I know how to live. And people will come to you and they will start to ask you, how do you live? How do you do that? Because they're going to see the fruit of your life changing. You know, like a beautiful tree that suddenly loaded down with fruit. They're going to be attracted to that, and they're going to want to come and say, how can I be that tree, too? Isn't that beautiful? God, that's beautiful. I am the luckiest person in the world. I love my job. I love my work. All right, let's go check out one of your calls. Cindy. Cindy from North Carolina. How are you today?

Well, not doing so well today. I need some flow change for sure.

All right, what's happening?

Well, my day started off wonderful. I'm doing a lot of flowing. But I called my dad, he lives in Louisiana with his. His wife. And I start to chatting with him, and then he asked me out of the blue, when are you sending Marianne, that's his wife. Jewelry back? And I like, what are you talking about? And so obviously, there's been three pieces of very nice jewelry stolen from their house. And I was there back in Thanksgiving for Thanksgiving weekend. And my dad says, well, you were the only one here. You were the only one here. So they think I took this stuff and I didn't take it. And it's just very heartbreaking. For one thing, this is a. His wife is absolutely wonderful, and we got along so very well. And it's heartbreaking to think that she would think that I did that. And also heartbreaking that, you know, that she thinks that I, you know, would betray her like that. The whole thing. Anyway, I need some clear. I don't know, I guess for all this stuff to get cleared up for the truth and, you know, that into the feeling of once this stuff is revealed, what that's going to feel like.

And interesting.

The truth of the matter.

Yeah. It's interesting, too, that they would have gone through their options and decided that having his daughter betray the family was the most likely occurrence.

Yeah.

That for many people would be the last choice that they would come to. Okay, so you can see there's a whole under bubbling of stuff here as well.

No, it's an interesting family, believe me.

Yeah. Yeah. Which I'm sure you're aware of. Right. So there is the feeling that your father is, you know, willing to trust his wife over his knowledge of you as his daughter. If she's the one who came to that conclusion. There's the wife's feeling that women are perhaps competitive with her or jealous of her or she needs to be careful of them. There are other factors at play. I bet you you are not the only person who has been to their house since Thanksgiving.

Oh, no. The people stop by all the time. I was the only one upstairs, apparently. Who knows? Who knows? I have no idea. I just know there had to be somebody else because I didn't take it.

Yeah. And we've all done those things where we've taken our jewelry off and we've set it down on the counter in the living room or in the entryway because we were tired and it was bugging us, and then we forgot we did it.

I kind of came to that. But these are three separate pieces of jewelry that you wouldn't have been wearing at the same time. So I do think somebody did take it.

Somebody with knowledge of where it's being kept.

Yeah, apparently. And they know the nice ones because they didn't take cheaper ones and all that kind of stuff. What I was told. But anyway, like, I'm kind of some jewelry expert, but I've had. Anyway, go ahead.

Nonetheless, they have decided that you are willing to risk your entire future relationship with your family for three pieces of nice jewelry.

Right.

And I keep bringing that up because, you know, that's where the real emotion is in this situation. It's not about stolen jewelry or anything. It's that they would think that you would do this. And it's the hurt and the pain that comes from that. And I wish her well. And we can put flow there. In fact, close your eyes with me right now. Wherever this jewelry is, and for whatever reason it was taken from their sight, whether it was taken purposefully or inadvertently moved by someone, doesn't matter. It's created a sense. It's created a situation where they're able to look for blame and assign it. It's created a situation where the new wife is feeling a sense of deep loss and anger. And she's feeling a sense of having her husband rally to her as opposed to anyone else in the family. A sense of authority in that he's picked her her side. All these emotions are swirling and at play, all these reasons and energies. And we see you in the midst of this, and you're just stepping backwards and out of it. This isn't your thing. This isn't your drama. You are not part of this. You remain with an open heart. You remain in a state of, I came because I wanted to like you. I came because I wanted a good family experience. I remain in that state, and I'm in no other state. There's no amount of jewelry that would cause me to give up my family ever. And eventually, when you wake up, you're going to see that and you're going to realize that. And then you'll be in the very interesting position of figuring out how to apologize for hurting me so badly. And I don't know why you created that situation for yourself, but you did. And we'll see how you deal with that. That will be your burden at that point, not mine. In fact, this isn't my burden to start with. I did not make this. No matter what you think, I wish you ease and flow, that the situation unravels, that it comes clear and clean, and, yes, that the jewelry is found, if that is what is meant to happen. And all I know is that at the end of the day, I feel relieved, I feel relaxed, and I feel curiosity. That you now have to repair your relationship with me. And I will tell you what you need to repair. I won't just sweep it under. I will tell you. And this is probably going to create a ripple effect of much greater changes through our lives and our family. But all of these changes are going to be based on, you need to treat me in a way that I need to be treated, because I only have people in my life who love and care about me. And if you're my family and you're not demonstrating that, I need to know. Because no matter what, I need love and care. And I will create a family. I will create friends. I will receive that. And I'm not saying this aggressively or vindictively. I'm saying it because I'm simply that kind of person. And if I'm willing to give that intimacy and warmth and grace to others, they will come to me, too. And that's why, ultimately, I can let go of this. Doesn't really involve me. You're pulling me into something that's not mine. And now you're going to have to fix your problem when you realize the truth. And I'm standing back and watching. Released from it all. Okay, so that was a little energy work, right?

Mm, sure was.

Yes.

It's. Well, I did talk to her today, too. Really? She's a very sweet woman, and I just don't. So I guess it's also heartbreaking to me.

Yeah.

More heartbreaking that she feels that way than my dad feels that way, actually.

Yeah.

My dad's been a jerk.

And this is just bringing that home. You know, when you have a pattern like that, things just continue to happen that fall into that pattern. One more. So you know this. You've already distanced yourself from your dad, you know, emotionally, and you were hoping you wouldn't have to do that with his wife, and now you're discovering you are.

Thank you very much.

You're welcome. Now be sure to recreate those feelings inside yourself. Right. We went through quite a few. Feeling of release. It's not my thing. A feeling of, you know, godspeed and good wishes. I hope this is resolved. I have no. I have no reason to hope that it's not resolved for you. And then a feeling of if and when you're ready to repair things with me, I'll be open to listening. Okay.

Yeah. I'm gonna do all the stuff that you were talking about earlier too.

All right. Yeah.

Because I know that it does work. I've done it before, so.

Oh, yeah, it works. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.

Okay.

Thank you. All right, Cindy, you take care. Bye now. And with that, I think we should hop on over to another quick breaky break and we'll be right back and do our flow dream right after this. Oh, we're on break again.

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And are you guys ready now to do a little flow dreaming with me? What do you say? Don't have any more time for calls, but be sure to remember next week and call me. Get some advice, get some direction, get a little flow. Or sometimes I look inside people and see what they're thinking and feeling. Gosh, anymore. It just all kind of gets jumbled up together. Like you just noticed in the last call with Cindy. I was picking up quite a quite a great deal from her father and his wife helping to guide the flow dream based on that. This is all stuff you can learn to do yourself if you want to as part of your getting to know who you are. So today's flow dream is going to be about getting to know who you are, having opportunities to see yourself clearly, having opportunities to grow, having opportunities for reward. I like to play a little soft music in the background, so hopefully that'll queue up for you. And I want you to close your eyes and I want you to realize that you're not manifest. Excuse me, you're not meditating, you're manifesting. So all of your attention and your focus is going to go to your emotional center. Right now there's a part of you, part of your body where all of your emotions, emotional self tends to hold itself. Maybe you take a deep breath and release it, letting it out, finding that place inside you, inside your body. Maybe you feel it in your stomach. Maybe you feel your emotional self in your heart. Maybe it's in your head. It's a zone inside you. And when you feel very emotional, this area is activated. Let's play right now with the heart. The heart area. Think of it like a swirling vortex. There's a vortex of beautiful ruby red glittering energy. The ruby red glittering energy of your heart pumping, pumping life, pumping oxygen all through your body. Pumping emotional energy through your body and out all around you. It's communication centrum. It is the connection. It is the radio signal reaching out into the flow around you. And you feel your heart moving and growing and expanding and swirling and you're saying to this heart of yours you're feeling in the flow. This heart is in a flow. You can already tell it's connected with something on the other side, like the person on the other end of the telephone, that your heart is connecting to this flow of grace and beauty and goodness and growth and spirit and light. And you realize I'm not special for having this. Everyone has this connection. Every heart is connected to the this same source. And there's a flow of energy from me to this source, from this source back to me. I'm not special for having it. It's just who I am, how I made. And in this beautiful flowing connection, there's all kinds of information travels back and forth. Information about who I am, what I've recently experienced, what I'm hoping to experience or feel like next. Feelings from the past that come up sometimes and replay themselves as fresh emotions all over again. It's all there, all they're connecting to source. And as I'm feeling this, as I'm understanding this, I realize there's a great deal about myself that I don't yet know. There's information traveling back and forth in this heart space, this sort space that I have yet to understand. And it's funny, you cast your eyes around you in your flow. It's almost like you're looking back and around you back down at your real.

Life, your everyday, and you're thinking, it's so funny.

I've got myself in all of these very predictable and repetitive situations. Most of my day is predictable, repetitive. I'm around the same people, I'm doing the same work, I'm going to bed around the same time, waking up, eating about the same foods, for God's sakes. I go to the grocery store and I fill my basket every time with almost the same stuff. Flow is acknowledging this. It's hearing you, it's saying, yes, we try to give you ways to grow and show you new things, but you need to let us. You have to want to expand, you have to want to see more. You have to want to be given new opportunities. You have to want that. And you call it growth, you call it getting something better and your life. We call it finding out who you are and what you'll do with this experience when we give it to you. We call it doing things that you haven't done before. Stretching, growing. Can I do this? Can I be this? Can I feel this? And Flo is saying, well, yes, you can. Yes, of course you can. Why not? Yes. Flo is Saying, we only give you what your next step is. No more, no less. The next step is always here, just like tomorrow and your future and your next breath is always here. Your next step is sitting right in front of you. No more, no less. It's the one for you to take. It's the choice for you to make. The person you're going to call, the comment you're going to make, the connection you'll create could be anything. Start taking these steps and don't worry, we'll tell you if that was the right one or the wrong one. You'll know. Trust us. Trust yourself. Trust flow. And that's it. That's your agreement. That's your opening up and saying, yes, yes, I can do that. I will do that. And I do trust that. And with that, you watch and you feel as your connection begins to withdraw and your heart pours back into your own chest, zipping you up, a beautiful silvery zipper of energy, closing you right back up. Solid, stable, secure, strong. And that is how your flow dream ends. You open your eyes. Wasn't that interesting? That was a very non traditional flow dream. For those of you guys have been following me a while, sometimes we simply enter flow state to do energy work, to do techniques. This is one of many hundreds of different techniques I have used to create change in people. I like this one personally because for me, the heart center is very active in most of us and it stores a lot of information. And you know, I don't really talk about chakras much, but you can correlate it to the chakra or just to the heart. You know, there's a reason that there's that glowing heart in Christianity coming right out of Jesus chest. It's where it's all stored. All right, with that, I want to say goodbye to everyone for the week. We are wrapping up today's episode. I will be back next week, same place, same time, same everything. And I really do look forward to hearing from many of you this week. I'll be talking with quite a few of you as we progress towards MI School. All right, my love to you all and Happy Flow. Well, look at that. Show's over.

But before you go, did you know that my mom has a podcast too? Her show airs live right after mine. It comes up next, we tape our live shows back to back. Her show is called the Dear Venus show. So stay listening and you can call.

In or look it up live on.

Itunes if you're listening via podcast.

Her show is really good.

It's really funny and she reads people's minds and futures and talks to dead people for real.

It's called the Dear Venus show on itunes.