#451 Weird Stuff I See in People’s Heads

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Welcome to Flow Dreaming. Hi everybody. I'm feeling wonderful. I just finished teaching a two hour class to some of my MI school students. You would think I'd be tired, but instead I'm feeling pretty pumped up. I love being in this energy. I love keeping my mindset in this place where I'm constantly reminding myself, what am I preacting? What am I feeling? What am I creating? What am I believing about myself? So with that in mind, thank you guys who have been putting up reviews on itunes and subscribing. We have been getting some email requests and comments saying I'm not getting your podcast. What's going on? My suggestion in that case is to uninstall it. If you're using the app, just delete it and then re import it onto your phone or your tablet. If you're listening straight through itunes, unsubscribe, then resubscribe. Sometimes if itunes detects that you haven't been listening to a podcast for a while, it will stop downloading that podcast. 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So those are all three great ways. And just the, you know, the shows automatically come to you. That way you don't have to remember to go get them and they're just there anyway. And those of you who have written a note about them subscribing or just rating them, it helps with itunes because they tend to show those shows more to people because they figure somebody likes them, so we ought to show them around more. So it really helps. Thank you. Today's program is a strange one. It's called Weird Stuff I See in People's Heads. And the idea for our program today was sparked by the fact that I'm now entering the phase in one of my MI school waves of students of teaching them how to open and access their empathic intuition. And it's a long journey, honestly, to do this right. You walk yourself in and then you explore. You spend a lot of time in the proving it to yourself phase, which is, how do I know it's really me I'm hearing? How can I trust what I'm hearing? How do I know I'm not making up what I'm hearing? How do I know I'm not just seeing what I want to see? Oh, my gosh, all kinds of things. In fact, that becomes sort of the bigger part of the learning even than the actual techniques that I use to go into people's fields, to go into their flows, their energy systems, to read information about them. As an empathic intuitive, one of the things I do is talk to people mind to mind, consciousness to consciousness, recognizing that the field of mind is not Simply within your physical structure. This means that if I want to find you right now, talk to you, feel you, all I need to do is open my consciousness to your consciousness. We don't have to travel across the Earth to find each other or travel across the solar system to find that person who's passed on. Consciousness occupies its own frequency. You know, just like colors in the rainbow or the, you know, ultraviolet radiation or X rays or any of that, there's its own frequency for consciousness, and you tap into it and it's all there for you. And it's not a mystery how to tap into it, right? You know why? Because your consciousness is already there. You're part of it. It's not like your consciousness is the only one not tapped in. We're all tapped in. We're all together. And we see the leakage of this as proof in our lives here and there, from time to time, right? How does your dog know when you're coming home before you ever arrive at the doorstep? And you come home in an odd time. So it's not predicting it. How do you know when that person is thinking about you or about to phone you? How do you know when someone is having sexy thoughts about you? How do you know all kinds of things before they happen or as they happen? How do you get impressions and senses as you're deciding to do things? All of that is happening in the realm of intuition. Now, for me, the empathic part simply refers to the fact that one of my, I hate to say, gift, it sounds so special. I hate to say that it's more like one of my preferred methods for interacting is through emotion, right? Everybody has their preferred methods for interacting with life. Some of us are visual, some of us are audio. Some of us have to actually do it with our hands. If you've ever been trained by somebody at work and you're watching them and it's not sinking in, but the second you put your hands down on the keyboard and you start doing it yourself, right? You're kinesthetic. That means that's one of your ways of experiencing. Hands on, let me do it, because that's going to wire it for me. When it comes to intuition, my emotional self is an extraordinary reader. It can feel what other people are feeling. It can feel where they're going. It can feel where they've been. It can read all of that information, that field of consciousness, which, in the realm of flow, dreaming, means that we're all in motion. We have a history, a past, we have a present, and we have A future. We are like comets in space, flying through. There's a leading edge to us, to use some Abraham Hicks terminology. And as you look forward, you can kind of see where things are going because. Right. All along in our lives, we keep doing things, we keep seeing, setting stuff in motion, right? You know, you sign up your kid for soccer. You have signed up the Next, you know, 12 weeks of your life, pretty much, or any sport for that matter. You've set that in motion. What do you think's gonna happen? Well, you have a pretty good idea. You're gonna be spending four days a week, you know, at tournaments and practices and spending money. And, you know, your kid's gonna be like, crying, laughing, and all kinds of things. You're in for it, right? You set it in motion. But there's many other things we set in motion that aren't so obvious or that have components to them that will lead other places. Maybe signing your kid up for soccer is going to lead you to get to know some of the other parents in town who end up owning a business that you will end up working for someday, right? This is where flow kicks in. This is where the sense that we're all winding rivers or streams of energy and information like braids. The universe is a big French braid, right? We're winding together, coming together, forming interactions, forming periods of time and experience that we spend together. And why are we drawn together? Well, consider it's not usually chaotic. Myself and the truck driver down the street and the doctor up the hill and the guy selling newspapers. It's not like we're getting together for coffee tomorrow. It's not completely random, right? Things happen because we come into alignment with one another because of our actions, but also because of our intentions, right? You get the doctor, you get not just because you pick the name out of the book, but because there's something else at play, something else working. Sometimes you have to pick two or three times, but eventually you come into alignment. And we do that with our partners, spouses, workplaces, schools, everything. And when we pass out of alignment with them, those flows of energy disengage. Now, what happens during those flows of energy when they're engaging? That's us. That's life mixing together, having experiences. Every experience is generating information about it. Like right now, the temperature is so and so degrees. This person is thinking this, they're feeling that way. This emotion is getting encoded. You know, if I could run a study of all the bits of information in any given second going on between two people, it would fill a Computer the size of Wyoming. So when you go into flow and you're empathically reading and you're reading from an emotional standpoint, what I'm feeling is predominantly these are the emotions that have been encoding through this experience, through past experiences, through the potential future experiences based on these events that they've set in motion. Right. Pretend I've thrown a few softballs about five minutes ago, and I'm really strong. So they're going to go a long ways before they fall. I could look out right now and say, this one is heading over there two blocks away. That one is heading toward the ocean. This one is heading behind me toward the desert. I'm getting a sense of what kind of ground they're crossing, what kind of things they're going to interact with. Right. We typically call that future reading. No, I'm just reading the information. I'm reading the energy. I just. I found that most things get encoded through emotion because that's what humans like to encode it with. There's all kinds of data that go on all the time. Like I said, the temperature of the air outside, the cellular machinations that are going on in my body at this very moment. I'm really not tracking that stuff. But what I am tracking is I felt pretty good. I was in a good mood. It was a wonderful show. It left me with a pleasant, delicious feeling. When I come back and pull up that memory two weeks from now, and I'm thinking, oh, yeah, that was a great show. I felt really good about it. If you think about most things in your life, the first thing that comes up for you is not necessarily what you did, but how you felt about what happened, how it played out for you personally, emotionally. That old workplace, that old boyfriend or wife. Right. That childhood friend probably having a hard time remembering exactly what they looked like. But you remember that sense of joy and ease and bonding and freedom. We encode emotionally far and above and any other way. So as an empathic intuitive, when I'm looking in people's minds, I'm picking up the majority of their emotional state and their feelings about where they've been, who they are now, and where they may be heading. This means that looking in the past, you can do it looking in the present. What's going on? What are they thinking now? You can do it. Looking in the future, you can do it now. I ask questions when I talk to people because if I'm just reading their emotional state, it's kind of like a blanket. Okay, I'm feeling pink blankets and Brown blankets and black blankets and sorrow and this and that. But I need to sort of position it somehow. What are we talking about? Who are we talking about? And that's where I discover, oh, they're talking about the fear they're experiencing right now as they think about their relationship. They're talking to me now. Or I'm asking them questions about how truthful are you being about something? Why would you not want to share this? You know, what's going on? What's holding you back? What are you afraid of? You can see how emotions and intention really start to slosh together. And of course I use some kind of dialogue or even an emotional based dialogue when I'm looking and feeling people. So this brings me to the point of our show today. Weird stuff I see in people's heads and weird stuff a lot of my B schoolers are starting to encounter as they are looking in people's heads and starting to see what this is really like. When you open yourself to this ongoing additional layer of information, remember this stuff, it's not like you have to go find it. It's already there. And your consciousness is already swimming around with everybody else's consciousness. That's the zone it occupies. So over the years, been kind of a funny, funny path for me a long time ago, I got used to the fact that every person's mind feels different, often wildly different. You know, we say we're all the same, and it's true. There's a lot of things that are similar, a lot of patterns that I see over and over. But our basic human essences, that that feeling state of who we are, it can be wildly different. So for an example, have you ever had that situation where you meet someone new and you don't like them and there's no reason you shouldn't like them, they look nice, they smell nice, they act nice, but you're just like, oh, this is not my kind of person. Maybe you haven't even judged them because, you know, the clothes they're wearing aren't what they would normally wear, right? So there's not as many social clues going on. It's just a sense. It's a sense that person is very different from you. There is something in them and something in you that are not in alignment. And I don't even mean in a bad way. I've met people before that I'm just like, but we're never gonna be fast friends. I can tell. And sometimes it's because I'm like, oh, well, they're negative. And I'm positive and happy, you know, and I'll be indulging myself and little ego stroking there. But usually it's just. I don't get them. I don't. I can't put my finger on it. They just feel so different than me. And that different feeling is often an accumulation of their life and possibly before their life, depending on what you believe in. Whether we're ancient beings, I tend to think that our consciousnesses have had tons of different experiences. And the reason I know that or feel that way is because when people are no longer in physical bodies, I still feel their consciousnesses. So I figure, well, they're around somewhere. And if they're around somewhere, there's a good chance they're doing something. And that means they're probably a lot older than the 50 or 80 years that they had here on Earth. So think about those people now that you had an instant connection with. You're like, yeah, I feel you. I just. I don't know, I'm just instantly comfortable around you. Instantly. Like, yeah, I get you, right? What you're feeling is a similarity of experience, a similarity of outlook. Like you're open up a giant box of 200 crayons, right? You guys are all the oranges, various shades of orange. But there's been enough past stuff, future stuff, present stuff. You're kind of all in the orange group. Other people, they're in the green group. You're like, ah, I don't have any green in me at all. If I did, I wouldn't be orange. So I don't relate to when I'm in people's minds. I'm going from crayon to crayon to crayon to crayon. And one of the things you get used to is that feeling of how wildly alien other people's minds can feel. You think you have a hard time just talking with people. They can feel alien. And what I mean by that is, you know, I've had experiences where I go into people and I feel time slow down. It's like, whoa, you are running at a slower level than I am. It has nothing to do with how fast they talk, or slowly, energetically, they are perceiving life at a slower pace than I am. They may be living the same amount of days, hours and minutes, but their perception is not the same. I don't know, maybe it's their brain, maybe it's their chemistry, maybe it's their consciousness. Maybe it's all together, rolling, rolling up and creating this. But I suddenly have to slow down and adjust myself. Imagine right now if you were plunked in a different time system where we didn't have seconds and minutes and hours, and suddenly you had to have five thoughts at the same time all the time. Because that's what they did in that time system. You'd be like, whoa. You'd feel crazy for a few moments. When you learn to get into people's minds, you learn to make those adjustments very quickly. You learn to differentiate yourself from that other person's minds and be able to view it without becoming it. Right. That's very crucial. To view without becoming, to align without becoming. Some people I've gone in have felt, I kid you not, Woody. Like strong grass or pine trees. Sense of continuity, a sense of. Not much changes here because this is how I am. Other people I've gone in feel wet, as in fluid water, like movement, hard, Hard to stay on any particular thing or place. And I'm not talking adhd. It's just the way that their personality, their perception works. I even have to use examples from the natural world. Wet, woody, fast, slow. Because I have to put these alien feelings into a context we all can agree on and understand, which is our five senses. Most of what I'm feeling does not sit within the five senses. And my struggle is to interpret this sense into something that makes sense to the person that I'm working with. My client, for instance, who's saying, how is so and so feeling about me? What's really going on? Speaking of what's really going on, you want to know what happens? I go into someone's mind. I say, hey, you know, I'm Summer. I'm a friend of so and so. And we have some questions because we have some confusion, and we'd really love to get some clarity on this. Okay, the other person's open. What do you want to know? And I'll say, well, you know, how about for starters, you know, why? Why haven't you responded and called and, you know, made yourself available? Are you feeling scared? Are you? Right. Because this is a typical question when people are dating, and they might say, I don't know. Like, no, no, no, I don't know is not good enough for my client. You know, they're here asking me. I'm supposed to help them with this. You can't say, I don't know. But really, they don't know. If they don't know, I don't know. Right? You can't read what's not actually there. And I'll have to say, they do not know. But there is clearly something in them that's holding back. They're aware of it. They don't know what it is. That's the information you now have. What do you want to do with that? Do you want to keep trying and plugging away and hopefully you'll both discover it together, or are you now going to say, you know what? I need more clarity than that in a relationship. I need someone who has that degree of self awareness or I'm unwilling to go forward. Right. And that's either way totally fine. It all depends on the kind of relationship and the kind of person and your feelings and all. Are you the same color crayon? Sometimes you can go inside people and you can feel deceit. It truly is deceitful. But it's not deceit to me necessarily. It's not that they're lying to me. The deceit is almost always to themselves. And that comes across as kind of like a double layer of information. A I don't know why I'm not calling. But then there's another layer which is I tend to avoid and back away from things when they start to get intense because I'm afraid of intensity. I'm afraid of being hurt. I'm afraid of. Right. All the typical stuff. I'll say, ah, so you're telling yourself you don't know because you really don't want to deal with it because you're really not ready to go in there and examine some of this other stuff. It's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's it. So they're going to keep saying to their partner, I don't know. Because that's what they're saying to themselves to cover this other simultaneously existing fear or whatever it may be. Right. I'm just using this as examples. So these are some of the common things I see in people. Weird stuff I see in people's heads. I have a few more that I want to share with you. I don't know, just because it's kind of a. I'm in the mood for a light and fun, fun show, fun episode of Flow Dreaming. So stay with me. We're going to be right back after this and I'm going to continue with a little bit more and maybe you'll feel inspired to call in and let me look inside your head or someone that you love or care about or maybe even dislike immensely. It's fine with me. And we'll do that. And of course we're going to do some Flow Dreaming. So we'll be Right back after this.

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That's right, let's get back to our program. By the way, Me School, if you're listening right now, it is closed for the year. Enrollment is totally full over capacity. So what I recommend is to go to flow dreaming.com. i've created a huge library of these very effective MP3s, these audios that will help you emotionally redevelop whole areas of your life, including opening and expanding your own empathic intuition. Me School is ideal because you spend six months doing that with me and your fellow students. But in the meantime, I've got these great playlists that you can practice with. So just go to flowdreaming.com and you'll see the Manifesting Store. There's tons of stuff besides intuition that you can work with. In fact, I've just reorganized a lot of it into brand new really cool playlists. So do check out that section and that will help you right now to one. Just change your future. Change what you're receiving. Change what you're offering to the Universe. And then you get to, I don't know, have all kinds of new encounters, grow, expand. That's what flow dreaming is all about. Manifesting on steroids. All right. A few other things I wanted to bring up that I thought were kind of interesting. I do see some general patterns in people, and I think these patterns get lodged into us over time, you know, in our lives based on our biology, first of all, our upbringing, based on the culture around us, our family patterns, certainly. And I've got seen them so often that when I encounter them, it's like, hi, friendly outlaw. You know, I've seen you in a thousand saloons. Now, one of these I've talked about before, it's the fear cliff. I did a show, an episode about this maybe a month ago or so. The fear cliff. We all have one, and usually the fear cliff, we have one or more. It's the point we reach in our life where we're comfortable, comfortable, comfortable, not comfortable. And what's beyond the fear cliff is usually not something that's actually dangerous, that would harm us in any way. It's usually something that we simply haven't done yet, don't have faith in ourselves to do, not sure what will happen to ourselves. We do it. The fear cliff is what keeps us within our corral, right? Your mind wants to corral you. The mind says, stay safe. Stay what? You stay within the boundaries of what you already know. Don't go out there, because I can predict what will happen to you. You say, oh, yeah? How do you predict that? And the mind says, well, based on all past evidence, this is what will happen in the future. Remember, though, the mind is looking at the past as what will happen in the future. It's going backwards to try and determine what will happen forwards. It really doesn't know what will happen forwards. It's also presuming that all that past stuff is just going to repeat itself. It's preparing you for that. It's not acknowledging that you went through that past stuff so you could grow through it so it does not need to occur again. Now, you know, who knows that? Your emotional self. Your emotional self says, hey, I'm the one who's been cataloging all this and keeping an eye on all these feelings and stuff that we've gone through. I'm the one who stores all the memories, right? The emotional self. I remember how I felt about things, and I have a feeling that this is exciting to me. I kind of want this. I really want this. And the mental self says, no, stop that. Don't get so excited. You don't know what you're talking about. And the emotional self says, aw, okay. I guess you're right. Mind self, I don't know what I'm talking about. Let's just stay where we are. Think about what happens when you stay where you are. Well, first of all, your corral never gets bigger. If you're a little horse, when did your corral stop getting bigger? When you were 18, 20. Right. As kids, why do we love kids? Because they're expanding their little horse corral continuously. They're always doing things to scare us and piss us off. But they're growing, they're exploring. They want more. They don't know what their limits are yet. That's why we admire them. At some point we say, this is your corral. You stay here the rest of your life. If you are devoted to manifesting, you can't stay in that corral because you keep getting bigger and the corral begins to get smaller. Well, actually, the corral stays the same, but you're still growing. You're experiencing things every day. Your corral has to get bigger or you're going to fill it and then it's going to get really painful and tight. This is what happens to a lot of people. They're right up there against that fear cliff in their mind. And I can feel this. I call it a cliff because it feels like a cliff. I've stepped into this place with hundreds, hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of people. And every time it's the same. If I let go, I don't know what will happen. And I'm really scared. And I think I'm going to not make it. And I don't mean die. I mean, like, I will not have a job. My relationship will fall apart. Right? Go to the worst end. Because the mind is saying, don't do it. Don't do it. We don't know. I can't. I don't really know. I'm only predicting based on what happened in your past. But the future, that's your emotional self. That's your flow self. And it's saying, I'm getting a tingle. I'm getting a spidey sense. I kind of feel like I know where this is going to go. In flow dreaming, you learn to listen to that because that's where we're working all the time anyway. We're always working on our futures. We're always working with our emotional self. We have developed and trusted our emotional self now to the point where when the mind is Talking to us, the emotional self is equally strong. It's like having two amazing teachers in the same room and they're both discussing with each other. They're both right. They're both very intelligent. They're both of equal strength and value. That's what I want because I want to rely on them both. I don't want one clobbering the other. Here's something else I often see. A lot of us have a need to be right. This has actually become a big part of me school, this need to be right. And I've learned I've got to be really careful what I'm right about, because that need to be right can overtake everything else to the point where I'm suddenly right about things that are really not helping me. But I've had to justify what's going on in my life somehow. So if I'm looking in someone else's mind and they're holding tight to the sense of, I'm right about this. No, your friend, your client, is wrong. It's like, really, how do you. And what is being right to you? What is the sense of defensive posture, this rightness? How is it serving you? How's it helping you? Sometimes it can be even a little annoying for my clients because they just want their questions answered. But I'm getting involved in someone else's consciousness, you know, and I want to help them too. And I have to say, okay, I'll talk to you later. Right? I have to go back to my client now. But they're quite, you know, what is it that you're so heavily needing to be right about what's going on there? Because oftentimes these walls we build up of this is the way it is, and this is why it's this way, and this is how it has to be. We have generated that. We've created that to justify something that we don't have or that we don't want to have happen. Right? Let's say that I do not have a healthy body. Let's say I'm filled with illness of one sort or another. I will say, well, you know, it's genetic. Well, my parents have it. Well, it's because I don't exercise well. It's because I don't eat well. Well, I don't take care of myself well, it's unknown. I'm always looking for reasons. I'm always looking for logical things that justify the condition I'm in. Okay, makes sense, right? Because that is kind of step one. How did you get where you are. How did you get unhealthy? How did you get in debt? How did you get, you know, miserable and lonely? How did you. Right, we look for that how? We want to know how. But see, that's where a lot of us stop. Oh, that's how. Oh, that makes sense. Okay, good. I'm gonna stay there. Now, that makes perfect sense. And not only that, but now I also want to find out why I can't change it. Right? Because if I can find that, then I can feel even better about why I cannot change this. And then we'll seek to be right about that. We are creating our own prisons. Our own prisons. Emotional, intellectual prisons. This is something in your flow that generates huge amounts of energy around it because you're keeping a walled fortress up of emotional and intellectual thought. And your flow is reading it and saying, she says she can't be healthy. She says she can't be healthy. She says she's got all these things working against her. She says she's not beautiful. She says she's overweight. She says she has cravings. She says she doesn't eat anything. It's just her body and metabolism. She says. She says, okay, okay, okay, okay, Right. It's like battery. You batter your flow with it. It's not nice. But I go into people's minds all the times, and I see themselves doing this. It's like, seriously, walking past the guard towers, I'm like, okay, well, it's not the fear, Cliff, but I'm going into the guard towers now. Now, how do I do this? Like, how do I just waltz on through? Because the way I recognize things is that these are perceptions. They're energy states. I can view them without aligning to them. I can see them without making them my own. I can read a book without making it my life story, right? I have a really strong awareness of the difference between the energy someone else is participating in and my own. So it's like I'm a neutral observer. Oh, that's interesting. Now, this can be really useful because if I have a client wanting to know things, I can give them a perspective that they typically haven't seen before, which gives them new information that they can work with. If it's the client themself, and they're saying, I am so ready to get rid of some of these things that are holding me back in my life. I can go in and say, oh, I'm feeling unresolved loss. I'm feeling this sort of unchanging self judgment. I'm feeling this Fear of being seen. And there's a whole catalog of them because I see them so often, because those patterns are repetitive. They're pretty easy. They pop out in most people. So this is really interesting now because we're in a place where everybody's nature is fantastically unique and alien from one another, yet many of the patterns you have developed here in this consciousness, alive as beings today, incredibly similar. Right? So it becomes a really interesting landscape to navigate between utterly unfamiliar and. Absolutely. I've seen that one a million times. Anyway, so that's a. I could, I could actually keep going on and on. I'm kind of just getting started and just catching the time here. I haven't flow dreamed with you and I haven't taken your calls. So let's, let's do a quick little break. Or wait, did I already do my two breaks? Shoot. See, I've even lost track. Let's go do our second break and I'm coming back. I'm going to take some of your calls and kind of demonstrate how this, how this works. All right? So stay with me. Oh, we're on break again.

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All right, let's dig in. Janelle calling from California, my state. Hey, how are you? Hi.

Oh, my God. This is like, how many weeks have I called and never gotten in? And now I'm in and I'm so excited.

Wonderful. What's up?

On me, school being full.

Yay. Thank you. Exciting.

I recently realized that, like, I took on a story. I saw a psychic when I was like 18, and she said, you're going to have financial trouble your whole life.

You know what I would like to do to those psychics? I swear, I mean, okay, so yeah, she probably picked up on some financial information, but she had a really bad interpretation that you took on for your own. Keep going.

Right, right.

So.

But I took it on. Like, I accepted it. I then have lived it out.

Right. Yeah.

Except for now, I don't. Like, I'm done. I'm done with it. I want to change my dominant thoughts to believing that money will no longer be a struggle for me. Like, I don't. I now believe that it's not a struggle.

Yeah.

Now the part of that is that it's not coming in yet, which is okay. But I started my own toy company through like a crowdfunding campaign. Got like 15 days left. And I know that my company is in alignment with what I am, who I am, why I'm here. I know it has extreme value, and I just. I'm just ready to not have that other energy. I don't know if you can look at me and, like, see what's going on.

Love it. Yeah. Let's see here. Yeah. It's funny. You have a feeling inside you, like, money has always floated just out of reach. Other people have it, other friends have it. It's just out of reach. Like, you stick your fingers out and it bumps away from you. You definitely want to return to sender that information you were given when you were younger. Let's reposition this. That perhaps the person you saw was feeling your anxiety about money. Feeling a typical 18 year old's fear of, how am I going to pay for my first apartment? How will I ever, like, buy food for myself? All of us have gone through that fear. Her interpretation was colored by her own experience. She said, oh, I know that fear. And it's all about lack. And I know that because I've always had that too. This is what she must have. Bingo. Here, take some of my worry and fear and my interpretation. And please carry this with you now the rest of your life. So it's a sense like you're handing back something to someone. A saddle that they gave you years ago. It's not your saddle. It doesn't fit your horse. That's why it's been so uncomfortable and chafed you. No, it doesn't belong to you. It doesn't fit. So here you are, starting your own company, and you're feeling like I can be friends with money. Money loves me. Money wants me to use it. I'm actually a great person to use it because I'm going to do good things with it. I'm not a jerk with it. I actually respect it. I respect its value. I treasure it's. I totally treasure its value. So, money, why don't you come here and fund this project? Let's be partners. We'll be partners with each other. I'll treat you well. You treat me well. And there's plenty of you. Okay? So your next job is to redevelop this relationship. I want you to start treating money like the most important boyfriend you've ever had. Or girlfriend. I'm assuming it's boyfriend. Okay. Most important boyfriend you've ever had. Honey, how can we work this out? Honey, why am I worried about you? Honey? How come you didn't show up when you said you were going to show up? I kind of was counting on you. All right? Have these weird kind of dialogues. It's gonna make you feel a little cuckoo for a while. Oh, that's okay. Okay, good. Because you are redeveloping your relationship. Honey, somebody told me a long time ago I'd never have a good boyfriend, and I just stopped believing that. And now I want to have a good boyfriend. And that's you, which is tons and tons of money that I will know what to do with. Right. I'm go a step further now. I will know what to do with you, and I'll use you wisely and well. Because that also became a fear. Maybe I just never do things right with it. Maybe it's all my fault. Right? So follow the string as far as it takes you. Right. I will use you wisely and well. I'll make good decisions with you. Sometimes I'm afraid you're going to leave me, but you're not. Because it takes two, right? To be left in a relationship. It takes both of us, you know? Mm. I want you to just start really focusing on reprogramming all of that. I think your toy is actually going to Be the first in a series of projects. This feels like it's the one in your head right now, but there's going to be others that pop up behind this one. This is the one that breaks open your door in your thinking. That's its primary purpose. If you can escalate it to huge success, that's the cherry on the cake. All right. That's all I'm going to give you.

Thank you.

Thanks so much and wonderful. Good luck to you.

Okay, bye.

Bye. Let's see, who else do we have here? Carrie or Kari? You've been waiting a while. How are you?

Good, thank you.

Great. What's up?

Well, I'm shocked that I'm getting myself adjusted. Hello, Summer.

Oh, good. Hi.

I would like to look into my flow over a person.

A guy.

Of course.

Of course.

And the reason is, is because he won't get out of my head. And I see, like, buses drive by. Call Anthony King, and his name is Anthony Kelly. And then I'll look up and I'll see a big billboard and I'm like, is this flow messing with me? Like what you were saying in the beginning of the call. So it was kind of interesting. So that's where I am at.

All right. So I'm going to go in and find Anthony and. I'm sorry, you said he was an ex or is it current?

No, we're not currently anything and we weren't really seriously a lot. But it's just he's really powerful in my energy and I don't usually hold on to people, and I'm curious as to why I can't let go.

Aren't these interesting? Right. Everybody has these, by the way. It's not just you. Everybody has a couple people who stick in their mind and they think about them occasionally and they're like, why you? Why? What am I supposed to do with you?

What am I supposed to do with it?

Yeah. Whether it's a sexy thing or. Or a business thing or anything. Anthony, what is it?

I'm in point.

You know what? It's. It's kind of like you guys. It was like there was a crossing over of your energy at some point. Either even. Even just a simple meeting, right. A spark of awareness, like it sparked up something a bit deeper, older, you could say. Although time may be irrelevant in this case, but something deeper and older. An awareness, like an, oh, I recognize you. Okay. And even though he's now not with you and in your presence, the awareness is still there. The recognition is still present. That hasn't Dropped away. Now, every time you think about him, you're continuing to strengthen this sort of energy bridge between you. I don't feel that you're on his mind as much as he's on yours. Sometimes that is the case. It's because someone is obsessing about you, wishing you got back together, even having sexy thoughts about you. And you just start to feel it. You're like, gosh, why this person again? Why this person again? But in this case, I feel it's really a sense that you recognize something bigger and deeper and you like that feeling. And it's like, I want more of that. That's what I'm looking for, right? So it's almost like he's a beacon or a signpost or a lighthouse. You know, that is the power I'm looking for. That is the connection I'm looking for. Whether or not you two meet up again and form anything significant together. It's kind of hard to say because I don't feel him as near you as you are to his energy. So it could go either way. Right. It's like you're not two lines heading toward each other. It's like you're heading towards him and he's kind of heading in a different direction. You might meet, you might not at present. Does that make sense?

Uh huh.

Totally. All right, well, there you go. Thanks, Kari.

All right, have a good one.

Thank you. I wish you good luck. All right. I know. Gosh, looks like we're heading to the end. I wanted to get to one more, but just a couple things I wanted to wrap up instead. So thank you guys for waiting. Some of you might want to stick around. By the way, there's another program called the Dear Venus Show. It also tapes live on Tuesdays. And Venus is my mom. She is amazing at this. We are two peas in a pod. You know everyone. Well, not everyone. All the oldest daughters in our family, down the generations, we tend to be this way. We've actually had some pretty big stuff happen in our lives this week maybe. Also kind of puts me into thinking about this. Her sister passed away this week from cancer. I'm sure she's going to tell you about it and maybe she'll even tell you what Barbara said to her. We both heard from her, which was kind of cool. Had a premonition of when it was going to happen. And you know, speaking of consciousness, Barbara, just like the rest of us, you don't have to be passed on to be having conversations with people. You can be in any state. You can Be in coma state. You can be in, you can be passed on completely. You can be very much alive to come and hang out with other people. That does happen quite a bit, and you may be doing it too, especially as you dream at night. So anyway, I'm sure my mom's gonna have a lot more to say about that, and she's coming on next. Hope you stay with her. And just wishing my aunt absolutely the best in her new place where she gets to explore all new things in a new, new realm. Freed. Absolutely. Freedom. I think she's really loving that sense of freedom right now. Okay, let's do a really quick flow dream before we move on into the end of our show again. It's only going to be a couple of minutes, two, three minutes. Very, very brief. Just want you to have a sense of feeling. Flow. Dreaming, by the way, is not quite the same as empathic intuition because we're creating in that conscious state as opposed to receiving information. So close your eyes and take a nice deep breath and exhale, relax. And we're paying attention right now to how immense we really are. Immense. Filled with information. So grateful that our physical body can distill it down so that every day when we wake up, we are not crowded with information about the milliseconds that have already passed before in our life. Every day, our consciousness has cataloged and already moved away all the extra information about where we've been and what we've done and what we felt. It offers us a nice, new, empty, beautiful, gorgeous blank canvas to feel upon for the day ahead. And feel upon it we do. We can choose to feel anything we want any day of our life. Feel joy, feel power. Feel our own gorgeous beauty. Feel fearlessness, fear. Or, excuse me, feel friendship. Whatever we want, we can play and bask in those emotional states. And we don't have to wait for them to come to us. We create them when we want them at will. And we allow life then to serve up physical representations so we can feel them all over again. We're so blessed. Absolutely blessed. You feel the gratitude, the blessing. This is your flow, your beautiful, gorgeous consciousness offering this to you every single day. You stay in that awareness even now as you open your eyes in return from flow. And that ties up our show today, my friends, I hope to see you all again, same time, same place. We tape this episode or a episode four times a month. So I'll talk to you all. And until then, my love and flow. Well, look at that. Show's over.

But before you go, did you know that my mom has a podcast too. Her show airs live right after mine. It comes up next. We tape our live shows back to back. Her show is called the Dear Venus show, so stay listening and you can call in or look it up live on itunes if you're listening via podcast.

Her show is really good.

It's really funny, and she reads people's minds and futures and talks to dead people for real. It's called the Dear Venus show on itunes.