#461 The Magnetic Pull of Other People

Flow Dreaming. It's a show where we talk about the power of your mind to change your world around you, to literally affect the fabric of your reality. We talk about this feeling of hope and joy and relief. And that is what being aware of your flow does. It gives you a feeling of power again in your lives. Oh, my God. You were so on target.

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I can't thank you enough. Breathe. It is the feeling that you bring forward. It is your emotional connection that really sets the tone for what is going to be happening to you and for you. And you know that feeling when you touch it, it just spreads through you. Thank you for taking my call. I don't know why I feel like crying. I think I just feel your love. Of course. And I think I'm gonna get some ANSWERS. I'm Summer McStravik and welcome to another episode of Flow Dreaming. Welcome to Flow Dreaming. The first, before we get started, a really quick note. If you found this show on itunes or by downloading the Flow Dreaming podcast app, it would mean so much if you took a moment to review it. That is how other people will find this show and get the same great value out of it that I hope you're getting. So my huge thanks and sparkles and flow go to all of you who just take that few moments to go write a quick little message of telling other people. This is good. Go listen. Thanks. Now off we go to the show and welcome to Flow Dreaming. Hi, everybody. It's Summer here with you for the next hour or so as we explore the amazingness of your mind, of your consciousness, of the great being that you are extending from your physical self through your emotional self, your mental self, into your energetic self, and some may say the soul self. However far you want to think of yourself as going is fine by me. I just want you to recognize that your consciousness is extremely powerful. It affects life on multiple, multiple levels. And the people who tend to get very, very successful in life are the ones who figured this out to whatever degree made sense to them in their particular philosophy or religion. What this means is I use the term flow as a kind of catch all term sometimes. I'm referring to the flow of energy that we are as we physically actually move through space and time. The collection of atoms and molecules and everything that's in motion right now, making the you, that's you and the templates, the sort of inner blueprints. Just like an architect creates blueprints for a house. Imagine that there's a blueprint inside of everything made of Energy made of information saying, this is what you are, this is what you're becoming. This is you now, this is you in the next second. All of this flowing together. Call it flow. I also recognize flow as a kind of natural direction, right? It's a natural, forward flowing, expansive, growth oriented direction. Because I'm noticing that in our world, in our universe, there is already a direction like that happening. As we speak, our universe is expanding. We are in an expanding universe. It's not contracting. We are moving through time in the same direction. You could call it an expansive forward direction. We're not moving backwards through time, are we? Are we experiencing everything? Is it all on, you know, going the wrong direction? No. You are likewise growing, expanding, moving. This is flow. Your flow, who you are, your greatest being. All of you flowing forward. A mush, a rush of energy and information is intersecting with the flows, the information, the beingness of everyone around you. And this is how our futures are being woven together. These lines of information that each one of us are moving together into alignment with each other or moving away and out of alignment with each other. And when people come into alignment, that's called a situation, right? It's called an opportunity, it's called a coincidence. It's called a workplace. It's called a family. Groups of energies coming into alignment for some purpose or for some reason and letting go when that purpose or reason diminishes. This is kind of your preface to today's topic, which is about the magnetic pull of other people. How do other people's energies and flows and emotional selves affect us? Do they affect us? How do we affect them? What happens if they're affecting us and we don't want them to? We want to not have their energy in our energy. We're going to go through all of that this hour ahead in Flow Dreaming. Before we do, quick shout out to the Flow Dreaming website for. You're going to find some really great resources there, including one that is basically a free gift bag of audios. A tutorial. I teach you how to do the process for free. I give you a Flow dream to work with, which is just a prerecorded audio that you can listen to. It's not meditation. When you learn to get in flow and use flow and think of flow and get into the mindset of flow and Flow Dream, all of the above, you really do learn a very different way of living. It's highly emotion based. I was talking to a friend the other day and kind of brought up this idea that your emotion is what really causes everything in your life. I know we don't like to hear that because many of us are still in a place of distrusting ourselves. But when you have a thought, when you have an idea, usually before that thought came in, there was an emotion that said you really should. Well, how come? Because of this feeling. Because it's a need. Because that's right. Because this is what's going to get you where you need to go. Or this is what you want to avoid. Or let's prevent this. Or. Right. There's a feeling that pops up, something has to be done, and then the thought comes in. This is what has to be done. And then what comes after the thought? The physical. And now I am doing that thing that has to be done. People forget that emotion is the spring. It's the spring for all of this. They think it's just about thought, just about changing their thoughts, just about affirming their thoughts, just about releasing their thoughts. Or they think it's just about action, just doing and being in the materialistic world. You know, those who work hard, get ahead, etc. Who in your life has ever said to you, your feelings, how are they? What are they? Probably the greatest message you've ever received or the biggest message surrounding emotions is you need therapy. Right? We treat our emotional selves as if they're damaged. Essentially, if they're damaged, get them fixed, go to the doctor, get on some pills, fix it. Has anyone ever said, wow, don't you think you want to do more than just fix it? Would you say that to a child? You're damaged, go get fixed, just go to the doctor, take some pills. No, you need to grow your emotional self. You need to become an ally with that self. You need to respect and understand the immense power that resides inside of you to organize your entire life. And the fact is, your emotional self already is organizing your entire life. And if you're getting things in your life that you don't want, go talk to your emotional self. Right? The mental listens to the emotional, the physical listens to the mental. Sometimes the physical skips the mental altogether and goes straight to the emotional. And that's when you say, oh my God, I flew out of control. I had a temper tantrum. Right? Your physical self just, there goes the mental. The mental is like the referee in the ring. Hey, you guys, stay apart. Let me, let me be in charge. I know the rules here. Anyway, keep that in mind. Right? It's again, it's another kind of reminder about today's topic. When we are looking at the magnetic pull of other people. What we're talking about is their emotional selves running them, controlling them, sucking you into their life, into their world, into their flow, Especially when you don't want to be. And learning to become very choosy about the people that you hang out with, that you listen to and that you begin to think like, okay, so go to the web store and you'll find flow dreaming dot com. You're going to find some amazing playlists on how to work with your emotions, how to create new characteristics, emotional characteristics, inside yourself, like reclaiming your power. I love that one. Getting beyond fear, all of these things. Emotional fitness. Yeah. Okay, so why do we get sucked sometimes into other people's energy, into their drama? Sometimes we call them psychic vampires. We wonder, are we weak? Are they really just stronger than us? Is that possible? I mean, if you put 10 people in a room, can you line them up by emotional amplitude, voltage? All these questions that pop up and you start looking into this realm of the world. Here's what I have experienced over my life. Working in the realm of people's emotions. I have been inside thousands and thousands of people's minds. I have been inside their feelings. I have been inside their flows. I have looked into their futures. I have looked into their past. It's what I do. When I am reading flow energy, it just means I'm looking a little deeper into the blueprints that are all around us and beginning to pick up what's driving this one? What's driving that one? Why is this person feeling this way? What are they feeling? Etcetera, etcetera. Here are some of the things that I have found. Do some people have stronger energy or bigger energy? The answer is yes. Some people have a lot of energy. Think of them like presidents, right? The amount of energy they hold. Sometimes we call it charisma or the X factor. And these can be very positive uses of big energy. You know, you're drawn in. You listen to these people. You can't help it. You stare at them when they walk in a room. You don't know why. Think of your big movie stars. And they can turn on and off that big emotional self often when they want to, right? Some people do have big, powerful energy. It's true. The ancient Chinese believed that everyone was born with a certain allocation of this particular energy. Some people came in with more than others. And this could result in some people leading armies. And other people just struggled day by day to wake up and get through. They said it doesn't have to do with how you are good or bad as a soul, your moral self, or anything like that. It's just the amount of energy that resides in you. How big your battery is when you came, that's it. That just determines what you can be and do and get done in a day. I personally experience people with bigger energy than me sometimes. And I can feel it, I can touch it. And I'm aware enough to say to myself, either step in because you like this person or step back. I don't want to be overshadowed by them. Imagine that we all are these glowing lights. Oh, you starting to get the idea of what maybe an aura could also be called. We're a glowing energy of information. And some people's energy extend way, way out. Right? They can fill up a whole room. Other people's are very small and have been drawn inward. This isn't a permanent condition, by the way. Right. The people who have small energies can learn to grow them. The people with big energies can learn to bring in and contain some of them. Right. You don't have to be a bull in a china shop when you don't want to be. So imagine we're all standing in a room and we all walk in and there's someone with really big energy. And let's pretend it's a color, right? Just for the sake of. So you can visualize this, let's say it's a golden energy. Well, I walk in and I happen to be blue. That's my color. When I come in and I'm being shadowed by their gold, what happens to me? I turn green. Right? Blue plus yellow equals green. I'm green. Do I feel like me now? No, not totally. Something has changed. There's something else affecting me. I'm within a sphere. Emotion and energy. Think of them as wrapping around you. They're all through you. Like layers, right? Layers. You ever driven out in the desert and you see the cliffs and you can see the layers. And like, there's all the different kinds of rock, the sedimentary rock, the igneous rock, you know, oh, there's the dead, the Dead Sea, the mud zone. You can see these layers of time. Imagine you, you're these layers of time. You're all these layers of energy. And someone's energy is really big and it's expanding and it's encroaching and it's moving through one or all of your layers of energy. What do you think happens to you? Well, you become affected. You turn green. Whatever color, whatever mix it is, you come up with what if you happen just throwing scenarios out here because I think you're going to relate to some of them. What if in your family there's one or two people with some really strong energies? What if they're always yelling or shouting? What if they're always complaining about something going wrong in the world? What if they are pumping and churning this out 247 and for 12 hours a day? You're in the same house, you're in the same bed, for God's sakes. What's happening? You receiving their output? You are in it. You are becoming it. You know why birds of a feather all hang out together? Because they all become the same by hanging out together. Now this is where it gets interesting. Because when you start to realize, oh my God, my work actually is. It's not bad work. It's just a toxic workplace. Everyone there is afraid, angry, upset, envious feeling other people don't deserve things, trying to scrape away power from others. Let's say you're in one of those. My boss is never giving me what I need, always protecting it for themself. Whatever the list of issues may be, right? We call it toxic workplace. What's really happening? There is an emotion, a combined emotion that you walk into every day. You settle into it, you become it. You go from yellow to green in the blue space or whatever it is, and then you walk out that night. Do you think when you walk out that night it's like completely unhooking? No. The more time you spend in other people's energies, the more your energy becomes that energy. You guys have heard of group think before, right? Group think, crowd behavior, emotional contagion. If you want to get into psychology, all of these are ways of saying the same thing. Different, different ways of understanding the same concept. We change when we are in other groups energy states. This can be one person around us, it can be a group of people around us, right? And this is useful to our society in some ways, right? When a child walks into school and the group energy around is for him to feel like, I have to listen, I have to pay attention. I'm expected to do my best, I'm expected to push and give all I can. My teacher is giving all that he can, right? That's an amazing energy. Now that kid is walking into a field of brilliance every day I expect brilliance from you. This is the emotional state you walk into. What happens if that child. And that's good for our society. That's what we're trying to create, right? We want to have that piling on of that energy. What if the child walks into a school where it's, teachers don't care about me, my family's been fighting all day, all the kids around me, you know, they don't even have lunches packed for them. Nobody cares what we do on this test. We just want to get by. What happens when a child enters that energy. Right now, we're not helping society, and that child is growing up to feel that that is normal energy. Normal. That is their normal, right? And yes, this totally dips into nature and nurture. Is this created in somebody by their environment or are they born that way in flow thinking? Both. Both, right? Environment is a physical energy. The actions people do, the words that they say strike us, affect us, develop us. They push us around like thumbs in clay, moving us. But so do their emotional energy, the energy of their expectations, the energy of their thought. It's all at play. Nothing is excluded, right? Why do we have to live in such an exclusionary world where regular medicine distrust alternative medicine, alternative medicine distrust regular. Everybody's in combat for being right. If you really look at things, we have all. What's inside each one? What's the gift inside each one anyway? So when you're around this group, think right now, I want you to notice something. Let's do this together, because I want you to learn how to stay in your own power. When you're around other people's energies, whether they have big energy, small energy, group energy, whatever. When you are giving up your power, what you're doing is you're sort of allowing yourself to leak into those other people and those other people to leak into you. You're exchanging with them. But usually there's going to be some sort of dominance, right? This is again, this is natural. This happens in nature. There's always a head lion in the pack. There's always a head person in the tribe. There's a dominance factor at play. Who do you want to be in a dominance kind of energy with? Right? Do you want it to be in that workplace that fires you up, incentivizes you, makes you feel wonderful? Do you want to be in that marriage that is freeing and opening and allows you growth and is full of sharing and communication and intimacy and love and passion? Do you want that? Do you want to walk into that feeling every day? You do. All right, so let's ask yourself, where is your energy each day? Notice the people around you. Think about the groups that you enter into each day. Maybe your school group, maybe your work group, maybe your household group. Your roommate group, your friend group, right? They all have a different state of energies. They all have individual energies, but as a group, as a whole, what's going on? Which ones are lifting you up and which ones are pulling you down? If you just ask that simple question, which one lifts me up, which one pulls me down? Which one? Do I feel happy and exhilarated when I'm done with? And which ones make me feel tired and worn out when I'm done with? It's very clear. There's no mystery here. That is showing you the energies that move you higher, the energies that move you lower. Notice the dominant emotion in these people who are around you, right? That's the number two thing. One, notice the people around you that you're always with and how you feel in the midst of being around them. Either one person or a group doesn't matter. Two, notice the dominant emotion that these people are in. You may never have noticed it before, but your mom may complain. From the morning she gets up to the night and bedtime when she goes to sleep, everything might be a form of this isn't good enough. I knew it was like that. I didn't have any higher expectation. Everybody's like that. You're gonna lose out. Don't do that. Somebody's gonna take advantage of you. Oh, those people. And on and on and on. What does that do? Right? What does that do around you? How do you think they feel? They feel weak. If they're complaining, they're feeling weak, they're feeling powerless. They're feeling that the world is always out of their control. Now, if you're sinking into that feeling, you're going to receive that. And so the next question that comes up naturally is, can you be the one that lifts them up? The answer is, who has the greatest awareness? Right? Whoever has the greatest awareness. Usually nobody has awareness, and everybody just kind of sinks to a level. I wish I could say that the highest and brightest person in the room always raises everyone up. If that person has really big energy and they're very focused and conscious about it, yes, they can. And everyone can start melding to that person. We know those people. We call them leaders, visionaries, guides. It's why we walk into a church and our minister or pastor or rabbi is able to say to us things that make us feel group collectively, like greater than when we walked in. We've come in with that focus, that desire. But most times people have no awareness of what they're creating, and they come in filled with ick, ick, ick. Ick, ick. And your one drop of brightness in the ick, and you're going to be sucked into it. This is why the next thing I want you to do is notice how much do the people around you expect you to be in the energy that they're in? This is important. How much do the people around you expect you. You ever had the. The circumstance where, like, you know, you're with your partner and they're complaining and crabby, and you just say to them, you know what? I'm just not in the mood for that right now. I hear you. I love you. I just. That's not. I don't want to go into that state of mind right now and meet you there. And they look at you with shock like, what, what? You ever had that happen? Because they were asking you to come in and be there with them. They wanted you to partner with them in this feeling, right? You go to work and a coworker is like, they're asking you, come partner with me. Be in this feeling with me. Share this with me. Often people want you to be in that state with them because they want more power in that state. They want more. They want to grow that state. They're getting whipped up in it, and they want more and more people to share it with them because it validates them. It makes them feel right about being in that state. And if you say, no, thank you, I don't think I feel like doing that today. Do they often turn on you? Do they often go, why? What's wrong with you? Are you so much better than us? Oh, it doesn't affect you? Oh, why do you not take part in this? Oh, are we not good enough for you? You guys have heard that before? Yes. Right? I'm not saying anything bad about these people around us because we've done this, too. I've certainly done this. And I go, oh, my God, I was doing that. Oh, I'm so sorry, guys. I often don't know when I'm doing it. I practice, I work on becoming more aware because that's not a place I want to be in. I don't want to give up my power for me, and I certainly don't want to draw other people in and give up their power either. When you give up your power, you're giving up your reins in flow. You're giving up your ability to make, create, and focus your life. Okay, so if you notice these things, who are the people who are continuously giving away their energy? What are their, you know, who are these people in Your different parts of your life, what are the dominant emotion they're in and how much are they invested in making sure you feel that way with them? You figure those out, you're going to realize I need to adjust some relationships pronto because I just don't want to feel that way. I don't want to be that way. And I don't want to be the only light holding up the whole group because that's going to wear me out. I would rather be in a group of brighter lights, of higher, more beautiful, more powerful energy, people who do things, who think things, who have personal control, who have a sense of, I will create this, I will make this. I'm in flow, I'm in alignment. I would rather be the dimmest one in their group because their light is just going to brighten me and I'm not going to do anything to pull them down. That's what I would like. One last thing before we get off this and go to a quick break. Talk radio and television news, these are some of the biggest energy sucks around. Energies suck. Like a media can be informative or media can be something that pulls you in and says, think like me. I'm going to emotionally stir you up. I'm going to get you riled up. You know why? Because it's addictive. And if I get you addicted to feeling angry, frustrated, powerless, you're going to come back for more of that. It's going to begin to feel like a natural state to you. And when you get into that natural addicted state of I feel so angry all the time, I feel so frustrated all the time, I feel so hopeless all the time, what's that going to do? Well, it's going to push up their ratings because they have more listeners. Are they helping you at all? Ask yourself, is the news that I'm helping, I mean the news that I'm listening to, helping me improve the world, is it helping me? Do they offer me ways to improve other people's lives, to make other people happier, to fix things? Do they say, here is how we fix things. This works, try it. Or do they say, this is a problem, this is a problem, this is a problem, this is a problem, this is the problem. Do they stay in the problem all the time? Do they get me angry about the problem all the time? Or even 75% of the time? Maybe they've got one or two fixes that they say, I'll take care of everything. That's just the carrot. The whole rest of it is problem, problem, problem, problem, Problem, problem, problem, problem, problem, problem, problem, problem. They are drawing you in because they're ultimately they're going to make money off of you. It's a one sided relationship and I think this is why historically a lot have always said be very cautious about who you listen to. Be cautious. Whose end is it for? Your end, the world's end? Is it for something good? I mean not the world's end end, but is it to help improve, grow? Have you ever noticed that the more moderate voices are often the more gentle voices? They're the ones that say come help out at the food kitchen, you know, come help join our think tank about better ways to grow crops. Right. They are not getting attention. They are not pushing you, they're not pushing your emotional buttons. Be careful of the ones that do. Some places have used that, you know, learned how to use that to get you to donate for them. Right. Because they know the trick too. Keep an eye on it. Okay, quick break. When we get back. I would sure love to talk with some of you today. Let's see, do we have open lines? We have a couple. What you need to do is go to my website@flowdreaming.com you're going to want to click on podcast or radio, whatever shows up and it will give you all the details for calling in as well as how you can subscribe to this show, how you can get it on your phone. We have apps, all kinds of cool and good stuff. Stay with me. I'll be getting to your calls right after this. We're going to do a flow dream also at some point in our show that's going to help us get detached from those people we do not want in our life, in our energy anymore. Even if you live with them. I promise you can do it. So stay with me after this.

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And welcome back to Flow Dreaming. I just listened to a piece of that little break information. I said, and if you're on the wait list. Wait list. I probably should have enunciated that if you're wait list. If you're an astronaut floating around, there is a wait list for MI school. And it's worth getting on, believe me. Every year, the school has reached capacity and size every year. And it's all I've been able to do to scramble to keep up with it. So every year I've actually had to close it at a certain point and said, no more. No more. You all have to wait till 2016 now. So do check it out at my website if you're at all interested in the way we think and the kind of things that I teach, which is, yes, how to manifest, how to create, how to use universal energy, flow energy, to sculpt and develop an amazing life for yourself. I also teach intuition, which is the way that I use flow through my emotions. Empathic intuition to receive information, to know stuff that forms the bulk of MI school. That's why it's called me. M is for manifesting, E is for empathic intuition. So that might be something you want to check out. Okay. Let's go to Erin. Erin in Oregon. Hey, Erin, how are you? I'm good.

How are you doing?

I'm wonderful. What's up? What can I help you with today?

Well, I am planning to move out of state as soon as possible and I'm having a hard time finding a place to live. I've saved up some money and I'm like, seriously just waiting for this opportunity to happen. And I was hoping you could look into my flow and see what's in store for me or let me know any blockages. I could work on that kind of thing.

Okay, so where do you want to move and what blocks exactly are happening for you?

Well, I want to move to Fort Townsend on the peninsula of Washington. Yeah, I'm really excited about it and I been on a very kind of in depth spiritual journey. Have released a lot of stuff, like, great, A lot about everything. I had been in a very workaday feeling, very stuck sort of lifestyle, and I just. I quit my job and I released a whole bunch of stuff and in a lot of ways feeling really good. But I'm not living manifestationally the life that I've chosen for yet.

And I'M just.

I feel I'm on the precipice.

Yeah, yeah. I know that state. I speak and work with a lot of people. You're right in the middle. Right. You realize the old way is not working and you've managed to get yourself out of that, but the new way is still kind of fuzzy and hazy. So you're sitting there right in the middle going, well, now what? Now what? I sure hope there's something coming after this because it's starting to make me nervous. Yeah. Okay. And so you want to go to Port Townsend, and you've been on a kind of journey which has brought you to this point where you're ready to go. What do you do for your work?

Well, I was doing. I worked in healthcare for a long time and I actually quit that. And now I'm really open to whatever. Like, I'm really just open to opportunities. I came into some money a little while ago, so I have definitely little cushion to move and get settled somewhere. And I just want to find whatever feels good once I'm there, but I just feel called to that specific place.

Oh, I love it. So we are wide open.

Yes, Right.

Wide open. Beautiful. Flo loves to have more things to play with the more narrow you are in. You know, it's like giving a child two crayons. Here, here's green and orange. Make something. Well, they're gonna make a few things and they're gonna say, isn't there more that I could. I could create a beautiful picture for you if you gave me all the crayons. No, you can only have green and orange. It's either healthcare or auto sales. That's it. Or something ridiculous like that. But people do that all the time because their mental health is telling them. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Telling is trying to call the shots. So here, let's do some float. Rooming together. All right. Alright. Eyes closed, Erin. Let's get you on track. Let's move you where you need to go. First of all, as I feel you, you feel really good. I mean, I don't even know if you know how good you feel, but I can feel you. You feel good. You feel like you're fluid. You feel like you said you've released. You're much freer, not just physically, but in your mind, in your heart. You've let go of some attachments that are more than just work. I think there was some relationship or something else that you have also released all of that. Okay, so you're standing with me. Imagine this in your mind. Just Picture it together, picturing a flow. And we're both looking at some beautiful hills in front of us. They're not too far away. You could easily get to them. And a half an hour walk, a gentle walk, too. And now you look down at your feet and you notice that the ground is covered with the sweetest, greenest, most beautiful grass you've ever seen. It's so fragrant, it's covered with sparkling dew drops. It's just lit up. A field of this gorgeous green growth. And the hills themselves are also covered, just dappled. It's like hills that sparkle like they've been coated with diamonds and emeralds in the sun shining down. And I'm saying to you, this is your next step. Just begin walking. Let's go. And you notice, you hold back a second, you have to get yourself moving. But there you go. Now you're moving and you're walking. And as you begin walking, notice how your stride becomes freer and lighter. And you're feeling it. You're starting to breathe deeper, your stride is stronger. You're gliding now. You're gliding. And you realize this walk, I thought it was going to take me half an hour. Now I'm just. I'm flying across the top of this grass. I think I'm going to be there in more like five minutes. And what is it? What am I heading toward? And that's when you look and you see these hills are coming into a scene. They're rearranging themselves. As you draw nearer, they get clearer, clearer and clearer. And they're saying to you, follow your feelings, follow what's right. Follow your intuition. Follow the markers, follow the signs. Follow the gifts we give you. Follow the path where there's little resistance. You want to go to Port Townsend? Or why don't you say, I want to go to a beautiful town where my next opportunity is sitting for me like a big, beautiful gem in the middle of an open flower, waiting for me to pick it up. I lean down and I pick that giant gem up the center of the flower itself. And I look up and around, and there I am. I'm here. Maybe it's Port Townsend. Maybe it's some other place in Washington. Maybe it's another place that's full of gorgeous greenery and growth and energy and flow water and just beauty and the right next step for me. I'm ready for it. I'm ready. Now I'm picking a place to go, and I'm moving myself there. And now I'm looking for work. And I'M just feeling it every day. I wake up and I'm so motivated. I wake up and I say, today could be the day. Today could be the day. It could drop in my hand today. The next move could drop in my hand. I'm anticipating it. I'm feeling it. And then when that happens, boy, the next move comes right after that. And they're just hot on the heels of each other. And there's no delay now between me and it. I'm ready. Do you hear me, Flo? Do you feel how ready I am? I'm going to feel to you right now how. Yep, I am here. I am showing up. I am at the gate. I am the horse. I am ready to roar. I am. Whoo. Here we go. And I am stepping out. I just did it. I stepped out. I'm on my way. My journey started. Alright, now open your eyes. So what I was doing there was I was bringing you to an escalated point of feeling of no more delay. Your journey has begun. You're wide open and ready. You don't exactly care where you land as long as it's the right place. That is the feeling you need to pre act and hold inside of you all the time. Starting 30 seconds ago. All right, that's your lightsaber. That's going to change things. Everything will respond to that. Now there's no more waiting. You're there. You're already going.

Oh, love it. Thank you so much, Summer. I really appreciate it.

You're welcome, Erin. Thanks for your call. Thank you. So that was an example of a way that I would use flow to make an energy adjustment within somebody. Adjusting her mindset, right. She moved from I'm waiting to it's happening and I'm in total alignment with whatever is happening. She even released a little bit more. During that, she realized she still had a few things she was holding onto. So the next step will follow naturally. And now that she knows that to be true, it will be true. Get where we're going here. All right, quick break. When we get back, if I have time, I'll take another call. And if we don't, we're gonna pop into a flow dream where we are going to get totally centered. This is who I am. I'm all strong inside. I'm gonna zip myself up. It's all me now. And all of you people that I don't want to be around. I am not going to be around. Going to make that happen. I know you're like, are you crazy? I still have to show up to Work. I still have to go home. I still have to. Believe me, set it in motion. All right, we'll be back right after this.

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Here we are. By the way, all the stuff that I'm saying in these breaks is totally true. Just this morning, one of my elite clients, my diamond clients, I do some private mentoring still as part of me school and certain number of people I work with. I've been working with her a couple of years, and she just told me, you know what? My income just hit 140,000. And I'm so delighted. And she's in her 20s. This is ridiculous. It's just we've been working on it, right? She said, I want to make it. And she doesn't work for anybody. This is all her own. She's done this on her own. So it's so possible. I'm trying to think of some more fantastic things. Oh, my goodness. Another one of my clients I was just speaking with has just received three offers for her art to go really big with it. And I mean, just like, on and on, this stuff becomes common, becomes every day in my world. In fact, I'm shocked when people who really practice this don't get results. That is when I'm like, what? No, no, no, no, no. There must be something wrong. It's actually more shocking if a person does not get results. Imagine having that kind of faith and certainty is beyond faith. That kind of certainty in what can and should be happening and in fact is happening and will continue to happen. You can become that person. You can get into that space. You just have to be taught how to think. You have to be surrounded by people who think like that, too. You have to start floating amid their lights for your light to grow brighter. Get it right. That's why I created this as my line of work. I want to be with people who make things, who do things, who go forward, who grow, who love growing, who love Evolving, who love being in love, who love knowing how the this is. I got to create a group who will travel with me like this now, I mean, how good does that get? It means that reflecting off them, they're reflecting off me. They don't know it, but I get as much or more than as they get in working in flow and in me, school and in all the things that I do. Right? That's my very selfish reason, because I get to travel with a group of people now whose energy I want to be in. That's what you need to find. Whose energy do you want to be in? Because you will become like them. Okay, let's go and do a flow dream, and. Oh, it looks like we've got a little bit of time, which is wonderful. All right, so a flow dream, by the way, for any total new newbie listeners, it's not meditation, if you haven't figured that by now. We talk a lot about self empowerment here, about energy, universe, source, flow, about being in alignment, about how to create. And I consider myself a kind of weaver. Right? I'm a weaver, and the universe is my loom. And every day I'm moving into this highly emotional state, inflow, in this place where all the weaving is going on and I'm selecting certain threads over others. Ooh, I want more love today. Ooh, I want more ease today. Ooh, today. Back this morning, I had to start out with a course correction. I was having some of that crazy mercury energy. Everything was kind of messed up, and I said, whoops, let's snip that thread and get it out of there. Right? Everything has gone beautifully since this morning. I can do that. I know how you can too. Okay, so close your eyes. Prepare not to meditate. Prepare not to be hypnotized. Prepare to fall into a delicious state of daydreaming. Delicious. You know how to daydream? Just let go, release into the daydream. What are you thinking about? What's floating to the top? Something beautiful. Floating to the top. Floating up. Like you are looking up at the clouds, and you're a cloud, and you're floating up to meet the other clouds. Beautiful clouds. They shimmer with all the colors of the rainbow in them. They're irritating. They're gorgeous. Beautiful, soft, flowing, light energy. And you're this light too. Like a parachute, a white parachute cloud billowing up into the sky. Up, up, up you go into your flow, where you become caught in a gentle, gentle flow of energy. And you realize, I'm moving. I'm not even Trying. And yet we're all going forward. We're all moving together, and there's no resistance here. There's nothing blowing against us. There's nothing pushing. I'm just moving forward effortlessly, like I'm being carried in a stream on a little floaty raft, gently moving into my flow, feeling aligned with this great and beautiful energy of my life, My life in the making. Everything in my past pushing me forward to where I'm going. It's all there, surrounding me, before me. I'm in it. I'm in total and perfect alignment. Everything here feels so good, so right. I don't even worry about. I don't think, where am I going? I don't have to know. I'm going where I'm meant to go, where my highest self, my greatest self, my source self, my consciousness wants me to go. What's next is what's right. And I look around and I'm noticing, are there any other people here with me? Groups? Energies? Are they higher than me? Are they lower than me, than me? Who's down below me? What do they look like? Do they feel grayer, Dimmer? Darker? How much do I want to be down there? I don't. Do I feel obligated? Perhaps. Maybe I can just stay at my level and they can stay down at their level and I'll just kind of keep in touch. I'll keep my eye on them. But we don't have to cross over with each other. We. We can stay apart and flow. If I need to stay even more apart, will you help me with that? Will you give me ways to make the transition seamless, easy, perfect, good for all of us? If there are truly people that I don't need to align to anymore, you know what? I don't want to align to them anymore. And I don't know why I've kept giving myself over and over to align to that if it truly isn't me. Because when I look up above me, I see other energies, and they're even brighter and more beautiful and brilliant, and they're going faster and they seem happier and more good things come to them and they believe good things and they feel good things. And I'm realizing I'm more like that than I am like what's down below, what's up above is singing to me. I can hear it. It's like chimes or flutes. It's a calling to me. That's what I'm following. And I notice even as I say that I have begun to rise up. I didn't even try. I just sinked in. And I felt that alignment. I felt that calling. I heard there was a Pied Piper. And here I am. I'm coming. I'm rising to meet you. I'm ready for that. I'm ready to flow like that in that place of ease where things are right and ready and just, oh, magnificent. For me, that's where I'm going. And now here I am. I'm hovering just below. I'm right there. I'm so close. And that is what I know is happening for me right now in my life right now. Because I'm capturing that feeling even as I'm opening my eyes the second and returning and realizing it's like shifting gears. I just shifted from fourth gear into fifth gear or from second into third. But you know what? It's funny. When I shift up, it gets smoother and lighter. The engine's not working so, so hard. It's not so loud anymore. I have to shift up, and I do. And that means I align even less to those people who aren't where I am. And it's even easier now for me to move out of that and that life. And there you go. That's a sample of how we would use emotion and flow and Flow Dreaming to make a serious correction in your life. Imagine the power of doing that every day. That's what I want to leave you with this week and remind you I'll be back next week, same time, same place, for more flow Dreaming. My love to you all.

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