#556: Co-Creating Cars, Homes, and Things (Rebroadcast)

Flow Dreaming.

It's a show where we talk about.

The power of your mind to change.

Your world around you, to literally affect.

The fabric of your reality.

We talk about this feeling of hope and joy and relief. And that is what being aware of your flow does. It gives you a feeling of power again in your lives.

Breathe.

I'm Summer McStravik and welcome to another episode of Flow Dreaming.

Hey, everybody. I am broadcasting live right now from our brand new studio here in Encinitas, California. First time running the show from here, so fingers crossed. As many of you know, I've been making lots of adjustments and tinkering and oh my gosh, so much has been going on behind the scenes the last couple of months as we've been trying to build this thing out. And I've been sort of running off a little portable studio from home. It's been. It's been an adventure. So we're gonna see how it goes today as we broadcast here from the fir for the first time from the new, from the new digs. Some of you guys know, of course, we are building this for in flow radio. That's inflow radio.com and it is not just a place to host my own show, my own podcast, Fl Dreaming. We will have 10, 20, 30, 40 other amazing shows. God.

I've gotten to talk to some, some.

Just incredible people over the last month or two about their podcasts, about their shows. Some of them are big talents, some of them are just emerging talents, you know, starting stuff for the first time. But all of our shows are, are, you know, very similarly flowing into this kind of person that I realized it's really me. I'm making this my own ideal listener. You know, the person who gets up in the morning and you do yoga or you do your meditation practice and then you go and drink some green juice and then you work on your lifestyle or your entrepreneurial business. You know, you have a real interest in nature and life and the planet and each other and personal growth and development. You're on a coaching call later. And that's the kind of person, because that's me. It's my life. So all of our shows are really complimentary to these themes and ideas. And, you know, the idea is it's going to be. You just tune in to the live stream. This is going to be live talk radio. Live talk radio. You know, my first attempt at making live talk radio, we made Hay House radio. And it was so fun, amazing, and I can't wait to get back to that. But we'll also have the podcast in the on demand. So it's going to be the best of both worlds all wrapped up together. So that's the point of this studio. And that means that this show, Flow Dreaming is going to be broadcast from here going forward. And Flow Dreaming will also be going through some facelift, some makeover. I think it's about time. Thirteen years in, I just realized this is my 556th show, which is outrageous. I can't even believe I've had enough to talk about for 556 shows. What, what have I been saying? I'm kind of curious to go back and listen to me, you know, from eight years ago or 10 years ago. So periodically I shift formats and I'll be shifting formats again very soon with this program. I'm really looking forward to getting some interviews, going, talking to people, reaching, stretching, getting out there and just kind of playing with more ideas than just my own.

I'm ready for some new juice.

So that's something coming up as well. And of course you can call in. That's the other big change I've already implemented. So to call and talk to me live. Whenever I'm broadcasting live, typically I put it up on Facebook, Facebook, Instagram, you know, I'll send word out, hey, I'm live. It's going to be this time this week. Eventually I will be settling into a new live time. Generally it will be Tuesdays.

I think it'll be about noon, Noonnoon.

Pacific Time, 3:00pm Eastern Time. I should start to be my new lifetime. But you can call me 7604-5672-7776-0456. 7277 today I wanted to return to a theme I haven't been talking about a very, very long time. Sometimes I get very lofty and we talk about big things and big ideas and you know, how the world works, how the universe works, how spirit and energy work, how to co create, how to empathically develop big things like this. And now and then I like to drop right back down to reality. And maybe I'm feeling inspired because like I said, we've been building studios and digging and opening up boxes and carting things out of my big van into the, you know, into and really getting physical with things. And that inspired today's show. How to make physical things right? How do you make a home? How do you, how do you co create a car? How do you get your physical environment in order, populate it with the things that you want and need to feel.

Good, to feel Happy to be happy.

And please don't get me wrong, physical things do not lead to happiness. Lack of physical things, however, can lead to unhappiness. Right? Most of us are not well skilled in living a very, you know, Buddhist kind of non, you know, non material life. Meaning you're happy to sit under a tree and meditate while your clothes fall to rags. That's just not how most of us were brought up to be. So when we're experiencing hunger, when we're can't keep the lights on, you know, when we don't have a firm place to live, we go into pure anxiety and we go into where the heck is my stability. I want to grow and see what my potential is, but I can't until these things are solved. So we're presuming in today's show that most of these things are solved for you. You've got most of your material life together. Maybe not perfect. Maybe it's not the house you want, maybe it's not the car you want, the furniture you want, but you've been.

Able to navigate to a certain degree, right?

So we're not, we're not coming up here from scraps, the premises. You kind of got it together. But sometimes, you know, you want to manifest and you want to go for those good feelings. And you've heard me talk about this, the emotional endpoints, all of that. But you're like, summer, you know what?

I just want a new waterbed.

I just really want a new waterbed. I missed them in the 70s, I missed that boat. And I just, I need one now. I know nobody out there wants it. Does anybody actually have a waterbed still? I, I had one as a kid. I had a twin size waterbed. It wasn't bought for me, it was bought for one of my older stepbrothers and you know, who promptly realized this is a horrible thing to sleep on. So I inherited it as a young kid. And yeah, it was pretty horrible to sleep on. The sloshing water would wake me up all night long. Oh, and then my mom, oh, she had a king size waterbed and they did that very 70s thing, they put satin sheets on it. And I remember emerald green satin sheets and we had an avocado green colored rug. So yeah, they went together really well. And then this giant water bed. And you would lay on that bed at night and the sheets would just imagine, imagine satin sheets on, on like, you know, like slippery rubber. The sheets would just creep down the bed and then you would creep down the bed with the Sheets and you'd end up at the bottom of the bed, you know, with all the sheets wound up around you and your head and your upper body would be stuck on the, on the plastic, you know, directly on the plastic. Water. It was kind of miserable. I don't know. I don't. I think she just felt like after she spent all of that on it, she had to like tough it out and prove that it was a good purchase. And I, I don't know why they kept it. So anyway, no, we won't be manifesting a waterbed. I guess that's what I'm getting at. But I bet you do have something on your list that would, you'd really, really like to have. And you're trying to figure out how do I co. Create things? How do I manifest things in my life? Is it all just about what's given to me and what I'm able to receive? And, and, or can I just really bring it down to the practical? I need a thousand dollars deposited in my account and I need it by Thursday. So how can we get this done, Flo?

That's what we're doing.

So let's back off a second.

How do we approach this?

So, you know, if you've heard this show before, we go and talk about a lot of different things, but a common theme in all of flow dreaming is this idea of emotional preaction and emotional endpoints. 2 Key, key, key ideas. Right? We go deep into these ideas, especially in me school, but here you've heard.

Me talk about them as well.

Emotional endpoints means why do you need thousand dollars deposited into your account by Thursday? Why are you trying to create that material blessing? What's the purpose for it? Why? And they'll say, well, it's because rent's due, because my car payments do. Because I'm like, okay, why do you.

Need to pay your rent? Why do you need your car payment?

Well, because I have to have a place to live. I have to be able to drive, you know, myself to work. Why do you have to have a place to live? Why do you have to drive yourself to work? Well, these are stupid questions, Summer. Everybody knows the answer to those. Why do you have to drive to work? Why do you need a place to live? Well, so I can, I can feel safe and stable so that I have a, you know, a place that I can, you know, live my life from. I need to feel stable now we're getting there. Why do you need to drive to work? Because I need to keep my job. Because I Need to keep earning money. Because if I earn money, then I have enough to live on and I can feel again safe and I can feel stable and I feel like I'm taking care of myself and I feel like I'm actually able to make it in this world and I need that feeling. So we drop all the way into.

The why, the emotional why.

You want to feel safe and stable. That's why you're pressing to get that thousand bucks in your account by Thursday. Because that is a symbol of your ability to maintain your ability to function materially. And the better you do, the more safe and the more stable you feel. And eventually when you've solved all of your safety issues, you move into the next phase, which is great. I'm safe and stable now. How can I grow this? How can I be a better steward of this if I have more money than I actually need at a certain point now, what's my responsibility with it now? What's my obligation with it? I am curious and I want to.

Learn and develop that, you see?

And it keeps going from there.

There's always an emotional reason behind everything, even that new car or house or new wardrobe. I was thinking just the other day.

The other day I was thinking just morning actually walk into my closet, I'm like, my clothes don't fit. God, I've put on all this weight since I had, you know, cancer. And I'm on this medication and it's just so tough now. And why don't I get rid of these clothes and just buy clothes that fit me? Because I can't give up the dream that I'm going to shrink back down, right? There's this emotional reason why I do not purchase and buy clothes. Emotional reason why I'm doing the opposite. I'm not co creating a new wardrobe because my emotional self is saying no, because then you're giving in. It all comes back to that. So the very first thing you do when you are deciding to create something physical for yourself is, yeah, go ahead and identify the physical thing. But also know exactly how you think that thing is going to make you feel. Because that's where all the richness and the juice and the oomph in your magic and your co creation comes from. Now the other thing that I do is Instead of saying $1,000 by Thursday, yeah, that might be a real thing, you may have to write a, you know, a thousand dollar rent check on Thursday.

But I like to give flow options.

I like to know that the world.

Is creating with me all the time.

I Am not directing the whole show. If I were, I would have a magnificent amount of endless possibilities flowing under my fingertips. All of my consciousness would be frozen trying to just deal with all the potential variables under my. Under the tips of my fingers every single day. I wouldn't even be able to eat or feed or wash myself. Fortunately, we don't have to do that. Our other self, our co creational self, our non physical self, is able to.

Do that with us.

So my physical self says, thousand bucks on Thursday. Non physical self says this or better. We know what you're going after. Safety. Maybe we'll give you 5,000 bucks on Thursday. Maybe we'll give you your. Your landlord saying, hey, don't worry about it. I don't know when landlords ever say that, but it's possible.

All things are possible.

Maybe your brother steps in, hey, we want to come and stay with you. Can we give you some money for a few weeks?

Hey, who knows? Who knows?

And this is where you are opening up to endless.

You're opening up to possibilities.

All of these potentials coming to you.

To solve that emotional endpoint of I need to feel safe by Thursday. Give me safety, I feel safe. So we move into flow.

And what's flow dreaming? Oh, you guys, if you don't know, you should know by now. I have a free kit for it. Go to my website, flow dreaming.com download. It teaches you how to flow dream. There's also some older podcasts. I should have my episode list in front of me. By the way, I have been naming all of my episodes, numbering them. In the past, we just gave names and it was making it very difficult for me to refer back through 556 episodes to any specific one. But now I can say go to episode 130, go to episode 422. So I'll get that little cheat sheet going. So I can always refer back to some of these that I recognize as highlights. So anyway, what was I saying, right? How do you flow dream? So go back and listen to one of the beginner, you know, how do you flow dream podcasts here or episodes or go get my kit or do both actually. So flow dreaming in a nutshell, intense.

And pure beautiful emotions.

Mm.

Second, the awareness of flow. The awareness of your forward trajectory in life. You moving forward in alignment, in a right state, going where you need to go, being directed, being guided, being on.

The right path, not even having to think about it. Look, time travels forward every day. It doesn't think about it. We're never worried that we're going to fall into the wrong time loop. It just is. Let's expand that thought. Maybe your life also has a nice perfect forward motion. In alignment in ease into states of opportunity. The challenges that even lead to opportunity. It's all right, it's all perfect.

That's awareness of flow ease. Lastly, guided daydreaming.

You feel this emotion and you feel.

It in flow state.

How do you get there? We utilize something that was gifted to us at birth. The ability to transcend time and space. To temporarily lose focus where we are, who we are, how much time is.

Passing to connect in as we move into that daydream.

This means.

Yeah, you use your imagination, you imagine.

Your way into this place until that other feeling state takes over, which is.

I don't even know I'm there anymore, but I know I'm doing something and it feels amazing.

And then you pop out of it and you go, oh my God. 10 minutes pass by. Wow, where was I?

Good question.

You were bridging the worlds.

You were in a co creational state.

So that's flow dreaming. So when we are going for that thousand bucks by Thursday, do you guys want to do a thousand by Thursday? Wouldn't that be kind of fun? Maybe that's the flow dream. We should all practice together today. I like to always demonstrate.

1000 bucks by Thursday.

We'll go into the flow state and.

You can feel thousand by Thursday.

You can give it an idea, right? That's a great idea. That's a great starting point.

Yeah.

That's one out of many thousands of possible ways to solve your safety by Thursday issue. It's a good one. Go ahead, give it energy. It sums up, you know, it's like a great way for you to feel like, yeah, that'll take care of it. But I want you to also expand that feeling. Or better thousand by Thursday or better.

Thousand by Thursday or better thousand by Thursday or better.

Now what you're saying to Flo is, hey, I've got this idea, but if you've got a better one, by all means, whatever it takes to give me.

The feeling state I'm after, that's what we're really going for.

And that is how I manifest every.

Thing in my life.

When I was searching and looking around for my new studio space, my new office space, I knew what I wanted. I knew the price range. I knew how I wanted it to feel. I wanted to look forward to go into it. I wanted my staff to be really happy here. I wanted it quiet. I wanted good landlords.

I Wanted all of that. I ended up with a place that's.

Been completely brand new, remodeled, new carpet, new paint, new everything. Everything gorgeous. I'm the first tenant here. I'm the first person in this building. I was right there, Johnny on the spot before the landlord was even thinking about renting it. She's like, I don't know why I'm answering your call, but I think I just, I don't know. I haven't really. I'm not showing it to people. We're still under construction. Like, I understand. I know why you're showing it to me. You see what I'm getting because I had an emotional objective. What I need this studio to do for me, to do for my staff, to do for Flow Dreaming to do for Inflow Radio to do for my clients, to do for my listeners. I know that feeling. So the space is just a manifestation of the best possible way to fulfill that. But it is an actual physical space, right? It's an actual physical space. This is what you're going to do. So what do you want? Thousand by Thursday? Maybe there's something else on your list. Take a minute, think about it. What is it that you really want? Don't feel guilty for asking for it. It's a material thing that's solving a larger emotional piece inside of you. And yeah, sometimes those material things are solving emotional pieces that are based on insecurity. Like, oh my God, I really need that facelift and to lose £15 and to get that lipo all over my head or whatever. I don't know. And like why you're fine. You look good already. What's the emotional endpoint? I actually just want to feel really.

Good about myself and my appearance. I want to feel relaxed and happy with myself.

Well, maybe you actually don't need all of that.

Then maybe Flow can gift you other.

Ways to get there. Permanent, long lasting ways that are non invasive. Going for the emotional endpoint is always number one. So ask for the thing and then.

Say, or better, whatever it takes to get me there.

All right, so looks like you guys aren't swarming the phone lines today. I understand. Because I am broadcasting pretty darn erratically. So you guys don't actually know when I'm on air. You will be able to listen to me live through my website, flow dreaming.com. you're also going to be able to listen to me live through Inflow Radio dot com. All of this shaping out in just a few weeks.

And of course, the on demand version of this show will always be Available.

On itunes as well as on my website and on inflow radio dot com. So I think what we're going to do is go ahead and go with a little bit of a shorter.

A shorter episode today and go straight.

Into an example, a demonstration of how we create something, how we manifest something. And we're going to do that. Yeah, you bet. As soon as we get back from this quickie little break. So go ahead, get yourself situated, maybe go check out the website or get on, get on my mailing list, get my free kit, whatever it is, and I'll be back in about a minute.

And we'll dive right into flow together.

While we're on break. Have you checked out MI School? In MI School, we travel together through a year, through everything that you are. You get to discover what drives you, how you're made, and how powerful you actually are. We play with intuition and Flow Dreaming and dozens of other techniques as you go through one of the most potent, powerful and pleasurable personal development experiences you've ever seen.

We continually co create your future.

And I ask you to bring big goals to the table. Things that you want to become inside yourself. And you'll reach these using the tools.

That you've probably never been exposed to.

Before in your life. But you will be here in MI School. So if you're curious, go to flowdreaming.com.

And click on MI School. Set up a call and we'll help.

You see exactly what you can do with with your life.

And if you choose to come join me in M school, then I look.

Forward to spending the next year with you as we work together to create miracles. In case you missed it, the number to call to talk to me live is the US number 1764-567277. Flow Dreaming airs live on Tuesdays, so check flowdreaming.com for my current live broadcast time. Again, reach me at 1-760-456-7277. Now let's get back to the show.

All right, let's relax and get ready to flow. Relax your hips. Release your abdomen. Let your shoulders drop. Nice deep breath. Release the breath. Your jaw relaxes. Your brow relaxes. You feel really, really, really good. Really, really good. Relax, release and move into flow. Move into. Pretend you're taking a walk in your imagination. You're on one of those people movers they have in airports. You step on the tread and it just rolls you forward. And yet you're walking, walking, rolling, walking, rolling, covering twice the distance in half the time. In this, people mover this tread never stops, goes on and on and on. You don't question where it's going. You don't question it. You just allow it. You allow it, allow it to lift you, carry you, move you.

You.

Feel that energy, feel that motion. Feel how you're moving into the next place, into your future. You're going, going, going forward where you need to go. You say, I need to go into that place and I'm moving into that.

Place and I'm already in that place.

Or I have something, I've got that.

Cash, got that money in my pocket.

I've got that,000 or 5,000, 10,000. Whatever the need is, I've got it.

It's right there.

There's this thing, this material exchange, this cash flow.

It's a media, it's fast.

I've got what I need to fulfill me, to take care of something, to resolve it, to fix it. I've got it, I've got it, I've got it. It's in my hands, it's in my pockets. Hey, this or better flow, you're leading.

Me right into it. You know, I have a problem. To solve that problem. I need to feel safe. I want to feel safe, safe.

I do feel safe. I feel safe right now. I feel safe right now. I feel safe. I feel safe. I feel safe. I have all of my needs met. I have everything I need, everything I need. I'm safe, receive it. It's there for me. It comes to me.

It's not hiding, it's not in the far future. It's not out of my reach. There is so much in my reach. All the low hanging fruit, there it is.

I'm surrounded by it.

I can just reach my hand out and let those peaches drop into my palm. This is the wealth I need. This is the cash flow I need. This is the thing that I need, whatever it is to move me into that next step, that next state. That.

That is what I need. That's exactly, exactly what I need. Yes, I have it. I have it. I feel it. I create it. Thank you, flag.

Flow.

I create it. I hold that feeling. I stay in it even now as I find myself coming back and returning, returning from flow. And there you go.

I tried to pop in a little music there halfway through. I hope you could have, I hope you heard that. I was like, oh yeah, what am I missing?

I'm missing my music. Get you in the mood.

So you see what should have happened there. You should have felt like you were bouncing on a trampoline and Every. Every time you got a really high bounce, you hit that state where you just had pure feeling. Pure feeling. Oh, I'm. I'm lost somewhere. I feel this. You're right. I have cash flow. I have income. I have that. I'm taugh to something greater than me.

I am exuding this desire, exuding this information, exuding this beingness of having it. That is what I feel. That is being in flow.

So I want you today to walk away with our episode thinking about that thing rolling around your head that you just know will solve everything if you get it. That thing, thing, thing, thing, thing. And then follow that thing to its source. What's the emotional endpoint behind it?

And then I want you to practice Flow dreaming today.

Today on your own.

Do it.

And if you need help, got plenty of resources for you. In fact, I have a flow dream about finding your new home, making an easy move. That's a great one to have. That's a flow dreaming dot com. You can practice with that one, too. I also have one about finding your ideal job. That's what you're looking for. I have a lot of them on manifesting different things for yourself.

So go check that out.

Maybe you'll find something there.

It'll be easier for you to practice with.

But get going. You have no time to lose. Everything starts today with how you think.

And how you feel.

All right, so that wraps up today's show.

Love you all.

I will be back. We will continue our fabulous live shows as we move forward in the weeks ahead and all the tremendous and wonderful changes that are going on. By the way, say hi to me anytime. Summerlowdreaming.com or go to my Facebook group, Flow Dreaming. I love Flow Dreaming Facebook group. It's a great place to interact with a lot of super cool people. We also have the inflow radio group Right now. Both of those are on Facebook and sometimes I pop in and say hello from time to time. I'll see you there. Take care.

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Bye.