Jocko Underground: Blast Past Old Mistakes and Get Respect at Work

This is the Jocko Underground podcast number 172, sitting here with Echo Charles. We have gotten some questions. We've received some questions from you, the troopers, and we are going to provide some courses of action, some iterative decisions you can make, and in some cases, some straight up answers to your scenario.

Yeah.

So let's get into it comprehensively.

I see it as guidance.

Okay.

See what I'm saying?

Yeah. 100. That's a good, good comprehensive assessment.

Look, guidance it is. Leadership. Which is according to the Marine Corps credo manual. I forget the numbers. The most important thing.

Leadership. Yeah, check.

I know some other outfits who believe the same thing, and I believe the same thing too. Seems indeed so. Yeah, comprehensively. That's what this is. It's leadership guidance. Check. First question. Lately, work has been rough. I'm an electrician and have made a few costly mistakes. Others have too. Our boss didn't take it well. Yelling, swearing, threatening to fire people. Not by name. It was bad. He later apologized in a meeting, but still made a sarcastic comment about our writing or wiring skills. Clearly, he's still angry. Now I'm losing sleep, afraid of messing up again. I want to improve, but I'm walking on eggshells and it's draining. Deep down, I fear I don't belong in this field and that my boss has lost faith in me. People say, just keep going, but I'm struggling to believe it'll get better. How do I let go of the past mistakes and self doubt? How can I move forward when I'm not sure my boss believes in me anymore?

Okay, well, speaking of this outfit, you know what you're gonna do? You're gonna lead here by taking ownership of your mistakes. Right? That's where we're leading with. Apologize to the boss. Tell him, hey, I messed this up. I recognize that I messed this up. Don't talk. You say others did too. Don't worry about others. Don't worry about that. It's about you. Tell me you want to get better. Tell me you're focused. Tell me you want to learn. And tell me you're just ready to work. Work hard, and then also aggressively figure out what it is that you did wrong. Right? Whatever you did wrong, aggressively figured out, and what's the root cause of why you did it? You know, what is the reason that this mistake happened and then how can you prevent it from happening again? Another thing, I would actually prefer that you do that before you roll in to talk to the boss. Right? You want to have a plan, then you're going to study and train and you're going to like show them a video. You're going to send them a YouTube channel. Hey, a YouTube video. Hey, this is what we messed up. We didn't know we were supposed to do this. I see. It wasn't a code. Now that we know the code, it won't happen again. And by the way, here's the code book. I got all the things. I wrote them down, I got apply, I made a short note thing. I put it on chat GPT. I got the one. You see what I'm saying? Get aggressive. And then what you do is you go into just full, just full trooper mode. Show up early, stay late, be organized, look sharp, right? Haircut, clean shave. You don't think it's a big deal? Haircut, clean shave, good clean work clothes. Remember Jason Wilson was on. He was talking about when he was a contractor doing tile. He's like, oh, yeah, put on a clean shirt, look sharp. Getting the job. Look like a dirtbag. Get no job. So get some clean squared away clothes. Haircut, clean, shave clean. Like work. If you have a workspace or a truck or your toolbox should be dialed in. Should be dialed in. 100% dialed in. It doesn't have to be new, but it has to be clean. It has to be organized. That's professionalism. Take notes, right? Take notes. Be writing things down. Take pictures of your work. Sometimes people post up their plumbing job and tag me in it because they want me to see that works getting done. And it's getting done right. Some people have sent me some electric boxes, some fuse boxes with 80 million wires going in there, but they're all dialed in. They're all squared away. Take pictures of your work. Make it clean. Make it organized. Be proud. Double check things and then triple check the important things. Whatever you drop the ball on this other mistake, triple check that. Keep taking ownership. If something messes up, fix it. Take own it. Take ownership of it and fix it. Stay humble. Stay hungry. Keep working hard. Here's the deal. Your boss needs good, quality, reliable, skilled electricians. People that show up on time. People that are organized, people that are squared away. People that look sharp. You're an electrician. I mean your boss, I guarantee he needs people like that. Because every company needs people like that. All of them. Be one of those people. Just be one of those people and you won't have anything to worry about. You got this? That's what I got.

Yeah. Learned early on that the taking extreme ownership ship sequence, the whole process is very, has very important elements to it that are all required. Otherwise it is simply not taking extreme motion. So like you know, admitting it was or, or saying it was your fault because of you, you know, it's your responsibility saying what you're going to do to fix it and then actually fixing it.

Yep. Got to do it all.

Yeah. So the, a lot of time I got to be honest, sometimes I have witnessed firsthand people going through the whole sequence except for the not actually fixing it. So it's like, you know, things stay the same but there is a whole lot of no, that's my fault, you know, and this is what I'm going to do to fix it. And then they don't fix it. They kind of, you know, no. And so it's just kind of a bunch of thing and then it CE is to become extreme ownership. So I think that yeah, after, after a certain amount of time when you. Okay, yeah, you mess up, you make this big costly mistake. You create this new rep reputation of being like super extra squared away, easy to work with. The whole thing, the costly mistake that you made fades.

Oh yeah, it'll fade over time. It'll take some time, but it'll fade away.

Yeah. For sure. Be nothing but a memory. Next question. Jocko. I've always had a thirst for adventure and craving to live a challenging and meaningful life. My father passed away 20 years ago and it really affected me. My girlfriend who I met nine years ago was the first person I allowed to get close to me since my father passed. She has severe bipolar disorder and refuses to seek help for it. I've tried everything to keep her happy and I and left myself with Nothing. I work 12 hours a day, six days a week for the government. My work vehicle has holes in it from shootings. The area I am in all day long is extremely stressful and dangerous. I'm definitely tough enough to endure long physical days where shootings occur. But when I'm at home, which is not much, I have no peace. She refuses to change or give our home peace. I know it's time to leave for my own well being. But she's still. But she will lose everything without my financial help. I fear regret and that's why I haven't left yet. What do you think?

So like my immediate instinctual answer in that is leave just to kind of think through that a little bit more. You've. It sounds like you have tried everything. You try different approaches. That is a little excerpt of what we are doing on the Jocko underground podcast. So if you want to continue to listen, go to jockounderground.com and subscribe. And we're doing this to mitigate our reliance on external platforms so we are not subject to their control. And we are doing this so that we can support the Jocko podcast which will remain as is free for all as long as we can keep it that way. But we are doing this so we don't have to be under the control of sponsors and we're doing it so we can give you more control, more interaction, more direct connections, better communications with us. And to do that, we are we're building a website right now where we'll be able to utilize to strengthen this legion of troopers that are in the game with us. So thank you. It's Jocko underground.com it cost $8.18 a month and if you can't afford to support us, we can still support you. Just email assistance@jocunderground.com and we'll get you taken care of. Until then, we will see you mobilized Underground.