Gee RanasinhaKEXINO · Better marketing for B2B businesses | Fellow of the Chartered Institute of Marketing | Adjunct marketing professor | Speaker | Recovering perfectionist

We're selling customers the permission to want something

26 Oct 2025 · 3 min

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26 Oct 2025 · 3 min

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In this solo podcast episode, the speaker critiques the traditional corporate finance view that treats marketing spend as a line item to be minimized and argues that the most successful business investments often appear irrational on paper. He posits that customers make decisions emotionally and then rationalize them, meaning that companies are essentially selling "permission to want"—the comfort of eliminating doubt and avoiding embarrassment. The episode emphasizes that managing perception, framing, and psychological positioning of a product matters far more than optimizing the product itself. The speaker discusses the incumbent’s dilemma when facing a disruptor: either copy the disruptive strategy and cannibalize existing revenue, or protect margins and lose ground, both hampered by political incentives and an obsession with measurable outcomes. He warns that focusing solely on countable metrics creates a trap, allowing crucial perceptual levers to slip away. Finally, he frames breakthrough performance as probabilistic, encouraging educated bets and valuing wrong answers that provide learning. The episode ends with a call to subscribe, share, and visit kexino.com.

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Corporate finance departments treat marketing spend like some kind of line item that needs to be minimized. But if you look, the greatest returns in businesses have always come from investments that on paper looked irrational. If you look at them on a, on a, like a spreadsheet, we've built entire organizations around the nonsense notion that customers behave like some kind of calculator, weighing features against price in some neat utility function. The reality is that people make decisions emotionally and then construct elaborate post hoc justifications afterwards. In fact, what we're really doing is selling permission to want something. Buyers buy the elimination of doubt. They pay for the comfort of knowing that they won't look like idiots or have to explain themselves after the fact. Managing how a product is perceived relative to alternatives actually matters far more than optimizing the product itself. What we're really doing is we are manufacturing plausible excuses for emotional purchases. Now, defensible market position usually comes from doing things that competitors can't do or don't have the bravery to do, even if they see them working when somebody else is doing them. An incumbent watching a disruptor succeed faces two choices. Neither of them are particularly palatable. You can either copy the strategy and cannibalize existing revenue, or you could protect current margins but then lose ground. The thing is, the incentive structure built around these organizations make that first option politically impossible. The obsession with measurable outcomes is actually creating a trap for ourselves. We optimize what we can count while things like perception, framing, and psychological positioning slip through our fingers. The truth is breakthrough performance should be looked at as being probabilistic. We're actually placing educated bets. Finding the single correct answer matters far less than being wrong in ways that teach us something valuable. Thanks for listening. If you like what you heard, please pass it on. I'm not saying I'm right, I'm saying many out there are wrong. Please subscribe, share, comment, whatever works for you. Find out more at kexino.com. That's K-E-X-I-N-O. Hope to see you again here soon.