Empress Tarothon - Misison 5 - Mastering the Wands

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Namaste. Good evening, ma'. Am. Good evening. Good evening. Guys, some of you are still off the camera. Start joining in. Good evening, ma'. Am. Good evening. Good evening, ma'. Am. Good evening. Good evening, everyone. All right, how are we doing? It's getting cold. Right. How are you doing? Great. So last Saturday we had an amazing session and I hope you're enjoying the two pile task. How many of you enjoying it?

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Yeah, that's the magic. Because doing it alone is probably not the right way of learning. Doing it together is when you have so many point of views that you might have missed and so many creative ways of learning. Right. So that's what the team does. The teamwork is all about learning through each other. No, just not with me. I'm glad that you guys are enjoying it. This is your way to become a confident reader. So keep doing this task at least one or two more weeks maybe and we'll do some more tasks also in the coming weeks. But stick to it because it's kind of. It will make you a better reader and it will make it easy for you to do Three card also will be more easier.

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I thought delete this. I'm looking so bad. I say you're looking very good. Go for it. Because seeing a non dancer doing it was more fun. No, It was very nice and sunny during the day yesterday. Thankfully, evenings were cold. Yeah, day was very warm. That's what is irritating me right now. Because especially when I'm taking a class, you know, it's very irritating when your voice is not supporting you. That's the only thing else. But I know you guys understand, so tolerate it, whatever. Okay? I'm gonna do my best. So let's begin, everybody. There are many of you still off the camera, so please hop on quickly. All right, let's begin. I'm going to put everybody on mu. So today we will be learning about the minor set. We finished the major. We have also understand the two pile story. They have been practicing guidance. We have been practicing two piles. Now we begin with the minor Arcana. Okay, so we talked about the manarkana in the last class. Also. Major is your karmic. Minor is more about the daily routines, the daily challenges, the daily things that you can rework, correct your actions, your emotions, and you can change your life. Right? That's the minor. The minor events. So when we talk about the minor arcana, your suits. Four suits are there. So minor arcana divided into four particular suits. If you go by the sec, the way the card has been placed. So immediately after the major, we start with the wands, then we go to cups, then we move to swords. And then the last is the pentacles. I like to follow what's in the car, the pattern. And so we were doing the wands today. Now we also understood that major arcana follow the element of space. And basically, we don't really need to know about the element in the major because it comes with so much information already. That element might not even matter, right? Or no. But in the minor, Minor Kana is kind of complicated to understand. Sometimes it gives you very minor knowledge, sometimes not enough for you to apply in a reading and could be confusing. So we have to go through the elements here very, very strongly, plus a little bit of number gain to add up wherever I feel is important. Yes. So the minor Kana, they are divided into four suits and four elements. The one that we are going to do today is the suit of wands. I want to stick to the element for this. We'll keep doing one by one, all of the elements. And wands, as I always said, Fire, bamboo sticks. So the element of wands is fire. Fire. So basically, wands is about having that fire within you. A fire which leads to action, not thoughts. So if you really. If you really have the fire, you Won't think about it, right? You will jump into it. If you really want to achieve something, you will do it anyway. But when I say you will start working on it. What kind of energy do you need to be in the action mode? Is the physical energy physically active? Only when I'm physically active, I can do it better and with more energy. So the wands is the physical energy, the action we need to start. I always take you through this story of the children because my understanding is very simple. We all, including me, have some good and the bad side, yes or no? The bad side comes from some subconscious issues we have been dealing with. And most of us starting from the childhood and because of which we have some, some dark elements of the character also. So before we understand the two sides of the wands, we understand the two side of the character of the fire. Okay, so you know how many of you have very hyperactive children? Type me in the chat box. I'm sure when some of you have grown up children now, but when they were young, like mine, one also was very, very hyperactive. So with hyperactive children, what do we do? We put them into some creative activities, some physical energies involvement throughout the day so that their energy is exhausted and they don't trouble you. Yes or no activities. They don't get diverted. So when you have hyperactive children, you need to put them into creative energy. Type creative in the chat box to move them away from a hyper energy. You take them into creative energy so that the fire is invested in a creative way. Not in a destroying way, But correct action mode. He will know what he is doing and he will be creative about his action, not destructive. But if we don't put them in a creative energy or a creative work, you will see these children becomes very moody. They start destroying everything at home because they are very irritated of the hyper energy you have. You see in them, yes or no. Now in that case, most of the parents, especially my era would also get irritated of the child and might just shout at them or give them one good slap. I know actually a mission, but I have done it right. So some of the old parents have done it. Now what happens when you, you know, when you shout at a child or maybe if you, you know, you hit them. There are two things that can happen or go wrong. First, the child might get that fear. Everything I try to do something, my parents get angry at me. So because of the fear, the child will stop doing anything in life. The action and the fire will go missing and they will become moody. No action no energy. First point here. Second, there can also be a rebel. And they will say, do whatever you want to do. I will keep destroying more things for you and I will keep doing everything wrong. And it is not their fault. This is what they learn because they don't get the right direction. So in the second level of dark side, ache level again, no action. Second level, wrong action, impulsive action, wrong decision that leads them to failure. Also I said for me the biggest source of energy is the sun. So I relate the fire with the sun also. And as a sun for me is a leader. You know, he lead all the other planets around him. The sun has a lot of energy. So basically somebody with the fire element is lot of energy, lot of action, lot of fire within them. Right? But in the dark side, the sun is also the one who can be egoistic, aggressive, loud, angry and dominating and comes with I me myself category. So this could also be the dark side of the fire element. Clear everybody. So in the positive side, the keywords are action, creativity. And also these people love to travel. So the third keyword is travel because fire energy is very fond of traveling. So third keyword to these cards are traveling in the dark side. The keywords will be no action or wrong action, destructive energy and not good for traveling often leads them to failure and impulsive actions. Clear everybody. So now when you know the upright or the reverse, or maybe the good and the bad side, at least generally you can apply them too many ones. Action, creativity, too many wants, negative, no action, destructive energy. Clear. So these are some simple keywords which you can apply in a reading. So we will moving into learning then also if you look at from a general criteria of career, you will see that again. I want to ask you a question. If I say I'm a born leader, can I work in an environment where I'm dominated when I'm controlled? No. So preferably they like to do their own work, business or they want to be in a good position or being respected in a job. So they give fire element achieve position. Second, I just said they like to be very creative. They are hyperactive. So they should take up a job which includes traveling or something creative to keep learning. Monotonous job or at least sitting job will not serve them right. Are you clear with the job criteria? Let's begin. So when I see the wands, the element of the wands is the fire and it represents the soul. The keywords that you follow with this particular segment is passion, energy, creativity, ambition, action and growth. Wants, fuel, projects, dreams, spiritual drive, Often linked with travel, movement and expansion. Clearly we're also going through the number chart. As I said, I will also taking you to the number so that you can understand numbers. All the aces, they are your card. Number one ace is equal to number one. They all represent some good news. Fertility, new beginnings. Clear. The number two is all about partnership or making plans. So like one moving from one to another, whether it's, you know, adding more jobs, partnership karna OR Expand Karna. 3 Number is travel in the wands. Phone number is about a holiday that you can take. Or again travel. 5 is about strong opinions. The general perspective we'll be going through deeper. Sixth number is victory. Seven is standing strong. Eight number bring good news. Nine number give you strength. And ten comes with a lot of burden. Clear. The general poes. Okay, the first card, the ace of wand. The key beginnings to the meanings of the card is enterprise, career, travel and beginnings. You see, there are three trees grow on the right bank, symbols of growth and fertility. The ace of wands is the only card of the suit which shows multiple buds symbolizing new ventures. The blue color water symbolizes the purpose that you have. The card represents the gift of enterprise and adventure. It also represents new beginnings, impulses and new possibilities. Let's begin understanding the card. If you have the card, hold the card in your hands. Now in the ace, all the ace are taking a. There is a hand coming out of a cloud. You don't see a body, right? You see a hand that comes out of a cloud. This is basically the divine blessing that you are receiving. Divine blessing. And when this divine blessings come into your life, it only gives you success, it only gives you good news. So you can also write that all the aces are the magicians. But challenges will have to be there. Up and downs, immature energy, life. You are trained, you are experienced, your knowledge. All of the challenges you have already seen up and downs. So this is a magic magician beginning where all your trouble comes to an end. Now, because all the aces are always about new beginning. But what you desire can be different. In the ace of one, you desire to have something that is creative, that is more you're passionate about, that is more you're physically active about, and that is more you have energy too. How many of you will agree that when we like doing something, energy automatically. And when we don't like doing something, you feel lazy to do it often I give this example to everybody that I don't like cooking. So whenever I'm cooking in the kitchen, probably I'm very lazy to Do I do it? But I would not feel that energy within me. I would like to, even if I'm tired, I have to decorate my house, I'll have a lot of energy. So it is upon something that you follow with passion, gives you the energy. And that action where you have a lot of physical level of energy to do that action. Is that clear? So you are driving to some career that you're passionate about that will give you success, that will give you to learn something more creative. That can also involve travel. Because initially also I said the keyword is travel. Everybody clear. So you see this hand is coming out and holds a wand. The fire within you, the action that you're ready to take. If you see there's a lot of light around it. This light is the energy that this wand is bringing into your life, the clarity, the wisdom that you desire. And with that clarity, even if your action is impulsive, you know, because I always say that fire element is a sostha ni Karl, you know, and once they decide something, they just jump into it. They don't think. But if they're in the right energy, they know what they are doing. Because again, write down. Because their intuition is strong. So when you are in a positive side, fire energy has a lot of intuition which drives them to take the right action, even if it is not thought yet. So in this card you could be starting a career, a job, a relationship, could be receiving a career, a job or relationship that is going to be only good news for you because you have the clarity, the wisdom, the energy, the action, the right action to which you will get the success in your life. These words that you see coming out the green buds shows the success also is a card of fertility because fire is always attached to sensuality and sexuality in your life. So also this card talks about the fertility that is coming into the conceiving card, the card of birth, the card of fertility ticket. Clear everybody. And this could also include travel. If the card appears in your life, good news around traveling. What did I tell you about the travel points? You can travel with your family, you can have a good business around traveling in import, export, travel, say benefit clients. Clear. So those good things will attach here in the travel card. Now you can see the reverse card. Now again I'll ask you one thing. Javam fire. There is no action, They end up failing into it. So again, this card shows that the wand is cold and dry. There is no action, no energy firstly, or if there was action, that action has led to failure. An impulsive action which Was very temporary. And eventually you got cold about it. Also that card was about creativity. So this card is about destructive energy, aggression. So that's a destructive energy leads you to failures in life travel. So it's not good for traveling right now because all cold accident, not good for your career. Right. Conceiving, not the good time to conceive. Everybody clear. So clearly in the reverse, you see everything has gone cold and dry. There is no action, there's no energy, there's no creativity. There is impulsive action, wrong action, aggression, ego that leads to failure. Clear? Everybody got the clarity, right? Two of wands. Normally when I say one to two, it's time to meet a partner. Because. Now you probably getting a good partner in your life or business. You can have a partner in your business. So first point is partnership. Second. 2 number is about balancing the two elements or the two things. This balance could be your two job balance, your personal, professional balance, yes or no. Or the balance between two people or two partners also equal, give and take. Respect, contribution, partnership. Both are contributing, both are giving, you know, respect to each other. Not just one partner is doing everything relationship or a business. I'm expanding. Like for example, you know, some of you finish tarot and you let me also learn numerology and let me balance both the careers. I started one business, I can take another franchisee. So in number two, I can also be expanding make sudor you. So number two is also expansion, balance, clarity, choices. A number two also bring choices. You need to choose one, two numbers about choices. Now if you're in good energy. What is the word I used before this for the wants only new members. What does wands have? Could take the right decision. This is where I check how much you're listening. Okay, some of you who are writing intuition is the right answer. How do you drive? What is the right decision for you? Creativity. Okay, Clarity. I can take creativity. Obviously the intuition they have. So if in number two they have to make a choice, what do they follow? They follow their intuition. Are we clear? And because of the intuition, they know what is the right decision. So balance partnership choices with clarity followed by intuition. All these points came in. So if you see there is a person who is standing and holding a wand, holding a globe. Now what does a globe mean? It is about knowledge. In principal's office it talks about knowledge. And generally we see the globe when we have to travel. Like there was a time when we used to look at the globe to travel country. So two points. Knowledge and travel. Here you see that one won't stand, you know, ahead of him, the other is on his back. Now you're moving to the next with that knowledge, with that clarity. And while you're moving to the second, this could again include travel. Or you might have to add knowledge to reach the second point. What does it mean today if I say I need promotion, I might have to give an exam. Or if I say I need to move from one to two, could better RNA life, so I might have to study. So sometimes in some cases you have to expand with knowledge. And maybe some exams or studies could be. I'm giving you many pointers. Application is different. So knowledge can be interpreted like this also. Okay, if you see the key meanings, talks about the plans, the partnership and the influence. The young man holds a globe in his right hand and the wand in his left. These symbols offer us a meaning of extension. I just say expansion of looking into the future. The purple mountains are for goals and intuition. A small ribbon is tied at its base to signify that his wand or part of his project is complete. He's done half his work, he's moving to the next. The roses represent passion, lilies represent purity, and the cross is for the faith. Too many things covered. Right, let's move on. So as I said, if you see. Again, he's standing and looking ahead. Now write down in your notebook all the water in the wands represent travel. Because water can also represent emotion. But not in the wands. Wands are not emotionally driven. They are very, very ambitious. They're very, very focused. They are not emotional right now. Okay? So success will come through traveling. That's another point. And he looks ahead because he's planning ahead, right? He's focusing at how can he grow, how can he expand. So as I said, this is a card of partnership. This is a card of decision making with clarity and following your intuition. There's a card of two people in a relationship where there's equal give and take, balance, respect, like the lovers. There's a card of traveling, expanding your knowledge, expanding your business. In the number two, there's a card of balancing your job, balancing whatever you have in your hand, your personal, professional life or your relationships. All in all, it is a lovely card, which, again, comes with action, creativity and physical energy. I can only expand if I am having a lot of energy. If I don't have energy, I'd say I'm tired of doing only one yes or no. And I'm enjoying what I do. And I'm ready to expand and learn more and more clear. So that is the two of wands, as you see the card here. As I said earlier also. Again, remember the child who got that fear that whatever I do, I fail. So he went into non action mode. He got stressed, he got feared. Or that child who became rebellious, started doing things with kind of impulsive, moody and destructive energy and landed himself into trouble every time. The two categories. But total loss, totally failing. No energy, no action. Impulsive action, destructive action, no creativity. Or you're not able to focus. You know, when we are in the dark side, we can't be creative. We can't focus on a creative energy also. And your intuitions get blocked. So you end up taking wrong decisions. So whether it's a partner, right? Whether it's a partner who is wrong or whether. One second. What happened to my zone, Sir? I don't know. I got logged out from zoom or what? I don't know. Come here quick. I'm so sorry. I felt like I was locked out. Couldn't see the screen only. I think my screen also closed it. Okay, sorry about that. You all can hear me, right? Thank you. I couldn't see the screen only. It was all logged out from my. Great. Okay. This is how you're. You know when you're in a flow and it just breaks because of this. Thank you. All right, so as I said, your creativity gets blocked and so you become destructive. Now in a partnership, you end up taking wrong decision, which means wrong partners. All of you can see my screen. Wrong partners. Okay, you know what? Swami is going to tell. Something is really wrong with my light. Can you give me a second? I don't see the screen with all of it. I can't see it. That's what I'm saying. Something is on my computer. Okay, finally. Now I can see. Sorry about that. Okay, so again, when you end up taking wrong decision, you end up choosing wrong partners. Whether that's in business or that's in relationship. Is that clear? Leads to a disbalanced relationship. A relationship does not offer you equality, respect and equal contribution. So you feel more exhausted. You are the only one doing everything. Your partner is not doing it. Or maybe you are getting egoistic, dominating and controlling. Or your partner is getting dominating and controlling. There is no respect. Where is this point coming from? I just said the sun energy, which could get dominating at the same time. Clear everybody. So one can be driven by ego to which your partners are not going in the right direction. Everybody clear. So partnership, big no balance, clarity, Wrong decisions are playing. Either you will not be able to do it or everything you do will be failing. Clear? Now moving on to the three of wands. Now what happens? Three is like. In a relationship. Can it be marriage, engagement? In a marriage, it could be child. And in a partnership, it could mean a third partner. So write down again. First is in a partnership, it means a third partner entry. They are moving from two to three. Third partner in a relationship, it could take you to marriage or engagement. And if you're married, this card is all about the addition of a child. You're expanding also. Can it. Can it mean like we are doing multiple business? Because so in three, can we say we are doing multiple things and multiple business. We are expanding all the new members. Are you all with me in one business, we are expanding, maybe multiple. Now I'm doing three business together. I'm doing numerology, tarot, vastu, all of this together. Why? Because I want to expand, I want to grow. I'm ambitious and I have a futuristic point of view which will take me to success because of doing multiple things. Do you get my point? Why do we do multiple things? Because that clarity is there. These multiple things will take me to success in the future. Also, when I'm already doing multiple things, can I say three number in my career is about getting a reward or a promotion. So in three number, we could also get promotion or reward. The good part. So three number says that when things probably needs to be more balanced between the two, the three enters or the third person enters to create better clarity and balance. So, for example, in a relationship, you enter your families to take you to marriage and engagement. And sometimes to get you more harmony. Here enters a child, yes or no. And similarly, in your office, here enters a mentor who gives you the reward and the promotion for your hard work. Or here enters a mentor who shows you the path of expansion. So three number is a card of mentor, a third person, a third partner. Also, all the threes, all the three in all the wands, in all the aces, all the three in all the suits is all about addition of a child. Are we clear? So so far, empress, very strong card. Then we did the ace of wand today. And this is the third card for the addition of the child. I'm talking about strong cards. The other cards could also be there, but it's the strong cards. The three of wands is also about the addition of a child. Clear? Everybody? Crystal clear. Ticket. So action adventure. The card again. You see this man again, looks ahead. Where he's looking is a water There again, I think colors are Very funny. There's a water down the line. He's standing on a mountain. And he's looking ahead, looking at the water and waiting for his ship to come, waiting for his promotion or reward to come. He's already done a lot of hard work, balanced creativity, and now he wants that he should get the results which he will get. The ships are coming on his way. Clear. Now, when he stands there again, as I've already clarified, two decisions have been taken. He moves a third, which gives him a growth, expansion, reward, promotion. Also looking at the water, this could include travel or could be travel benefits that he can achieve or receive. This is a card of mentors who can give you the guidance or take you to the expansion. There's a card of children, a card of marriage, a card of engagement, and a card of multiple business. As I just said, all in all, it is a great card. You have a lot of energy, you have a lot of creativity. I keep adding the word creative. So if you have a question, like my client is saying, you know what I'm, I really want to do learn a lot of things, but I don't know what's the right thing to do. So tell them to do something they're creative about. So that's first point. Third is take help of a mentor. The second point, fourth is maybe you need to travel everybody getting more clarity on how you'll be using these words in a reading. So I keep reminding you, right? And Jabbi, I'm red color. Red color is what? Red color in a positive method. Passion, energy. You are not ego driven. You're passion driven, right? You are action driven, but dark side. You are ego driven and sometimes as a record, addiction. Also, you're addiction driven, to which you end up failing. Clear everybody ticket. So this is a good card. Again, you can all feel the reverse cards, they look dark, dull, they look completely lost, completely failed. There is no energy, there is no action. In the reverse of 2. I say don't go for partnership here. I will say don't go for marriage, don't go for engagement, don't go for a third partner who will create trouble between the two. And if it was about multiple business, can I say this is about multiple challenges? Because you put your hands into too many things for no reason. You are experimenting too many things at the same time with no energy, impulsive decisions, impulsive action that leads to failures in life. Now this could also be, I just said this could also be a card of cheating, interference, influence. So in a relationship, you can say that you know your partner start cheating on you. Third partner entry or sometimes in law's interference or somebody's influence to which your relationship is getting troubled. Engagement, addition of the child, miscarriage. Not a good time to conceive. Partnership. Big no. Because your third partner will destroy everything for you. Expansion. Don't do that mistake. You're going to put your hands to too many things and destroy everything in your life. There will be multiple challenges. You will have a card of cheating. Travel not good card for traveling. Progress failures. And so good mentors. We will have wrong people who will take you know who will think about their own ego or their own involvement. Like red car is also about when you think about how it can benefit me and not you. So maybe the third person is misguiding you. They're talking about their benefit, not yours. Misleading. Clear. Three is clear. Easy. Now moving on to the four. And some of the cards in tarot are card of marriage. Write down. Sorry. Also some of the cards are card of family. I said marriage. I'm sorry. Card of family. Now what's a family card? Generalized application will be different a little bit. Also what is the meaning of a family card? The first meaning of family card is that you will get support of your family. You will have good relationship with your family. You will follow traditions and respect each other in the family. Or you might be doing everything for your family. All good relationships family with support system and a good card for family. So in some cases you can say that if you're in trouble, check with your family. They will support you. Take help from your family. That is one point. And you will not get support from your family. There are bad relationships with the family, problems in the family, disturbance in the family, influence of the family member, interference of the family member. You get it. Negative influence. Now when I say support, I want to tell you something that you know Harba reading the it can. It can differ at for different people. So if I say okay, Gitanji started a tarot reading and her family do not support her in this journey of time. Is that a big thing? It's a very small thing. Because they don't understand what tarot for them is a fool leaving her job doing tarot and Patani ker. It happens to many. I'm saying yeah. So it's a very small level of support which does not matter. But in cases like somebody is going through divorce or trouble and their family do not seem to support that person or interfere or influence that's bad. Do you get the difference of support system now so we might have to see what kind of support are we seeking in the car. Right? So you got the family card Good time with to spend with the family. Travel card at a good time to travel with the family. All good things will come here in this car. Now, apart from that journal point kebab. We see that these are the two. There are some walls which are decorated. And when a wand is decorated, there's a. There is probably a reason to celebrate. There is a reason to celebrate. There could be already a celebration plan or you can plan and celebrate something. Third karmica marriage, engagement, addition of the child, promotion or with the family. Because they have stood by us. We value them, we respect them. And we want to celebrate with our family, not anybody else. Also, whenever you see property is equal to right now. Stability and security. So property. So their relationship is stable, secured or brings more stability and security because of family. We can also say that when we see a property, the reason of celebration could be buying a property. So maybe they bought a property. So that could be another reason. All in all is your family celebrating and more people joining the celebration. So this card says that maybe you have some reason to celebrate. It's a card of happiness, freedom, creativity, celebration ticket your passionate. The red color and the blue color talks about the truth and the passion you have. Is the number of stability and security. Passion and spontaneity. Now when you see this upright. It talks about a time for reward and opportunity to celebrate and enjoy your rewards. Could also indicate moving into a larger property or buying a property in your work. The talent is appreciated. Could indicate celebration on marriage or promotion or some good news around the family. And most importantly, you will get support from your farm. Question why is I'm described clear? Easy. We're connecting. 1, 2, 3, 4. And we are realizing where we are going. Now what happens in the reverse? The first point is not a good card for the family. Happiness, gratitude, problems, interference, influence, Marriage break promotion. Interference, influence, disharmony. You feel unsupported. Property, stability, disharmony issues. Again, why? Because there were no right actions. They were all destructing actions, impulsive actions, ego played actions in the relationship. I me, myself driven actions in the relationship. Too much aggression, anger, no respect for each other, which is driving to such disharmony. Right? You always have to understand the key elements to which everything is falling down. Clear. Everybody got it? Shallang. Now what happens the Five? The five is always about competition and debates. You see this? Five young men holding a wand shows a symbol of ego. They all have their own Takes on the situation as they are not acting on harmony. Five of wands bring a sense of frustration. Or wants down negative. It was not very positive. Yes or no? You are not picking the wand to succeed in life. You are picking the wand to fight to prove your point, to show ego to disrespect each other. Now literally, you know, you will not say that they are fighting, but it's more like ego fight. I'm not listening to you. I don't respect your opinion. I me, myself, if you see all of them wear different colors, means they all have different opinions and no one wants to accept each other opinion. If you see. So in a relationship this could be people with different opinions or viewpoints creating trouble. How many of you seem like in a house. There could be multiple people and everyone's creating trouble in the relationship. Yes or no. Because they're not talking from their ego. No one wants to adjust, compromise, accept respect others opinion in an office. This could again show very, you know, egoistic competition. There's no respect for each other. There's no, no, you know, point of understanding only argument only, you know, fighting with each other, ego play hair, jealousy, unhealthy travel challenges. This is a card of chaos challenge. Just make sure that you double check your travel documents. Because documentation issues, you will feel that you are unimportant or others, you know, you treat others very unimportant. Misunderstandings. I mean, and this I could also say too many interference in your relationship. Everyone's coming and doing their own thing. You are allowing too many people to play in your relationship with ego and destroying it completely. Clear? Everybody clear. For the first time I want to say wants down is better peaceful Shanti. Because to its reverse I would say at least there is more peace, there is more resolutions. However, I always say it can come from two ways. One, solve Kia. And you said, okay, let's respect each other. Let's take the right action and respect each other and come to a cordial point competition. Fight me. 2. You maybe is a person who said, you know better not to argue. I want peace in my life. I am ready to compromise from the argument to keep the peace or you solve it to keep the peace. But the good point is it looks more solid. Clear everybody. It looks more peaceful. And it takes you to healthy competition. It takes you to people at least respecting each other viewpoints, listening to each other. And also it is about growing together, not alone. Clear everybody. However, as I also said that you could feel like you are weak and you're not doing Anything also. Sometimes also we like. It could be about you're not taking the actions. You're just maintaining the peace and letting let everybody do their roles. Sometimes you are the. You are the person who's a peacemaker in the house. Why? Because you are like. Or maybe sometimes you know, you do you give up on your own respect to bring the peace at house. I am saying the peace is coming. But from where it could be about. Temporary peace was up there. But remember, you still have to, you know, stand up for yours. Or you're like, okay, let us solve it and do it better. Whatever the peace is coming in whatever. Clear now in the 601 is kind of victory, success and marriage. And the car stands for harmony. Also highlights leadership innovations and reveals resilience, the ability to overcome minor obstacles and develop a bigger and higher perspective which is symbolized by the laurel wraith set high on the rider's tall. He's ready to move ahead. Yes or no? We get to the house when we are getting married. So the first point of this card is write down marriage. The second again, let's go back to that era. The Raja has just won a war, is on the horse of victory. The Praja follows him. However, the Raja knows that it is because of the Praja or his knights, the Sanik. He is on the horse today. Yes or no, The Raja leads them. Basically, he is the leader of all these people who follow him. However, he's a good leader who works together with all his followers and is ethical to understand. His actions are what he needs to focus in. Because the people who follow him follow his actions. I made a very good story writing. So card of marriage, promotion, victory Mili. When you're on the horse or it is also a position, right? Upper position. You could have been promoted. You could be somebody boss. You could be senior. You could be a leader. You could be a mentor. However, you have that ethicality that all these people who follow you is because of whom you are on that position today. And so. And that horse, he's also grounded. He's also. He also doesn't have any pride and he's willing to walk on that horse to learn more. He cannot stop people looking up to him. Yes or no. So he's a great leader. He's an ethical leader. So it's a card of marriage promotion leaders who are there to, you know, who are there to lead others. Ethical leaders and people follow them. Who has a lot of respect and who's also willing to learn and grow more. The Gori doesn't stop here. He's also willing to grow more and learn more and achieve more. So the others who follow him can also grow along with him. Is everybody clear? There's also good news coming your way. It talks about the characters of a great leader who leads and, you know, inspire other. It is. It is about deserved success. All of those good things are coming in the card. Clear. Again. Travel. So as I always say in my horses, The first point, no action. He did not have the fire within himself to grow, to succeed, to take people with him to, you know, get that appreciation or reward, victory, promotion. Why? Because often when people are placed in a position, they start leading by ego and not by gratitude. And the moment you get that ego, the universe. Vandana, Good morning. The universe makes sure that you fall down. Go get some water. Yes, Got it. Everybody. So yahape. Victory. You don't have support of the people around you or you do not deserve the support. You are driven by ego. I, me, myself. And when you get a position and you get unethical, arrogant, egoistic, proud, And that's why the failure comes. You're not willing to learn more. You're not willing to, you know, achieve more. It's not like you get something in life and you get. You start celebrating it and you start, you know, And that success get into your head and you forget where you're coming from. You forget the ground, and then eventually you have to fall down and again, Because of ego, because of differences. Clear. So either it will not happen, or if it has happened, there is going to be trouble in the marriage. Clear. And travel. We're just doing four more. 7. It's a card of courage, effort and choices. With both hands on the wand. He uses everything in his power to defend his position. He has great ideas, symbolized by the five buds in his wand. The green dress always symbolizes growth. His position, intention are very clear and he's ready for the challenge. Now, if you see, we are often challenged by the people and the situation. But a true winner is the one who do not give up. Keep fighting, keep doing whatever it takes to reach that position you desire. Yes or no? Because you know, he's really trying hard to put his wand. No one, all of these people, no one is letting him to place his want or he's not finding the right place to place his one. And that is how life challenges of life. Position. But if you keep doing, not talking, okay, there are two kind of people. People talk too much, but do nothing. As I always say, your action speaks louder. Than words. If you keep doing, don't answer them right now. Let them bark. Just keep doing what you have to do. Reach that success point, they will stop talking. So this person, why I like this card is apart from the challenges, if you see his face, he looks very angry also because you know he's trying for so long. But the good part is he's not willing to give up. He's ready in the action mode. He's going to do whatever it takes to reach his position. And he will reach his position. He will have to fight. Whether it's a love he is fighting for, whether it's a career he's fighting for, whether it's a relationship he's fighting for, he need to fight. Don't let those other wands destroy your relationship, your choices, your dreams. Clear everybody. Now what happened in the reverse? He gave up again. Either he never tried. No action, no energy or because you had no clarity, because you were impulsive, you were trying in a wrong place with the wrong people, You will lose your path, yes or no. So whether there's no action or there's impulsive wrong actions, you're with the wrong people. You will get exhausted. You were trying to place yourself in a wrong relationship. What was the trial about? You will get tired and so all in all, you want to lose it completely. Clear everybody. This could also be your inner backer or it is about the actions in the wrong places. Impulsive action, destructive actions that leads to this complete break ticket. So you're going to feel exhausted. Now, eight of wands is the card where you don't see a person. There's no person on the card. So first point, remember I talked about some communication card. Wherever you see the sword, you say communication go right, everybody with me now. So again, eight of wands is a card of communication without the sword. So Everybody write down 8 of wands is equal to communication apart from the swords card. Card may be communication. From the past to the present. Good news, Some good communication because of the effort you did in the past, the good work, the good karma, Hard work. Finally, it could be body of ex boyfriend coming back into your life. It could be a karmic connection or your ex calling you back. There's communication. Karana, good news, good call. Something good is coming your way. Because a good karma and a good hard work in the past. Good news. And again, your pani may be traveling or Hawaii air hair. The air may be traveling. So good card of traveling. Clear the news and travel. And clearly it's a good card. Of movement, traveling, good news, good communication. But all in all, again, I'm carrying good past, present, ex boyfriend coming back is not coming to trouble. Is coming to coming for a good reason. Yes or no? Because both were passed this trouble. Now your ex boyfriend entering your life could be trouble. His intention is to destroy, to manipulate, to create misunderstandings. But here it says, whatever is coming back in your life from the past is only good for you. That's the card. Good communication and a good card of traveling. But what happens in the reverse? It's all bad news or no news. And of course you're getting exhausted. You're like, I've been waiting for this opportunity for so long. Why it's not happening. I've been waiting for this news. It's not coming. Or if you get a call, it's bad news. And similarly present, it's bad news. Communication, miscommunication, misunderstanding, manipulation. Three things, right? So this person coming back to miscreate, misunderstanding, manipulative. So he's coming back to manipulate, do his own thing. Good, bad news, bad communication. You feel exhausted waiting for the news. You feel tired, your hard work is not being delivered. Or maybe you didn't work enough or you didn't do the right karma that you're receiving the bad news here. Clear. Everybody. Easy. Now let's move on to the nine of wands. Clearly, this is a card of defense and strength among eight protective wands. Symbols of resources and responsibilities. He holds a ninth tightly with both his hands like a weapon. His past battles are symbolized by the bandages around his head. Now, if you see he stands with a bandage, A bandage. Now, this could be a physical issue or a mental issue. Physical issue or a oblique mental issue. Right? Physical, physically hurt.

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What will happen? You will become aggressive. You will react like I was at Big boss House. They make people so mad that they start behaving in an aggressive manner. Yes or no? Everyone who watches the big boss, they create that kind of circumstance for you, not the people around you, if you see the drama. So this person needs rest. First point, yes or no. But instead of taking rest, he's continuously doing things. And because of that past, which is healing you, Rest issues. Defensive. He will try to hold something very tightly. He's holding to the past or he's holding to a person, or he's holding to a situation which is not letting go. But how he's holding with aggression, with anger, with hurt. Will that solve him? It shows that he got trust issues, his fear of rejection. That's why he's holding to that situation. He's fearful. He seems to protect his boundary, but you cannot. How are you protecting your boundary when you are yourself very, very offensive about it. You're fighting. You're looking like a angry young man. You're guarding it. You can't guard anything, right? It's like you're telling your girlfriend, stay with me. If you go, I'll. If that person talks to you, I'll kill him. You need to let go. You need to free yourself from that. Thoughts. What is that you need to do? You need to rest. You need to heal. You need to let go. You need to surrender. You need to understand what's will be yours. You can't hold on to it like this. You can't be aggressive. You can't be loud. You can't be, you know, like I always say, over possessive, insecure about your relationship, job, whatever it is, he's not doing it right. Clear everybody. Now again in the reverse I always say either there is no action or there is wrong action. Again, you may be at the mercy of unreasonable boss or demanding children. Try to give too much and receive too less. So again, this card says that. Of taking care of everybody, being protective about everybody. Upright card was showing that he was protective, right? He was guarding everybody. But in the reverse you see he's tired of guarding, he's tired of doing. His body is exhausted. You could also be the one who is inflexible in your own attitude and you don't want to adjust. The reverse card shows issue with the boundaries. It is pointlessly struggling with something not in control. You may also be having health issues, struggling with burnout. So again in the reverse, what's happening is there's no action. Or you try to become this wrong person. You are overreacting for no reason because there is no one surrounding him. It is his own drama he is becoming a part of. Again, why it's happening because the healing never happened. He's lost everything in his life because of those trust issues, of guarding too much, of crossing your boundaries, of not being with the right people, of overreacting over possessive seem to have lost everything in life. And maybe now indicating more health issues, burnout, struggling, not receiving right people in your life, feeling lonely if you feel there's no growth. Upright, he had everything, but how he was dealing with them was not right. Reverse, he doesn't really have anybody. But again, that is also because of his aptitude and he did not know how to deal with people. All in all, both cards talk about healing. Clear Everybody, I know it's a bit difficult, but we'll get to it. 10 of wands is all about too many responsibilities and burdens. A blonde man is striding towards a house he can hardly see. There is an element of desperation here. The 10 of wands suggests the struggle between the grinding work and keeping your dreams alive. It can also represent burdens. Now, I always relate this card with the fact that I can start with the first part of the card where I say, I am a part of it who like to do things on our own. Some of us have this habit of, I do it better. How many of you do that? You. It's not that nobody's burdening you, but you like to recall the burden. You think, I am like a perfect perfectionist and I will not give it to anybody. I do that. What happens next? I get a backache, I spoil my health. Sometimes I'm not able to finish what I had to finish because of doing other things. Yes or no? Because I was asking myself to the level that. So that is the first point. The second point is some of us have a problem of saying no. Like, if somebody comes and say that, even if you have no energy, you don't know how to say no. Even you don't do it. You don't know how to say no. You're like, okay. And then, you know, people around you just keep throwing it on you. Like, I always go back to my childhood when I was like a gachiga. Anybody has under. Understand, understand the word guachiga. Like, I was always lost. So my brother and sister, they would take the benefit of it. So I'm watching a TV or a cereal and I'm g. I'm lost in that cereal. And my brother, sister, having their own banana, will come and give me the chilka and I will go and throw it for him. So most of them will get their work done because I'm lost or I don't know, you know, how to say no because I was the eldest in the house anyway. And sometimes I feel like everybody keep doing it to you because they. You're more. You're more nicer, you're ready to do their things and you don't know how to say no. But it's not right sometimes because you lose your own respect. So in a job, your boss could be giving you multiple tasks. That's not a task. But you don't know how to say no to your boss or take your ground saying, you know, this is not my work, let me finish mine at home. You will feel like nobody's ready to do their own responsibility. You are the only one doing for everybody and that means you have no respect. And so you start losing your health. See, I talked about the physical energy card. What, what health do you lose? Here is the physical energy, Physical level of energy, Health issue. And you will not be able to get the help in email. You are the only one doing everything. It is not good. You think you have to do everything on your wrong. People don't support you. Wrong. You don't know how to say no. Wrong. You don't delegate work. Wrong. This card is all about not delegating, not getting the support or not asking for support. Most of the time we don't even ask. Or not saying no to what's not to be done. This can also say emotional burdens which needs to be shared. You're carrying issues from the past. There's too much on your shoulder. You're losing yourself. There's too much on your shoulder coming from the past and it's going to only destroy you. So it's not a good card. Your bundle of responsibilities, You will not be able to grow, you will not be happy in your home and relationships. Clear. In the nine of wands, I see a bundle of wands which is not taken care of. How many of you seen Office, Office? There's a bundle of files like this and what are they doing with this kind of nothing is done. I always also give one example which is very interesting is like what is Diwali ki Safai? To some people Diwali KE Safai. Like for me is more like maybe I'll get a paint done or I'll get more deep, deeper cleaning for other people. Some of people have seen that. What happens next when you have a bundle of work because you didn't do them on time, now they are overloading. Now you will feel tired, you will not know where to start. And will you do it alone? A big no. So. So if you see why he's sitting alone. This card says you take support, you do what's important, you prioritize, you delegate and you get it done. You've been very lazy about it. Or maybe you had wrong priorities. Bundle of work is there for you. You're piling up your work and you're upset about it. So try to lighten it up. Try to take help. Don't try to be perfect is the word because upright. Also perfectionist. Did you remember hear that? I said my problem is I'm a perfectionist. Take help. Clear everybody. Amazing. How was the session? Enjoy. Easy. Do you think once understanding the element of the wands. Action. No action no energy or impulsive energy or good energy, clarity, intuition, travel. Everything when once understood is so easy to apply in dark side maker online good side. And that's what we do today. And so it becomes very very easy. What's the time? It's 10. Okay, before I take some questions, I will also be teaching you one. One very good spread today. Are you ready for that? So last session I talked about two pious work which will continue for a while. Reason being we still need to understand the cards. We need to connect the two cards and understand how to make stories from two car. But SATs are. We can also start practicing within the family or within the community. Why? Because ultimately we need to start reading. So today I will teaching you one spread which you can use as a reader. All the new members. I hope you're excited to now start learning how can we read. I would like literally take you through the process of reading. Okay, so what is the process is very, very simple. And I want to like always I give an example of a doctor. If anybody wants to leave, you can leave. If you know this, some of you, if you want to stay back, I'll take you through the spread. So supposingly Vandana went to a doctor and Vandana said doctor, I need to get this blood test. What does the doctor say? Will he directly take her? Take her to the blood test or he will talk to her first. So doctor will ask Vandana, why you need a blood test. I have this problem. Doctor will say, since when do you have this problem? One I will say it's been six months. Doctor will say, have you consulted any other doctor or have. Are you on medicine? Mana will say yes or no. Whatever. Okay. Now has doctors understood a case study? And while understanding the case study, he will understand what one exactly need to know or what kind of a test she needs. Yes or no? As a reader, if I also do this case study in the very beginning, then I would know two things. What my client needs and what do I need to ask for my client. As a reader, you don't ask what your client want to ask. Because most of the time your client even do not even know what they want to ask. You'll find them lost or they would have to journalize it. But you need to come to one specific question. So that is how we do as a reader. Let's say Seema, you came to me, ma', am, I want to know about my relationship. Who do you want to know with? You understand my question. You want to know your relationship, Seema, I want to know with my husband. My next question obvious will be how long you guys have been married. She will say six years or newly married. Do you also have children? She will say yes or no. Okay. So what is the problem you're facing currently? See, you are not getting anybody. That's not a patient. Only if you're doing free client, yes or no. So the client has come to you to ask a serious question. So the person comes and say okay. If they want to share, Sima will still ask is there any trouble you have in the marriage right now that you're asking this question? And the client will say yes. This is the problem I'm facing most of them. Some of the women would like to be smart. Why should I tell you? I want you to check for me. We are more smarter than that. Okay. But most people want to share. I know this space is also listening and counseling. They want to share. So you understood the prompt and you said okay, Seema, let me see what's happening in your relationship and how is it moving ahead. And somewhere you have the clarity what's happening that is also there in you. And with that note, with that clear question, you tell Seema, okay, I'm drawing this question for you. That how is your relationship moving forward with your husband? Am I clear? And you ensure that Seema and you me are on the same page. So never be in that place. Be very clear. This is the question I am asking for you. Are we clear? Till now? Now what you do next is of course you close your eyes. You do the small prayer. You shuffle your card. You ask the question. Do you shout and ask or do you say this more inside? Right? Don't shout. Okay. And you ask like maybe two to three times. You know that I've asked enough. Okay. There's no such drill. But you will see the abdosity in my push too. Like I do that. So like how will be my relationship? I will be Sema's relationship with Sprint. And I've asked enough. And I told you what you do. You knock on the doors. 1, 2, 3. Now again I've said some of you can start in the very beginning by knocking. And I have seen that I always knock after our shuffling up to you. Shuffling up to you. I do it naturally. One, two, three. And then with my eyes closed only I'll draw three cards for Seema. How many cards? Why? Because today we are learning a three card spread. What are we learning Three card spread. Now, three card spread have multiple variations. But the variation we are learning is past, present and future. You can write down if you want. The variation we are learning today is the past, the present and the future. So I start keeping them one by 1, 2 and 3. Place here. You can do it left to the right or right to the left, do not matter. You know, the first card you placed was the past. The second card you placed was the present. The third card you placed was the future. Am I clear? Is everybody with me now? Again, why are we doing this Sprint? Because there are two kind of readers. One who tells him, just relax, he is your soulmate. The other will go deep about this in the past and see the Kara says, seema, I see that past. May you guys have an issue around conceiving a child or was. Or I asked hima that passed me, was there any problem around, you know, a child in the family or you were not able to conceive? Sema is not your case. Okay. Don't take it serious. Seriously. Just dipping right now. Okay. And then Seema says, yeah, how do you know? Or was it because she said or either she said, I have children. So was there anything around the children that you were trying to adjust? This marriage was based more on children. And I see that somewhere you were struggling. And when I go into the past, I am able to identify the root cause, where it is coming from. And Seema is able to believe me more that this woman knows. Yes. And while I'm asking Seema, Seema again shared a story with me. So what did I do? I leave a space for question and more clarity from Seema. Do you get it? And Seema gives me more clarity about what happened in the past. Then I move to the present and I say, seema, I see that currently somewhere in your relationship there is this emotional, you know, blockages, burdens, which is coming from the past. And it's, you know, it's coming back and forth. Am I right, Seema? I again put up with a question. What do I do? I say, but I leave a space for a question for Seema to interact. You know, most readers, what they do wrong is they talk, talk, talk. They don't even see if the customer agree. The customer is on the same page. They don't want to talk to the client. They just want to talk as if they are God. They are not God. And if we leave a space to interact with the client, my client will feel safe to share, to discuss, and I have more space to understand. Am I right? So again in the present, I tell Seema with a question. Seema, I see that, you know, he has a lot of emotional blockages. I feel like you are really, really getting into your nerves. Everything is coming from the past. You're bringing it a lot in the relationship. Am I right, Seema? And then Seema starts with another story. Yeah, you know, I'm done with it. I need my time. I'm suffering because of whatever has happened to me in the past. Yes or no? Everybody getting clarity. So when I go counsel again, Seema in the present, now I can probably predict and guide her in the future. Yes or no? Now I will say, okay, Seema, so I see that this is the past which has got you to the present. This is the energy. But I would suggest, Seema, that in the present card, you need healings, you need counseling. I would really recommend that you take help. You let go of what's not working for you. My present will lead me to future or no. So present also I will give a guide and say, past, I have no control. Let bygone be bygone. Presently I have control. I can say, I understand. But if you change your energy, if you shift yourself, if you take help of somebody who can guide you, if you can, you know, take some counseling session, it can help you better. Yes or no? Then I see the future. And I said, see, I see that in the future your relationship can get better if it's a positive card. Okay, let's take a positive situation. As the future card says that you know, you would be able to balance it. You would find more harmony. But again, future card coming with what? With more communication. If that is the car. But you need to communicate more. Because I want to come back to. We are guided reader, not predictive readers. But because this universe only demand prediction. Nobody wants guidance. People want prediction. So we would predict. But along with it, we'll tell them actions is what you need to do. Future concert action, present action and future action both. So you'll be guiding them in the present and future both. Are we clear with this? And if it's a negative card, I warn her. See, Seema, I see that your relationship is getting disturbed. In the future, there are people interfering. I would request you start working now. And also ensure that you know, you talk to your husband. You don't let others interfere. Clear? So everything is prediction plus guidance. Also in the very beginning, what will you do? Will you also see if there's a common symbol, common element, common message. We take a Minute, Take a minute. See all the three cards. Just feel it. See, is there a common connection, common message or anything you are getting from the divine from these three cards? If yes, remember that throughout the reading and tell them if no, then start with the first connected with the second and then take it to the visual I connected. I can't be saying, Seema, you know what, you had a wonderful relationship in the past, but right now it's all messy. So my question is what I have a bad relationship? Your past is why you have a bad relationship. Your present is what are the actions you are taking to amended and your future is what is the outcome? Am I clear? So can I stick to the question? Simplified? This is how you connect your three cards. Reading, You know, family is the first judge. Initially especially you know, so spot. I am a layman, I just want to practice. Can you, can you be there to help me? What we can do for this week, let's say if they want to read for each other like for example Monica writing a team that today I want to do a three car reading for somebody. Anybody interested in exchange of a feedback or in exchange of a reading. One of it can give her a good feedback or a true feedback. Or Richard can do a reading for Monica. Public clear energy exchange is very important. We have to practice this at home or in the community or even on the portal. You can go and say today I want to do a three card reading for few people and I'm a layman, please help me because I know most of like it's okay, they understand but this will help you learn. So taking you to step by step. First probing. Second, understanding the question after probing or framing the right question. Third, praying. Fourth shuffling. Fifth knocking. Six. When you have shuffled with the right question, six, drawing the cards. In this particular spread, we are drawing three. The first card is your past. The second card is your present. The third card is your future. And then what you do next is you take a minute or a moment to undergo through all the three cards. See if there's a common element, a common symbol, a common message that you can receive from the three cars. If yes, you use it in the reading. If no, you start with the past first. Make sure it's all a connected story, you're not going haywire. And past and present, you asked with a question mark, not with confidence so that the person can add more. Or you are on the same page and future is your ball. You don't ask, you say. Clear. Now one more thing that is very important to understand. Please write down your past is starting from yesterday to last three to six months. Timeline only because you understand we keep saying tarot is about the current energy of the person and so it can't go beyond this. It can be maximum, last six months. Are we clear with this? Last six months, your present is what you have right now. Because sometimes I hear you saying, as a hoga present, we teach children, right? Present is what's happening wrong now. Clear. Future is again starting from today. Because I always feel like present energy is also diverting into the future to the next three to six months only. This is for my information, not my client. So if your client is asking a question which is one year down the line or two year down the line, and you're doing a reading for your client, you tell them to check again after six months to see what's the current energy around that question. Because people shift, their choices shift, their energy shift. And so the reading can shift or cannot shift? Both. So you come to me for reading and you say, you know, I'm dating this guy. I say, you know what, he's a nice guy for you. Go ahead. What if after 6 months you are not willing to go ahead? Or what if he doesn't want to continue with you? Something went wrong. But some of the time you tell me, ma', am, energy of the rose. Because some of the clients will just come and say, ma', am, So do not do a reading before three months. Same reading. Because you're talking about energy shift. That's permanent, not temporary. It's a temporary shift. Today I'm angry, tomorrow I'm happy. A temporary shift. But a permanent shift in a relationship or a situation needs time. And so minimum three months is required. So if a client comes to you and asks the same question next day, what do you say is not going to help you? The reading will not be right. You'll be wasting your time and money both. And I don't repeat the same reading, at least for the first three months. I have given you some guidance, some remedies, maybe in the future, and follow it for the next three months and then come back to me, Clear attendance. So what we'll do in the next five minutes, we've done a lot. We'll also go and mark our attendance on the portal. Everybody login, refresh your page, your feed section. If you don't see it, go mark your attendance right now. No eyes open. Keep the eyes closed while you are doing the three cards. See, because I don't want you to be calculated or Drawing your cards. When you keep your eyes closed, your fingers take you to the card, you put it there, you don't see it and you put the next. Sometimes with the eyes open, you want to choose your cards. I want. I want to be in that flow. See, you're a channel. That time you know you're receiving a message from a channel. And the moment you open your eyes, some of you start becoming calculated. This is initially. Also so initially. Now keep the eyes closed, draw the cards and open the eyes. Eventually you can open the eyes initially. I don't want it to be theoretical and calculating. And I see that happens a lot. Both the things are right. But I would like you to do this here, everybody. So while people are marking their attendance, I will also take some questions. So in the coming week, two important things to share. First, two piles. Mentors continue in the groups. Apart from that, if any of them want to take a reading with each other, give them a chance. Like they can just post a requirement in the group that I want to do a reading. Is anybody open? The other person can reply. Go ahead. If you guys want to do three card reading, do it on the portal sometimes. If you want any idea, take a practice thorough. The next news is, I'm not available next week. I'm going out of country. So there'll be no class next Wednesday. This whole week, Saturday and next Saturday I want to practice. And what I want you to use is you can use the complete miljrakana plus the wands. You can separate the four code cards, which we have not done. You will do the court cards later and you can separate the other suits. Oh, sir is saying. Very good. Sir is here. Sorry. Saying next Wednesday we can have the Instagram session. Basics of marketing. He's saying I would take a session on it. Great. So Wednesday we'll have a session with sir, because I'm not around. And he will take an Instagram session. Clear? I'm not there now he's taken over. All right, Chelli, I'll take some questions. Thank you so much. That's okay. Everything is okay, sweetie. Yes. So, Sheila.

Good evening, ma'.

Am. Good evening.

No, why I said with open. Just like that.

Pull it like that. But then be careful. That is okay. See, I said both the process are right. There's nothing wrong with. That's it. Okay.

So next week.

Yes, but sir will be here. Yes. You will see all my post on Instagram.

Yes, yes, definitely. Good evening, ma'.

Am. Thank you. Thank you. Good evening. Yes, Rachna, seeing you after Long. But you're asking me a question. Yeah. So all of them have gone on a copyright along with the decks. So maybe in January you'll get the same notes once. Okay. They'll be on the. I think they'll be uploading on.

Relationship.

When she comes to you just tell her okay, what I'll do, I'll do. I'll draw a guidance card for you.

Third party interference.

Some people are energy suckers. And I would like to block such client. If you ask me, take your call. Either be very firm about telling her. See guys, you are the readers. You are the doctors. Take the lead. Problem is. Hamesha as a leader. The doctor doctor call. I'm sorry, I will not do it with you. If you. If you want to go to any other reader, please do it. If you want me to do your reading, you have to follow what I say. Be form doctor is very firm to say this. He doesn't listen to his patient. He say I've told you this. This is what you need to do sometimes. I'm not saying being rude, being firm. And if she doesn't listen to you, tell her once it for all. Listen, if you want to do your reading, then you have to follow what I see. If she doesn't follow you just say I'm sorry. I will not be doing your reading from here because this reading is not. They go eight questions, same question, three months remedies. Please follow it and then come back. I'll help you with your energy. I'll have the idea what you need to do. I've had one client. That's how I know how it feels. Something just. Just be like progressing. I'm not saying no, don't be kind. But sometimes you're doing wrong to them. Also they are becoming more addictive and dependent on people like you all. See, you are being nice. Some people might just start making money out of her. Counselor say, listen, you are paying me every day. But I am telling you as an ethical leader, it's not good for you. It's not going to help you. Every day you want to live in the same. I can tell you what you can shift, how you can work in your energy. What is it that you need to do in the relationship. But every day I can't do the same reading for you. So be form again. As I said, inform is not being rude. It's putting up your point in the right energy and take charge as the reader. Don't let the client take charge.

Thank you so much, ma'. Am.

Welcome, welcome. Yes, I'll have to remember. Tell me. Now. I remember your case. Yes. Because I told you Vandana that you need to before you move out of the house, take some. You know, you need to have some ground. You don't have the ground to move out. I never said going to get better. I said you need to ensure that you don't take it and you have some ground before you work out this. I say everyone only. Point I should move out. Just say Pale Meraya hanged man or food. Temperance or judgment Moon or hermit death and chariot means. Sorry, they are pointing towards that only he is high time now. But exactly. I told you the same thing. Because you also had some issues. And so be ready to move out. This is generally. I would say that you want one knows. See, I can't. I cannot be on your shoes. Everybody has their own life. So when you have to move out of a relationship of a house, you know, I wouldn't. Don't be me because I was in a very bad shape. I said the two choices you can have be prepared. First, you know, like while you're staying in that house, you're preparing to move out. You're having that financial management. You're trying to be independent, looking for a house, settling down side by side and then moving out. Not like me. Or secondly, I also that because you're also equally. Remember, you can also. But he's such a show, such an audacity the second property. But he's not. I told you that you will have to fight. But the fight should be the right way. How can you expect. Obviously time delay. And she should stay here only. That's what. Many. Of course you do you talk to some lawyers first take their opinions, then only move ahead. Of course not. But again, as the last time I say I don't know your shoes. And that time also things were coming out like Abhimanija Sakti. I have this and that. So you take a call. Practical call, not emotional. Stand your ground, have a lawyer take opinions. What should be the right way to do things? Also like emotionally we do stupidity. And you should be ready to let go of everything.

Then.

You have to fight. They know your weakness. Now that's fine. Yeah, that's what for 40 years showing that weakness. Be smart. Yeah, I'm trying to control that you should not like after so much. How do you have that emotions person. Is that a meaning? Means you can travel for. As said that they used to use pencil colors. The colors were not exactly to. You know, in the form of the card. But there's no meaning to it. Travel for creative purpose. Your travel for something like that. Okay. Any creative work is always on the car. Thank you, ma'.

Am.

Welcome. All the best. Thank you. I'm sure all will be good. Yes. Smriti. Good evening, ma'. Am. How are you? Good evening.

Ma'. Am.

I have a question.

Example. Past, present, future. So usme agar by chance. Same example.

Relationship problems or future.

Death. So my thing is.

How do we ethically say this to the client is a major arcana. It's not prediction, it's guidance. And if it is coming in the reading, it's a. It's a major life situation or a karmic relationship. And I said earlier also death could mean two things. End of a relationship or end of the problem in the relationship. Now how you do it is you need to guide them. Not ripped in the death card. You say that. I see that you know right now you're going to a karmic journey where you need to learn some lessons. In this relationship, you need to let go of the things that are not working for you. You need to allow yourself to heal. You need to be able to understand that whatever is happening is a part of the lesson. A karmic lesson, a past lesson. And you should be willing to let go of what's not working for you. Whether it's the relationship that you have understood by the other cards or whether it's a problem in the relationship. Also, if you get a death card, you can draw another card from the minor and see what will be the minor prediction after the guidance. Okay, Teach, like you can add clarify cards right now. More practice is there. That is a guidance or prediction. What you need to do what is not okay.

But because I've heard this is my first time with tarot. No, no. This is maybe a transformation phase and.

A death of a relationship which she's existing. She's into exist. Like I said, it could mean both of you. It could mean of the relationship that you stayed by the past and the present. Card of the collective reading of the card of the collective energy and the problem of the client. A logical point of view also. Okay, so tarot is what? It's intuition plus logic now?

Yes.

And the logic comes from where? From understanding the problem, the ground. If the person is cheating on you and you are suffering in the relationship, what would you tell her as a person? He will say it's better that you end this relationship. It's him you're suffering there. Why are you begging him in the death? It's a lesson for you. You're blocking your path ahead. But if you say that it's a temporary phase, you know it is some problem, you say that you will have to let go. And those things in your life if you want to work this out. Death could talk about how you need to heal from the past, how you let go the pattern or that situation. So ultimately, why do we do three cards? It was like collective energy of all three cards and the energy of the person and the probing and the understanding of situation. And then my logic plus intuition plus cards, everything collected will answer the you. It will come your way. I'm telling you.

Maybe with practice, ma', am, because.

Yeah, just do it more. It will come your way.

Okay, sure. Thank you.

Yeah. Welcome. Kyra.

Hi. Is it okay if I call you Harpreet? Because you know, in corporate they've really.

I don't have. I don't ask anyone to call me ma'. Am. Please don't put it on me. I am very, very clear with. I'm nobody. You can call me Harpreet. Anything that you're comfortable. Some of you call me Didi, some of you, I have some of them. Some of them, they call me mom. So it is absolutely okay.

Okay. So Harpreet, something like this is happening with me as well where, you know, it's not like I can't read for people. I have that much knowledge now. But people are really forcing me to start early. I don't want to start this early because I want everything to be on my tips.

So. Okay, I think this is one point that I've covered in my classes is like when opportunity comes your way, don't say no.

Yeah, but you know, when you don't have the energy.

See, understand? Okay, maybe right now, I don't know minor, but I know major. Maybe I can't do complete reading, but I can do something. You get my point. Okay, why I'm saying this because somebody is coming to you in a problem. They look up to you, you don't help them, somebody can mislead them, they can. They can be lonely and okay, even if I don't know it all, I can at least give her a guidance from my major. I can talk to her, I can counsel her as a person.

Yeah, that, that's true. I mean, I've studied all the minor and major arcana cards, just doing my revisions again and again and again so that I'm perfecting the art of it.

There's no perfection. Perfectionism is a myth.

Okay, but still you Know, there are people forcing me. My friends force me, and then they pay me also. I mean, and I keep telling them that, no, this is not the right time. I won't be able to do it properly, but they would just not understand. So they'll throw questions and, you know, And then they start throwing questions. And plus, this is happening in my office also. They want me to. So everyone's so excited. They want me to, you know, start a booth somewhere and, you know, have the readings. But I'm telling them that, you know, hold your horses.

So when will it be the perfect time, Cara, is for you?

I think I'll be ready by January 15th.

Like, how did you get to that date?

Because there's a certificate pending from the Golden Dawn Society. Reading. But then till the time I don't perfect that ad because there are so many things I have to read and, you know, I want to be like.

On top of it. That's a corporate. That's a Kyra. And by January, these people will say, thank you, Kyra, I don't need you. Because when I needed you, you said no. And how do I know that? Now you know. Okay, guys, listen. I don't know what your mentor and others have to say. You should never say no to anybody. You can take them through your way of doing it. You can tell them, okay, listen, I don't know reading right now, but what. But I can be a guide. I can help you understand what you need to do currently. What is the energy. You can do something and then if you tell me how I've been perfecting it, it's a myth you are living in. A certification to me is okay. It's great to apply on platforms, but it's not something that's that share that you have knowledge. There are many in the market who has certification, but they have zero knowledge because they're not with the right people. And I know one thing that if I'm teaching you here, I know your knowledge is enough to read because you're ethical and you're willing to help. And your first intention is to help. And you can help without being a reader. Also because you're a human being and the cards share information. You guys have been doing guidance. You can guide them, you know, because when universe opens the door for you and you shut it on their face, eventually you will reach a point when the universe will shut the door for you. I am saying that please understand, perfection is a myth. Till date, I cannot call myself perfect as a coach, as a reader, because I don't believe in perfection. I believe every time I take a class there's so much I learn, there's so much I grow as a person, as a teacher. My students will say, every time I'm teaching here, I'm doing extra, I'm doing something different, different energy. That's how one keeps growing as a person. The more you read Kaira, the more perfect in your own words, you become. You don't become by learning, you become by doing tarot. Okay, I'm going to tell you today, you don't become a good reader by learning. You become a good reader by doing tarot. Put yourself in the fire and burn yourself. You will be the best reader in the market. This is how I started my journey. I was very bad when I started. I'm sorry I keep saying that because my mentor had taught me very less to begin. But I was like, I have no other choice. I lost myself because I had to take care of my finances. And I remember like throughout, through friends and all, everybody started coming to me. And every time I'm doing a reading, I'm having this nervous system, like I don't know what I'm doing, I don't understand a card, I'm going blank, what the hell am I talking? And something like. And that's the energy I would have by reading. And then as I shut up, okay, maybe you're not a good, not a good reader. But I would make sure that my clients and they come to me, they feel open to talk. They are there, you know, to share, I'm there to listen, I'm there to guide, I'm there to counsel because was coming from my experiences and that itself made me satisfied and made them satisfied because I keep saying your intention creates intuition. So the divine watches your action more than your learnings. Okay, so when they remind me that this girl won't genuinely want to help somebody, you will feel that you will automatically become a channel yourself.

Okay.

But do not say no to anybody. Of course you can say that. Okay, maybe I can. I can't do a reading right now, but I can surely look into what the guidance is for you. What can you do to correct your life? Okay, something feeling.

Yeah, maybe I'll plan like a session at my office, you know, but yeah.

Of course you do it at your own time. And convenience. You just don't do randomly. Yeah, somebody comes and says, don't sit with your cards every time there's a right place in the right time to do a reading. Plan it out. Yeah, I'm not saying You. You do it whenever and whenever they ask. He said okay, I'll do it. But I need to be in the right energy. Give me some time. But I'm not doing it because I'm not perfect. You are already creating a mindset that they would never come to you. Kyle. You're showing them that you're not good. And the more you do it are more experienced and the more perfect again. I would really hate the word perfect you become in life.

Okay.

Yeah.

Experience does matter. I. I don't.

Experience comes from practical ground and learning grounds certifications. Star. I mean very honest with you as a teacher. At least I talk real start it. The only way to learn is to put yourself in the fire.

Okay.

Because that's what I did. And today I stuck with that experience. And nobody can beat me there. I had the toughest ground to walk and I walked with clarity, with confidence. It's how I speak. So why should I not help somebody? True that.

You know, I'm a Sagittarian. I focus on.

That's why the perfection coming now. But it's. It's the wrong way to get out of it. Okay. I don't do that anymore. You know, I know where it's coming from.

Yeah. Okay. I'll. I'll also need some guidance on, you.

Know.

How to open my shop.

Shop. That's what sir said. He'll be taking a class next Wednesday on the marketing stuff. Right? Yeah. As you asked for happening now. Universe has heard you all.

Yeah, true. Totally.

Just. Just be open. Don't close your doors.

Okay. Sure. I'll do that.

All the best.

Thank you.

You are such a lovely team. Mentors. Just start doing it. You'll have so much guidance coming from each one of them.

Yeah. I can take help from the community also.

Yes. Put it on the portal. What's the right way to, you know, do the reading. Or if you want to have a stall, you can take more guidance on the portal. And of course you know. So I will be teaching you to the marketing Check with him next class. How can I do it? If you plan on it.

Yep.

But just start and say you. I've already set the expectation that I don't know much. Just be on it. But do it.

Okay.

And you'll be surprised with the way they'll be satisfied with your reading. Will give you more confidence that I can do it. Right now you're just doubting yourself for no reason.

I'm not doubting about the knowledge. I have the knowledge. I have the knowledge from astrology. Also so tarot astrology but it's just that I don't want to guide anybody Wrong.

As long as you don't predict anyone you are never wrong good guy. Don't predict don't make people feel like there's nothing they can do. Yeah and guidance we all can give. Yeah as I said we also apply logic. You know we all have our own experiences to guide so many people.

Yeah that's true.

So just be there and again if you have the clear intention of helping now then remember you are just a channel don't think so much about yourself here it will automatically come your way and the right okay yeah all the best Kyra everybody write msty Kaira and I'm sure once you hit the road you'll be good at it Call out.

Thank you harpreet thank you so much.

All right survey I'm sorry I'm dealing with such a bad throat and talking to you like this no ma' am.

Actually I'm so happy I got this opportunity today because I don't know if you remember but I had spoken to you when our professional and master's class was there I had shared my side of story but ma' am first of all I feel so lucky to be sharing the birth month with you and sir I messaged you I continuously keep messaging you on instagram so my birthday is also there on 29th of December and I felt so lucky yes yes and ma' am I just wanted to share key whenever when I joined your course after the professional course itself.

You.

Won'T believe many next day reading should be without any. Confidence so I started and first they say I got so many clients or was of both interested 80 to 90% they could relate to or even you told us confusion you start with the major so many majors. Five to six readings but people were happy they could relate it so I just ma' am thank you for building that confidence. Monthly average 10.5 Keta Germany 10 hours of working shift so I work management analyst and I have a toddler also but rose confidence and I should like it should keep coming to me but last month said there is a break because of some issues so many cheesy learn curio then again I'll start it but ma' am truly want to thank you and sir I think I want.

To thank you for following my instruction I think that's what I'm tell Kara don't stop yourself you know just keep going how many of you know Jasmine? She continues to say this which I didn't Ought to say is that I just did foundation with ma' am. Three days, five days, I think. And I started my tarot reading from foundation. And I tell her, shaddha, don't say that. I know I teach enough. And people say, okay, foundation is enough because I teach a lot even in the foundation. But because she had the need to start. The reason to start the fire to start. She started from the very foundation. And today you all know she's a successful reader and a very popular reader in J and K. So there is no point of starting. The reason is why are you doing this? How urgent it is for you? Like for me also it was very urgent. And I'm glad. I'm. I'm telling you that I had the toughest of people taking readings with me. I keep talking about how I had this tough client who was totally mad. What is this girl feeling about me? Then this girl feeling about me, Then my wife feeling about. I like you mad. I still remember I used to do it. Why? Because I wanted money. You know, I had you guys maybe don't need it. And I couldn't refuse earning that money because this was needed. And I kept doing it. I'm very. I'm still grateful to this guy because. Because of the tough ground I went through with him. Look where I am right now. And you will reach. But you will think that one day I will be confident. I'm telling that day is never coming. That I can assure you. Because today you sit with me, you have a community. You can go ahead tomorrow when you not have me or anybody. They were completely lost. And I remember I couldn't ask my mentor, am I doing the right reading you guys to keep asking if everybody sometimes message me also like and ask me also in the classes we could not, You know, like remember those times I couldn't check with her. And then, you know, you have given an exam already. Why would you check exam? Isn't it? You done it? No, leave it. Why? Struggling to know. 80, 90%. And today also those clients don't want to leave me. I'm like now I used to take like 500 for one question. I had so much Vela time that sit with them for one hour, talk to them, enjoy it. Actually I used to enjoy it, But you know, I enjoy talking to my clients for one hour also not checking on the time. They're like, you know, she's always there and she understands me. She's such a good human. And they also know you're not God if they're expecting you to be God. Then you have set up that mindset with them. You know, we just don't project yourself like G. Project yourself like a human being. I'm going to try my best to guide you. And then you see the magic and basically don't think you are more. You know, more than the God. Always remember you are just a channel which has to be grounded and open to receive the message. Then God is not with you. You break that channel so small things and it can change. Surbhi, I'm so proud of you. Thank you. See, another Sagittarius will be doing well. Kara, I'll come back to you. I have some more questions to take. So. All the best. Thank you. Yes. Akshi.

Hi.

Good evening.

Right.

Because you're strict. You know you are. Clear 1. Whether it's karmic or not. Right now it's not karmic right now. It's because you're only doing major. It could have been minor for you.

People who come to us for reading.

So we have to take all 78 cards.

Yes, of course.

If the if major cards are coming.

Then karmic lesson is on. Otherwise. No. There is a normal life routine.

Problematic hair.

But for Hannah, because problematic. Relationship. Difference, we'll be using all 78 cars. Don't go there right now. If you're only using major, you're calling it karmic. You are at a mistake. Ticket clear.

Thank you.

Thank you. Yes, disha.

Hi, ma'.

Am. It's okay. And I think it's going to continue till I tell my. My sister brother. Go back and we have no more parties. And I can really relax. I put on weight. I'm losing my throat. So thankfully she went home today to my mom's house. So I'm like, I'm going to rest.

Okay.

Divine timing.

But.

In fact, yeah. Because this is time. Time is now. Time is always in the present future is a myth. Or you might not have health. I keep saying that to myself, you know. So whenever I plan something. Today I have health, wealth, age, energy. Tomorrow, I don't know. Tomorrow is a myth for me. I don't live. Sorry to say you don't know if you have another breath. Life has become so realistic. People are going. At the age of 45, you're living in a myth thinking one day this will happen. One day I will do this. One day I will fulfill my dream. Are you so sure that you have the day coming for you? Can things get worse? Maybe. Can my health get worse? Maybe. Can my situation be worse? Maybe I Always say what you have is now. How can you make the best out of what you have in the present? And the universe is giving you choices now. If they are sending people to you, that means God trusts you, right? Just understand. You are saying people are coming to you. You're not realizing you've been sent them to you. And then you are like kind of saying no to God. Hello God, I don't have time right now. At divine time you tell me when it is or maybe when I feel I'm perfect. But you will never feel perfect about yourself if you feel that no, I will say that is the day you become the worst reader. Because that's where confidence and ego come in. Overconfidence. Till that I will never be confident about my reading. I will like I will do it but I'll not feel like I am God. And I've said it all right.

The reason was.

So that is a separate thing. Tall and all is your choice. Like I also don't like to go for stalls when I say not for all this marketing gimmick but if a client or your friend or somebody feels like you can help them should not close the door to them. Stalls and all is an intuitive. I don't know about you guys. For me reading a group is very bad. I. I actually happened to take one stall a long time back. So they had told me they'll be paying me 10,000 for some hours. And there was like a tease or some festival. I had to be there. And I can tell you it was such a rubbish day for me. Because they pay you, the others don't. For them it's free. And then these young girls, they're so irritating. They don't trust you. They just come to blah blah blah and they're just laughing around. You're not taken seriously. You cannot focus. There's so much noise. People are just, you know, on you marketing and such a waste of time and energy. And I promise myself I'm never doing it no matter when I've paid. When there's one thing I know that okay even if I'm paid but I'm not to deliver my best. I'm not able to help. I will not. It's pretty simple. So that is a separate call Disha. I leave that choice to all of you and stalls me. So that is why that is fine. Like divine power.

But I don't know.

Am I just doing for the money.

Or I don't know.

See it is very simple is nothing is wrong. And I cannot fill somebody's you know bucket if I am not full and I will have to look at my challenges and glad that I had those that made me start something like this. There's a difference between need and greed and need is never wrong. We all have needs and if out of that need ultimately so I said I take 500 from one client but I give them one hour. I am also satisfying my need which is mirror financial stress But I'm giving them more than what they have paid me because my higher intentions to also help them. So both is getting satisfied now. Am I clear? Disha money is important because if I have money I can help more. If my bucket is full I can fill more. Yes or no she do charity from that money. Why is she doing charity? Because she's earning from Taruna. Word. Say I'm doing nothing. I'm a part of this because the divine has chosen me. Yeah, exactly. And if I didn't have these challenges, I would not have done it. Some of people are lucky. Time. Because while thinking about yourself, you're also helping others. Thank God that situation came in my life that I took this more seriously and not just let it go.

Exactly.

So cut this thought every time you have this. Thank you so much ma'. Am.

Exactly.

And one more thing I would like to share to be very honest. Is it so. Degree receiving. Two into one is equals to two. Exactly. And it takes time to bring that connection. By the way, Abhiyam Jasmine reference I think you know how popular is Jasmine in JK and she was an engineer from Engineer Engineering if I'm not wrong PhD. So from PhD to now a spiritual guide and she is very popular. And Disha I think you have a good inspiration.

Yeah.

Each other, you know both of you thinking like that. Yeah. Okay. Thank you very happy. Okay K.

Okay. My last question is since we are in the era of AI.

We you.

Know there's a not lot of negativity that we get.

I would want a human touch which is emotional, empathetic, good listener understand my pain guides me in the right direction and not an AI touch which is robotic has no heart. Just reading from some signs and not giving me yes, very very good intuition is missing. I am sorry. To each his own. I would say please go ahead. We reached a point where these all these platforms especially AstroTalk had taken over and I remember somebody coming to me and saying Arimato Sorapiki reading Karthiya Kuler I said please go ahead. Please go ahead so you don't have to worry about it. Let me tell you just the doctors. Be confident. AI doctors. Emotional, heart to heart, intuitive job. Every healer, every reader, every doctor. You cannot be replaced by AI. Everyone can be. We cannot be. Because this is a journey of emotional intuition. So. Yes.

So then we should just reject them. And you know.

Will the AI give you personal touch? Will they listen to you? Will they connect with the intuition? Do they have intuition? No. Right? Rest is your choice. Please go ahead. Never be worried about what people have to come. It's their problem.

And I'm very interested about people from Jammu here.

Jammu are more interested in Tarot. Because of Jasmine has left a mark. So go all out. They know about it. Jammu did not know much about Tarot. He should be grateful to Jasmine who has, you know, take this bigger and they all know about it right now.

Okay. So I'd really like to connect to.

Jasmine once Jasmine is out of country. Now married in Australia. Disha, please share your number. Both of you can connect.

Yeah. Yes, yes please.

All right. Thank you. Kara Sumedha. Hi ma'.

Am. How are you?

Good, good. My school, losing my voice again. Going back to the same.

One thing I would like to share. My daughter also shares the same birthday month with you all. Tomorrow is her birthday.

18Th.

18Th. She will be 13.

Boy, you know all size aliens here now.

Yeah, my one is rigid.

I just said a mess to handle. Sajis are a mess. Very, very difficult.

He slept and he didn't wake up. And he was just 40 and he didn't wake up.

And we were like, yeah.

Is it possible?

We have to be more logical now. I'm not sure you should be scared. But you should thank God for every day you're given, every breath you are given. And make the best out of it. Because Karam is the biggest dharma right now. And maybe you will survive out of your good karma. So keep doing whatever best you can in this life. Because this is. What is. This is not the first time so many people died here.

So many.

Even I lost two person in my families. One of the friend, she lost her husband and her father in law both at the same time. Then my son, he had a teacher. She was pregnant. Very nicely girl, you know. She lost her life with the child. Because during pregnancy time is so bad. I still remember. I think. They're still guilty also. I feel like some of the people are guilty because they couldn't do much. That's the thing today, looking around, you should be just grateful you have another day. So true. I always say thank you first thing. The first gratitude that you should Be writing every morning in your diary, another chance to live my life, to fulfill my dreams, and to live my higher purpose of life. And then you think one day you will do it.

No day will come.

My husband always.

I will go to gym on Monday. Your Monday will never come.

Please. Soon.

Never comes.

No. And that regret stays. That's why. See, this is what. What hit me a lot. And I think after my first marriage, only I had realized and I, you know, I literally started pushing myself to the limit. And even if I have to fight, beg, do whatever, I would still do whatever I wanted. And I literally had to do that because I just started feeling I don't know how long I would live. And what I have is now, and I better start making the best out of what I have. And to be honest, if I look back now, I feel very, you know, complete or content with my life as of now, that if I have to go, I will have no regrets that I didn't do this or I didn't do that. This is how you should be living your life right now. That there should be contentment. I'm very happy with my life, but I'm not scared to go. In fact, I always tell my husband, I want a short life, but healthy. But of course, you know, But after that, I'm good to. Good to go. In fact, happy to go. Because the more you live on this earth, there is so much karma. You have to keep reflecting.

So troublesome.

I don't know.

He always wanted. And he did.

Literally.

He was like on the tut of. That's a combination of. And that moment he just said, wow.

Somewhat like my mom, like, depend on. I think.

Yeah, he was healthy, but.

He always say, that's okay. Exactly. I'm telling you, do the good karma. God will listen. Our intention will be heard. But karma, Maybe you have just four days to live that karma. Or maybe you have one month to live that karma. I hope everyone has a good life. I'm not saying, but let's be realistic. Yes or no. And of course, make sure that you enjoy your life completely. And there is no regret. And there should be no guilt when you're living your dreams. Don't live with guilt. You always have to get, oh, I'm not able to give time to my children or. And you don't have to blame them because of you. I didn't do it. No, because of yourself. You did not do it. So stop that cribbing. It's your fault. You were so emotionally, you know, addicted to your children that you wanted to be around them and you didn't live your life. And then you keep blaming them throughout your life. I've seen the old parents, especially they do that now. We are more evolved. So that is what we really need to learn. Learn to do everything in life. There should be no regret then to understand the span is getting smaller. In terms of health also, like today, I see my energy has changed so much, you know.

At heart.

So do it now. Some of you are younger. Do it. Some of you old here. Not too late.

Thank you.

That's my life.

I have read everything.

Age has nothing to do with experience. How much you have seen in that short span of life matters. And what have you learned from that life? Some of the people might have seen a lot, but they have not learned a lot. So it is not the age, it is the calculative. And of course we all have it. That's why we are here. So there's always the right time of your healing. Then it will get dark. But the universe want you to heal. I think it'll be good for you. Because we keep fighting it now. Like, because we have to fight it for our children, for our family, for the life challenges. Sometimes we are so busy just, you know, running around down that we don't even look what we need to heal. And then you reach a point where you just start coming to the surface and then it gets terrible. Then you become the bad person, by the way. Huh? Because when you then vent it out, you are the worst person on the earth. Nobody wants to understand where this is coming from. They just hear you. They just feel you are a bad person and they don't want to understand why. So I think the earlier you realize and you start healing yourself, it is better. And the later you realize it is so tough to heal. And then you are like already, you know, Disturbing. Time for the fire signs. Just a warning. Just keep your ego or anger down.

Even everyone is having some ego problems right now.

Ego or aggression are anger Arabic? I don't know.

By the year end, maybe.

Sagittarius, Aries and Leo. Anna, am I right?

Yes, ma'.

Am. So these all people have to be really, really careful.

My daughter is Sagittarius and she is.

I'm seeing disturbing children for the firesides end of the year in terms of Kivo, both energy, both highlighted. So it's okay. We can control it. Some of you can do it. Just be careful.

Unnecessary anger. Unnecessary anger. From the beginning of December only she is having such issues.

I have just. My mom was Here I had a fight with her, Ravidodhan Bali and Mary mom is more like, you know, it's like one month more than that. And then, you know, I get into that guilt space. See, ultimately, because she's not going to talk to me. She's gone. She's already told me never to call her back. Oh, she gets into that level. She's also number one. I'm also number one. Head on. And then, you know, my apology is a waste. And then what I'm upset about is we are going on a trip. My sister and brother are here, and I know whole drama is going to happen in the trip. And I'm feeling, why did I go there? Ma', am, where are you going? Vietnam.

Beautiful city. I've been there.

I hope it's going to be peaceful with all of them. That's my only worry. But, yeah. And since they started talking about it, of course I got upset. Because. From a good conversation in terms of I'm going to stop the recording, it was. It was in terms of. To which, you know, she has this habit of. Your mother was like this. She used to have this guy that. And then, you know, it all started from a joke. And then I, of course, I said, you don't remember what kind of a life we had was our father and how you used to support him and not us? So here also feeling like I'm blaming her again. And then to how you left my house that day. So I said, you remember what you did? And then to what? And I started getting upset, aggression. And then she just suddenly got up and never coming back, never talked to me. It was. It was a matter of seconds. My sister was like, I could also not understand from where we reached where. And then now I'm like, yes, today I was talking to somebody, same thing. Then I asked myself, was there something going on with Sagis or what? She said, yeah, right now, everyone's energy is very hyped, so that's how you are to go through this. And I am a very karma person. So even if I think that there are some wrongs, I feel like I shouldn't be doing it. Because at the end of the day, she is my mother and I'm doing a wrong. Karma by hurting her is my energy. Even if I know there are things that she's wrong at, and I know that my anger is justified. I also understand she is my mother, and as a karma, I'm doing well. And then I'm like, I'm really trying hard to apologize. Because that's how I am with my son also like I understand we all have those emotional outbursts. But my mom, by being my mom, it's next to impossible to talk to. She's going to keep it for a while now. And you're like, you know, it's your sorry is a waste. She's going to do more of it. But that's life. For the very first time on my birthday I was with my complete family. After a really long time. They are both in Canada. This time they were all here. I was so happy that we are all together. And the first time even my son had gone out on my birthday. First time we had a family picture and I was feeling so happy. And my mom also posted this picture of the family together that these are the people who call me mom. I am quite strong about like I'm like I don't hurt it. Especially my mother.

Everything will be fine now by the.

End parcel of life. I live with it for so many years. I'm happy. Yesterday we had a wonderful time. I'm always enjoying. I. I still do again I said even in this situation I'm going to make the maximum of my trip. I'm going to live my life to the fullest. At no point I would let it go for anybody in my life. Because my life was precious. I work hard, I do everything to create the life I want. So whatever she want to do, she can go ahead. I'm still going to enjoy and make the best out of my dream.

I told myself she will also enjoy with you.

Ma'. Am. I'm telling you it's her life. It's my life. I know how difficult it was before me to really reach this point to enjoy. I'll do everything to do it. You are connected with somebody. There's going to be problems. Yes or no problem. Natural level. So that's okay. Hurt is also out of emotion. I understand. Aggression is also also out of emotion. She doesn't understand. I understand but I and that she would not like anyone shouting at her. How can you? My son shouts. I like it. Of course I tell him I do. Sometimes I do don't talk to him for a day. Then he comes to me. There are two kind. You can live your life unless play the ego game and somewhere you will be the one suffering. Nobody else have you seen that or like you're not keeping your respect. And I do that. Whether it's my son, my husband or anybody. Even I do so many mistakes. But life is all about forgiving, letting go, living. You have A small life. Sort it out. Sort out. A break. So right now I'm in a break mode with her. But I'm sure it's going to be fine. Sorry I shared with all of you. Thank you. Thank you. No, I'm fine. It's just that. We all want it.

Hello ma'.

Am. Good evening.

I was thinking.

So what do you suggest? Free reading. Or you can say the first question for 100 after that we'll take this. You can give one plus one today I will take one question for this and second question free. You'll get the right client. Specific number. I've said this many times, you are the brand. Not your brand.

Sorry.

Brand name is not important. Your name is important. You are the brand. People remember you, not your brand name. If you want to keep Divine Whisper, say Divine Whistle is by N. People should know you own it name. Your name is important. Context of the name. Don't let it go at any cost. Chicken. Thank you. Yes, Kairo.

So I just wanted to like raise a point where you were talking about your mother and you know she's also Sagittarian. I believe those Sagittarians are like in general very forgiving, you know, by nature depends.

And then we are number ones. Number ones also driven by ego. See again I. I taught you the dark side and the good side of every character. Yeah, the good side is there. The dark side comes from the subconscious issues. Where are they coming from? The experiences they have had with each other. And me and my mom did not have a very good relationship.

Okay.

Because of the way she did not support me or things went like it must have been right for her to handle it in that way. But it went did not go wrong, right for me now I had to struggle because of her. And then if you only talk about your struggle and you don't understand mine, so obviously I will get upset and then she can't take it. Yeah, to each his own. Again I'm saying everybody has a good and bad side. Both. It's not about one, it's not about Saji, it's not about anybody. But your bad is also coming at the subconscious level and conscious level. Because it was never healed. Problem with the older generation is they don't like to talk. They never like to say sorry.

Yeah. My mother in law for instance.

And why do the old generation think that they are the best parents in the world? We all do mistake at best parents because we are also human being today. Me as a parent understand that it was my fault if my son is not Emotionally at the right place. It is my gin. But if you see earlier parents, they think they have done so much for you and they're so rigid to accept I did anything wrong. And they're always thinking that why am I being blamed? And they come to this ego shame. Yeah, but you don't want to serve them. No.

Yeah, but here what happens is, you know, the fight happens with my husband and I'm the third wheel. So it automatically comes to me. So then the fight is between me.

And my mil and later mother in law. Nothing to do with Sagittarius. It has to do with the. But the title that you have. And it's difficult in a lot of houses. That's what I mean.

So then their fight gets resolved but mine doesn't. And then, you know, I haven't even said anything types.

That's what I'm saying. These are. You have to understand is nothing to do with number, with Sagis, with anybody. It has everything to do with what have you been dealing with from the longest time. And when it comes to the surface, it's very bad. What you just say I'm extremely forgiving, but. Forgiving.

Exactly.

Obviously I'm not going to forgive you. My forgiveness will come very easily if you just come sit next to me and say I didn't mean happened out of anger or you just don't, you know, explain. You just say sorry. The problem in most of the relationship is they don't accept. They're ego driven. They think that they will say sorry. They will be small. If you say sorry can end the whole past. Of course you didn't mean it. You didn't have the wrong intention, but you went wrong in it. Why is it such a big thing to realize and even. And you would say that they might have realized and that's where the guilt is. Okay. Every time I start talking, she means I'm pointing at her. This is a guilt. It is covered by ego, not with sorry.

Yeah.

Blaming me. Why you think I'm blaming you? Because there's a guilt. If you understand. Because now I understand psychology. So problems with. Yeah, Kayra, forgiving Achai. I'm very forgiving. But only to the people who realize or willing to change. Sometimes they don't realize, but I see a change in them cordial, they become more softer then I let it go. But even if they repeat that action once again, no that tipping. And I'm at 44 now and I realized that with age you do reach that point when it becomes. And then you're Judged. Forgive Karthiya. And you are like this. This is what she told me and left. I. This is my point where I'm not yet healed.

Right. Are you sure she's the Sagittarian or she's the Leo?

She's a Sagittarius, my mom, you know. 28th of November, number one. Ultimately, okay, I have many shapes of S. My mother in law is also one. But. They can be dominated because see, it's not just sagina, it's your numbers, it's your experiences, it's your, you know, numerology experiences. It's a combination of many things and so people differ.

Yeah.

There's nothing to do with what the other criteria she belongs to. Sorry, I keep saying that. I'm sure some of the people are nice. I think it's better to maintain harmony and stay away from each other. Meatless.

That's a strategy that I have adopted.

Yeah. Because I mean of course I would like to respect everybody. You don't want to get to that point.

Yeah.

Because ultimately it's our karmas also we are building. It's not their karma, it's our. What they are doing is theirs, what I'm doing is mine. And when you understand Karmana, True, that's the only thing. But even if you understand the other person is wrong but you're like, why should you be wrong? Sorry is you should not be afraid, should not be feeling bad if you're doing it for the right people.

Okay.

That has done a lot for me. So I know that all those good things stays with me. It's just that if you'll highlight it past I will get dark. But otherwise I'm very nice to her and I'm very, very grateful to her.

Okay.

It's just that event because I was in depression for one year and when she disconnected with me, she made sure everybody disconnect with me. My brother sister was talking to me. And how she did things I cannot explain the wrong story was not right because in her mind she thought that was right but it was actually very wrong action.

Yeah.

I'm saying everyone's trying to do their best as a mother but sometimes goes wrong. What is the best therapist to accept My intention was right to help, you know.

True. She has ocd.

She's like a child herself talking now Kaira looks like a child herself.

I'm not a child, I'm 34.

Is like a child. I was very young at 30. I'm still young.

I'm also still young.

Yes. Are you talking like a child?

Yeah, I do because Mercury is in sixth house and retrograde also so my.

Mom will not understand all this now so I cannot explain this to her right now. That's it, it's not my fault, it's this retrograde and so I reacted because say you're talking around, she doesn't believe in all this, she will laugh at me so I wish she was like me and she could understand where it's coming from But I think if we have that knowledge we should be more careful so I wanted you to be more careful.

Okay, Just don't get into it, okay.

Sure, sure.

Let it go, good talk.

But yeah, we do that all the time we stay till the end to have such discussions which is great.

Yeah, yeah this is my, I feel.

Like we used to share, this was.

My first time so like good because.

We are a family Kairo and I share with all of you because I don't feel there's anything wrong with it and I wanted to also feel like you can also share each one of you because we want the space to share. Yeah See right now you're a laughing area but if you see outside, people just kind of come with their judgments.

Yeah Isn't it true that that's why.

This is more magical now where we don't have to think before we speak and we can be truly ourselves, Good, bad, both. Yeah, we're just human being. No, we are not God. True, we all do mistakes but as long as we're not doing it intentionally and we realize I think that's enough because we do mistakes, we are on this earth to do mistakes but we are on this earth to learn, correct.

Realize, that's all and then move on.

Of course, yeah, enjoy. Let it go.

Like I was 26.

I got married 23.

Oh, this is your first one, right? Second one, second one, okay.

I had my child at 24 today I don't look like his mother. People tell me, I'm like wow, best feeling like my mother in law is so young on top of it when you have early children now you have a lot of energy and son was born, I was a lot of energy and patience if you ask me now I don't know, I'll be a mess so remember, having children early is a, is a blessing. Okay. People nowadays like they get married late, then they want to have children more late or some of the them they don't want to have only and then struggle wisely conceived. I think I'm happy whatever happened is great. 23, if I had found the right Match I would have got 18 only.

Maybe you should be very proud of yourself because like, you know, the success that you have achieved for yourself is something that you know we are all looking up to you to maybe someday not as good as you, but somewhere.

Around everyone has their own path. Nothing to match each other. And you could be better than me. Way beyond me. It is upon how much are you willing to put in and how much, like I keep saying, are you able to do whatever it takes because I have done this.

Okay.

You should be letting go of these noises, people situations. And you should be willing to work day and night with one thought that I could change my life.

Yeah.

And if I'm sitting here, it's because I kept going. I did not accept my life the way it was. People accept it and then crib about it. Whereas God says you can change if you keep doing whatever it takes. And I'm glad you.

Is your son in 8th house by any chance?

I don't know. I don't do astrology.

Okay.

I have no idea. I don't want to even listen to that right now. But I'm happy and I'm in a happy zone. I'm looking at all good sides. I had a mind blowing birthday. I'm gonna have a mind blowing trip. I don't really care about. See, for me right now, the two people matter is my husband and my child. And I think after a point it sounds hard, but it should be the only two people in your life. Because everybody has a role to pay and limited role to play. The more people you have attached to, the more crisis you're living in. The more drama you have. The less people you are attached to or makes you bothered about it, the more peace you have. I really don't care. Okay. I'm being honest. I'm so happy I'm here with my husband. We are having a good time. I really don't care. I might think for her, but if you ask me, I'm in a very good place. I don't care. So I'm like, if you're going to drive yourself with ego, you're gonna, you're going to hurt yourself. But she's doing. I'm not gonna drive that. I'm ready to apologize. I've apologized to her after that. I cannot beg. I am also 44.

Yeah.

And I know my points were right. Okay. It was not in the right language. She did not take it in the right way. I understand.

Okay. Maybe a passing phase. Things will get better soon.

Yeah. Why you want to have sugar. Then only you enjoy the sweets.

Yeah. True.

True that if it gets too sweet now, then you're like you'll have diabetes.

Yeah.

And then you get very out of pride also. You know, life is bringing back to you to reality that it's good. And I think everything is. Because if I talk about the incidences. This day was planned by the divine. I was. They had gone to my Nana ji's house. I was not going. I like a fool thought to give them a surprise and went to their house. First mistake. When I was to come back alone, I told my sister, brother, I'm going to the mall. Then they thought to join me. Second mistake. Then they were to go back to her house. I called them my hard mistake. Then in my house, I'm telling my mother, go watch TV inside. Why are you sitting with us? Because you're having a drink and enjoying. She didn't go. Fourth mistake. And then talks all about childhood and bring back all those good memories or bad memories come together. Fifth mistake. And because it was all assigned already. I am not at a fault. You know. Of course my reaction is. But this is already aligned to happen.

Yeah. Maybe by God's grace, God's will. It was supposed to happen the way it is happening.

I'm telling you, I'm going back to the incident. So it was not the day it was planned. It kept going unplanned and kept reaching to this point where this happened.

Yeah.

And because maybe it was to happen.

Yeah.

The things you have not any control to. Yes. You have control to your words, which I regret. Because we should have that.

Yeah.

Let me tell you one thing. Have a good relationship with your husband. Don't destroy it for your mother.

Yes.

And communicate well with him. Make him understand. And make him understand he has to be mature, deal with both of you. Not to get get to you because of her or not to get to her also because of umc. Be cordial and stand for what side. Whether it's a mother wrong or you are wrong, you have to stand up and he has to be nice to you always. Because it's husband, my relationship. Others are outsiders.

Yeah.

You allow them, they interfere. You allow them, they have an impact. The day you have a cordial communication with each other and you ensure the peace is within. And you don't let those circumstances impact your relationship. Take charge. Have a mature conversation with him. Tell him not to get into this. And you also start avoiding.

This is a Nikal though. Yeah.

Yeah.

I keep doing that.

If your husband is with you. She should not matter.

Yeah.

You have to have relationship with your husband. Nobody else. Nobody should.

Yeah.

Talk to him.

Yeah. Yeah. If we find time to talk to each other.

You have to find time, take him out, plan it, say I don't know. You have to have time for me. One day you will be crying because of this.

I have already done that. Done there, I mean, been there, done that. Nothing works out. But he's a nice guy. He's a very genuine person.

Person.

He's a Scorpio.

So he had that niceness is not working for you. What do I do with the nice night? I always say nobody has to be bad. Sometimes two people don't get along. My ex husband was. Was a nice guy. I still have respect for him. I don't think about it, but because you're not meant to be with each other, things happen.

Yeah.

And he used to say that sometimes too good people might not be with each other, which is okay. But whatever it should be, it should come out of respect.

Yeah.

And it's better to leave each other and live in peace and then to live in hell and tolerate each other. Even if you're too nice and nice. This is not working. You got to be mature to realize what's important for you right now and how you balance everything. Yeah, Maturity is important. Especially when you are living in a joint family. And that has to come from him, not from you. Because it's his house, his mother and you are also his wife. Yeah. Deal with both of you. He's not dealing it right. That's why the mess is happening. I'm telling you the reality. If he was dealing with this right, his mother was not doing it.

Right.

So you are mature. Talk it out or give them, give him a warning. Whatever. Whatever works for you. I'm a very bad person when it comes to this. So I'm not going to take you there. But you decide. Yeah.

Yeah, we'll do that. We'll do that. Yeah.

All the best, Kyra. Thank you so much. Yes, Richa.

Honestly.

I never shared with anyone. It makes give me the most satisfaction. That is my biggest happiness.

Thank you.

Decided one thing which I've actually realized. Maybe it was throughout your childhood and AJB if you want. And that's such a simple life and simple dream. And I think the best thing. And if you're still doing that now, the child isn't within you who still want to do that small things. So I think, Richa, you are a good human being because of who you are. And that's what I love about you. I want to go. I want to. We also want that same love. I enjoy rain. I enjoy chocolate.

I enjoy ice cream. That is the best thing we can do.

That means you're still in a good space.

Yes.

If you are still doing this, I mean let me tell you the day that is when you need to look back. So you are still in a happy space. Because you still that child. And you find happiness in those small things, not big things. I've waited very long. And those who are doing it from the heart. God is going to fulfill all your dreams. That is all I want to say. Because I know you will reach a point. Sometimes you start losing yourself and that's painful. And when you start losing yourself, everything starts going out of your life. You are the happiest person on the earth if you enjoy small things, not big things. Big things is temporary. Small things are forever. Please don't change. Don't be too available. Don't be too foolish. Be nice, be kind. But to the right people. For your own good. Sir is there, you know that. Thank you ma'. Am. God bless everyone. Write Msty Richa Disha Guys please go. Don't wait. But still ma'.

Am.

Thank you. Entertaining job to be very honest. But competitive. Back beaching. Trust.

Proper.

It's the experience you meet the wrong people to teach you. Yeah, exactly. Like Richard I know has been really fool also sometimes. But then those experiences and I had to tell her Richa, stop being a fool. And I think God just wants to be nice to you. He wanted to know all type of people. Especially when you're emotionally a fool. And sometimes I feel like you meet wrong people for two reasons. Sometimes it is for you also to change. Whether you attract either your kind of people or the people you have to learn from. So there's nothing wrong or right. And if you didn't have them, you would not have valued these people. Exactly. That means. So you will see that they will get the karma in this life only. I want to meet you. But whenever I can guide you, I can counsel you. I keep doing that because ultimately I'll say good. Be emotional. But don't be emotional. Don't be too. So in short, ma' am personally. Just kidding. Thank you for being here till the end. I feel bad that they stay back. But I hope they're enjoying, you know, and not just staying for me and Disha. Just keep going.

Ma'.

Am. Okay ma'.

Am.

Thank you. Bye bye. Welcome. Thank you Shweta. Thank you everybody. I will see you all. All next to next Wednesday. But S will be with you next Wednesday and practice sessions will continue this Saturday and next Saturday also. Good night. Bye bye everyone. Good night.