+1: Heroic Meditation (#1293)

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Hi, this is Brian. Welcome back to another Heroic One. In our last Plus One, we talked about my new heroic mantra meditation practice. Our one word mantra, arete. On the inhale, arete, arete, arete. On the exhale, arete, arete, arete, Repeat. Now, I actually came up with that idea. While rowing, I paused the workout on my old sun to watch, went into the house, grabbed my bat phone that I use for offline deep work mode stuff like this, and wrote that one. Then I got back to my workout and started repeating my mantra. Arete, arete, arete. Today I want to chat about my heroic meditation practice nearly every day. In the 18 plus months after I found it heroic, I meditated for an hour every morning. The connection I felt with my Daimon and our heroic vision has been greatly enhanced. And from the practice, here's the heroic meditation I created. And you can make it work in as little as three minutes. With very rare exceptions, I meditate at the same time every morning right after I get up. I repeat, reduce the variability of your behavior to create sustainable habit change. We linked to a plus one with more wisdom behind that. Now I start each session with breathwork. Then I invite a few of my top heroes to join me and share some wisdom for the day. Then I walk through our virtue compass in my mind. Then I reconnect to our heroic vision. Then I go dominate the day. Let's start with the breathwork. Actually, let's start with our posture, as we discussed in Meditation 101 and our notes on John Kabat Zinn's great book, Wherever you go, there you are. The fastest way to find the right posture is to sit with what he calls dignity. Chest up, chin down, pull a thread through your head. You're poised yet relaxed. In a word, you're sitting with dignity like royalty. That's a brilliant way to invite the best, most heroic and noble version of yourself to the party all day, every day, by the way. Then we take a nice, deep, quiet, relaxing breath in through our nose, down into our bellies, back out through our nose. Slightly longer exhale than inhale. That's the fastest way to flip the switch on our parasympathetic nervous system. Get out of Fight or flight, and connect to our daimons. Now, I practice a version of that breath for a minute or three or 11, depending on the length of my meditation. Then I invite my heroes to join me. I have heroic portraits of 22 of my favorite heroes on my office wall, which is where I meditate. On one wall, I have large portraits of Ralph Waldo Emerson, Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, Steve Jobs, Joseph Campbell and Phil Stuttgart. And I have a heroic portrait of me to remind me to try to live up to the best within myself. On another wall, I have slightly smaller portraits, five columns with three heroes in each column, representing different wisdom, traditions and qualities I aspire to embody. Now, on the far left of that wall, I have Jesus, St. Ignatius and Mother Teresa, representing my Catholic upbringing and a commitment to love in embracing the universal truths of all faith traditions. Then I have Confucius, Epictetus again, and John Wooden, representing my commitment to a disciplined approach to life and the moral charisma that emanates from that integrity. Then I have Aristotle, Viktor Frankl and Abraham Maslow, representing the integration of ancient wisdom and modern science in the form of three intellectual and philosophical heroes of mine. Then I have Alexander the Great, Gandhi and Martin Luther King, representing leaders who embodied soul force in their own idiosyncratic, iconoclastic way. Alexander conquered the impossible in the material world, while Gandhi conquered the impossible in the spiritual and material world. Then I have Eleanor Roosevelt, Winston Churchill, and Dwight D. Eisenhower, representing heroic wartime leaders as symbols of of the internal war between vice and virtue we each must mindfully wage every day. Now I ask a few, or all of them for a pithy piece of wisdom for that day. Emerson tells me to trust myself. And he reminds me to always, always, always do the thing I'm afraid to do. Epictetus tells me to practice my philosophy and to make the choice of Hercules not someday, but today. Aurelius tells me to play my role well and to remember the inner citadel. Jobs tells me to create something insanely great. Here's to the crazy ones. Campbell tells me that we train heroes and reminds me that the demon you can swallow gives you its power. Phil Stutts tells me to conquer the impossible and reminds me that speed is a force. Now, I've connected with those heroes of mine so many times that I can literally hear their voices in my head as I created this +1. Every morning I commit to living in integrity with their wisdom and their example. It's hard to put into words how much I believe this practice has changed my life. The questions for you are who are your heroes? What wisdom would they like to share with you? And would you be a better human being if you consistently reflected on and acted in integrity with those questions and answers? Now, after a quick trip through my heroes, which can take as little as a minute or as long as 11, I reflect on the core virtues of our Virtue Compass. Wisdom, Self Mastery, Courage, Love, Hope, Gratitude, Curiosity and Zest. The first set includes the four cardinal virtues of every major ancient wisdom tradition. The second set includes the virtues modern science says are most highly correlated with with our flourishing. And after silently saying each virtue, I go through the Declaration for each virtue. Wisdom. I know the ultimate game and how to play it well. Self Mastery. I have structural, reactive and expansive discipline. Each virtue and declaration gets its own inhale and exhale. Courage. I'm willing to act in the presence of fear.

Love.

I'm joyful, grateful and encouraging. Hope. I have an inspiring goal. Agency and pathways. Gratitude. I appreciate all the blessings in my life. Curiosity. I pay attention to what's working and what needs work and zest. I dominate my fundamentals so I have heroic energy. Now I can zip through that in a minute or three or take my time and imagine each for 11 minutes. Then I quiet my mind and enjoy the silence and that can last from a minute to 30 minutes. Finally, I imagine a world in which 51% of humanity is flourishing by 2051. I see my soul force at 101 and commit to doing everything I can to help you get your Soul Force to one on one. Then I imagine a million of us getting our soul force to 101 so we can fulfill our mission and change the world one person at a time together. Starting with you and me today.

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