APN14 - Victim vs. Creator
17 Dec 2025 · 0 min
Brian Johnson contrasts victim and creator mindsets. The victim blames and complains; the creator asks "What do I want?" and builds from there. Notice when you slip into victim mode and use that question to shift back.
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Victim versus Creator the difference between optimism and pessimism is really quite simple. It's all about our orientation to the world. In any given moment, we either choose yes, it's a choice an empowering perspective, or a disempowering one. We choose to be victims or we choose to be creators. The trick is to practice noticing when we're slipping into the victim perspective. So how do we catch ourselves? If you're complaining, criticizing, blaming, gossiping, and comparing, you can be pretty sure you're hanging out in Victimland, the unhappiest place on earth. Find the exit by asking yourself a simple question, what do I want? Whereas the victim constantly focuses on all the things that are wrong in their lives, and with everyone else around them, which is really just a reflection of all their inner angst, the creator gets clear on what she wants. So what do you want? Footnote here. Check out the wise little fable called the Power of Ted by David Emerald for more goodness on this. We've got a Philosopher's note on that as well.
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