Get Out of Your Mind: And Into Your Life (Heroic +1 #1,922)
17 Dec 2025 · 5 min
Brian Johnson’s Heroic +1 podcast episode (Get Out of Your Mind: And Into Your Life) reviews and distills core ideas from Stephen Hayes’s Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Johnson summarizes ACT’s evidence base ("over a thousand studies"), Hayes’s personal origin story (panic attacks inspiring ACT), and philosophical influences (Stoicism and Buddhism). He outlines ACT’s three core domains—mindfulness (observer self), acceptance (active embrace of present experience rather than passive resignation), and committed, values-based action—and encourages applying these practices immediately.
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Hi, this is Brian. Welcome back to another heroic plus one. Not too long ago, we chatted about some wisdom from Stephen Hayes and the practical therapeutic modality he created called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT for short. As you may recall, we chatted about the fact that ACT is part of the third wave of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, along with Marsha Linehan's Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Jon Kabat Zinn's Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction. Plus ones we featured included CBT versus act, the Spiderweb of Thoughts and Diffusing from youm Thoughts. Check them out. At the time we released those plus ones, we hadn't released our notes on Hayes's workbook style ACT manual called get out of youf Mind and Into youo Life. Now that the notes are out, check em out. I want to revisit some of my favorite ideas in a series of plus ones. So let's get to work. First, I want to repeat that Acceptance and Commitment Therapy is one of, if not the most proven clinical approaches to dealing with the things that stress you out in life. Over a thousand studies have been conducted on its efficacy. It works. Period. Now let's chat about how it works. Stephen tells us, and I quote, act is not a set of idiomatic phrases and wise sayings that will lead you toward a personal revelation. Although some of the principles of ACT are as old as history, there is one major component of the therapy that is new. ACT is based on a new model of human cognition. This model, he says, underlies specific techniques presented in this book, which are designed to help you change your approach to your problems and the direction in which your life has been going. These techniques fall into three broad categories, mindfulness and acceptance and values Based living. Now that's from the introduction, in which we get a quick overview of act. Here's what you need to know. Hays was inspired to create ACT in response to the panic attacks he was experiencing as a young man, similar to how Marsha Linehan used her own suicidal behaviors as the catalyst and fuel for her creation of dbt. Now, Hayes was deeply influenced by both Stoicism and Buddhism in his creation of act. We talked about cognitive behavioral therapy's connection to Stoicism in Donald Robertson's the Philosophy of cbt, in which we learn how Stoics influenced Aaron Beck. Check out those notes now. Again, ACT is a third wave extension of CBT. So I asked ChatGPT to let me know how Stephen was influenced by stoicism. It told me that he once said, and I quote, stoicism has a clear influence on act, especially in its focus on accepting what is beyond our control and taking committed action based on our values. Both traditions emphasize the importance of living in accordance with one's values and understanding the limits of what we can change. Now. The three categories of ACT include mindfulness, acceptance and values based living. Regarding mindfulness, Stephen tells us mindfulness is a way of observing your experience that has been practiced in the east through various forms of meditation for centuries. Recent research in Western psychology has proven that practicing mindfulness can have notable psychological benefits. Andy says, using specific techniques, you will learn to look at your pain rather than seeing the world from the vantage point of your pain. And that's a very big distinction. We want to look at our pain objectively, mindfully, from an observer self perspective, rather than see the world from the vantage point or through the lens of our pain. Helping us do that is a big part of his book now. Regarding acceptance. He tells us the acceptance and acceptance in commitment therapy is based on the notion that as a rule, trying to get rid of your pain only amplifies it, entangles you further in it and transforms it into something traumatic. Meanwhile, living your life is pushed to the side. And he says acceptance in the sense that is used here is not a nihilistic self defeat. Neither is it tolerating and putting up with your pain. It is very, very different than that. Those heavy, sad, dark forms of acceptance are almost the exact opposite of the active, vital embrace of the moment that we mean now. Regarding commitment and values based living, he tells us when we are caught in a struggle with psychological problems, we often put life on hold, believing that our pain needs to lessen before we can really begin to live again. But what if you could have your life be about what you want it to be about right now, starting this moment? And that's today's plus one. Here's to acting like our best selves by practicing mindfulness acceptance and putting our values in action all day, every day, especially today.
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