Micro Class: The Big 7

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Neil talks about the fact that he studied hundreds of positive psychology studies and he shares with us his personal favorite Big seven studies that are guaranteed to boost your happiness if you consistently engage in them for as little as two weeks. Let's go through them really quickly. One, three walks is what he describes it. This is basically exercise is amazing for you, exercise is as effective as Zoloft. In study after study, three brisk walks, he says, is enough to boost your happiness significantly. If you're not exercising, Tal Ben Shahar tells us it's like taking a depressant. I like to think, imagine those supplements you take or vitamins you take. If you decide you're not going to exercise consistently, imagine popping a depressant. It doesn't make any sense, particularly if you're already feeling a little depressed. The second of the big seven is a 20 minute replay. He says spend 20 minutes replaying, writing down something that was awesome. Researchers call that savoring. It's a big idea. The third big idea is kindness. Did you know that research shows that kindness is the most effective and and quickest way to boost your mood? Do something nice for someone else today and every day. That's a big idea. The fourth of the Big seven is flow. We talk about this all the time, right? You need to match your skills with the challenges. If the challenge is too high and your skills are too low, you're going to feel anxiety. If your skills are too high and the challenge is too low, you're going to feel boredom. You need to match them. That's how you feel. Flow. Getting engaged in activities that generate flow is a big seven idea. On how to boost your happiness. That was actually the fourth one, so we're gonna switch them. The fourth one, which I'm now gonna call the fifth one, is to unplug. We're constantly bombarded with stimulation. We need to make waves again. Tall Ben Shahar, again quoting Tony Schwartz and the powerful engagement tells us that it's not that we work too hard, it's that we don't recover enough. You need to bake in recovery, be on and then be off. You need to unplug. The sixth of the Big seven is a two minute meditation. Meditation as we know and as we discuss in Meditation 101 is huge and you don't need to do it for two hours. Two minute meditation can boost your mood in the gray matter. That helps you focus your attention, which is a great way to boost your mood over the long run. The seventh of his Big seven is five Gratitudes. What are you grateful for? As we've discussed a number of times, doing something as simple as keeping track of five things you're grateful for on a weekly basis will boost your mood by a ton. To Technical Description So there you go. Exercise is good for you. Savoring is wise. Be kind. Get into flow, unplug and make waves. Get into a two minute meditation and practice five Gratitudes. I just heard Emerson yelling for me, so I'm going to go unplug and say hi to him for a bit. Hope you enjoyed which was your favorite one and how can you make it a bigger part of your life today? Get on that. Have an awesome day. See ya. Isn't it a bit odd we went from math to Science to history but somehow missed the class on how to live? For some wacky reason, optimal living 101 never made the schedule. Of course, it's too late to go back and change that and you're too busy to read full time to catch up yet. If you're like us, you're all about optimizing your life and act your potential. So imagine this. Imagine having someone read the best books on optimal living and pulling out the big ideas that can truly change your life. You know those sections you asterisk and underline and mark all up. Then imagine that guy me connecting those ideas to other great books and helping you apply them to your life today. 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