Pressure, Defined: And Used As Fuel for Excellence (Heroic +1 #1864)

Hi, this is Brian. Welcome back to another heroic one. In our last couple ones, we've been spending some time with Dr. Dave Allred and mining some wisdom from his great book, the Pressure Principle. Today we're going to spend some more time with him. Let's get straight to work. We'll start by defining pressure. Then we'll look at his number one tip on how to use it as fuel for excellence. Dave tells us that pressure is, I quote, the interference with the ability to concentrate on a process consciously or subconsciously causing deterioration in technique and decreasing the level of performance. Got it? Then he tells us, and I quote again, if I had to give a high concept appraisal of my coaching philosophy, it would be to rekindle youthful learning and create a no limits mindset. And he says, no matter who you are, the world's number one golfer, a nurse in an overburdened department, Rugby's best goal kicker, or one employee among thousands in a big company, you can always improve at the margins of your performance. You can still get better and you can learn to enjoy and embrace the challenge of improving and celebrate your progress. I love that. I repeat, no matter who you are, you can always improve. And I'll repeat, in my experience, the absolute best are the ones most interested in getting better. Now, the first chapter in the book is all about dealing with anxiety. The number one tip on how to do that. Control your body language and your posture. Dave tells us, and I quote, as we've discussed, when we move into a stressful state, we aren't always consciously aware of it. As we come under increasing levels of pressure, our awareness diminishes and our natural reactions to become more tense and tighter and as a result, our movements become physically smaller. Before we enter into a stressful situation, it is always worth resetting our posture. With a rugby goal kicker, a footballer about to take a penalty, a cricket batsman about to face a delivery, and a golfer lining up a shot. I always make it a part of a player's pre shot routine to set their body shape in the command posture and to make themselves as physically big as possible. I advise anyone in a stressful situation to adopt the same approach. He says command posture involves having the shoulders down and packed with the neck stretched and the chin held in line with the sternum. Despite the title command, think less of a military style standing to attention and more of a trained dancer. Upright, lithe and graceful. You are in control of your situation, not standing to the attention of someone or something else. So after we define pressure and discuss how to deal with it. The first thing we learn is how to take command of our physical presence, which is exactly what Michael and I teach our heroic coaches and the athletes and teams we train via our Flip the Switch protocol. Now, as I read that passage, I thought of some parallel wisdom from a couple of other old school mental toughness peak performance gurus and their books. Timothy Galway and his classic the Inner Game of Tennis and Jim Lore. And in his book Toughness Training for Sports. First Lore In Toughness Training for Sports, he tells us, all great tennis champions have that same walk between points, between their battles that marching soldiers display. Top tough competitors show the same focus, confidence, energy and precision that soldiers do when they walk. No weakness, nothing sloppy, nothing but strength. Tennis champions walk the way soldiers mark to bolster courage and control. I've come to refer to it as the matador Walk. Practice looking and acting the way you want to feel in your performance situations. Doing that pays off in terms of victory in combat for soldiers. It can pay off in terms of victory in competition for you. Now we've got Galway in the inner game of tennis. He tells us, and I quote him asking for qualities describes the other kind of role playing. When introducing this idea, I usually say something like this. Imagine that I am the director of a television series. Knowing that you are an actor that plays tennis, I ask you if you would like to do a bit part as a top flight tennis player. I assure you that you needn't worry about hitting the ball out or into the net because the camera will only be focused on you and will not follow the ball. Now he says, what I'm mainly interested in is that you adopt professional mannerisms and that you swing your racket with super self assurance. Above all, your face must express no self doubt. You should look as if you are hitting every ball exactly where you want to really get into the roll. Hit as hard as you like and ignore where the ball is actually going. And that's today's plus one. Feeling pressure. Flip the switch. Invite the best, most heroic version of yourself to join the party. Chest up, chin down, assume your command posture, walk like a matador and give us all you've got today.