Jacqueline ElliottLeadership Strategist | CEO, Mother, Wife, Legacy-Builder

I grabbed his what???!

18 Nov 2025 · 0 min

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A short conversational excerpt from a YouTube video in which Speaker A describes grabbing Andy’s ‘love handle’ as a wake-up moment. Andy realizes he’s become 'soft' and reflects on losing his former athletic self. The exchange frames health and fitness as tied to identity, family roles, business performance, and motivation for personal change; Speaker A notes she knows how to 'push his buttons' to trigger improvements.

Okay. So he comes home from work, obviously working long hours and everything. He comes up to me and gives me a hug, and I kind of just grabbed him right here in the the back and just grabbed his little love handle and squeezed a little bit. And then he's like, what are you doing? So I said, nothing. It just seems like we've gotten a little comfortable. He got really, really, really pissed.
Dude, when she did that, I literally felt something come up my spine, and I didn't realize that shit had gotten big and thick back there. Right. I realized that the man, the athlete, the guy I used to be, is soft.
Now. I didn't mean to be mean, okay? It's just that there's a level to every person that's out there with Andy. Health and fitness has always been a part of him. His whole family. He looked like he wasn't fulfilled. So when I saw him kind of failing in business and the father that he needed to be, the man that he needed to be altogether, I realized that he needed that change. Andy gets triggered in certain ways, and I know how to push his buttons because I.