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Jacqueline ElliottLeadership Strategist | CEO, Mother, Wife, Legacy-Builder

If you don’t fight, that’s bulls**t! 💩 // JACQUELINE ELLIOTT

18 Nov 2025 · 0 min

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A short, informal YouTube talk by Jacqueline Elliott arguing that fighting is a necessary sign of a living relationship. The speaker presents rules for fighting fairly: don't fight for personal victory (don't fight to win), fight fair (avoid saying things you'll regret and avoid bringing up historical grievances), and fight fast (resolve quickly). The talk is practical and prescriptive in tone.

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February 20, 2024

Who here is in a relationship and you don't fight, raise your hand. You're foolish. First of all. If you don't fight, you don't have a real relationship. Your relationship is dead. So I'm going to give you three rules for fighting, and this will change your life. You don't fight for personal victory. That means you don't fight to win. You fight fair. You don't say things you're going to regret and you don't get historical. I'm going to add a fourth one in there. You fight fast, and that's it.