Jacqueline ElliottLeadership Strategist | CEO, Mother, Wife, Legacy-Builder

IF YOU FIGHT DUMP HIM

18 Nov 2025 · 0 min

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A short YouTube monologue (advice segment) by Jacqueline Elliott arguing that unforgiveness is incompatible with a relationship—if you cannot fully forgive, you should end the relationship. The speaker also prescribes healthy fighting norms: do not rehash past grievances ("do not get historical"), avoid physicality, and treat fighting as a healthy, contained process.

If you're in a relationship with somebody and you cannot forgive them, you can't be with that person anymore. If you're going to choose to forgive them, you're going to have to forgive them all the way or it'll be the death of you and you will resent each other to the point where you will hate each other. So do not get historical when it comes to fights. Do not talk about what happened in the past. We don't get physical. We don't do any of that stuff. So to me, this is fighting. Fighting is healthy. We agree.