Jacqueline ElliottLeadership Strategist | CEO, Mother, Wife, Legacy-Builder

If you’re not fighting as a couple, you should be.

18 Nov 2025 · 1 min

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Short YouTube monologue (by Jacqueline Elliott) arguing that fighting in couples indicates a living, passionate relationship; distinguishes ‘healthy’ fights that aim for fair resolution from ‘unhealthy’ fights that seek personal victory. The clip uses anecdote and conversational tone to illustrate the point.

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I think fighting is healthy means your relationship is alive. You have that. A lot of people don't fight like we have. Like, where's Sean? Sean and Jennifer, they said they never fought. They've been married for over 20 something years. I bet you money that they fight now since they've been here at the Elliott Group. But back then, they didn't have a relationship. They were roommates. There's no passion behind it. You have to. I mean, you're, you're people. You're going to fight. But there are rules to fighting. Healthy couples fight fair for resolution. Unhealthy couples fight dirty for personal victory. They fight to win. Win, win, win, win. That was handy. I win more, by the way. I'm just kidding. Kinda.