Jacqueline Elliott argues that women can build up or tear down their partners, but men must enable that support. She says the key is setting aside ego and consciously choosing to grow together as a team rather than undermine each other.
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I became Andy's superpower. Us women, we have the power to either build up our men or tear them down. But it's also the man's responsibility to make sure that women has that power and knows how to use it. Because I could have been the bitch. I could have been the bitch that told him what he was doing wrong. So whoever it is that you have at home, don't leave him in the dark. You need to bring them along, and stuff is going to get very difficult. You're going to have to put your ego aside. You're going to have to decide to grow together as a team. I have an ego. He has an ego. But we decide to work together as alphas because that's what we are. We decided to either crash and tear each other down or grow together.